As humans, we are capable of loving (things, fellow humans and so on) and during the process, sometimes we get hurt -real bad....

Straight to the point....
Few years back - 16 years old - I got into a relationship (lol!...right now, I think I made a mistake)

Skipped some stuffs so as not to bore you...

Some months later, I got served breakfast on a platter of gold (was young,naive and inexperienced)
From the entire epistle she wrote, I clearly remember "I didn't play you" part

Coping mechanism?
Listened to a lot of sad songs, played games ... but I was crazily depressed - almost killed myself (twas my first heartbreak )

Now to the reason I created this thread.... (the lessons I learnt)

Since the heartbreak, I no longer see things the same way....
I became more reserved, diverted my love, anger and depression towards other things and it was worth it - at least, I am better at PES and I learnt to stay out of unneeded relationships.

In my opinion, venturing into a relationship at a young age is not the best idea.
Not everyone can survive the trauma that follows heartbreak at such young age - older people self dey feel am
You can dedicate your time and energy to other profitable things like learning skills and strengthening weak areas of your lives

So, over to you?
What was your first heartbreak like and how did you cope?
Also, what else did you do different afterwards?

Your words might save a soul.

Bought popcorn crossed my legs eating and thanking God for my regained sanity.

I may never fall for that thin called love again.

Very fast.

Moved on fastly sha....

I would comment if this makes front-page.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Savedday:
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Hope your sisters and daughters are included .

You people will just borrow 10MB from MTN and the next thing is to start insulting your family members on the internet.

Nawa oo!!

Jennyclay:
Hope your sisters and daughters are included .

You people will just borrow 10MB from MTN and the next thing is to start insulting your family members on the internet.

Nawa oo!!

sweet heart

Savedday:
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Naija girls are babes

We are endorsed

she dated someone else two days later. that hurt more than the breakup.

Baddestbiitch:
Naija girls are babes
We are endorsed

You again
This male bitch

Saw her years later after the break up and wondered how stupid I was



Now my mission is to buy NL for 3BILLION naira if seun is selling

Let me drop here , this thread might be intresting.
Keep the stories coming guys

somenody:
she dated someone else two days later.
that hurt more than the breakup.

she didn't start two days after the break up....she has been dating him while slowly emotionally checking out from you.

i discovered life was sweet after the break up sha the only thing i missed was the free pussy last last i took it upon myself to date all her friendz in school bitch became jealous as hell always trying to feel relevant where as homeboy don move on


she was always trying to know what i was upto i jejely the form ignorant man the knack her friends 1 by 1 till she started attacking me both for area and social media what will a man do i put more pressure both her street i get girls there she later call for truce but i cant relent stop now till she see the thailand writting on the wall and give me gap

oga dont allow someone be in possession of your happiness just know your comfort zone and stick to it u will be fine a lady should not feel she is doing u a favour by dating u there are women out there fantasizing about u on a low key

Heartbreak are for nice guys, we only play with their emotion and move to the bad guys

I'll never allow my brothers to be nice so they won't be taken for granted

Hehehe... High asf and looking forwad to you wackboys stories

Never been in one....i don't really know what to do in a relationship.

Lol..was very hard

It was the deepest agonizing emotional pain. Unable to think or focus on anything else. Wishing it was a bad dream. Everytime the phone ring , I would be wishing it was him. Crying very frequently.

The worst part was thinking it was never going to get better. But it did, and it always does. Every heartbreak feels just as bad as the first, you just learn how to deal with them a little better each time .

Ehya sorry for you loss... Bet you were played by another pleboi hehehe

czarr:
she didn't start two days after the break up....she has been dating him while slowly emotionally checking out from you.

I know,i know.

Baddestbiitch:
Heartbreak are for nice guys, we only play with their emotion and move to the bad guys

I'll never allow my brothers to be nice so they won't be taken for granted

Who is this man

somenody:

Who is this man

your uncle baby

somenody:
*

You love trouble don't you?

Mehn it was tough, I had to fly to the moon and pluto for years before I could gain my sanity.

No relationship, no heartbreak.