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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by CanineOfJackal: 6:36pm On Feb 09, 2019
teresafaith:
The foolish woman deserves more than the slap.

What even gave her the gut to slap the poor girl in the first place, I swear if I'm the girl I'll break her head and if her stupid son tries any rubbish, e go follow im mama chop.

Arrant nonsense

Mtcheewww!!
Hello girl, you talk like a baby. A real kid

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by CanineOfJackal: 6:38pm On Feb 09, 2019
ImaIma1:
Your mum was so wrong to slap her and she had the retaliation coming. It could have been a reflex action from your wife or something that she has always wanted to do.

Your wife should have kept her cool though. But what right does your mum gave to slap her? If she had respected herself by allowing both of you solve your issue, she wouldn't have been disrespected.

So...both of them were wrong.
I will blame the guy for allowing the mum to dictate in his family because such action by the MIL shows she has always have a foot in that marriage.


If my wife slaps my Mum, I don't know what my siblings will do to her because she might not be alive the next day

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 6:40pm On Feb 09, 2019
Your mom has every right to reprimand your wife.. She's not just a daughter in law but also a daughter. But you throwing out her things seems to be extreme, there are so many ways to deal with a stupid woman who couldn't economize her resources all in the name of celebrating birthdays. She has no right whatsoever to slap your mother back no matter how angry she was. She ain't fit to be called a mother let alone a wife, I smile when I come across stories like this.. Because she's already a mother and I pray God blesses her with a son, when her future daughter in law slaps her, she should not complain atall.. That's just karma serving her it's favorite dish cheesy

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 6:45pm On Feb 09, 2019
teresafaith:
The foolish woman deserves more than the slap.

What even gave her the gut to slap the poor girl in the first place, I swear if I'm the girl I'll break her head and if her stupid son tries any rubbish, e go follow im mama chop.

Arrant nonsense

Mtcheewww!!
Kiddo hope your thinking faculty is in good condition? Because you just typed like a little kid who still depends on her parents for everything.
I wonder how you would react should your future husband slap your dad in the future..
When next you want to type.. Kindly type with your brains intact and not outta the context.
Kids roaming in NL these days undecided

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Randy100: 6:45pm On Feb 09, 2019
Na now I know that most girls commenting above me has no atom of sense especially teresafaith and funmistiqueen. To beat this two girls dey hungry me.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by mhizdebbygold(f): 6:46pm On Feb 09, 2019
I hate it when this topic comes up and some ignorant people will take sides with the wife....so her mum have been slapping her and she have been retaliating?..
Is she high on something?
That is a big insult no matter what. That means slapping her husband won't be a problem to her. Bia who born her sef?
If I were the husband that divorce will be immediate
Rubbish![color=#990000][/color]

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 09, 2019
Rosay15:
.I don't argue with stupid people so you're right... Cheers to ur stupidity..
don't mind her, she is still a teenager. I hope it won't take long time before she realises herself maybe after moving from one man to another like four times.
I am surprise with the way some ladies comments. so a husband if their father slap me, I should also slap him back, all in the name of self defense when he's not a thief

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by farellstone: 6:48pm On Feb 09, 2019
bdchange:

That is so bad of her. Now you are saying you can do same if it happens to be you, nawa ooo. If your father slaps me, I won't hit him back but I will tell him not to try it again and prevent him from hitting me if he dares to try it. Somethings are not just right being an African lady or man.
even if my wife's father slaps me five times, I still won't slap him back. For one, he is my father-in-law and second he is an elder to me. Haba! When did we lose our sense of morality and respect.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by pocohantas(f): 6:53pm On Feb 09, 2019
Was the mother justified to slap the wife?

Both actions are not justified. So, they should go settle themselves. If you respect yourself, people will naturally align well. What am I even saying, men beat their wives for reasons like "running mouth" and it gets justified here. Next story please grin

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Rosay15(f): 6:53pm On Feb 09, 2019
Oma307:

don't mind her, she is still a teenager. I hope it won't take long time before she realises herself maybe after moving from one man to another like four times.
I am surprise with the way some ladies comments. so a husband if their father slap me, I should also slap him back, all in the name of self defense when he's not a thief
.. The way some lady reason ehn... I just weak..
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Feb 09, 2019
Michelle55:

Kiddo hope your thinking faculty is in good condition? Because you just typed like a little kid who still depends on her parents for everything.
I wonder how you would react should your future husband slap your dad in the future..
When next you want to type.. Kindly type with your brains intact and not outta the context.
Kids roaming in NL these days undecided

seriously, they need to introduce morality and character in modern day curriculum
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Ishilove: 7:03pm On Feb 09, 2019
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by obinna58(m): 7:10pm On Feb 09, 2019
Both are wrong, two wrongs can't make a right. Your wife is not a responsible woman, your mom is troublesome, if your wife is worth it, she makes you happy, you love your family and you're having a good relationship with her then don't involve your mom with family issues, keep her a bit far from the family and tell your wife to say sorry.
If you feel you married the wrong woman then use this opportunity to divorce her and take charge of the kids no second chance for my woman if she fails to play her part well. grin

Throwing her out shows you lack common sense and probably doesnt deserve much respect
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by IamPlato(m): 7:14pm On Feb 09, 2019
Your Wife Bought Things On Credit For Your Daughter's Birthday, your Wife Is Stupid... After The Birthday What Next? Women Should Be Wise!


What Is Wrong With Your Mother? She Had No Right What So Ever To Slap Her, the Wife Reacted Angrily because She Felt Insulted although she Was Wrong As To Have Slapped back...


Husband Sef no Wise, you Sent Your Wife Away And Now You Miss Your family you Forgot That Your Mother Will Go Back To Her husband's House and Leave You. Oga be Wise

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ImaIma1(f): 7:17pm On Feb 09, 2019
CanineOfJackal:
I will blame the guy for allowing the mum to dictate in his family because such action by the MIL shows she has always have a foot in that marriage.


If my wife slaps my Mum, I don't know what my siblings will do to her because she might not be alive the next day


If my MIL slaps me, I won't even retaliate or say anything to her. I will call my eldest brother who stands as my father and report her. And my brother is not a nice person at all. He is not someone whose toes you want to step on.

And from then on, I will put her at arms length since she has given me the right to by slapping me.
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by CanineOfJackal: 7:20pm On Feb 09, 2019
ImaIma1:


If my MIL slaps me, I won't even retaliate or say anything to her. I will call my eldest brother who stands as my father and report her. And my brother is not a nice person at all. He is not someone whose toes you want to step on.

And from then on, I will put her at arms length since she has given me the right to by slapping me.
I like that.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Ladies of nowadays are so reactive, they need to calm down and think before they act
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by CanineOfJackal: 7:20pm On Feb 09, 2019
Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.
Will you slap back?
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Ishilove: 7:23pm On Feb 09, 2019
CanineOfJackal:
Will you slap back?
My first instinct will be to retaliate with hotter slaps. Will I follow through with it? I don't know. I truly don't know

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by khiaa(f): 7:31pm On Feb 09, 2019
thesicilian:
Throwing her things out and filing for divorce seems to me a bit extreme, though the fact that she dared to slap your mother back is a big insult.

His mother needs to keep her hands to herself, she reaped what she sowed. She was out of line, the situation was for the husband to handle which he did poorly. She insulted his wife and he should have told her to keep her hands to herself.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Feb 09, 2019
Estellie:
What did I just read??.... Your wife slapped your mother ?.... What the fuvk....

Op, how old is your wife? she lacks maturity, sense, brain, respect, and sense again....Who spends 100 thousand naira on a birthday party when your husband doesn't even have transport fare to go to work?...

Damn! your wife is so unreasonable... What gave her the audacity to raise her hand on your mum?.. That's the greatest insult ever..

I don't even know what to say because I can't imagine what I'd do if someone does same to my mum...
But if she's remorseful about the whole thing then maybe you should forgive her.. also make sure she goes to your mum to beg for forgiveness.... Your daughter needs a mother, and you need a wife too, a wife endowed with reason, so make sure she learns how to be reasonable.....



Better pikin cheesy

Some comments here just weak me.. sad

Slapping your mother in-law is just like slapping your own mother

Spending such huge amount, she is just unreasonable.

The mother in-law is also at fault anyways

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 09, 2019
Ha,this is serious,she was wrong by slapping ur mum back
Your mum is also wrong

I'm realy shocked the way ladies are supporting the wife,like seriously?




Anyyways,this is more reason y i want to be very comfortable before getting married, ordinary 105k is what is causing all this wahala,poverty die die

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:36pm On Feb 09, 2019
LightQueen:
Better pikin cheesy

Some comments here just weak me.. sad

Slapping your mother in-law is just like slapping your own mother

Spending such huge amount, she is just unreasonable.

The mother in-law is also at fault anyways
I am just waiting for the lady that will slap my mum...grin
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Mcslize: 7:37pm On Feb 09, 2019
CanineOfJackal:
Hello girl, you talk like a baby. A real kid

She might be 18 to 20 years old. That's how teenagers reason.
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by khiaa(f): 7:38pm On Feb 09, 2019
CanineOfJackal:
I like that.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Ladies of nowadays are so reactive, they need to calm down and think before they act

The mother should have done the same thing considering the fact that she is older and should have been wiser.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by jakandeola(m): 7:38pm On Feb 09, 2019
mhizdebbygold:
I hate it when this topic comes up and some ignorant people will take sides with the wife....so her mum have been slapping her and she have been retaliating?..
Is she high on something?
That is a big insult no matter what. That means slapping her husband won't be a problem to her. Bia who born her sef?
If I were the husband that divorce will be immediate
Rubbish![color=#990000][/color]
God bless u dear
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by jakandeola(m): 7:41pm On Feb 09, 2019
ceeroh:
The mother has no right whatsoever to slap the wife. She overdid it.
For those guys ready to tear me apart cos of their mothers, if your father in-law comes into your house and slaps you, even without retaliating, you'd still say you might send his daughter (your wife) away. Spineless bastards!
OP, don't divorce. Try and resolve the issue. The next woman might end up beating up your mom. And your mom should try as much as possible to stay in her husband's house, she should visit you less often. If you guys have any issues at home, DON'T, I repeat DON'T report to any of your in-laws or your own family. They usually complicate things. Then learn to handle your wife, let your NO be NO. She doesn't have to go out of her way to celebrate birthday for the girl. She still got a lot of birthdays to celebrate.

The day your wife, mother and sister become close friends, you're finished as a man. grin
am sori to say u lack sence maybe let ur wife pull pant so u wash I wish ur mum see dis if she wont sware for u and disown u
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by khiaa(f): 7:42pm On Feb 09, 2019
obinna58:
Both are wrong, two wrongs can't make a right. Your wife is not a responsible woman, your mom is troublesome, if your wife is worth it, she makes you happy, you love your family and you're having a good relationship with her then don't involve your mom with family issues, keep her a bit far from the family and tell your wife to say sorry.
If you feel you married the wrong woman then use this opportunity to divorce her and take charge of the kids no second chance for my woman if she fails to play her part well. grin

Throwing her out shows you lack common sense and probably doesnt deserve much respect

If the wife is to apologize so should the mother, that's the right thing to do.

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Feb 09, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
I am just waiting for the lady that will slap my mum...grin
Lol. I pray you don't marry such lady, else na your siblings go handle her better cheesy
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by reservd(m): 7:44pm On Feb 09, 2019
Though d mother was wrong bt d wife retaliating tells alot, it's really shocking, I jst dnt get it, slapping someone old enuf to b my parent who happens to b an inlaw, it's a lot to take in, an eye opener
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by jakandeola(m): 7:45pm On Feb 09, 2019
ImaIma1:


And what will you do to your mother?
my mum is my mum did u knw no mata how wrong shes still my mum if I did bad to mum even at almost 40 mum has right to slap me or do wateva but if my mum wrong me can I slap her. Den one useless woman now slap her

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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:47pm On Feb 09, 2019
LightQueen:
Lol. I pray you don't marry such lady, else na your siblings go handle her better cheesy
gringrin Lol
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by jakandeola(m): 7:47pm On Feb 09, 2019
Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.
use ur Brian and dont let it be a waste if ur mum slap u den slap her back

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