farellstone:
even if my wife's father slaps me five times, I still won't slap him back. For one, he is my father-in-law and second he is an elder to me. Haba! When did we lose our sense of morality and respect.

It is hardly you see a Nigerian that has not lost his/her morality due to the influence of the western world. What people like @Ishilove and @funmistiqueen is telling me is that if their father or mother slaps me as the husband, I am free to beat them black and blue as long as they instigate the attack first.. Rubish

ImaIma1:


If my MIL slaps me, I won't even retaliate or say anything to her. I will call my eldest brother who stands as my father and report her. And my brother is not a nice person at all. He is not someone whose toes you want to step on.

And from then on, I will put her at arms length since she has given me the right to by slapping me.

U make me laff...how old are u?
What can your brother do? Beat her?
Your brother can only advice u to leave d marriage, but can't hurt your MIL...But i like ur approach tho...

Simplep:
Ha,this is serious,she was wrong by slapping ur mum back
Your mum is also wrong

I'm realy shocked the way ladies are supporting the wife,like seriously?




Anyyways,this is more reason y i want to be very comfortable before getting married, ordinary 105k is what is causing all this wahala,poverty die die

U call 105k ordinary
How much lecturers dey earn?

jakandeola:
use ur Brian and dont let it be a waste if ur mum slap u den slap her back

*brain*

If you must quote me, I insist you get yourself a proper education.

jakandeola:
am sori to say u lack sence maybe let ur wife pull pant so u wash I wish ur mum see dis if she wont sware for u and disown u

I am very impressed and surprised at your sensible comments on this issue...I be think say u no get sense...or am i mistaking ur moniker for another one....

It shall be ordinary to me by the time I'm married

Rubbiish:

U call 105k ordinary
How much lecturers dey earn?

thesicilian:

Lol. Self defense against a parent in law is only necessitated in a life and death situation. If you're my wife and your father slaps me, I'll walk out of the house and expect you to caution your father otherwise you will bear the consequences.

yeah right. Like you men will do the same. Practice what you preach abeg

bdchange:

It is hardly you see a Nigerian that has not lost his/her morality due to the influence of the western world. What people like @Ishilove and @funmistiqueen is telling me is that if their father or mother slaps me as the husband, I am free to beat them black and blue as long as they instigate the attack first.. Rubish

This one does not understand simple English. Go back and read my post again. If after reading you still don't understand me, then na your pocket e dey. I no send.

I'm responsible for what I write, not what you understand.

Ishilove:

*brain*

If you must quote me, I insist you get yourself a proper education.

Answer the question & stop using education as smokescreen...U dat got proper education what have u invented? Rather than going from one thread to another spewing trash!

If your mom slap will u slap her back? Hypocrites!

Simplep:
It shall be ordinary to me by the time I'm married

But u sounded as if it was already ordinary to u

funmisticqueen:
yeah right. Like you men will do the same. Practice what you preach abeg

They are here blowing hot and giving advice they can't follow. Truth is that 98% of them have never been in that position and have no idea how they will react if confronted in a similar manner.

Rubbiish:

You are your username

khiaa:


The mother should have done the same thing considering the fact that she is older and should have been wiser.

That's Why I blame the guy because he allowed his mother to have control in his family

Ishilove:

They are here blowing hot and giving advice they can't follow. Truth is that 98% of them have never been in that position and have no idea how they will react if confronted in a similar manner.

Na these ones dey beat their parents for house...Any child with manners know how to react in such a situation...biased lots

CanineOfJackal:
That's Why I blame the guy because he allowed his mother to have control in his family

This frustrated lady is here again...His mother reprimanding his wife now means taking control? Dont u chastise your younger ones if they do something wrong? What do i expect from a frustrated hag anyway...

jakandeola:
am sori to say u lack sence maybe let ur wife pull pant so u wash I wish ur mum see dis if she wont sware for u and disown u

Hehehehehehehehehe.. I don't give a fvck about the female gender anyway. They're too sentimental and complicated. Again I ask, why would my mother slap my wife because of birthday expenses?? It was unwarranted.
Bro, please can I PM you? There's an issue I wanna discuss with you. Thanks

Michelle55:
Your mom has every right to reprimand your wife.. She's not just a daughter in law but also a daughter. But you throwing out her things seems to be extreme, there are so many ways to deal with a stupid woman who couldn't economize her resources all in the name of celebrating birthdays. She has no right whatsoever to slap your mother back no matter how angry she was. She ain't fit to be called a mother let alone a wife, I smile when I come across stories like this.. Because she's already a mother and I pray God blesses her with a son, when her future daughter in law slaps her, she should not complain atall.. That's just karma her it's favorite dish

this kind of advice is why men will continue to think women are dumb.


The MIL had no such right to slap the woman and the man's response shows that he would never have defended his wife even if she didn't slap her MIL back. Although the woman should have apologised immediately for slapping an elder, but the way elders of nowadays conduct themselves shows that they do not deserve the respect we were taught to give them. This is not to say that one shouldn't be kind to an elder.

I will only show an elder respect when they treat themselves with such unless there is proof that they are mentally ill.

After all what did the elders do to your country when they had a choice to change things for the better.

Rubbiish:

This frustrated lady is here again...His mother reprimanding his wife now means taking control? Dont u chastise your younger ones if they do something wrong? What do i exct from a frustrated hag anyway...

What are you really saying Please? Use your brain and type

Ishilove:

They are here blowing hot and giving advice they can't follow. Truth is that 98% of them have never been in that position and have no idea how they will react if confronted in a similar manner.

preach on sis

CanineOfJackal:
What are you really saying Please? Use your brain and type

Two words...u are frustrated & senseless!
Go find a man!

Rubbiish:

Two words...u are frustrated & senseless!
Go find a man!

I am A Man and I'm not gay

funmisticqueen:
[s]this kind of advice is why men will continue to think women are dumb.


The MIL had no such right to slap the woman and the man's response shows that he would never have defended his wife even if she didn't slap her MIL back. Although the woman should have apologised immediately for slapping an elder, but the way elders of nowadays conduct themselves shows that they do not deserve the respect we were taught to give them. This is not to say that one shouldn't be kind to an elder.

I will only show an elder respect when they treat themselves with such unless there is proof that they are mentally ill.

After all what did the elders do to your country when they had a choice to change things for the better[/s].

Hope u slap your mom whenever she slap's u?
Senseless thing!

ceeroh:


Hehehehehehehehehe.. I don't give a fvck about the female gender anyway. They're too sentimental and complicated. Again I ask, why would my mother slap my wife because of birthday expenses?? It was unwarranted.
Bro, please can I PM you? There's an issue I wanna discuss with you. Thanks

even though the wife was clearly wrong, there are more non violent measures one can use to correct her daughter in law that will be more effective.

CanineOfJackal:
I am A Man and I'm not gay

u also lie?

funmisticqueen:
even though the wife was clearly wrong, there are more non violent measures one can use to correct her daughter in law that will be more effective.

The wife needed brain reset considering how f00lish she was, that was what d MIL did...& that is what u need right now!

funmisticqueen:
even though the wife was clearly wrong, there are more non violent measures one can use to correct her daughter in law that will be more effective.

Non-violent reactions are the most effective. You're right.

Rubbiish:

Hope u slap your mom whenever she slap's u?
Senseless thing!

she only slaps me when non violent measures of reprimand have not worked. I didn't grow up under barbarian parents like some people.

If my mum slaps me then I know I truly messed up. The case scenario was different when growing up tho

funmisticqueen:
she only slaps me when non violent measures of reprimand have not worked. I didn't grow up under barbarian parents like some people.

If my mum slaps me then I know I truly messed up. The case scenario was different when growing up tho

See how fair you sound because your mum is involved, but was quick to justify slapping another persons mum...why are u women like this?

Rubbiish:

The wife needed brain reset considering how f00lish she was, that was what d MIL did...& that is what u need right now!

come to my house and slap me and you will be hospitalized when I set my Rhodesian ridgeback on you. Since Bruno is violent you might even miss that limb you used to slap me.

Rubbiish:

U make me laff...how old are u?
What can your brother do? Beat her?
Your brother can only advice u to leave d marriage, but can't hurt your MIL...But i like ur approach tho...

My brother is not meant to beat her. He is supposed to caution her according to tradition as my father instead of me retaliating. That is what I mean

Rubbiish:

See how fair you sound because your mum is involved, but was quick to justify slapping another persons mum...why are u women like this?

did the MIL use sense and reprimand her first? My mother has never slapped me since I attained adulthood. It doesn't mean she cannot reprimand me.

The OP's MIL was clearly frustrated that her daughter-in-law earns more than her husband.

funmisticqueen:
come to my house and slap me and you will be hospitalized when I set my Rhodesian ridgeback on you. Since Bruno is violent you might even miss that limb you used to slap me.

Please where do u stay, so i can come to your house and slap u...& nothing will happen...I am dead serious!
Drop your address...