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Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:09pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused: I know. But I've really never attracted douchebags into my life. Besides, if this has to fizzle, then I'll be out of relationships for a long time, setting a better pace for what I want and taking it upon myself to improve myself. And yes, he's not perfect, but there are some things which I consider as a deal-breaker to me, and I've noticed a few. There are things you can and cannot condone in relationships, likewise me, likewise him. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 6:09pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
mrphysics:Oya come let's be confused together |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 6:12pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Airtimex:[quote author=Airtimex post=75510480] |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:17pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
OP. You have to be disciplined to succeed or achieve greatness. The same applies to relationship... You don't expect to enjoy the same freedom like a single girl. Somebody somewhere really cares and wishes to know what you are doing at a particular time. Not necessarily monitoring as you assumed. Guys that tends to settle down with you will try to check on you and know most of ur movements(Not all) As for spiritually, he is not the cause of your setback. Check yourself very well and kill that spirit that wants you to live your life the way you want. We all need to be in order once in a while. This is discipline and has nothing to do with your freedom... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Fidelismaria: 6:22pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Negative |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:25pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You always have a choice my dear... He is nice but you don't want him. Work on your ego to enjoy your relationship... Avoid those things that causes the unnecessary argument. You are indirectly looking for a man to control. Better be careful 11 Likes |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by MannieA(f): 6:25pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
ceeroh: Lolz Why?? |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:28pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Airtimex: Ego what? The way you just jumped into conclusion ehn! The truth is, he always wants to win every argument(s). That's not a good trait. I'm not argumentative like that, sometimes I just feel drained and walk out. And I'm not looking for a man to control neither do I want a bossy man too. We are partners, I don't seek a lord. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by MannieA(f): 6:29pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
CreamyBanana: Pls get married to her.You both have been together for 9years almost a decade, what are you still waiting for?? |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by CreamyBanana(m): 6:31pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
MannieA: it will happen this year. money was an issue but we are gradually reaching our set goals. it will surely be this year. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by MannieA(f): 6:32pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
GOFRONT: This hit me right in the feels. Feel like crying rn |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:33pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: My dear. Winning argument doesn't mean you are right. Allow him to win. With time things will definitely relax. He keeps arguing is because you are his strength. No man argues alone. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 6:35pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Airtimex: Why can't he just be calm and not look forward to winning at all? Must he argue and always be defensive? Well, okay. Advice taken. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:37pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You will live long my dear... 1 Like |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 6:41pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: yeah that's the ideal I guess, developing yourself more.. I think I'm with you on that. I know there are things one can't condone in a relationship, but sometimes to make things work, that's if U actually want things to work, one has to mellow for the other. two wrongs can't make a right, and like sum1 I know would say, most times in a relationship, one person has to be "mumu"(not literally tho)for the other person. and I hope it's not power lust that's worrying you two. power to have the final say and be in charge, if it's that.. then its very bad o |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:44pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused: No offence ma'am |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 6:44pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Airtimex: discipline.. so easy to say and advice. sometimes what we want isn't what is right, and I think one of the hardest decisions one can make is choosing between what's right and what we want. the whole thing just tire me sef. looking forward to our break up jare 1 Like |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by marvin906(m): 6:47pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
still doing friends with benefits 1 Like
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Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Airtimex(m): 6:51pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused: My dear I know what you want, and you are not really a spiritual person afterwards. The best to achieve ur hrt dsr is to remain single...if you breakup with him plz don't hook up again, it might get worst. I hate seeing women breakup relationship with unnecessary reasons... |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 7:02pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Airtimex: maybe you're right. but from what I've posted, give me a necessary reason to break up |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 7:04pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
marvin906:you kant comman kee Ursef...lol |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 7:04pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
marvin906:you kant comman kee Ursef...lol |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
No monitoring spirit...i dey mi lane |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:He can change if he wants. But I advice you to pull out from the relationship if neither party is willing to change. 2 Likes |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:30pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
vingeophysicist: It's really hard. I love him too much, but then I think love isn't enough. What amazes me is his lack of zeal to want to change. I've done all that I can. I admit, I have a lot of freaking flaws too, we are both perfectionists and it's too bad. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:34pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused: That's the problem right there. The normal thing 'be a fool for him'. I really don't know how to be a fool and have tried being a fool, but sorry, I can't displease myself to please another. I'm not power drunk, or is it lust? Lol. He's the bossy one. And I so hate bossy people, authoritarians who demands subservience like food. To say I'm confused is an understatement. |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by mrphysics(m): 7:35pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused:Two people can't be confused together. Friends with benefits remains the best option for broke boys like us. 2 Likes |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by Innobee99(m): 7:37pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
CreamyBanana:Better take it to the next Level like Buhari... Remember, no be Engineering course oooo |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by mrphysics(m): 7:37pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Buy a book on relationship for him to read. He will unlearn some of those things. Most people grew up bossy, truth is, life configures us and we are supposed to be flexible than rigid. Everybody should be teachable and learnable even if he is a Prof |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by dmgr(m): 7:38pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
AmConfused: I always feel like quitting most of the time ...but I will stay and see where the relationship will take us to.. But I miss being single |
Re: How Often Do You Think Of Breaking Up With Your Current Partner? by AmConfused: 7:39pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
vingeophysicist: you people and this "pull out" of an advice ehh.. if you're in a relationship with someone you really love, it's very very hard to call it quits, however ur mind and ur head conceive the idea. for me, calling off a relationship is hard because I can't just imagine getting to know a new person over again from afresh, getting to know their imperfections and all that, the pretence that comes with new relationship most times, etc. the stress no be here 4 Likes |
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