I DON'T KNOW WHAT SIGN YOU NEED AGAIN. IF YOU CANNOT CHANGE HER THIS TIME THAT YOU HAVE NOT MARRIED, IS IT WHEN YOU MARRY THAT SHE WILL CHANGE OVER NIGHT?

PLEASE MAN, DON'T DECEIVE YOURSELF, THE HAND WRITING IS WRITTEN ON THE WALL. LEAVE HER AND LOOK FOR OTHER BETTER GIRLS.

Lol.
Odeh
Ozwo
Ewu
U dey worship am na
Dey over hype am
Making u feel so inferior
Wtf
Low self esteem pussy ass niggi
Why wont she disrespect u
Hahahahahaha

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Try to correct her by using her weakness to you against her.If she falls to improve,you can now do the needful.

She was trying to put you through a test.

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

You're are left with only two options:
1: covert her weakness to strength
2: Let her go.

It's not love if we are looking for a PERFECT person, you don't know what your next girlfriend weakness will be.

My girl got similar attitude, very disrespectful when angry but I've hold on to the good side of her. Whenever she's back to her normal senses, she'll start crying and begging me to forgive her, she can't control her tongue. Whenever there's an argument, instead of arguing with her I'll start singing or making jest of her, hold her and she'll just melt and keep shut.


it's left for you bro

Remember you are going to live with her for the rest of your life. Let her stay if you can tolerate her attitude if not, let her go b4 it's too late. Compatibility matters a lot in relationship.

it is very hard to change an inborn character no matter what you do. if her character is very hard for you to tolerate then leave her she is definitely not for you. cos if she is really for you her character wont be a probs to you.

YOU SEE NA ALL THAT IS GOOD FOR MARRIAGE SPECIAL IS NOT YOUR OWN BY FRIEND GO OUT THERE AND FINE WHAT IS YOUR OWN AND ASK GOD TO BE YOUR GUILD bro that girl is a no go area for marriage,you marriage would be full of quarrels and fights every day so your better go and fine your own that are fine, if she does suit you guy na you be man , you choices who you go setlement down with no be she go tell you what to do.or na she want marry you:you be tell me or she go marry you otherwise my friend you be small pinkin

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Power of her pussy is making you to lower your standards. Dump her and run now!

..."The fault is not in our stars oh Brutus, it is in us because we are underlings."

Try and make her change, if you can not let her ho in peace. If you don't your marriage to her might be the worse decision of your life.

passionate87:
bro that girl is a no go area for marriage,you marriage would be full of quarrels and you marry a lady that's submissive not otherwise

You marry a woman that 'respects' you the way you respect her.
If you're looking for a submissive wife, you're not ready to marry. Stop saying it like its a good thing.

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GoodBoi1:
When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Change your style and watch if she changes. If she doesn't, do the needful.

SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

The holy book written by you admonishes both men and women to be submissive to each other right? SMH

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Bro, if you're sure you have been of good behaviours and you provide what you can within your capabilities and she's still rude and harsh and quarrelsome, quit that relationship, a woman who can't respect you isn't worth getting married to you. If you get married, the disrespect will continue and you may break up. Please, reduce the cases of divorce.

But you said she has other good traits. So why are you bitter?

Look around you. Are all your neighbours wives always in a good mood? Even the men themselves lose their cool.

If you are looking for someone that is an angel every 24/7, you will never find. And that is how you will be jumping from one bad relationship to another that is way worse and end up like all this bitter negros on Nairaland that can't even talk to a female outside Nairaland.

I just hope you are not dating for just dating sake. You should have a long talk with your girlfriend on where your relationship is going. Try to find mature ways of avoiding or dealing with her disrespectful attitude when it comes up.

No perfect girl anywhere.

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

A gal who can’t take correction has no good traits don’t waste ur time. I’m not saying she will stop bt making effort to reduce her overly insultive mouth will go along way to show she’s maturing.


Also it depends on what u can take. I can’t stand insultive people, if I like her we may date for the fun bt marriage will not even be close to an option. In other words if she can’t change now dump her rude ass unless u can tolerate it with no complains. Goodluck

Preshy561:
Some people, both genders have harsh way of talking to people.

Just pray to God about it or better watch war room, things will be better.

Lol, hope you are not actually serious about your last paragraph?

SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

Bible said man love your wife..... Woman submit to ur husband

I don't do such b*itches!

l suspect a bigger/sweeter John Thomas in the picture!

SiobhanMeadow:
On Nl everybody is a madame or oga of their own so there is nothing like an elder here.
You should have given your last paragraph argument to the Op as well so why the real man bullcrap

You could have ignored. What's ur problem with the real man he was called. Are u a feminist

brandon180:
Next time she raises her voice for u. Give her a heavy slap, u will be surprised

brandon180:
Next time she raises her voice for u. Give her a heavy slap, u will be surprised

Oyindidi:
Hmmmmm..... I for like put mouth but I no dey advice people for bf and gf matter again

Please give your reasons.

SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

A woman cannot love a man. It's only a man that has the capacity and duty to love. The only thing a woman can do for a man is to submit to him since her nature forbids her from loving her husband. A woman can only love her children, and perhaps other blood relatives, but never her husband or boyfriend. This truth is sad to many young men and they will never accept it and be guided by it until it is too late.

The Bible is clear on the matter:
Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

ceeroh:
I'm afraid you can't change her. Live with it or run!!!

Best advice !

Longushomo:

The holy book written by you admonishes both men and women to be submissive to each other right? SMH

ephesians 5 vs 21 read it I am not a christian anyway

holocron:


The Bible is clear on the matter:

Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

it am not a christian anyway.I don't care what a cave archaic book says

SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?

Wife submit to your husband and husband love your wife, the bible didn't say husband submit to your wife


Ephesians 5:22-33 King James Version (KJV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

Sergioaguero:


Bible said man love your wife..... Woman submit to ur husband

I don't really care what the bible says.
Do whatever makes your relationship work.

ayusco85:


You could have ignored. What's ur problem with the real man he was called. Are u a feminist

Ignored the bullcrap talk of real men.
And yes I am a feminist.

Oyindidi:
Hmmmmm..... I for like put mouth but I no dey advice people for bf and gf matter again

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