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lefulefu:
see ehn even if a girl get my mumu button e no go reach a situation wey i go jus start to dey pack everything dey give her at the detriment of myself. If she demand wetin i no fit fulfill i go tell her straightup i no get and if she vex and threaten to leave i will say bye bye and open d door for her. Sugar daddies full town nau.

Samakus:
Hi guys.

I will go straight to the point. Met a girl on industrial training in my place of work. In other words, babe is on I.T in my office. I liked her and I know she likes me too. We got talking, exchanged contacts and all that.

Fast forward to today, we went out on our first date. Before she came, babe politely told me that I will give her T.fare because she just started the IT stuff and didn't have T.fare to come to the date.I found it funny but agreed. Come on, if I could give you food on our date in a eatry, I could still give small thing as tfare. We live in the same city by the way and I calculated her transport fare going and coming, to be #500.

Babe came, we had a good time at my cost and I proceeded to give her #500 as T.fare. Her demeanor changed but she tried to be cool. I noticed everything but feigned ignorance. Getting home, called babe and we talked good. Now, maybe she thinks she's seen maga, she called back and asked if I could sub for her. That her data just got finished. I was like... WTF. I declined instantly and she dropped the call. I regretted not taking her home and bleep the hell out of her after the date as she was in the mood. I was trying to be good guy. Truth is, I liked her and didn't want to create a wrong impression.

Guys, don't date a student if you want something serious. I feel like giving her small thing as bait, get her to visit, chop and take my leave. Cos every feeling I have for her just evaporated. She ain't worth it. Who begs for T.fare on a first date? Naija girls, una Weldon.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Eheeeen? I never knew o. I detest sugar daddies, don't know y

Samakus:
Hi guys.

I will go straight to the point. Met a girl on industrial training in my place of work. In other words, babe is on I.T in my office. I liked her and I know she likes me too. We got talking, exchanged contacts and all that.

Fast forward to today, we went out on our first date. Before she came, babe politely told me that I will give her T.fare because she just started the IT stuff and didn't have T.fare to come to the date.I found it funny but agreed. Come on, if I could give you food on our date in a eatry, I could still give small thing as tfare. We live in the same city by the way and I calculated her transport fare going and coming, to be #500.

Babe came, we had a good time at my cost and I proceeded to give her #500 as T.fare. Her demeanor changed but she tried to be cool. I noticed everything but feigned ignorance. Getting home, called babe and we talked good. Now, maybe she thinks she's seen maga, she called back and asked if I could sub for her. That her data just got finished. I was like... WTF. I declined instantly and she dropped the call. I regretted not taking her home and bleep the hell out of her after the date as she was in the mood. I was trying to be good guy. Truth is, I liked her and didn't want to create a wrong impression.

Guys, don't date a student if you want something serious. I feel like giving her small thing as bait, get her to visit, chop and take my leave. Cos every feeling I have for her just evaporated. She ain't worth it. Who begs for T.fare on a first date? Naija girls, una Weldon.

PrimadonnaO:
I just don't understand the lot of you guys...

I regretted not taking her home and bleep the hell out of her after the date

OP, are you a rapist? Because I don't understand the confidence with which you can make a statement like that. Even if she had gone with you to the house, why do you think she'd have slept with you? Some of you guys be forming badass online, when in reality you're just an efulefu!

And btw, 500 naira was your problem? Didn't she specifically tell you she didn't have the money? So, why you here saying she asked for tfare on a first date? If you had any sense, the minute she said you'd have to pay for such a meagre fare, you should have known the girl's something else and cancelled the date entirely, but you carried on...because you want to make a thread of it on NL.

What about her request for sub...?? You jumped that part abi

blissgregory:
wat a gud dead advice...baba pls dnt generalize it...did u conduct a reasearch bfor u draw conclusion??

Mimienudles:
Really
No guy should keep a student as a serious date?
That's unfair na

Samakus:
Oh I see! You're student too. Anyways, I'm not generalizing. Just drew inference from small sample. You might be different or worse. But you certainly look finer than her. Lol

Samakus:
No offense meant. It hasn't worked for me. Have heard tales from other guys too. Hence my advice.

lefulefu:
sugar daddies are financially caring nau.

Samakus:
No offense meant. It hasn't worked for me. Have heard tales from other guys too. Hence my advice.

tunize:
i didn't see any...!!
i don't really understand nairaland much.
how are you today?
can we chat up on whatapp.

blissgregory:
so,wat was ur sample size??it would be beta if it is a pictoral representation of ur sample size...'BLUSHED'

Mimienudles:
Was an IT student for 6months with no stipends, I spent 300(just Tp) everyday. Of course, I had senior colleagues who could gladly pay my tfer but I never accepted. Not because I had too much but because I had what to spend.

Some girls ain't trying.
Remember staying late to work on a mail for my mini boss, after all, he offered me 200 for tfer and I declined. I was like, if I have more than this, why should I collect it, I simply told I already had mine. He smiled and asked I buy airtime, I still said no. I don't know if he was disappointed but sure know I made it clear that sometimes, money can't solve that problem.

Another was when I boarded a taxi to take me to a block I was headed, had paid my 50 when a staff said I should take my money back so he could pay and I was like what's the point
It wasn't and isn't pride

Samakus:
Lol. Leave matter. Many girls no dey try. You guys need to change that mindset that any guy that comes close to you is already owing you money.

Meanwhile you can blush. It's night. It's the best time to blush.

Samakus:
Lol. Leave matter. Many girls no dey try. You guys need to change that mindset that any guy that comes close to you is already owing you money.

Meanwhile you can blush. It's night. It's the best time to blush.

lovelybugs:
Check your Email. I replied you there.

Samakus:
You sound different. Hope you're not just saying what we need to hear

prettysassygirl:
Stingy man

Samakus:
You sound different. Hope you're not just saying what we need to hear

blissgregory:
kikiii...Lmoa...is it ur own blushing??leave me mbok

blissgregory:
kikiii...Lmoa..leave me mbok.Tank God u said guys .Men dat will do it witout complaining will still do it .so,ur preaching is deafening to dem.But anyway, 2cents to ur post n kudos.

Mimienudles:
Really
No guy should keep a student as a serious date?
That's unfair na

It's true sha... Many say it based on experience

Samakus:
Hi guys.

I will go straight to the point. Met a girl on industrial training in my place of work. In other words, babe is on I.T in my office. I liked her and I know she likes me too. We got talking, exchanged contacts and all that.

Fast forward to today, we went out on our first date. Before she came, babe politely told me that I will give her T.fare because she just started the IT stuff and didn't have T.fare to come to the date.I found it funny but agreed. Come on, if I could give you food on our date in a eatry, I could still give small thing as tfare. We live in the same city by the way and I calculated her transport fare going and coming, to be #500.

Babe came, we had a good time at my cost and I proceeded to give her #500 as T.fare. Her demeanor changed but she tried to be cool. I noticed everything but feigned ignorance. Getting home, called babe and we talked good. Now, maybe she thinks she's seen maga, she called back and asked if I could sub for her. That her data just got finished. I was like... WTF. I declined instantly and she dropped the call. I regretted not taking her home and bleep the hell out of her after the date as she was in the mood. I was trying to be good guy. Truth is, I liked her and didn't want to create a wrong impression.

Guys, don't date a student if you want something serious. I feel like giving her small thing as bait, get her to visit, chop and take my leave. Cos every feeling I have for her just evaporated. She ain't worth it. Who begs for T.fare on a first date? Naija girls, una Weldon.

DanDeeBoss:
It's true sha... Many say it based on experience

Mimienudles:
Experience from just one person, not all

True!!! But you know it'll take courage for a guy who read Op's post to try exactly what he did....

Samakus:
Is it lmoa or lmao? Just asking for my neighbour. Lol.

Na joke o. Before you scatter me like tiger

Samakus:
Let them go ahead na. Atleast you could see from the comments that guys don dey wise up. It won't be for long and those leeches will only have sugar daddies to resort to.

I'm gone

blissgregory:
no dnt go,cum n debunk.Am waiting here for uu

Samakus:
Cum?
Nwa Akwa Ibom ayaya! Lol

blissgregory:
Are u frm Akwa Ibom??