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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by elonize(m): 9:59am On Feb 19, 2019
brandon180:
Next time she raises her voice for u. Give her a heavy slap, u will be surprised grin
hahahhahahhahhahaaha,she go use am stone wall
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 19, 2019
ogaontop:


Wife submit to your husband and husband love your wife, the bible didn't say husband submit to your wife


Ephesians 5:22-33 King James Version (KJV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Read ephesians 5 vs 21 and stop quoting me.I could careless about what your cavebook says about marriage.It should be mutual as far as I am concerned.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by elonize(m): 10:01am On Feb 19, 2019
AerialMapper:
nothing that a good "Konk" cannot solve.

You know the type that you feel it behind your eyes and in your nose.

Respect restored
cheesy cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by papyskinsy: 10:03am On Feb 19, 2019
bro maybe you are a one minute man.. cheesy.. she's just trying to send you a message to step up your game like a real man.. shikana grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 10:03am On Feb 19, 2019
GoodBoi1:

I will never be arrested for murder
Instead of arguing over the same thing every time, why not forget about ur ego and play along. Give her a proper dose of her own medicine. Many toxic people don't know they are toxic until they get to experience such toxic treatment.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by papyskinsy: 10:04am On Feb 19, 2019
Barbados20:
She was trying to put you through a test.
like wat de Bleep who does dat
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 10:07am On Feb 19, 2019
TonyeBarcanista:

I no be love doctor. That thing called love is just psychological manipulation of ones self
Gbam!
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by go100: 10:12am On Feb 19, 2019
cryDon't ever think of giving her a second chance. Just dump her. She will destroy your life and destiny.
GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mastermaestro(m): 10:12am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:
Read ephesians 5 vs 21 and stop quoting me.I could careless about what your cavebook says about marriage.It should be mutual as far as I am concerned.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by drexel39(m): 10:14am On Feb 19, 2019
Bro the Bible didn’t mention in any part that a woman should love her man,it only talk about a woman being respectful and submissive to her man.i advice you leave before it’s late nd tell her why u re leaving.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 10:15am On Feb 19, 2019
mastermaestro:
Shut up and get put of my mentions you insecure Nigerian male

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Longushomo: 10:28am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

ephesians 5 vs 21 read it I am not a christian anyway it am not a christian anyway.I don't care what a cave archaic book says
The scripture has said it all my dear. It admonishes the woman to be submissive to the husband just as the church is to Christ. On the other hand the husband should love the wife just as Christ loves the church . The church is submissive to Christ and Christ isn't submissive to the Church. It's as simple as ABC.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by PeacenLove2: 10:29am On Feb 19, 2019
Maybe you should try dealing with your own ego first.

A marriage should be based on mutual respect, stop expecting your woman to treat you like you are her father. You are partners for Chris sake. Grow up and stop being misled by others who despite their alpha approaches to their own marriage, they keep struggling.

I wish you luck, man. cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mabea: 10:29am On Feb 19, 2019
Oyindidi:
How you want her to talk to you?
See question
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 10:31am On Feb 19, 2019
Longushomo:

The scripture has said it all my dear. It admonishes the woman to be submissive to the husband just as the church is to Christ. On the other hand the husband should love the wife just as Christ loves the church . The church is submissive to Christ and Christ isn't submissive to the Church. It's as simple as ABC.
Have you read 5 vs 21?
I could carelesss what your bible says as far as I am concerned marriage is egalitarian and there should be mutuality in what the couples do.
Submission and love is mutual as far as I am concerned.
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Ubdavis(m): 10:32am On Feb 19, 2019
I don't see any reason why I should respect a lady and receive something contrary in return.
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by akogun316(m): 10:33am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?
Because two kings can't rule one kingdom. one gotta lead, the other follows. do you understand

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by hansomb: 10:33am On Feb 19, 2019
most female are like that, pretend u no hear her or leave the place immediately to cool off
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Omega30(m): 10:33am On Feb 19, 2019
GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.
I have been there. But,I broke it off.You will hear: I love u so much.I can't do without you bla bla.Yet talks to you anyhow. Women misbehaves when they know u got no options.I guess she never apologizes if she offends you.She hardly calls you. You are the one trying to make the relationship work. Guy, wise up, most of them are the same.For a girl to respect, u must not care too much.And the only way u won't care much is to have a PURPOSE stronger than her and have the ability to walk away, which means to replace her. Because if she knows u can't do without her, you are gonna.No amount of talking to her will change her.I've been there.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by PeacenLove2: 10:36am On Feb 19, 2019
holocron:



A woman cannot love a man. It's only a man that has the capacity and duty to love. The only thing a woman can do for a man is to submit to him since her nature forbids her from loving her husband. A woman can only love her children, and perhaps other blood relatives, but never her husband or boyfriend. This truth is sad to many young men and they will never accept it and be guided by it until it is too late.

The Bible is clear on the matter:
Ephesians 5:22-33 New International Version (NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

Wow! I did not even need to finish reading your comment. Lord have mercy on your people. For they truly do love you with their hearts but they are terribly lost. grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Longushomo: 10:38am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

Have you read 5 vs 21?
I could carelesss what your bible says as far as I am concerned marriage is egalitarian and there should be mutuality in what the couples do.
Submission and love is mutual as far as I am concerned.
My dear I have read the whole verses and non of them points out the man submitting to the woman. Why denigrating the scriptures? I think you should not trample upon another person's belief because you don't share it with them.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mabea: 10:40am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

Nigerian men and the word submission ehn especially on the part of the woman I thought your holybooks admonished husband and wife to submit to each other why make it a one way thing?
Wife submit to your husband, husband love your wife. Chikena!

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mabea: 10:43am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:
Read ephesians 5 vs 21 and stop quoting me.I could careless about what your cavebook says about marriage.It should be mutual as far as I am concerned.
This one sounds bitter. Talking as if that verse is talking about marriage but the church.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by tomdon(m): 10:56am On Feb 19, 2019
You're just being childish and immature
You said you love each other.
Love is the most excellent way. It covers a multitude of sin.
You need to learn to cope with her ways and like her like that if you think she loves you and wants to stay with you
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mabea: 11:03am On Feb 19, 2019
drexel39:
Bro the Bible didn’t mention in any part that a woman should love her man,it only talk about a woman being respectful and submissive to her man.i advice you leave before it’s late nd tell her why u re leaving.
Go read Titus 2:4 then come back and modify your comment.
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Gracesofar(m): 11:15am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

Ephesians 5 vs 21.

God wasn't the one talking there. It was apostle paul anf it was addrrssed to the Ephesians not couples.

Receive understanding ijn
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Jokkarm2: 11:16am On Feb 19, 2019
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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by ayusco85(m): 11:18am On Feb 19, 2019
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Ignored the bullcrap talk of real men.
And yes I am a feminist.[/quote]

This conversation is over
Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Gracesofar(m): 11:24am On Feb 19, 2019
SiobhanMeadow:

I don't really care what the bible says.
Do whatever makes your relationship work.
Ignored the bullcrap talk of real men.
And yes I am a feminist.

Madam stop coming to form wha you are not just for attention an cheap likes. U started by quoting a wrong bible verse later you said u ain't a christian. Someone tried coreecting your myopia view of things an you went on calling the bible different names. The book you tried using to defend your insanity.

You are either obviously bitter or craving to attention. But whatever you do guard your utterances. Forget you are anonymous. Be real to yourself and reasonable.


Have fun amigo

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