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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Michelle55: 4:21pm On Feb 27, 2019

hoodedjaystrim:
You think she gives a Fvck

if op like he should continue mumuing until his account balance starts showing negative sign

Lol... Aswear you are not nice at all.

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:22pm On Feb 27, 2019

lovelybugs:
Not at all

Can you differentiate the good from the bad guys without dating them??

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by united442(m): 4:23pm On Feb 27, 2019

lovelybugs:
I'm only curious about one thing. Where the hell do you guys get these type of girls from??!?

sometimes they aren't that type of girl,they look armless and innocent..
all of a sudden,they just change overnight.
so u nvr can actually tell..

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:24pm On Feb 27, 2019

Michelle55:
Lol.. No be new thing nau.. Abi na today women start to dey strangle their husbands ni? I want to rule England in peace so if strangling you will pave way for me, Wetin con remain if not to strangle you in peace?

No please... Allow me to leave in peace and get another lady

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:25pm On Feb 27, 2019

Every lady has encountered that mumu guy that will shoot him self in the leg for you. Them guys are never respected, fellas please respect yourself ahbeg. That you love someone doesn’t mean your sense should fall outside of the window.

Women fall in love with leaders. A guy with confidence who is sure of himself. Women like men who don’t care too much as crazy as it may sound. Don’t ever act like you will die without a woman or will fall into depression if she ever leaves you. Once a woman knows this, she will take full advantage and walk all over you. Just an advice.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:26pm On Feb 27, 2019

MrHighSea:
Affordable?

yea. Wats ur email add lemme pm u my link.

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Michelle55: 4:31pm On Feb 27, 2019

DanDeeBoss:
No please... Allow me to leave in peace and get another lady

Mbanu.. That's Impossicant!
We die here... I no dey remain food for person cheesy

I dey like chop and wash all my plates and pots clean grin

Iffa leave you now, you fit come back come claim the throne so e better say you allow mee strangle you in peace bikonu tongue

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 27, 2019

MrHighSea:
Affordable?

I'm having difficulty in sending you my contact link. Please kindly go to fixlancer.com and search the keyword, 'relationship therapist' you'll see 'dmpaul' in the search result. Click on it.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:44pm On Feb 27, 2019

Michelle55:
Mbanu.. That's Impossicant!
We die here... I no dey remain food for person I dey like chop and wash all my plates and pots clean
Iffa leave you now, you fit come back come claim the throne so e better say you allow mee strangle you in peace bikonu

Haba!!! Queen of England... Naso you wicked reach??

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Curvinus(m): 4:51pm On Feb 27, 2019

Op you need to stop blaming the poor lady. She has what the world wants - primal capital and she is ready to make the best out of what she has. You on the other hand want primal capital but you lack the wherewithal to get and keep one.

You can consider all of what you did for her in the past as what gave you access to her honeypot. But sadly, as you have realized, they are not enough to tie her down to a spot. The girl was never and has never been yours because her beauty is in high demand and the big spenders are smashing her.

I've dated similar girls in the past and they're always like this. But instinctively, unlike you op, I never went out of my way to do things for them. So it was always easy to detach and hop to the next one.

As for how to get her out of your head, you must know that she was never yours at any point in time. She was only loyal to you because of the goodies she was receiving from you. But now she has moved on to another more financially buoyant dude because ladies like her are rich men's cum dumpster. Some rich men get high adrenaline rush from dumping cum in them and they don't care that they are lavishing money on these hoez.

But it is madness for you as a financially unstable young man to want to spend such obscene money just to bleep stupid puci. This is what you have been doing all these while and now youre hooked.

I suggest you just blank her out of your mind for now and move on with your life.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Edopesin: 4:56pm On Feb 27, 2019

hoodedjaystrim:
if only i was the real boyfriend enjoying the OPs money

Guy

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Michelle55: 4:57pm On Feb 27, 2019

DanDeeBoss:
Haba!!! Queen of England... Naso you wicked reach??

Na you teach me na cheesy

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:04pm On Feb 27, 2019

Michelle55:
Na you teach me na

Abeg... Spare me, e Don do

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 5:17pm On Feb 27, 2019

That's what you get when you leave good character and run after beauty.
Dust yourself and move on.

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by klenton(m): 5:37pm On Feb 27, 2019

Curvinus:
Op you need to stop blaming the poor lady. She has what the world wants - primal capital and she is ready to make the best out of what she has. You on the other hand want primal capital but you lack the wherewithal to get and keep one.

You can consider all of what you did for her in the past as what gave you access to her honeypot. But sadly, as you have realized, they are not enough to tie her down to a spot. The girl was never and has never been yours because her beauty is in high demand and the big spenders are smashing her.

I've dated similar girls in the past and they're always like this. But instinctively, unlike you op, I never went out of my way to do things for them. So it was always easy to detach and hop to the next one.

As for how to get her out of your head, you must know that she was never yours at any point in time. She was only loyal to you because of the goodies she was receiving from you. But now she has moved on to another more financially buoyant dude because ladies like her are rich men's cum dumpster. Some rich men get high adrenaline rush from dumping cum in them and they don't care that they are lavishing money on these hoez.

But it is madness for you as a financially unstable young man to want to spend such obscene money just to bleep stupid puci. This is what you have been doing all these while and now youre hooked.

I suggest you just blank her out of your mind for now and move on with your life.

is it possible to like your comment a thousand times

op listen to this and apply it in your future endeavors but for now accept the pains, get involved in other things that catches ur fancy, if u hang out then hang out more, las las u go dey alright

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 6:29pm On Feb 27, 2019

Kalashnikov382:
Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor.

You sound so pitiful, it's almost irritating.
You belittle yourself each time you roll out a litany of the things you've done for a woman, "after all what I've for you?" stop that it's too petty. The worst part of it all is that 9/10 times her response will be "what have you done for me? nothing."

Please learn from this, the earlier you realize that no woman can ever love you the way you feel you deserve, the better.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by dingbang(m): 6:34pm On Feb 27, 2019

mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Fidelismaria: 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2019

Nothing more to say

U've been advised

Now follow it

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by pansophist(m): 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2019

Abee79:
A girl I dated told me the same thing 12 years ago . . . now, God has buttered my bread. We are both married now. We are still friends and we keep in touch. I sense regret in her voice anytime she asks me, "have you completed your house?", "have you bought another car?" etc.

She stays in a different state. Anytime I buy a new car, I pay her elder brother and cousins (who live in the same city with me) a visit - so that they can transmit the transmission to her! I will also invite them for my house warming party!

Bad guy, you sabi handle them wella cheesy

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Martinez39(m): 6:45pm On Feb 27, 2019

Saffi:
Every lady has encountered that mumu guy that will shoot him self in the leg for you. Them guys are never respected, fellas please respect yourself ahbeg. That you love someone doesn’t mean your sense should fall outside of the window.

Women fall in love with leaders. A guy with confidence who is sure of himself. Women like men who don’t care too much as crazy as it may sound. Don’t ever act like you will die without a woman or will fall into depression if she ever leaves you. Once a woman knows this, she will take full advantage and walk all over you. Just an advice.

I will take you to Dubai for this post. grin

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Firstandonly(m): 7:15pm On Feb 27, 2019

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now. I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months month. She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t). This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life. She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

success is not the best revenge, moving on is. take heart bro, i can feel ur pains but with time it will fade away, not now nor 1or 2 weeks time but it will surely fade away, just keep reminding urself on how important u are to ur love once and how ur mental breakdown will affect ur productivity.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by loricara: 7:34pm On Feb 27, 2019

sorry to hear this my case was like yours I'm now working to make my self a better guy, do same bro

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Dannyfrost(m): 7:35pm On Feb 27, 2019

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now. I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months month. She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t). This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life. She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

This is why guys shouldn't spend on women...All I can say is move on! angry

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now. I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months month. She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t). This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life. She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

This is why guys shouldn't spend on women...All I can say is move on!

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by loricara: 7:39pm On Feb 27, 2019

pansophist:
Bad guy, you sabi handle them wella

I pray God blesses me. A girl I did everything for, she would call me and be crying I was there for her but I didn't have money to give her. she got abroad bf stopped talking to me blocked me and I didn't bother her. i pray God remembers me and bless me

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ejihand(m): 8:35pm On Feb 27, 2019

lovelybugs:
I'm only curious about one thing. Where the hell do you guys get these type of girls from??!?

Every lady claiming innocent now. Most Nigeria ladies are wired that way. They respond to setbacks in a relationship simply by moving on to a richer dude

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by pansophist(m): 8:40pm On Feb 27, 2019*

loricara:
I pray God blesses me. A girl I did everything for, she would call me and be crying I was there for her but I didn't have money to give her. she got abroad bf stopped talking to me blocked me and I didn't bother her. i pray God remembers me and bless me

At least you learn.

Life true lessons are better learnt by experience. Now the next step you should strive to achieve is how to attract women without money. Its possible. As in, dont spend money unreasonably, even on dates. When you've done that, then you're a pro. You've truly master the game.

And without money, I dont mean you should not work hard and be someone respectable. But not responsible for a woman, unless you're married to her. Another lesson you'll learn with time is the simple fact that women dont leech on true masculine figures. Men that are successful usually dont spend on women as broke guys. Spending is to impress her to stay, not accepting from you is her impressing you to commit to her. Be that guy. cool

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by kollinzgee(m): 8:43pm On Feb 27, 2019

you will rearly see a lady post something like this here it always the guys that are falling in love and heartbroken always weak men everywhere! if you try to teach them how to handle women now they will start bashing and criticising you i like ladies they are smatter they never sell short thats why they are always in control of relationshipa i weep for my gender ***spits****.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by luminouz(m): 8:58pm On Feb 27, 2019

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now. I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months month. She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t). This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life. She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

ASK ursef this:

Is this girl worth me giving up on life and hope huh

If yes,kill ursef
If No,Man Up and hustle hard,not for her sake but for urs!

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:56pm On Feb 27, 2019

Omoge87:
Take care of yourself

Ma'am all your post are very long oh. Plizzzz can you shorten them, you know I'm your follower here. I will just wake up from sleep & see one kain long post , ahn ahn.

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 27, 2019

CorGier:
Please learn from this, the earlier you realize that no woman can ever love you the way you feel you deserve, the better.

Oh boy, you wrote this straight to my heart Jeez!!!

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 10:16pm On Feb 27, 2019

Abee79:
A girl I dated told me the same thing 12 years ago . . . now, God has buttered my bread. We are both married now. We are still friends and we keep in touch. I sense regret in her voice anytime she asks me, "have you completed your house?", "have you bought another car?" etc.

She stays in a different state. Anytime I buy a new car, I pay her elder brother and cousins (who live in the same city with me) a visit - so that they can transmit the transmission to her! I will also invite them for my house warming party!

wicked man grin

Abee79:
A girl I dated told me the same thing 12 years ago . . . now, God has buttered my bread. We are both married now. We are still friends and we keep in touch. I sense regret in her voice anytime she asks me, "have you completed your house?", "have you bought another car?" etc.

She stays in a different state. Anytime I buy a new car, I pay her elder brother and cousins (who live in the same city with me) a visit - so that they can transmit the transmission to her! I will also invite them for my house warming party!

wicked man

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by joceey(m): 11:17pm On Feb 27, 2019

Offpoint:
.
[b]You're not in love op, you're just afraid to lose a beautiful wh0re[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][/b]

You have said it all with this line of words

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