phransix2:
Very normal...

dingbang:
Well, I think the wife should get to know what turns her husband on and do those things.

Sharla87:


Answer the question

Orla234:
He's in no way connected to his wife. Too bad.


He might end up screaming out the person's name one day and you know what that means...

nwakibe:
Sometimes it happens. It's normal. This is because you can find a good woman in character but not heavily endowed and very poor in 'bedmathics'. All men are looking for is who will give them peace of mind.

Sharla87:


Exactly

But everyone keeps saying that how can he marry her if he isn't sexually attracted to her or how can he be sleeping with her if he isn't sexually attracted to her

He sleeps with her but thinks of another woman

He married her because she has a good behaviour, smart, hard working, diddnt want to finish his money but he isn't so sexually attracted to her nor has he got sexual chemistry with her

Bear in mind he is 49 but looks 44 and she is 54 but looks 58

Sharla87:


Exactly

But everyone keeps saying that how can he marry her if he isn't sexually attracted to her or how can he be sleeping with her if he isn't sexually attracted to her

He sleeps with her but thinks of another woman

He married her because she has a good behaviour, smart, hard working, diddnt want to finish his money but he isn't so sexually attracted to her nor has he got sexual chemistry with her

Bear in mind he is 49 but looks 44 and she is 54 but looks 58

Sharla87:


Exactly

But everyone keeps saying that how can he marry her if he isn't sexually attracted to her or how can he be sleeping with her if he isn't sexually attracted to her

He sleeps with her but thinks of another woman

He married her because she has a good behaviour, smart, hard working, diddnt want to finish his money but he isn't so sexually attracted to her nor has he got sexual chemistry with her

Bear in mind he is 49 but looks 44 and she is 54 but looks 58

Kobicove:


Therein lies the problem...the man no longer finds his wife sexually attractive due largely to the fact that she looks much older than her age

Sharla87:


Exactly

But everyone keeps saying that how can he marry her if he isn't sexually attracted to her or how can he be sleeping with her if he isn't sexually attracted to her

He sleeps with her but thinks of another woman

He married her because she has a good behaviour, smart, hard working, diddnt want to finish his money but he isn't so sexually attracted to her nor has he got sexual chemistry with her

Bear in mind he is 49 but looks 44 and she is 54 but looks 58

Headlesschicken:
That's d reward u get after dating a certain curvy gal for years without wifing her n den finally go n marry simbi, because u want peace of mind... Now u v to pay for yuh sins...

frugal:
Not normal. Brain has been conditioned by porn. Drifting towards ED, if he's not there yet. Needs a reboot.

kodded:


tell us the truth, you are the so called man

Sharla87:
A man who has sex with his wife has to fantasise about another woman to get turned on, stay hard and reach orgasm

MrBrownJay1:


it takes a while before (the above you wrote) happens in a r/ship, and the main problem in this issue is these MEN.

here is the important question:
- why cant these men be honest to their partner about their lack of sexual attraction?
- how long do these men think they can go on with this charade?

Sharla87:
He says he can't be honest he doesn't want to hurt her feelings

Sharla87:
A man who has sex with his wife has to fantasise about another woman to get turned on, stay hard and reach orgasm