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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Mar 02, 2019
It’s only common sense. Nigeria usually wakes up last minute when the rest of the world has moved on

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Emanodimo(m): 4:32pm On Mar 02, 2019
That's an opportunity to annoint more baby-mamas, such woman will need to contend with. If the property worth #10million, the husband get 9 baby mamas ... U get a #1million at most....

Divorce should be on what u both owned. There is a word called "Personal" and "Jointly owned"...the meaning has not changed.

In a bid to change the status quo or empower women, that shouldn't be encouraged .

Remember, that man also get mother and sister ready to fight the fight.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by bigmo1(m): 4:33pm On Mar 02, 2019
abbey621:
The mistake the man made was also punishing the children. A smart man thinks ahead, you would have noticed problems with your spouse a long time before the divorce. Just relocate to a rented flat, sell the properties and then get a divorce. No judge in the world can question you. The troubling piece here is that the man does not give a bleep about the children.....this is sad!
But what if she refuses to relocate after selling d house, or d buyer refuses to buy because of occupants. I think u should approach a bank for a loan almost equivalent of d value of the house, default on d loan. The bank will help u evacuate ur wife from the house. Lobatan

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by cococandy(f): 4:34pm On Mar 02, 2019
In his counter claim and defence, the ex-husband stated that when he bought and constructed the Akure property, his wife was a full housewife and had no contribution to the project, adding that the situation was the same for the Ibadan property as his wife only signed as a witness as she had no job and only depended on what he gave her to take care of the children when he travelled out of the country.


She didn’t have a job? What a mor0n

One kid is a full time job. Multiply that by four and if you had any sense, you will know she worked more than you even did in that marriage. What insolence

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by pat077: 4:35pm On Mar 02, 2019
Kole work
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by princetemitee(f): 4:37pm On Mar 02, 2019
But wait what if they rented the house grin grin
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by danot1030: 4:38pm On Mar 02, 2019
This is a bad law
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by pansophist(m): 4:39pm On Mar 02, 2019
Just like western men have stopped marrying their women due to law like this, i foresee the increase of unmarried ladies and men refusing to marry as the laws like these become common place. You cant tell women they are equal to men and create laws that is unfair to men. Be careful what you wish for.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by abbey621(m): 4:47pm On Mar 02, 2019
bigmo1:

But what if she refuses to relocate after selling d house, or d buyer refuses to buy because of occupants. I think u should approach a bank for a loan almost equivalent of d value of the house, default on d loan. The bank will help u evacuate ur wife from the house. Lobatan

That's another good idea!

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Awoo88: 4:48pm On Mar 02, 2019
The man must be a gentleman or an idiot. Even the children are also against him. He should be a jerk
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 4:48pm On Mar 02, 2019
cococandy:


She didn’t have a job? What a mor0n

One kid is a full time job. Multiply that by four and if you had any sense, you will know she worked more than you even did in that marriage. What insolence

With due respect...
I applaud full-time mothers...

But please do not equate the stress full-time mothers go through to that of mothers who juggle both full-time work and mothering....

Your statement above just did that...

Please each stays on her own lane Strictly!!!

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Tedpgrass: 4:52pm On Mar 02, 2019
pansophist:
Just like western men have stopped marrying their women due to law like this, i foresee the increase of unmarried ladies and men refusing to marry as the laws like these become common place. You can tell women they are equal to men and create laws the is unfair. Be careful what you wish for.

Definitely a boomerang effect will or has started to ensue..


The growing numbers of baby mamas is a testament..
No young man with a sizeable bank balance wants to marry..
The chicks that abound are either destiny-destroying karashikas or prototypes in the making, thanks to changing value systems of society and friends..

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:52pm On Mar 02, 2019
uzziwise:
What if its the woman's House? grin

As much as I dislike marriage. This is fair before God and man.

Throwing her out on the streets is inhumane.

Her and the children have also gotten used to a certain lifestyle, so that’s a huge consideration.

Going forward, Nigeria will begin to have tons of similar rulings, and even worse ones.

The best way to avoid splitting assets is to not get married.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by vioment: 4:52pm On Mar 02, 2019
Oyo state is quickly dusting every state in Nigeria in becoming the most progressive state in Nigeria even ahead of Lagos;

I am not a fan of half and half, but if you blow when you dey with your wife or vice versa, when things sour, e good to share am. Fair play.




Oyo is single handedly putting nigeria on the level with progressive countries like ghana, kenya, etc. When Oyo state integrate and master forensics, oyo go just be clear cut america of nigeria.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Daeylar(f): 4:53pm On Mar 02, 2019
5thElement:
I don't particularly like or agree with this part of the judgement...



The husband will take half which is his own share and walk away while the ex-wife will take her share and use it to cater for the kids they both have?

Miscarriage of justice, your honour.


Thank you, very biased judgement.
So the woman isn't a human being herself? Just a caretaker, no, not even a care taker because care takers get paid. Just a slave to take care of the children. She doesn't deserve anything just for herself?

“The uncompleted storey building is ordered to be sold by both parties and the proceeds divided in equal share. The half share shall go to the wife for the maintenance of the children. A divorced wife has no business being maintained,” Justice Abimbola held.


But a divorced man can be maintained. Stupid judge. The mans half goes to the man for himself. The woman's half goes to the children
-as if she impregnated herself and the children are hers and hers alone. Why wasn't the fathers share divided for the kids?

And the judge is trying to pretend that (s/he)is progressive. A situation where there are no kids. That means the woman can just be thrown out and given nothing.

Yet the useless man was shouting gold digging.

I'm tired of Nigeria's misogyny.
marriage to a Nigerian man under Nigeria laws seems to have absolutely no benefit to a Nigerian woman.


Yet somehow.
Nigerian Men think women desperately want to be married to them with all these misogyny everywhere.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by jaxxy(m): 4:56pm On Mar 02, 2019
Seems like a sound judgement cos u can’t throw ur wife and kids out on the street well unless in cases of infidelity on her part maybe.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:57pm On Mar 02, 2019
GraGra247:
If they put resources together to build the house, it should be sold and proceeds divided between the two.

If the man or the woman built the house all alone without spousal support, it will be unjustified to suggest it belongs to the two.

Under this kind of law a woman that decides to have affairs outside her marriage can decide to lay claim to a house the husband built alone and vice versa.


Even if she doesn’t contribute in cash, there are other domestic duties she takes care of that frees up the man to fully pursue his goals.

The problem with these type of rulings is that it rewards bad behavior from wives.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TemmyT002(m): 4:58pm On Mar 02, 2019
Chai
Really?

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:59pm On Mar 02, 2019
Josh44s:
Watch how Afonja women will go on Adultery spree. In fact you just told them HIV now has a cure cheesy

Stay there and be laughing.

Na precedent be this, and other judgements in Nigeria, over time, will mirror it.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by omooba969(m): 4:59pm On Mar 02, 2019
Xisnin:

That won't be a problem.
You can always sign a prenup to dictate possible divorce sharing formula before marriage.
But I guess many people are too blinded by "love" to take that root.

... route. smiley

Back to your comment - The decision to sign a prenuptial before marriage destroys the very fabric/foundation upon which the couple's love is built. Prenuptial, in some cases, erodes the trust between the couple & sets one on the edge.

As cool as pre-nups are, they can be damaging. cool

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:02pm On Mar 02, 2019
Dottore:
What of those that don't have a house

Just chill for that one.

Soon alimony go be catholic.

You’ll be ordered to pay maintenance...and then child support.

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:02pm On Mar 02, 2019
Dottore:
What of those that don't have a house

His money will go to her account
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:04pm On Mar 02, 2019
MobilityExpress:
shocked Mods should delete this thread immediately before Nigerian women see it.

Lol, na Dominique carry this thread come front page. She is a female mod so no deletion cheesy

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:04pm On Mar 02, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
What if the man single handedly built the house

He didn’t “single-handedly” build it if he did during marriage.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by TheKingIsHere: 5:05pm On Mar 02, 2019
orion7:
what of people with 3 wives

Then the man is finished
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by crafteck(m): 5:05pm On Mar 02, 2019
dominique:
I like this rule. Our men have been conning their wives into contributing to develop property acquired in their name only to kick her out when things get sour. It doesn't matter whose name the propety is in, as long as it was acquired while in the marriage, both parties have rights to it.

How many wife's help out financially, how much have you helped your husband or bf with b4?

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Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:06pm On Mar 02, 2019
BuddhaPalm:


He didn’t “single-handedly” build it if he did during marriage.

Thanks.. I get it now smiley
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Nobody: 5:06pm On Mar 02, 2019
GraGra247:
If they put resources together to build the house, it should be sold and proceeds divided between the two.

If the man or the woman built the house all alone without spousal support, it will be unjustified to suggest it belongs to the two.

Under this kind of law a woman that decides to have affairs outside her marriage can decide to lay claim to a house the husband built alone and vice versa.

If she’s caught committing adultery, they will be divorced with the man taking custody of the kids and she loosing everything.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:06pm On Mar 02, 2019
RTSC:
Only a matter of time..

The only thing stopping it is that women don't have enough representation in the national assembly to force such into law..

They don’t even need increased representation. Just more law makers with “good” intentions.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:07pm On Mar 02, 2019
Xisnin:

That won't be a problem.
You can always sign a prenup to dictate possible divorce sharing formula before marriage.
But I guess many people are too blinded by "love" to take that root.

I believe we don’t have prenup laws here.
Re: Divorce Your Wife, Lose Your House To Her - Oyo Court Rules by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 02, 2019
jaxxy:
Seems like a sound judgement cos u can’t throw ur wife and kids out on the street well unless in cases of infidelity on her part maybe.

If she’s caught, the husband takes custody and she looses out completely

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