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Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 11:40am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Most violence women commit is in the context of occultism, marriage/ relationship and petty theft. But men commit most brutal/ violent crimes and their actions are a menace to society.
ur line of thinking is stupid


ok they are menace to society right? can u remove them? can there be society without them? , women that give birth to this men should also be considered part of the problem should u remove them too?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 11:42am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
I agree with you. But I would rather fall victim to a woman's schemes that be murdered by a man because his ego was bruised before my time. While women scheme and are nefarious but in most cases it doesn't endanger life thru violence. If someone is robbed by a woman they most likely will still be still alive, but if someone is robbed by a man, chances are the person will also be shot dead in the process.
guy watch IDx you'd see what women can do
and you'll know ur full of sh!t
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:44am On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
men are inferior and belong in the jungle yet society was built by men !

we are poor at conflict resolution[b] yet the world order that we know today was created by men , [/b]
yes we are brutal but we are also rational when need be , we have strong and weak sides .
Yes men built society due to partriarchal oppression of women and we thank you for building society - now that you have finished building society, men can now retire to the jungle so you can continue killing yourselves and robbing yourselves there and using your own pants for rituals.

At the bolded, go to Google and type: "London stabbing", "Toronto shooting", " Chicago shooting", "Maryland shooting", "Lagos rituals" respectively then click on the News tab to see the wonderful order men are creating including the wonderful order of biafran war hat killed 1 milloon ppl and now boko haram.

Your brutality is TOXIC. See how Nigerian politicians are assassinating themselves.... that by definition is I. I can understand having a bruised ego but you just need to attend anti - violence training from the ladies.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 11:48am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Road rage is male on male violence. When two females get involved in road rage incident they don't bring out a gun or bottle and hits the other person dead. Let's talk of female to female road rage; in that case they don't kill themselves. It's men that are always killing themselves and it's nothing to be proud of.

Let's talk about gangs. There are female gangs too but the difference is the female gang members and gang rivals don't go about killing themselves.

This is the thrust of feminism and this is why the movement is here to stay.
listen men and women are programmed differently , men were programmed to take e action be violent, if not for men and that violence mechanism the early humans won't have survived in the wild


men and women both get angry ,both get road rage but men act on that anger and women talk but a lot of women do act on that anger , trust me I know first hand how violent women can be


and u just mentioned feminism and that's why feminism has such a bad image both here and abroad , u talk about equality but go about it by women supremacy
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 11:50am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
First of all cleopatra was a ruler that sent toxic men to war she didn't fight heself. Same as Jezebel.
It's really simple and it baffles me how many could be so defensive. Go to every police department of every city in the world and look at violent offences stats. In every city without exception it's 90+% male and 3% or less female. It's a statistic men should not only be ashamed of but also start taking steps to correct.
get the fvck out of here.

Just be a lesbian and get it over with.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 11:52am On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
listen men and women are programmed differently , men were programmed to take e action be violent, if not for men and that violence mechanism the early humans won't have survived in the wild


men and women both get angry ,both get road rage but men act on that anger and women talk but a lot of women do act on that anger , trust me I know first hand how violent women can be


and u just mentioned feminism and that's why feminism has such a bad image both here and abroad , u talk about equality but go about it by women supremacy
I'm yet to see women talk abortion.
As it is milions of babies a year never see the light of day. Wonder what those babies think of women... Mhmmm
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 11:53am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Yes men built society due to partriarchal oppression of women and we thank you for building society - now that you ha e finished building society, men can now retire to the jungle so you can continue killing yourselves and robbing yourselves there.

At the bolded, go to Google and type: "London stabbing", "Toronto shooting", " Chicago shooting", "Lagos rituals" to see the wonderful order men are creating including the wonderful order of biafran war hat killed 1 milloon ppl and now boko haram.

Your brutality is TOXIC. See how Nigerian politicians are assassinating themselves.... that by definition is I. I can understand having a bruised ego but you just need to attend anti - violence training from the ladies.
lol after building society u want us to go to the jungle so u can enjoy our work grin
and who says after going to jungle we won't build another society again? after all didnt we build it from jungles in the first place?


now yeah some men are violent , and some women are violent , big deal , u complain that we are violent but it is from this violence that the world was built upon , do u know how many discoveries were made from war ?

if not from men and our violence humanity won't have survived this long , we would have just sat at a cave all day and gossiped till a lion or any other predator came and ate us
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:53am On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:

listen men and women are programmed differently , men were programmed to take e action be violent,
if not for men and that violence mechanism the early humans won't have survived in the wild


men and women both get angry ,both get road rage but men act on that anger and women talk but a lot of women do act on that anger , trust me I know first hand how violent women can be


and u just mentioned feminism and that's why feminism has such a bad image both here and abroad , u talk about equality but go about it by women supremacy
At the bolded, if men were programmed to be violent then men having built society have no place in the modern world they built.

Proud feminists like myself believe this violent programming is a social construct - men are told they have to be violent to be real men. It's that specific programming that feminism is looking to deprogram.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 11:55am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
At the bolded, if men were programmed to be violent then men having built society have no place in the modern world they built.

Proud feminists like myself believe this violent programming is a social construct - men are told they have to be violent to be real men. It's that specific programming that feminism is looking to deprogram.
abortion is violence against unborn babies you dumb man-hater.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:57am On Feb 12, 2019
ubunja:
abortion is violence against unborn babies you dumb man-hater.
I'm not a man hater I have a son. And yes I agree abortion is violence against the unborn - abortion should be made a crime!
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 11:58am On Feb 12, 2019
Feminist reasoning:

"Men are violent scum that don't deserve a place in the modern world"
*then goes to abort her 5th pregnancy at the 4th trimester*
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 11:58am On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
I'm not a man hater I have a son. And yes I agree abortion is violence against the unborn - abortion should be made a crime!
you see how brainless you turn out to be?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 12:03pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
At the bolded, if men were programmed to be violent then men having built society have no place in the modern world they built.

Proud feminists like myself believe this violent programming is a social construct - men are told they have to be violent to be real men. It's that specific programming that feminism is looking to deprogram.
no place in the world they built ?
that doesn't even make sense!

when they were building did they say they were building it for u ? imagine building something for someone else , ur not even making sense anymore and just hating here

if u want someone to leave it should be u WOMEN!! we are bad , we are dangerous then u leave!!! , we built this place
if a wife is in a toxic relationship u don't tell the husband to leave his house that he built instead u leave because it's dangerous for u !



now men being violent s not a social construct ,I've said the early men needed to be violent to hunt for food and protect themselves and the females from danger
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 12:05pm On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
no place in the world they built ?
that doesn't even make sense!

when they were building did they say they were building it for u ? imagine building something for someone else , ur not even making sense anymore and just hating here

if u want someone to leave it should be u WOMEN!! we are bad , we are dangerous then u leave!!! , we built this place
if a wife is in a toxic relationship u don't tell the husband to leave his house that he built instead u leave because it's dangerous for u !



now men being violent s not a social construct ,I've said the early men needed to be violent to hunt for food and protect themselves and the females from danger
why do you think I'm calling her Brainless? grin
Chick is raving mad. No Dick makes girls crazy
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 12:06pm On Feb 12, 2019
OP is just a lesbian venting. Don't mind her folks
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by narrowpathy(m): 12:16pm On Feb 12, 2019
I'm beginning to feel feminists like the op are simply thieves. You want to reap where you didn't sow. You want to chop what you didn't work for but you are hating on the person who did the work.
Well, feminists should go and form their peaceful colonies and build it themselves. They can as well prohibit male entrance if they so desire. That way, male dominated societies can be free from this feminist nuisances and we can enjoy the non feminist women that remain with us.
Any woman that starts getting dissatisfied can simply be recommended to join her fellow feminist. What a happy world that would be
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 12:30pm On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
no place in the world they built ?
that doesn't even make sense!

when they were building did they say they were building it for u ? imagine building something for someone else , ur not even making sense anymore and just hating here

if u want someone to leave it should be u WOMEN!! we are bad , we are dangerous then u leave!!! , we built this place
if a wife is in a toxic relationship u don't tell the husband to leave his house that he built instead u leave because it's dangerous for u !



now men being violent s not a social construct ,I've said the early men needed to be violent to hunt for food and protect themselves and the females from danger
Since the beginning of time it had been a partriarchy! So because women were oppressed society couldn't be built by women. But countries like Sweden inmodern times hv been rebuilt by women and those countries are now more peaceful.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 12:46pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Since the beginning of time it had been a partriarchy! So because women were oppressed society couldn't be built by women. But countries like Sweden inmodern times hv been rebuilt by women and those countries are now more peaceful.
so ur saying that women being oppressed was the men's fault?

I beg to disagree ,u see in life it has always been the strong rules, the strongest survive , and men were the strong ones in those times and hence the patriarchal system , u can't expect women to have been treated equal when they really weren't . Now did later men realise they were wrong and gave women equal treatment ? or did women cry on their knees and begged to be given equal rights? NO!!! women woke up one day and realized they they could be stronger, could be better and they FOUGHT for it ,it was hard , it was bloody , people died , but they fought relentlessly , they became strong and got what they wanted


u see in life it has never been men Vs women it has been the strong Vs the weak


even among men the strong prey on the weak , that's why there's been some much lip service on women empowerment and being a strong woman because in this world u have to be strong , when ur strong ur strong , no gender can look down or try sh!t with u


the only thing I would say was wrong in the past was society thought only men to be strong and left women to be weak and that is a fault of both genders because women were just as responsible in the raising children as the males
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:16pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Since the beginning of time it had been a partriarchy! So because women were oppressed society couldn't be built by women. But countries like Sweden inmodern times hv been rebuilt by women and those countries are now more peaceful.
Sweden? The Rape Capital of Europe... Loool did she just use Sweden as an example? Where there are No Go Zones because of ghettos created by uncontrolled immigration backed by crazy women!
You are so full of shet you don't know it
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 1:17pm On Feb 12, 2019
Franzinni:
trust me what women lack in brute strength... They more than compensate for in devious schemes and nefarious tendencies... As a man I will never underestimate a woman for as long as I live.... I did and I paid the price.... Still carry the scars till this very moment...

I digress...... The bitter truth is women are just as brutal as men of not more.... So we don't need to give it a name and then turn it into a "thing"...
Funny how u try to paint a woman black but create excuse for every thing done by men.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:22pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Since the beginning of time it had been a partriarchy! So because women were oppressed society couldn't be built by women. But countries like Sweden inmodern times hv been rebuilt by women and those countries are now more peaceful.
before the Patriarchy there was the Matriarchy- the age of the Earth Mother. Go read about the origin of the title Mother Nature or Mother Earth.

YOU ARE CLUELESS AS A BABY
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:27pm On Feb 12, 2019
Every idiot with Daddy issues that read one or two Jezebel and Salon articles comes on NL to spew her hatred of men. Mxm the fvckery.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 1:27pm On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
listen men and women are programmed differently , men were programmed to take e action be violent, if not for men and that violence mechanism the early humans won't have survived in the wild


men and women talk but a lot of women do act on that anger , trust me I know first hand how violent women can be


and u just mentioned feminism and that's why feminism has such a bad image both here and abroad , u talk about equality but go about it by women supremacy
I agree with u, men and women are wired differently. My question is this, y do u guys see women as d worse evil when they do anything Forgeting that they are wired that way? Y do u guys act like only women can be bad? There are bad and good people in both gender but guys have made it look like women are d worse things to happen to earth. My conclusion, men are hypocrates who create excuses 4 their mistakes but would condem a woman 4 lesser crimes
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 1:29pm On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
lol after building society u want us to go to the jungle so u can enjoy our work grin
and who says after going to jungle we won't build another society again? after all didnt we build it from jungles in the first place?


now yeah some men are violent , and some women are violent , big deal , u complain that we are violent but it is from this violence that the world was built upon , do u know how many discoveries were made from war ?

if not from men and our violence humanity won't have survived this long , we would have just sat at a cave all day and gossiped till a lion or any other predator came and ate us
I just had to laugh. Seriously?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:30pm On Feb 12, 2019
That time when the gender that murders unborn children comes on NL to try to potray itself as peaceful.


I vomit
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:31pm On Feb 12, 2019
gloria34:
I agree with u, men and women are wired differently. My question is this, y do u guys see women as d worse evil when they do anything Forgeting that they are wired that way? Y do u guys act like only women can be bad? There are bad and good people in both gender but guys have made it look like women are d worse things to happen to earth. My conclusion, men are hypocrates who create excuses 4 their mistakes but would condem a woman 4 lesser crimes
you have clearly never heard of Eve.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 1:32pm On Feb 12, 2019
ubunja:
Feminist reasoning:

"Men are violent scum that don't deserve a place in the modern world"
*then goes to abort her 5th pregnancy at the 4th trimester*
Is there anything like "4Th trimester"?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:35pm On Feb 12, 2019
Stastically speaking MORE WOMEN THAN MEN ABUSE CHILDREN. MORE CHILDREN DIE IN THE HANDS OF THEIR MOTHERS THAN FATHERS

Yet this man-hating thing comes to NL and accuses men of being bad. Talk about being full of shet.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 1:37pm On Feb 12, 2019
gloria34:
Is there anything like "4Th trimester"?
go read about the law that almost passed in West Virginia. Aborting a baby AFTER BIRTH.
Imagine someone saying AFTER BIRTH THE MOTHER CAN DECIDE WHAT TO DO WITH THE BABY.
Smh
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by marvinsync(m): 1:40pm On Feb 12, 2019
gloria34:
I agree with u, men and women are wired differently. My question is this, y do u guys see women as d worse evil when they do anything Forgeting that they are wired that way? Y do u guys act like only women can be bad? There are bad and good people in both gender but guys have made it look like women are d worse things to happen to earth. My conclusion, men are hypocrates who create excuses 4 their mistakes but would condem a woman 4 lesser crimes
which men act like uve described ? pls don't use nairaland men to judge men because they even embarrass me


I'm all for gender fairaness and all , men who attack women and women who attack men are both wrong , and like u've said those men who attack women are hypocrites


let's all just have peace
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Franzinni: 1:54pm On Feb 12, 2019
gloria34:
Funny how u try to paint a woman black but create excuse for every thing done by men.
my sister I don't support the bad thing done by men or women and I can't paint women black... My mama nah woman o... But the psychology of putting a name to everything is what I won't agree with.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity.... No way!
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 2:01pm On Feb 12, 2019
Franzinni:
my sister I don't support the bad thing done by men or women and I can't paint women black... My mama nah woman o... But the psychology of putting a name to everything is what I won't agree with.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity.... No way!
toxic masculinity is another term for Men Don't Love Me.

Usually these individuals ranting on and on about Toxic Masculinity last tasted Dick in year 1844.
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