victorian:








If I meet such guy and he stays in a miniflat , he has a job . I will tell him we can date for 6months , see how compatible we are , then afterwards head for court marriage , and forestall having kids. At least with 15k or thereabout one is married . Then we can be planning our finances and life gradually together .
And during the 6months , he won't be fucvking me like his life depends on it o! No way , I won't allow such . if he wants sex that badly , every second every day? Then put a ring on it and marry me properly .

That's if he truly does not want to miss me but if he's squatting with friends Biko I Don Japa! If he likes , let him look like Enrique the Spanish musician ! I ain't staying no shit!

I no get body wey man go use enjoy for years , without him doing the needful . heavens forbid. That's why am this fresh . No man will suck all my vitamins and proteins dry and dump me because of love . abeggi!
A guy wanted to try that shit with me , I bounce him off !

I'm not gullible !

Well you are matured and have some experience already. Not all ladies will take this your path though. So you are saying if a guy comes to you now and give you a duration of two years before marriage..that he needs to know you better and see if things will work,you wont agree

bdchange:

I didn't imply not responding to her but insulting her is what am against. See sometimes we see comments that are insane or abusive but then you just ignore it and move on, or better you can correct the person without insult. You will get married someday and I believe you won't be nagging with your wife she she decides to nag because you offended her.Some of these ladies have faced alot in the hands of guys all because they want to be faithful. So when they now see a guy trying to paint all ladies bad or who***ressss, it pains them and make them flare up to such guys and ready to insult them at any given opportunity.

and in what world is the statement "go kill yourself an insult?"

bdchange:

Well you are matured and have some experience already. Not all ladies will take this your path though. So you are saying if a guy comes to you now and give you a duration of two years before marriage..that he needs to know you better and see if things will work,you wont agree

With all seriousness I will not agree .

I'm in my 30s for God sakes . but that does not mean I can marry any man and at the same time , that doesnt mean I can wait for two years for a man I like .
Have done such waiting but not as long as 9years o! when I was younger and it only led to heartbreak ( back then 2years )

I can't go through such waiting anymore ,nah! I can't . I rather keep my pussy intact and safe than allowing love to distabilize it . Its better when a serious man whom i feel we can make it work and he feels how tight my pussy is. He will be very happy and ready to marry sharp sharp . Then we can keep knowing ourselves more through marriage . I can't wait two years . I rather be single two years and wait patiently .

victorian:










With all seriousness I will not agree .

I'm in my 30s for God sakes . but that does not mean I can marry any man and at the same time , that doesnt mean I can wait for two years for a man I like .
Have done such waiting but not as long as 9years o! when I was younger and it only led to heartbreak ( back then 2years )

I can't go through such waiting anymore ,nah! I can't . I rather keep my pussy intact and safe than allowing love to distabilize it . Its better when a serious man whom i feel we can make it work and he feels how tight my pussy is. He will be very happy and ready to marry sharp sharp . Then we can keep knowing ourselves more through marriage . I can't wait two years . I rather be single two years and wait patiently .

a woman in her 30s is like a man in his 60s... dangerously behind time.

Hey hurry it up already. Get married forgosake

victorian:










With all seriousness I will not agree .

I'm in my 30s for God sakes . but that does not mean I can marry any man and at the same time , that doesnt mean I can wait for two years for a man I like .
Have done such waiting but not as long as 9years o! when I was younger and it only led to heartbreak ( back then 2years )

I can't go through such waiting anymore ,nah! I can't . I rather keep my pussy intact and safe than allowing love to distabilize it . Its better when a serious man whom i feel we can make it work and he feels how tight my pussy is. He will be very happy and ready to marry sharp sharp . Then we can keep knowing ourselves more through marriage . I can't wait two years . I rather be single two years and wait patiently .

Yen yen yen!!

sacramento1212:




Really? Ma'am Vicky, picture of the freshness not the doctored picture you have on your profile.

And what is there left to be sucked. Protein and vitamin what?? Joke of a woman

Which doctored pic? I even look better in real life .

So don't get it twisted . my body is not for taste and move on.

Lemme not just talk.. But a guy proposed to me yesterday and want court !marriage sharp sharp around the mainland. He stays in a four bedroom flat and his aged mum lives with him. But I told him I will think about it . he's not really my kind of guy . but I will give it a thought . he has been on my case for a year! So don't even start. I have groomed myself well !

The man am dating is not ready yet and I'm just looking at him with one corner eye. Lol

ubunja:
and in what world is the statement "go kill yourself an insult?"

if you use such words for me..I might not respond to it as insult. But someone else might see that as an insult and the reply you will get will look as if you throw an hammer on the person's head. Let's learn to be cautious with our words.

bdchange:

if you use such words for me..I might not respond to it as insult. But someone else might see that as an insult and the reply you will get will look as if you throw an hammer on the person's head. Let's learn to be cautious with our words.

so you agree you don't view it as an insult.

How about you now then respond to Saffi on my behalf and tell her to guard her words?

Preshy561:

Yen yen yen!!

When will this jealous thing get off my case

Sighs !

victorian:










Which doctored pic? I even look better in real life .

So don't get it twisted . my body is not for taste and move on.

Lemme not just talk.. But a guy proposed to me yesterday and want court !marriage sharp sharp around the mainland. He stays in a four bedroom flat and his aged mum lives with him. But I told him I will think about it . he's not really my kind of guy . but I will give it a thought . he has been on my case for a year! So don't even start. I have groomed myself well !

The man am dating is not ready yet and I'm just looking at him with one corner eye. Lol

vicky vicky vickies

If you sure say that man propose true true, kuku ma collect ring sharp sharp oooo.

Forget matter of 4 bedroom flat or duplex because that shouldn't be a criteria for you at this time. I even forgot sef, shey you are a princess na so it's a welcome development.

But the question now is, after the man do everything finish,will he be allowed to taste all the vitamins anytime he wants it?

ubunja:
so you agree you don't view it as an insult.

How about you now then respond to Saffi on my behalf and tell her to guard her words?

hmmm I can see you are ready to make peace with Saffi, I wish she was here now to see this. But seriously you might like her if you get to meet her physically instead of this on-line shiit we got ourselves into. Most times what we appear here is not what defines us out there. Some people cannot just cope with negative comments on social media platforms.

sacramento1212:


vicky vicky vickies

If you sure say that man propose true true, kuku ma collect ring sharp sharp oooo.

Forget matter of 4 bedroom flat or duplex because that shouldn't be a criteria for you at this time. I even forgot sef, shey you are a princess na so it's a welcome development.

But the question now is, after the man do everything finish,will he be allowed to taste all the vitamins anytime he wants it?

Well I like her view on marriage as long as she plays her own part well and knows what she is doing...then am okay by that.

sacramento1212:


vicky vicky vickies

If you sure say that man propose true true, kuku ma collect ring sharp sharp oooo.

Forget matter of 4 bedroom flat or duplex because that shouldn't be a criteria for you at this time. I even forgot sef, shey you are a princess na so it's a welcome development.

But the question now is, after the man do everything finish,will he be allowed to taste all the vitamins anytime he wants it?

No be by collecting ring sharp sharp, I want my marriage to last biko!
I don't really fancy him , I had terrible migraine thinking about his proposal all through last night and I was so sad .sighs

But nah I will think about it very well first !

Comfort is a criteria to me at this time o! Abeg! Its not like I need a millionaire but the guy must , I mean must be comfortable . Starting from a flat , to maybe duplex . I cant come and suffer and wither during marriage at this age . God forbid!
Looking a shadow of my self , later its people like you that will be saying , why my hubby no younger lady , see as I don old just how many years of marriage . abeg!

I don't need it . I'm serious .


When we are done with court marriage , and am settled in his home , he has free Acess any time any day to my vitamins and proteins . is his rights afterwards .

bdchange:

hmmm I can see you are ready to make peace with Saffi, I wish she was here now to see this. But seriously you might like her if you get to meet her physically instead of this on-line shiit we got ourselves into. Most times what we appear here is not what defines us out there. Some people cannot just cope with negative comments on social media platforms.

It appears mentally you are unsound.

victorian:







No be by collecting ring sharp sharp, I want my marriage to last biko!
I don't really fancy him , I had terrible migraine thinking about his proposal all through last night and I was so sad .sighs

But nah I will think about it very well first !

Comfort is a criteria to me at this time o! Abeg! Its not like I need a millionaire but the guy must , I mean must be comfortable . Starting from a flat , to maybe duplex . I can come and suffer and wither during marriage at this age . God forbid!
Looking a shadow of my self , later its people like you that will be saying , why my hubby no younger lady , see as I don old just how many years of marriage . abeg!

I don't need it . I'm serious .


When we are done with court marriage , and am settled in his home , he has free Acess any time any day to my vitamins and proteins . is his rights afterwards .

you are so funny

bdchange:

Well I like her view on marriage as long as she plays her own part well and knows what she is doing...then am okay by that.

Thanks

That's it.

ubunja:

It appears mentally you are unsound.

what is the abuse all about na? I thought we are making progress already..then this one..pls explain what I have done wrong, let me correct myself

victorian:







No be by collecting ring sharp sharp, I want my marriage to last biko!
I don't really fancy him , I had terrible migraine thinking about his proposal all through last night and I was so sad .sighs

But nah I will think about it very well first !

Comfort is a criteria to me at this time o! Abeg! Its not like I need a millionaire but the guy must , I mean must be comfortable . Starting from a flat , to maybe duplex . I can come and suffer and wither during marriage at this age . God forbid!
Looking a shadow of my self , later its people like you that will be saying , why my hubby no younger lady , see as I don old just how many years of marriage . abeg!

I don't need it . I'm serious .


When we are done with court marriage , and am settled in his home , he has free Acess any time any day to my vitamins and proteins . is his rights afterwards .

Vickies, okay oooo. No wahala then.

I also hope at the emboldened won't change ooo. No be say wen the man wan quench burning fire, you go say him don too collect ur vitamins

bdchange:

you are so funny

yes o!

bdchange:

Well I like her view on marriage as long as she plays her own part well and knows what she is doing...then am okay by that.

Okay ooo

bdchange:

what is the abuse all about na? I thought we are making progress already..then this one..pls explain what I have done wrong, let me correct myself

you agreed with me that I did not insult Saffi.
Then I ask you to caution her on my behalf and you go off the rails. Did you hear me say I want her friendship?

Warn Saffi or zip it. Stop white knighting.

sacramento1212:


Vickies, okay oooo. No wahala then.

I also hope at the emboldened won't change ooo. No be say wen the man wan quench burning fire, you go say him don too collect ur vitamins

Nope I won't .

I must fufil my wifely duties. Its my duty .
Orelse another woman will do it for me and thats where cracks in marriages starts from .

AntiBrutus:


Oga, use your upper. "Useless" is an adjective...

Unlike guys that say girls love bad guys, I do not think girls just love bad guys. I believe girls stay with bad guys for several reasons, one being fix-him-mentality.

Ubunja, always read and comprehend before quoting. It will save us all your trouble.

Please mind the use of language with him..atleast you can see all he has posted so far just to show that he wasn't insulting you deliberately. Both of you should learn to accept each other's opinion without insult.That is the only way civility will thrive in our society. A friend defines it as "minding your business and seeing how minding your business does not affect other person's business"...this will create a better world for everyone to live in.

victorian:










Nope I won't .

I must fufil my wifely duties. Its my duty .
Orelse another woman will do it for me and thats where cracks in marriages starts from .

Splendid, Good luck to you ma'am

sacramento1212:


Splendid, Good luck to you ma'am

Thanks dear .

bdchange:

Please mind the use of language with him..atleast you can see all he has posted so far just to show that he wasn't insulting you deliberately. Both of you should learn to accept each other's opinion without insult.That is the only way civility will thrive in our society. A friend defines it as "minding your business and seeing how minding your business does not affect other person's business"...this will create a better world for everyone to live in.

someone please take the phone from this kid.
He's gonna hurt himself.

ubunja:
someone please take the phone from this kid.
He's gonna hurt himself.

aaahahahhaa

bdchange:

aaahahahhaa

didn't pocohantas tell you to stop fighting on her behalf?

bdchange:
Let me make it brief..I have a room mate who is married now. Before his marriage, he dated this lady for almost 9yrs. I met them and it was like love is really a beautiful thing. The girl stays with her brother. She comes around and cook, wash and do all sort just for the relationship to keep going fine. She is not the social type, don't have many friends and always glue to her work. In fact what a man wants as wife(atleast to my own understanding). Now the guy who is my friend is a regular good guy. I won't tag him a womanizer but can't keep his di**k to his pant in some instance. So he cheated on this girl and the girl finds out. She got angry and my friend pleaded and was forgiven. He repeated same while I knew. I called him and asked why he keeps cheating on a girl like this. He said not all guys can hold themselves like me, that it is not easy. I advised him to try to stop so it won't break the relationship since he wants to marry the girl. he couldn't, so he continued flirting codedly. The truth is if the girl happens to be my sis, I would have advice her to move on, but you know the guys code na(though I feel guilty till now). Let's I forget, she caught him again and again but she couldn't let go. The one that broke the camel's back is when he tries to date one of her colleague, then all hell was let loose that the whole family had to come in between them to try to settle the issues. By now she was staying with us because she had issues with the brother she was staying with. I watched as she cried her eyes out and I felt pity for her. The truth is both have invested alot into the relationship...yet it is coming to ruin in just a few minutes. The lady finally moved out to stay with her friend. At this period my friend met a lady in his church and before you know it , they started dating and whooop!!! they are married now within a year..She is out there now, not yet married after 9 years in the relationship....Yet a guy will see her tomorrow and call her all sort of names..never minding her story...what a society for the feminine..I still chat with her once in a while. Please ladies define your relationship and set time for him..if he is not ready, please find your way before it is too late .. Thanks

I kinda love that she suffered you know. But he shouldn't have married, marriage is disgusting.
Women are not worth having a man. And he is a big idiot for always sleeping with women, he was sleeping with poo. Why can't men just live their lives without women in it.

ubunja:
didn't pocohantas tell you to stop fighting on her behalf?

I think you are not getting my points. I am not defending her rather putting you on high regard when it comes to both of you insulting each other. Firstly I will approach you any day any time and speak with you to not insult her or let her be even if she choose to insult you. I will just advice you to ignore her. Ofcos you are a man and would put a woman like her at home one day..how do you cope with her if she starts giving you attitude?? I have learnt to deal with women in a more matured ways, and one of it is ignore them if they want to start making trouble with you.

bdchange:

I think you are not getting my points. I am not defending her rather putting you on high regard when it comes to both of you insulting each other. Firstly I will approach you any day any time and speak with you to not insult her or let her be even if she choose to insult you. I will just advice you to ignore her. Ofcos you are a man and would put a woman like her at home one day..how do you cope with her if she starts giving you attitude?? I have learnt to deal with women in a more matured ways, and one of it is ignore them if they want to start making trouble with you.

stop this thing you're doing
Just stop it.

Lightangel65:


I kinda love that she suffered you know. But he shouldn't have married, marriage is disgusting.
Women are not worth having a man. And he is a big idiot for always sleeping with women, he was sleeping with poo. Why can't men just live their lives without women in it.

I think paul answered your question in Corinthians and also advise those of us that cannot hold ourselves to get a wife so we can flee fornication.