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Martinez39:
I once created a post where if said the following :
"I don tire for girls. They say they want a nice guy, be nice and they dump you saying you are boring. They say they don't want bad guys, be bad and they run after you like money wey thief spray for main road.

Mehn! You are the bomb.
I am curious, what do you think about love?

your first love will always be your true love. I think.

once you fvck around and see women for who they are you have been ruined. ignorance is bliss. love is better when you know very little about women.

ubunja:
your first love will always be your true love. I think.

once you fvck around and see women for who they are you have been ruined. ignorance is bliss. love is better when you know very little about women.

Thanks for this.

Martinez39:
ME : he has turned you to a punching bag and has left you with bruises and wounds. He even wipes you with a belt. Why don't you walk out of a marriage with a man who has no respect for you and treats you like an animal?

WOMAN : but I love him.

ME :

lol
it should read: but I want to change him

A woman's love is a changing love. She wants to change you, to impact your life in a positive way. If you are perfect you're impossible to love. But if you're hard to change you're hard to ignore because apparently you are desirable. It's a very peculiar mindset.
and dangerous too.

ubunja:
lol
it should read: but I want to change him

A woman's love is a changing love. She wants to change you, to impact your life in a positive way. If you are perfect you're impossible to love. But if you're hard to change you're hard to ignore because apparently you are desirable. It's a very peculiar mindset.
and dangerous too.

True. Thanks.

ubunja:
it always amazes me how women always assume men are looking for more when men are just looking to hit it and quit it.
I guess women can be naive. It beggars belief how Funmisticqueen enters a thread about getting pussy then has the nerve to confirm that the content will get men sex but attempt to get men to look for more. it's so hilarious.

don't cross that line Ubunja.

ubunja:
lol
it should read: but I want to change him

A woman's love is a changing love. She wants to change you, to impact your life in a positive way. If you are perfect you're impossible to love. But if you're hard to change you're hard to ignore because apparently you are desirable. It's a very peculiar mindset.
and dangerous too.

where do you get this BS from. I am done with this thread. Not as if you guys are the target anyway.

funmisticqueen:
where do you get this BS from. I am done with this thread. Not as if you guys are the target anyway.

the thread is not done, with you yet.

funmisticqueen:
don't cross that line Ubunja.

which line is that?

ubunja:
lol
it should read: but I want to change him

A woman's love is a changing love. She wants to change you, to impact your life in a positive way. If you are perfect you're impossible to love. But if you're hard to change you're hard to ignore because apparently you are desirable. It's a very peculiar mindset.
and dangerous too.

one thing about women is that they will never admit these things but they are true talking from experience.this is not the first time am coming across something like this infact it is the same concept harddon,charles nneji and other foriegn pickup artist teach .

back in 2016 when i bought the bang rule i hated the concept and strategies in the book because they were illogical and unromantic to me .i mean how could you be so mean and cocky to women and expect them to love you back in return trash .

but to my suprise i used the trick on my first target i insult her in a funny way on a daily basis. calling her big head,i hate fair girls , and i also gave her that i dont give a damn attitude.all of a sudden she started falling for me giving me greenlight i was like wooow are women this fishbrained the last and shocking one was when she publicly admitted that she loves me,no lies here i swear negging and cocky has won me so many points with women even the ones that are ranting here will fall for it. just that am not pussy freak i for don tear many toto.

my conclusion is even women donot know what makes them fall in love because it lies deep in their subconsious mind thats why they are confused and misleading.

kollinzgee:
one thing about women is that they will never admit these things but they are true talking from experience.this is not the first time am coming across something like this infact it is the same concept harddon,charles nneji and other foriegn pickup artist teach .

back in 2016 when i bought the bang rule i hated the concept and strategies in the book because they were illogical and unromantic to me .i mean how could you be so mean and cocky to women and expect them to love you back in return trash .

but to my suprise i used the trick on my first target i insult her in a funny way on a daily basis. calling her big head,i hate fair girls , and i also gave her that i dont give a damn attitude.all of a sudden she started falling for me giving me greenlight i was like wooow are women this fishbrained the last and shocking one was when she publicly admitted that she loves me,no lies here i swear negging and cocky has won me so many points with women even the ones that are ranting here will fall for it. just that am not pussy freak i for don tear many toto.

my conclusion is even women donot know what makes them fall in love because it lies deep in their subconsious mind thats why they are confused and misleading.

the funny thing is that as little boys we used to tease and harass the girls we liked ha ha ha. Mother-Nature is never wrong.

and yar it's hard to understand for an ordinary guy that TO BE ROMANTIC YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY BE UNROMANTIC. it's a mindfvck.

Nice one

ubunja:
what must I write to make you like me?

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Martinez39:
Exactly! This is his best thread so far.

I think Games of emotions was a great one too.

This is up there with it. Super revealing write-ups.

I've always understood and related with women this way but never could have been able to explain it in writing just like this. Many thanks Ubunja.

COOL10:
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Why're you so obsessed with Ubunja though ?

She is already in love with him and she can’t help it.

Laughs... Ubunja still lighting up Nairaland with his logistics about women

CyberWolf:
She is already in love with him and she can’t help it.

Awwn. Very true

funmisticqueen:
it is so sad how debased this post is. Dear men, if all you want from women is what is between their legs pls feel free to follow his miseducations.
The appeal of a player gets stale quickly especially if as a lady you are smart. These games only work on naive ladies and when the time the player is done, as you mature, you would meet bitter women and come here to rant when they play you. Learn to preserve the innocence and naivety of the ladies so that you can enjoy new products.As a man all I have to say is to just be the best version of you, be masculine, deal with your issues and watch rare diamonds come to you.

Ubunja's game loses its appeal down the line as you get more mature and finally realise what you want out of life

always playing the victim as usual, I've read numerous posts of yours pertinent to Women never to date men without money, you go about on all threads belittling men and now you ask if sex is what men want from women? It's all good, money for sex it is.

You should make a compendium of your work, do you not think so?

@ ubunja, what is the real meaning of this response as regards asking a lady out (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ACTUALLY )

olawaleseun:
@ ubunja, what is the real meaning of this response as regards asking a lady out (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ACTUALLY )

you wAnna know how to ask a lady.

olawaleseun:
@ ubunja, what is the real meaning of this response as regards asking a lady out (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ACTUALLY )

you wAnna know how to ask a lady out

olawaleseun:
@ ubunja, what is the real meaning of this response as regards asking a lady out (I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ACTUALLY )

Just tell her “You don’t need to say anything, let’s get along and see how it goes” ..

CyberWolf:
Just tell her “You don’t need to say anything, let’s get along and see how it goes” ..

Wow... seriously...

kollinzgee:
you wAnna know how to ask a lady out

Na her response be that atfer I asked her out

ubunja:
talk about scoring an own goal. lmfao.

own goal indeed

ubunja:
been missing you on these threads bro. how have you been.

am gud bro

I never had a thread blow up like this....
Thanks Miseducation Fam.

Ubunja "ma pami na

I know you dont know the meaning

ubunja:
Hacking The Female Mind.


PROLOGUE.
What you want from a woman is her body. But between her body and you stands her mind, còckblócking you. To get the body first capture the mind because where the mind goes, the body follows.

HACKING THE FEMALE MIND.
Common Sense tells you that if you're good to a person that person will be good to you. But men and women process goodness differently.

Treat a man with respect and honor and he thinks YOU ARE awesome and a great guy. He will like you and make you his friend. He will want to hang out with you because he finds you likeable.

But treat a woman with respect and honor and she thinks SHE IS awesome and a great woman. She figures SHE DESERVES IT. That's why we call women ENTITLED and "princesses" because in everything it's about them. Honour a woman and she feels exalted and because she feels exalted she feels free to deal with you like you're nothing. Treating you like some worthless piece of shît.

That's the female psychology. It's backwards and reverse.

That's the reason why being Nice to a woman gets you nothing but disrespect and insults. Because women have a psychological tendency to mistake Kindness for Weakness and Niceness for Manipulation. They reason if you have to be Nice then you are powerless to enforce your will ( girl: "Mom! Jason doesn't want to open the door for me" mom: "ASK NICELY and he'll open it for you". So the girl grows into a woman that thinks: Kind=Weak and Nice=Manipulation). But this psychology can be hacked with surprising efficiency:

When you mistreat a man he thinks YOU ARE a worthless piece of shít. And he'll avoid you like the plague. It's to be expected.

BUT!!!! When you mistreat a woman she thinks SHE IS a worthless piece of shît. She figures SHE DESERVES IT. She concludes YOU ARE awesome and a great guy. She will like you, seek you out and befriend you. According to her, you're likeable.

Is she crazy?
Not really. The foundations of her psychology were laid in her childhood. As were the foundations of all our psychology:

Every boy begins as a Bad Boy. No boy is born nice. When you were young Mother-Nature implanted in your mind an instinct that appeared counterproductive: the instinct to be mean to the girl that you like. . Then in the mind of the girl that you liked Mother-Nature implanted a nurturing instinct that pushed her to you: the belief every girl has that her love can change a boy . These instincts are two sides of the same coin. They work hand in hand.

While 80% of boys eventually have the Bad Boy instinct extinguished by Society, virtually all girls find their Bad Boy-seeking instinct amplified by the same Society through fairy tales like the Beauty & the Beast. The result? A female population attracted to Violent Expressions of Love and a male population that thinks women are stupid for it.

HACKING THE FEMALE MIND THROUGH COMMUNICATION.
What if I told you there are secret languages you never heard of that Players and lustful Women use to communicate and hook up right under your nose? What if I told you there are sex languages spoken everyday in public that don't contain a single dirty word that "those in the know" recognize and respond to with the masses none the wiser? And what if I told you these languages can be learned?

Secret Language 1: the language of double meaning words.

Every public language of every country has words with two meanings: one clean one dirty (e.g "Come" ). These words are not necessarily slang. While these words can be used on national radio, on TV, at work and at church it is very well known that when said WITH A CERTAIN LOOK ON YOUR FACE, OR A CERTAIN TONE IN YOUR VOICE, OR WITH A WINK OF THE EYE OR A GIGGLE IN YOUR VOICE you intend to convey the dirty meaning of the word. These words or phrases are called double entendre. You can build a whole language with them. Women and Players communicate secretly by using these ordinary words publicly but hinting they intend for the dirty meanings to be understood.

For example; you can stand in the street and shout "I'm Coming". Most people will not even raise their heads and will assume you're telling someone you're headed their way. But the hòrny he-goats who live on xvideos will look at you and smile. They picked up on the second dirty meaning of the phrase: "I'm ejaculating". They are "in the know".

Especially that phrase "I'm Coming" works wonders: Back in the day I worked as a Librarian and Lab Technician at a boarding school for girls and the H.O.D I reported to was a dumb guy who used to call me to his office to ask me even dumber questions and on the phone I would say "I'm coming". Eventually he told me to stop using that phrase because it was making him feel uncomfortable, coming from me!

Women use such words to try to identify and connect with like-minded men AKA the Players. Watch out for when girls use words like Big, Pound, Slide, Come, Penetrate, Enter, Deep, Hard, Long, Drill etc (words that also apply to sex) ESPECIALLY WHEN THE CONVERSATION OR TOPIC HARDLY CALLS FOR THE USE OF THESE WORDS. OR IF IT DOES, SHE KEEPS REPEATING AND EMPHASIZING THESE WORDS NEEDLESSLY. The girl is sexualizing the conversation. . It's the secret language.

The beauty of this language is that it is 100% safe to use anywhere. The ability of a person to catch the message entirely depends on how dirty his mind is . To a clean minded man the message will never register. no harm done. But to a dirty mind even clean words bring up dirty ideas. Remember those "clean images for the dirty minds" where you look at an innocent picture but because your mind is dirty you see something else entirely? That's exactly what this language is all about. except it's using words.

My earliest encounter with this language was a decade or so back, at Church, of all places! The Pastor said something like "sizingane sasijabula sishaye inyawo" ("as children we would be overjoyed and beat our thighs" ). this is a very innocent phrase in my vernacular that denotes happiness (I'm sure in many African countries people, especially women, slap their thighs during arguments to make a point. Pastor was referring to something along those lines). Now, my mind was ready to let the phrase go but the girls next to me burst into giggles. Naturally I asked if the Pastor had said something funny. One of the girls said "uPastor uthi babeshaya inyawo" ("the Pastor says they used to beat their thighs" ) and I was like "so?" Then she whispered, "that's sex! ". My eyes were opened. Indeed the phrase was also used to mean sex. But my clean mind never went there! And apparently neither did the Pastor's. I asked myself how many times had I missed messages delivered to me this way??

INCEPTION.
All sex begins in the mind. You can nudge a girl's mind towards sex by implanting ideas in her without being dirty, disrespectful or obvious. Take this whole language thing and reverse it to implant thoughts into a girl's mind faster and far easier than Leonardo DiCaprio and his crew in the movie Inception.

One day I was in a supermarket queue and a lady left her queue and joined mine. as she arrived I pointed at the queue she just left and absentmindedly remarked "it's too long? ". She giggled. I asked why she was giggling, she replied "You said it's too long".

We both laughed looking at each other in a funny way. I had just given her a dirty idea. What can be "too long" except a Dick!

Every single day is full of dozens of circumstances begging to be sexualized like this. Learn this language and you'll be amazed how women naturally find sexual connections in innocent conversations.

Secret Language 2: the language of opposites.
Ever talked to a girl and she told you what she wanted in a man and you took her words as a tip, rushing to do those very things, only to hit a brick wall and be rejected by her? What went wrong? -------------> You took her words at face value. Women will never be straightforward with you. Why should they make it easy for you? . But luckily for you women have never been smart and their idea of being cryptic is to say something but mean the opposite. It's a code. It's a language.

If you watch Dr. Phil, Steve Harvey, or any of those Dating & Relationships TV shows DO NOT DO the things the women on these shows tell you to do because YOU WILL FAIL. 100%. Women will never be straightforward with the World. Why should they make it easy for the World to call them whòrés and sluts? It's a man's World. Women have a lot to hide. A lot to lose. The answer that a woman gives on live TV with her family, relatives, neighbors, bosses, friends and pastor watching is not the same answer she gives in private. Players know this. Apparently Nice Guys don't.

What a woman says in public concerning her sexual desires NEVER take it to heart because Women are so used to hiding their desires by denying them that it has become their default response to speak in opposites. It serves as a SHlT TEST: Women speak in opposites to separate the wheat from the chaff. If you take a woman's words at face value you are the Chaff. Men like you are NEEDED. Women don't want every man to be a Player. Players give Dick only. But Women don't live by Dick alone but by the Dollars of guys like you.

And by the same token, whatever women as a group say they hate about men, GO OUT AND DO THAT THING. You can never lose. When Women complain about something it's because they are seeing it in the men they are fvcking which means to be a man that women are fvcking you have to do that thing that women are complaining about because the thing women are complaining about is the thing that attracts them. They are only complaining because they had hoped to CHANGE that behavior in those men but failed. Women love you to change you. It's not rocket science. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.

How do you become the Wheat/Dick? By not being so damn literal. women live in a world of opposites. Learn the language of that World:

When you talk to a girl and she tells you she likes ABC in men, go out and do XYZ. oppose her words. You'll see results. And by the same token, when a girl tells you she hates ABC in men, go out and do the same ABC she told you she hates. She will like you for it. Everything is in reverse. It's a code. A language.

when a girl tells you "I'm fine", she's definitely not fine. When she tells you "Go, I will be OK", don't go, she won't be OK. And when she starts a sentence with, "I don't usually do this... ", just know, she has done it a thousand times. Using the same formula by now you know if Dick size matters or not.

READING WOMEN LIKE AN OPEN BOOK.
A woman wants men to think she is complicated and impossible to figure out. That "mystery" is part and parcel of being female. It's a lie that only appears truthful because men evolved to be straightforward communicators (its a man's world they have nothing to fear or hide), while women evolved to speak in opposites (it's a man's world women have everything to fear and hide).

The immortal saying "A Woman's No Is A Yes" originated with men who figured this out.

Women long to be inscrutable and impossible to understand but because they have never been that intelligent, their idea of being "impossible to understand" is to say everything in reverse. Simple. But extremely puzzling to your straightforward mind. Figure this out and women will be simple as toys.

WORDS VS ACTIONS.
Is a woman confusing you because her actions are contradicting her words? Believe her actions. Actions never lie. just MUTE THE AUDIO CHANNEL and work with the video channel:

- A woman will tell you she doesn't cheat and she loves her BF with all her heart MEANWHILE SHE IS TAKING YOUR PHONE NUMBER DOWN. Reverse her words to understand her actions.

- When a woman tells you she's coming to your place but "there will be no sex", SHE JUST TOLD YOU SHE IS COMING FOR SEX. Take that shower and prepare those condoms. you're getting laid.

- When a woman tells you she's leaving in 2 mins MEANWHILE SHE IS TAKING OFF HER JACKET AND SITTING ON YOUR BED. Again, the message is reverse: she's hopping sex will begin in 2 mins.

THE OPPOSITE GREEN LIGHT.
There is a Green Light that many guys miss.
It's hidden. But guys who understand the game of opposites never miss it:

Every guy encounters this girl atleast once in his life. and im guessing you have too. That girl who's sweet to everyone else but sour to you, that girl who's happy in the group until you arrive and she leaves, that girl always the first to mock you or your attire, that girl who always seems to be angry at you for no reason, that girl behaving like an angry Ex except you dont have a history with her or her friends or her sisters, that girl about whom your friends keep asking "dude what ever did you do to that girl?", that girl you always try to avoid because you know she hates your guts but for some strange unexplained reason you keep bumping into her ... what the hell is her problem??
--------> she loves you

Now you know.

# TheRedPill
# MGTOW

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...this is brilliant and nothing but the truth. He that decodes the female "language" and knows how to handle it is the real Alfa male.

Another great one from Ubunja.

Starboytwo:
Ubunja "ma pami na

I know you dont know the meaning

Dude kindly translate

BLUEJAYY:
I think Games of emotions was a great one too.

This is up there with it. Super revealing write-ups.

I've always understood and related with women this way but never could have been able to explain it in writing just like this. Many thanks Ubunja.

Game Of Emotions will always be "The Miseducation Of Miseducations".