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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:58pm On Feb 19, 2019

EngrKem:
U r not making sense. Woman must respect her man and another word for respect is submission!

Respect and sub,session is reciprocal a man too must love his wife infact they must love each other.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by crunchyg: 5:14pm On Feb 19, 2019

Ladyhippolyta88:
Arguing blindly in what read ephesians 5 vs 21 and understand then leave my mentions

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by crunchyg: 5:15pm On Feb 19, 2019

Ladyhippolyta88:
Arguing blindly in what read ephesians 5 vs 21 and understand then leave my mentions

This is the only thing I can tell you

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Gbengageorge: 6:45pm On Feb 19, 2019

Seriously, I guess this must be bedmatics.

GoodBoi1:
I really love my girlfriend but I'm not sure I can cope with her attitude that I have pointed out over time. I believe she loves me too but at times she talks to me disrespectfully, uses wrong, unfriendly tone.

When I try to correct her she denies and it leads to arguments. I'm just tired of this and I'm contemplating breaking up with her but she has other good traits that makes me feel I should just be patient with her.

Pls, I need advise as I fear we will often be quarreling if we get married.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:05pm On Feb 19, 2019

crunchyg:
This is the only thing I can tell you

Same here

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:08pm On Feb 19, 2019

If you think she will change, you are in for a long thing....

If you can't deal with it, break up with her

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by MissJoy29(f): 8:07pm On Feb 19, 2019

SiobhanMeadow:
Ephesians 5 vs 21.

Ma, that Bible passage wasn't just for husbands and wives. Read even from Chapter 1. You will understand better.

I believe you are looking for the verses 22 & 25 of chapter 5. Thank me later.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:44am On Feb 20, 2019

MissJoy29:
Ma, that Bible passage wasn't just for husbands and wives. Read even from Chapter 1. You will understand better.

I believe you are looking for the verses 22 & 25 of chapter 5. Thank me later.

So long as it talked about submitting to one another which includes husband and wife.Those were not the verses I was looking for ephesians 5 vs 1 is very clear.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:46am On Feb 20, 2019

Longushomo:
My dear I have read the whole verses and non of them points out the man submitting to the woman. Why denigrating the scriptures? I think you should not trample upon another person's belief because you don't share it with them.

Ephesians 5 vs 21 is very clear submit to one another.I was not trampling on anything.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by MissJoy29(f): 2:46pm On Feb 20, 2019

Ladyhippolyta88:
So long as it talked about submitting to one another which includes husband and wife.Those were not the verses I was looking for ephesians 5 vs 1 is very clear.

Yeah it applies to everyone but not particularly husband and wife. The specific verses for husband and wife are in verses 22 & 25 & nowhere did it say both should submit to each other.

Try as much as possible not to read some verses of The Bible in isolation.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 3:10pm On Feb 20, 2019

MissJoy29:
Yeah it applies to everyone but not particularly husband and wife. The specific verses for husband and wife are in verses 22 & 25 & nowhere did it say both should submit to each other.

Try as much as possible not to read some verses of The Bible in isolation.

I would not argue with you but know this you cannot love someone you cannot submit to and you cannot submit to someone you do not love.
That is commonsense.
Anyway I have never claimed to be a Christian but when I was I always believed that verse talked to everyone including married couples.
I believe in mutuality in marriage not a one way thing gender thing.

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by xendra: 3:31pm On Feb 20, 2019

basmur:
She has probably lost her respect for u wch wil make your word hold no weight...

You ve made her feel she is doing you a favour by dating you...

Whenever u try to scold her or man up she gets angry and u still d one to apologise.....

mayb u re choking her with too much of ur love palava..

Make urself unavailable for sometime if u re sure she loves you

or maybe she caught him cheat and she lost respect. you guys have no idea how deep that goes you always mention love, women don't disrespect a man that loves her unless there is the cheating part of course outsider don't know so they can't view from that angle

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by ianq: 9:46pm On Feb 20, 2019

truthsayer009:
Bro, you just broke this table for real lmao.

This is the sole reason why feminism cannot work in this country & whosoever is claiming to be a feminist online/offline in Nigeria is just a joker.

Since Women still place respect to a Man's earning power, it means she wasn't expecting to be equal in the first place.

Equality says you should respect everyone equally irrespective of gender, income etc.

Bro, there is no such thing as the Nigerian feminist. Its an illusion merely to allude to some 'higher education'. Heck, it seems to be trending in western societies so why shouldn't our own womenfolk join the merry bandwagon?

Jokes aside, even the average woman in the western world is beginning to realize the follies of feminism...men, true men, are becoming extinct. Do you believe the 'good book"? To me, Isaiah 4:1 is no childs play and will probably be (re)enacted.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 12:49am On Feb 21, 2019

ianq:

Bro, there is no such thing as the Nigerian feminist. Its an illusion merely to allude to some 'higher education'. Heck, it seems to be trending in western societies so why shouldn't our own womenfolk join the merry bandwagon?

Jokes aside, even the average woman in the western world is beginning to realize the follies of feminism...men, true men, are becoming extinct. Do you believe the 'good book"? To me, Isaiah 4:1 is no childs play and will probably be (re)enacted.

Naa, the bible was written many years ago. Most of the ideologies back then have faded away. Only the Spiritual things matter, the other ideologies about women no longer exist.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by ianq: 9:27am On Feb 21, 2019

truthsayer009:
Naa, the bible was written many years ago. Most of the ideologies back then have faded away. Only the Spiritual things matter, the other ideologies about women no longer exist.

well, ok, then. But did you look up the verse, though?
Something tells me you didn't. Anyway, mark those words- 7 women WILL chase after 1 man just to bear his name. Heck, its a phenomenon that has always occurred; i only forsee it being magnified at the height of the so-called feminist movement.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Nobody: 12:46pm On Feb 21, 2019

ianq:
well, ok, then. But did you look up the verse, though?
Something tells me you didn't. Anyway, mark those words- 7 women WILL chase after 1 man just to bear his name. Heck, its a phenomenon that has always occurred; i only forsee it being magnified at the height of the so-called feminist movement.

I've read that verse like a hundred times. That prophecy won't happen, the institution of marriage is already destroyed. No one needs to grab any man to bear his name, Just get pregnant & become baby mama. Finish.

If you meet feminist outside of Nigeria, you will love them I swear. They hold their own side without ever bothering you for petty stuff.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by ianq: 12:38am On Feb 22, 2019

truthsayer009:
I've read that verse like a hundred times. That prophecy won't happen, the institution of marriage is already destroyed. No one needs to grab any man to bear his name, Just get pregnant & become baby mama. Finish.

If you meet feminist outside of Nigeria, you will love them I swear. They hold their own side without ever bothering you for petty stuff.

Its kinda amusing when you say a prophecy from the bible wont happen. Truthfully, i have a weary smile on my face right now. Lol. But i cannot empirically argue biblical prophecy. Its a question of faith, so i wont say you are wrong.

The areas i can contest quite validly are the trend with 'baby mamas' and western feminism as you mentioned.

On baby mamas, i would argue you are making a hasty generalization. For now, baby mamas represent the minority in terms of the demography of women who want a child out of wedlock. Carry out an educational survey of the young women in your area to try and determine their preferences on the matter. Yes, there are high statistics of pregnancies out of wedlock but have you also checked the abortion rate? Or why do you think they call them 'unwanted' pregnancies? The majority of women would prefer not to be associated with a bastard child. The ideal of a baby mama is still an exception to that rule. So, yes, the majority of women still crave the institution of marriage if for nothing else than to avoid the stigma of a 'bastard child'. If you had perhaps stated, instead, that the institution of marriage is being ravaged by an unprecedented high rate of divorce then i would agree with you. But, initially, the average woman would still, at her core, want to associate with a man in marriage.

On the second point you raised on foreign feminists, not to belittle the experience you must have had, but may i ask, to which country do you reference? Or, better put, arent you simply describing a supportive , industrious woman? (Which we also have in abundance here in Nigeria). In your previous post, you seemed to have a handle on the definition of feminism ie 'equality between the genders in all things'. Should we reiterate?

I am not being boastful to tell you that, yes, i have travelled abroad(a couple of states in the USA)and have encountered foreign feminism, if we can put it that way. A feminist is a feminist, regardless of race, location or even gender( Justin Trudeau, Canadian PM is a self-described feminist). A feminist always argues for the equality of sexes. A core feminist goes the extra mile in trying to demonstrate this argument. Now, that is when things tend to go south quickly. And the reason isnt far-fetched... the premise of feminism- complete equality amongst the sexes is flawed.

To this end, i am not even suggesting that a male is superior to the female or vice versa. My argument rather is that we are biologically different, male and female and this fact by itself discriminates values and roles between the sexes.

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by pointblank247(m): 2:01am On Feb 22, 2019

Its comfirmed that some ladies need hot slap once in a long while

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Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by mastermaestro(m): 3:35pm On Feb 22, 2019

[quote author=SiobhanMeadow post=75885653][/quote]After how many days? I hope you are okay now. tongue

Re: My Girlfriend Talks To Me In A Disrespectful Manner by Realistt: 7:41am On Jan 16, 2023

Chepy:
Na her nature. Just get used to it and learn to laugh. Mine is same.
P.S giving her space will destroy your relationship. Trust me. You either get used to it or decide you don’t want it. Mine is better now, at least for the past 1 month

Bro you are toooooo weak. You are even weaker than a dead battery. I really pity simp like you. You have no self respect at all!

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