Trishiana:
am currently going through that heartbreak right now but what hurts me more my ex lives in the same street as me and I do see him with is new girl and that hurts a lot

that's sad.... but you still have to move on.... put a smile on your face to show him you are okay without him

it's very easy, focus on the persons major flaws you overlooked while in the relationship.

HolyTitus:
i have to know your present state of mind before i make any comment; so permit to ask how you're feeling now

I am feeling a little bit better, although that feeling of sadness still come to me once in a while am trying my best to control it. I must say the advice/comments i read on this thread also helped me alot all thanks to people like: united442, Eberechi24, SexExplorer and others.

cooluzi:
you mean love music lol

Music is soul food

Destiblack:
In life your happiness is a priority, nothing on earth is more important than your joy of heart and mental state of mind. Not even a girl friend cos the wrong people leave for the right ones to stay. Bleep love, hustle for money and bitches will be all over you. Even your ex will.

Thanks bro, i will always keep this in mind as i move on in life.

kingkuntaval:

Na she get heaven and earth, wey she dey promise you..

Trishiana:
am currently going through that heartbreak right now but what hurts me more my ex lives in the same street as me and I do see him with is new girl and that hurts a lot

Sorry dear, you will surely get over it.......time heal everything

united442:


no b small thing ooo..

moving has be quite difficult cux she lived very close to me in my area and even school,we still live close..
so seeing her everyday, dnt u see its going 2 b x2 difficult for me?

but ah man,wat to dooo?

but did u fuuvk her?

crazyabbey:


I am feeling a little bit better, although that feeling of sadness still come to me once in a while am trying my best to control it. I must say the advice/comments i read on this thread also helped me alot all thanks to people like: united442, Eberechi24, SexExplorer and others.

sorry bro! of course, i know exactly how it feels but believe you me, you'll get over it quicker than you expected - better and wiser; there would even come a time you'd reminisce this moment that you'd feel like punching yourself hard in the face for ever harboring the feeling you have now - it's a gradual process BUT provided you cut connections with her, i.e; don't pick her call, don't reject the call whilst ringing and don't text or text back when she does and don't stalk her on Facebook too - DON'T unfriend or block her; it's kinda childish to do so. Her reactions to the new-you would is the elixir that would heal you quicker. Lastly, set a goal before a certain age and channel more energy to achieving that goal(s). As regards your next relationship; guide your heart properly and let the next girl do the homework to earn your love and trust and not the other way round. Best of luck in your endeavours.

crazyabbey:
Am Currently experiencing my first heartbreak i don't want to go into all the details but the most painful thing is that my Ex- girlfriend moved on immediately after She end our relationship which means she was dating someone else while we were dating.

The problem now is: i can't stop thinking about her i keep blaming myself and feeling depressed. I will greatly appreciate it If you guys can tell me how to get Over this feeling or is there something wrong with me.

TIME son..

Time heals everything. Give it time and look for more profitable stuffs to engage yourself with.
Shalom!

JESUSBOIY:
but did u fuuvk her?

bleeped hell outta her since 2015 naa..
bleeped her abt 60+ times till will broke up
but that wasn't wat i wanted from her...i wanted a future with her..

HolyTitus:
sorry bro! of course, i know exactly how it feels but believe you me, you'll get over it quicker than you expected - better and wiser; there would even come a time you'd reminisce this moment that you'd feel like punching yourself hard in the face for ever harboring the feeling you have now - it's a gradual process BUT provided you cut connections with her, i.e; don't pick her call, don't reject the call whilst ringing and don't text or text back when she does and don't stalk her on Facebook too - DON'T unfriend or block her; it's kinda childish to do so. Her reactions to the new-you would is the elixir that would heal you quicker. Lastly, set a goal before a certain age and channel more energy to achieving that goal(s). As regards your next relationship; guide your heart properly and let the next girl do the homework to earn your love and trust and not the other way round. Best of luck in your endeavours.

thanks for this but blocking is very very important..

ImaIma1:

Music is soul food

sure... I love music too

HolyTitus:
sorry bro! of course, i know exactly how it feels but believe you me, you'll get over it quicker than you expected - better and wiser; there would even come a time you'd reminisce this moment that you'd feel like punching yourself hard in the face for ever harboring the feeling you have now - it's a gradual process BUT provided you cut connections with her, i.e; don't pick her call, don't reject the call whilst ringing and don't text or text back when she does and don't stalk her on Facebook too - DON'T unfriend or block her; it's kinda childish to do so. Her reactions to the new-you would is the elixir that would heal you quicker. Lastly, set a goal before a certain age and channel more energy to achieving that goal(s). As regards your next relationship; guide your heart properly and let the next girl do the homework to earn your love and trust and not the other way round. Best of luck in your endeavours.

Thanks bro, i really appreciate.

united442:


bleeped hell outta her since 2015 naa..

bleeped her abt 60+ times till will broke up

but that wasn't wat i wanted from her...i wanted a future with her..

OK since you done chop, why not move on make another man chop....

JESUSBOIY:
OK since you done chop, why not move on make another man chop....

am nt dat kind of guy..

she even gave me opportunity 2 still be with her while she date d other guy..i decline!..is either she's in with me or out..i cant share my woman with anyone

lets see...
..was depressed for a while..
lol...played " stupid in love" by rihana and "separated" usher to fast=track the healing process.
..then i did some soul searching and told ma self growing lean over her matter wasnt worth it.
And i swore i would never feel that way again.
since then..i have divided my heart into two....one for me...one for us. you break one...i use the other to reset.
#No time..

united442:


there is a dating drill link someone dropped, go through that link and follow every bit of instruction/steps/warnings and advice and trust me, u might end up slapping your self for begging her

sounds more like my link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need (I started it in 2017 I suppose)

crazyabbey:
Am Currently experiencing my first heartbreak i don't want to go into all the details but the most painful thing is that my Ex- girlfriend moved on immediately after She end our relationship which means she was dating someone else while we were dating.

The problem now is: i can't stop thinking about her i keep blaming myself and feeling depressed. I will greatly appreciate it If you guys can tell me how to get Over this feeling or is there something wrong with me.

you may end up with a broken heart again if you don't learn...

Learn and thank me later through this link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

SmellingAnus:
sounds more like my link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need (I started it in 2017 I suppose)

hmmmm...went through it.. quite inspirational...

SmellingAnus:
you may end up with a broken heart again if you don't learn...

Learn and thank me later through this link...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

Thanks bro, this is really an eye opening for me.

crazyabbey:

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Thanks sister, i will delete all her pics and numbers on my phone just 2 clear up my head a little. I think she was actually having someone else even while we were dating, because she moved on immediately she end d relationship with me. By the way, i was the one who was always trying 2 make d relationship work. With any slight argument she will block my numbers and tell me it is over, i will have 2 be the one begging her b4 she calms down.

Why? You're still young... Man up hustle Bro...make money first.... From the way you sound I bet you're still an undergraduate... Don't let that daughter of eve make you lose focus oooo. Well, you just learnt one lesson sha..... Forget about her... Don't block her number ooo either on facebook or Watsapp.... Find other things that are positive and also interest you, do them... Go out with your friends... Preferably guys... I bet you will feel better

crazyabbey:


Thanks bro, this is really an eye opening for me.

Welcome Bro...

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