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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Nobody: 3:10am On Feb 19, 2019
oga if nepa no gree bring light.....use generator...it no go affect nepa...if u know u know....����

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by mukthar2000(m): 3:12am On Feb 19, 2019
Did u said both have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. And u expect the woman to be as sexxy as when u just met her then?brother try to understand ur wife nothing rough with her and don't ever think she has any date somewhere, I believe she doesn't have more zee for sex anymore like b4, just manage anyhow she give it to u please
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by mukthar2000(m): 3:14am On Feb 19, 2019
Did u said both have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. And u expect the woman to be as sexxy as when u just met her then?brother try to understand ur wife nothing rough with her and don't ever think she has any date somewhere, I believe she doesn't have more zeal for sex anymore like b4, just manage anyhow she give it to u please

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by FruitCakes(f): 3:16am On Feb 19, 2019
I can't believe I read this shít from page one to eight. Insomnia is not good

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Callmegerald2(m): 3:18am On Feb 19, 2019
jakandeola:
so cos she born a lot he cant sex her again oge u are a christain wife submit ur body to husband.

5 kids on 10 years? shocked shocked shocked. Fear God nah, oga. It seems you have high libido. Find something useful to channel your energy mbok. Our own for this country na to born, born, born. Innivativeness is zero. We don't want to come up with constructive ideas to make the society prosperous. Our own na to born like say na the only thing we came here to do. Oga, leave your wife alone for a while. She can't come and die for you because of your uncontrollable libido.

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by gabicon: 3:21am On Feb 19, 2019
Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

Oga, start doing house chores and thank me later. A woman taking care of 5 little kids and a grown up kid is bound to fall into depression especially when the grown up kid doesn't do anything in the house.

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by dnawah(m): 3:44am On Feb 19, 2019
Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated
wat kind of dreams do u have?involve God in this matter o!.
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by mejai(m): 3:51am On Feb 19, 2019
Honestly, hypocrisy runs in d blood of most monikers with F in them. (one woman's poison is another woman's meat)
Most of you wish to have such a man with active dick in ur life.


All of you shouting help/helpers, for one whole year (assuming giving her a break after d last child), she can never ever be in d mood to have sex... Even people day breed like pig, don't act like day.


All of you shouting cuddling and giving her assurance, u expect him to do day all d tym with a standing dick? Not even a BJ or sort of at the end? May blue balls never be Una case.


Let me not go on and on. The lady is just WICKED.

A man that is a man after satisfying his duties as a man and yet denied access to the centre of entertainment by the wife (10yrs counting with an active dick) is entitled to away match.

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Oyindidi(f): 4:00am On Feb 19, 2019
Icon79:
Oyin, no be like that now. They probably had a twins grin


O pari

OK o, how you take know sey them born twins?
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by dapillar: 4:06am On Feb 19, 2019
She is probabaly collecting good sex else where.Check her phone when she is sleeping or in the showers you will be shocked at what you will see.
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by bitingcool: 4:09am On Feb 19, 2019
Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside. grin

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal. grin

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train. grin

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month. grin

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor. grin

U should be comedian
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Oyindidi(f): 4:34am On Feb 19, 2019
Most of the monikers with m on this thread are kids. They are married for 10 years with 5 kids and you want the woman to open her legs for more sex. Oga if you want to enjoy sex with your wife go and do family planning.

Make e no be like sey na you fûçk pass. You want kill person pikin? Let me say for first year of marriage she born one, think of pregnancy stress and the process to born. She never recover from that one you give her another belle, everytime she dey with belle or she dey nurse baby. If na me be your wife na different rooms we go dey sleep. All your kids dey less than 9 years. Make fûçk no kee you there!

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by 1972xy: 4:52am On Feb 19, 2019
This man is very funny. Within a space of 10 years you have already have 5 children from your wife. What else do you still want from her. Do you want her dead? You are a wicked man.
Instead of you to put head together and discuss how the two of you will take care of the children you are still demanding for unnecessary sex.
What the woman is seeing you are not seeing seeing it. She looks straight to the future of those children probably she is not seen it bright and yet you want more.
So she zips up.
All you need from her is her happiness. Sex cannot find joy in sex again because you have over rushed her. Showers her with gifts her sex drive will come back. Ewu.

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by onatisi(m): 4:57am On Feb 19, 2019
find another woman outside to be having sex , woman matter is the simplest problem on this planet and there are millions and millions of women who are out there that will satisfy you . have sex outside m satisfy yourself , come back home and be the loving man . if your wife doesnt want sex anymore , let her be , whenever she waants it again , she will come to you herself . this life is just too too short for one to spend time over a simple problem
Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Nobody: 5:00am On Feb 19, 2019
shakmati:
Could it be that she is dancing to the beat of another drummer? If you're sure she's not then rush and seek medical psychological and/or spiritual attention for her because something is killing her slowly inside that you know not of!
Oga did you say something is killing her slowly kwa!? Oga, no scare the dude, na, before he spends his life savings on something that isn't life threatening.
Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

OP, most women don't like sex but pretend to do so. They pretend to like it either due to confidence issues or because they don't want to hurt their man's feelings/ego. If you think this is a lie, go ask 5 of your female friends if women like sex (I'm not talking about showing their unclothedness o, but the intercourse itself). You will be surprised to find that many women who are even "wayward" don't like sex that much.

One reason most women dislike sex is that most men either don't understand or don't care about what the woman needs. You see, when it comes to sex women are a lot like water. If you want them to get hot, you need to engage in more in pre-intimacy. Things like kissing, cudling, massage, sex talk, etc.

Men undestand this: women don't want direct intercourse immediately, but lots of pre-intimacy before that. To women, pre-intimacy might be the difference between ordinary sex and love making.

So, ask your wife her best pre-intimacy and spend time doing it to her, and she will respond like a woman in heat which she is, and you will enjoy it.

If not, she might find sex as a mechanical ritual, not a creative exercise.

Hope this helps. Come back here and let us know how it went with Madam wink

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Shanana1(m): 5:01am On Feb 19, 2019
Ahmed0336:
Your own is a joke compared to mine.

Well, if she ll give her consent go to any registered pharmacy and ask for SPANISH FLY.

It will help increase her libido
you guys are joke! Don't u know her love is dying... Whenever you touch your woman and she responded as if she's been touched by a strange being then something is fishy.. Someone has been singing sweet songs into her ear canal and URS is no more making sense to her..wake up!
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by CityNGR: 5:05am On Feb 19, 2019
Ishilove:

Twice a week is excessive??
Ko ye ni. He's single.
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by CityNGR: 5:05am On Feb 19, 2019
ogawisdom:


Did u marry her for just sex? Focus on companionship

If u sex twice a week after being married for over 10 years how many times do u want newly married to Bleep weekly. Sex twice or three times weekly is for newly married less than 5 yrs or those on honey moon
Shut up.
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Judybash93(m): 5:08am On Feb 19, 2019
Pamloveh:
You force your waY sometimes embarassed

I know right!! Rape

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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Nobody: 5:11am On Feb 19, 2019
Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside. grin

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal. grin

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train. grin

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month. grin

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor. grin
OP I just hope you understand that over 200 people like this comment not because they think he is right but simply because it's funny. Lol
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by favourmic(m): 5:31am On Feb 19, 2019
Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside. grin

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal. grin

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train. grin

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month. grin

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor. grin

Mad man you be grin
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Akuruoulo(m): 5:32am On Feb 19, 2019
She is a homemade holelosho
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by fm7070: 5:36am On Feb 19, 2019
She is probably afraid of another pregnancy. Go and do family planning. That alone will increase her libidos
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Agugbadin: 5:37am On Feb 19, 2019
The truth is that after taking care of five children and and other domestic cores she will be very tired, you need to get house maid to help her and she will be okay
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Ishilove: 5:39am On Feb 19, 2019
1Sharon:


grin
If this is the case, what does that say about the wife for not telling him? undecided
Regards for his feelings?
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by BigBashiru: 5:43am On Feb 19, 2019
onatisi:
find another woman outside to be having sex , woman matter is the simplest problem on this planet and there are millions and millions of women who are out there that will satisfy you . have sex outside m satisfy yourself , come back home and be the loving man . if your wife doesnt want sex anymore , let her be , whenever she waants it again , she will come to you herself . this life is just too too short for one to spend time over a simple problem
Most ppl would adopt this approach but for the fear of hell....
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Oyindidi(f): 5:50am On Feb 19, 2019
ashawopikin:
the fact that she's not interested in having sex with her husband after 5 kids, proves she's been cheating
You look older than 14 na angry
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Dalby(m): 5:53am On Feb 19, 2019
Your wife is cheating on you...especially the if the attitude is do and go...these are some tell tale signs.
Check if there has been a change in her going out routine...
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by oglalasioux(m): 5:55am On Feb 19, 2019
Buy her a gift or take her out. Joke about sex often. Always take the joke into bed playfully.

If you don't spice up the way you initiate sex your partner might cheat on you. Many married women feel cheated if they are not rewarded with personal gifts after sex.

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