Quinolone:


Direct Approach guide

in my earlier post, i told ya'll that an essential skill you need is to become a good conversationalist, don't worry, it's easy to learn

say you see a se.xy fine girl walking on the road or in school, or the mall, wherever, and who doesn't display all the signs that she doesn't want to be approached ( refer to my previous post to see it, from now on lets call it closed off sign)

or even if she displays them and you still want to approach to test the waters here are things you need to do


1 immediately show her that you are not a threat, you know it, i know it, but she doesn't know it (if you are going to be a threat then this is not for you please, i don't condone voilence against women)



how do you show her you are not a threat

A- Don't come one too hard to her - approach from the side and not the front nor the back, approaching from the front or back raises her defences

B- Have a non threatening body language - A genuine smile, smiling eyes, your palms facing your front and a relaxed body language

C- When she sees you, you need to answer these four questions before she even asks you -
who are you?
what do you want?
Are you a threat?
How long will this take ?

if you can find an opener that states all these in one line, then you are golden, for example " Hi, i'm quinolone, i just need 30 seconds of your time, i saw you walking and i thought you looked cute , and thought to say hello" say all this in one line slowly, don't rush it or it seems rehearsed and she'll think you are not confident

Remember, you answer the question of "are you a threat?" with your body language



D - most times she smiles, but when she doesn't do not despair, she might be really shy, just start a normal convo, while calibrating her comfort levels. if she seems really uncomfortable, let her go

this is extremely easy if you are in a school environment because so much to talk about, ask her her name, where she's going, her department bla bla. This is where your conversational skills come in, even if its non existent, you could just talk for one minute and ask for her number

E - How to ask for the number - "I won't like to keep you any longer you must have somewhere to be, listen, i will like to see you someother time, let me get your number"

Note i didn't say, "can i have your number?" Because it gives her chance to say no, Just assume, assumption is key, assume that she wants to see you again. remember my earlier post where i told you to treat her like an old friend.

i will post more how to become a better conversationist as time goes on, tune in and follow



quinolone

pkang:


Your write up and reply shows how calm u r..

Now dis is my problem.
1. i feel to nervous around women……
2. i cant just look girls in their eyes emotions will trigger
3. i dont know how to converse with girls be it my friend or neighbours or sisters.
4. my hrt skips whenever i decide to call a girl n my voice shrinks n girl wont hear me well.

mymoneygrows:

I like guys like you. They don't rush you at all.

nestic:

hanty!! E for no bad say d both of una run things na

Quinolone:


Ah You've even mastered the tricky part congrats taking things to the next level is extremely easy

1 The aim in any seductive process is to get her talking, and I mean talking, whether you take her out or not is immaterial,( do not think because you took her out she would like you, no, she would like you because of how you make her feel ). the main thing is for you not to confess any feelings whatsoever. Talk about the things she's interested in, be genuinely interested in what she's saying and ask questions which would make her open up more

Its easier if you are genuinely interested because you ask thought full questions and she knows

What's the aim of getting her to talk
We feel a bond with people who genuinely listen to us, even us men, the more she reveals about herself, the more she falls for you, in her mind she would say that If you guys didnt have a connection, she won't have told you all this,not knowing that she only said all these because someone was genuinely interested. Trust me, most guys don't know how to listen, they would interrupt to say a half baked joke or talk about themselves.

See in the beginning, unless she already finds you attractive she doesn't care about you. So resist the temptation to talk about yourself extensively, if she asks keep it short and sweet then divert back to her, you can occasionally throw in a thing or two about yourself so the convo doesnt seem like an interrogation

2: Very soon you'd realize that she tells you everything that happens in her life, you own her at this point but you still have to be careful not to mistep, because you would enter The friendzone. This is the point where you begin to man sexual remarks, make sexual jokes, talk about her body, how sexy it is, her sexy lips. begin to call her 'my baby' e.t c. Make this light hearted and not serious, you are planting seeds in her mind, and these seeds will grow, she will be very receptive to these sexual statements at this point

3: begin to ignore her, now that shes already addicted to you, you can stop chatting her up often, and trust me, she will be the one to chat you up most of the time.
Mix periods where you give her so much attention to when you can't even give her time of the day, now she is working for your attention

4: She's Ripe for the picking when

a: She's very interested In your life, remember you've been a mystery up until this point, now she wants to know because she's fallen

b: shes angry or jealous cos you don't give her as much attention as before

c: She begins to ask about your love life


quinolone

mymoneygrows:

Hahaha

Anagha123:

So what is the solution at COOL10.
I really need advice on what to do. Quinolone

Quinolone:
The Fine art of Indirect Game.
What is indirect game? - Indirect game is the most powerful method of seduction which anybody can master.


Now let's get some things straight before we go on :

1: You don't need to be conventional good-looking to get women, you can be short, overweight, bald, and this would still be very effective for you

2: Women are emotional beings, unlike men who are very visual and logical, Women are highly emotional and work based on emotions they are feeling at the moment

3: You do not need to be rich or wealthy to get women although it helps, it is not required. However you need to be self sufficient


Okay let's go on

This is by no means an exhaustive guide, I plan to go much deeper during the coming days, But this will get you started

This works on even long time friends who you previously had no hope with

1: Get her talking : Seduction is a game and like any game, strategy is necessary, Fact - The more she tells you about herself, the more she falls for you. When she talks, Listen. This works both with online chat and in real life.

In real life. A) Use deep eye contact ( this is a whole other topic on its own) - eye contact has a way of emotionally connecting you to someone, I can tell you with all my heart that if you learn how to use eye contact well, you are made!

B) Use active listening - Don't ever be a passive listener(listening halfheartedly), it makes others resent you as they think you don't take them seriously. Active listening involves eye contact,head nodding, smiling or frowning when necessary.
Let me tell you a little secret, everyone just wants to be heard, when you practice active listening, people will love you for it regardless of the Gender

Online Chat Making a woman open up via online chat involves using the Why, Where and When questions (note this works in real life too)

For example - She - I moved to calabar when I was 5
You - Why did you move?

this makes her open up.more and more and more, use the questions as when necessary, you can't use Where in this case because it would be ridiculous lol


2 Never let your intentions be known until its too late for her to resist you -
This is a game, and you can't show your hand too soon, if you do, she knows what you want and you instantly enter the chase mood which isn't indirect game anymore


3: Mix interest with disinterest - Dont be needy and talk to her all the time, you need to have something going on in your life, even if you don't, still don't talk to her all the time
Fact- She takes you for granted if you are always available

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like I said. before, this is not going to be an exhaustive guide, if you want me to go on, let me know

I have used these same techniques to get so many girls to fall for me that's its ridiculous, and I'm not handsome or conventionally good looking lol

I used to be very bad, and I mean bad with girls, but i decided to take matters into my own hands and decided to read on human psychology, I read literally 100s of books, some were trash, while I found some gold, And thats part of what I'm sharing with you

Peace

Quinolone:


Ah You've even mastered the tricky part congrats taking things to the next level is extremely easy

1 The aim in any seductive process is to get her talking, and I mean talking, whether you take her out or not is immaterial,( do not think because you took her out she would like you, no, she would like you because of how you make her feel ). the main thing is for you not to confess any feelings whatsoever. Talk about the things she's interested in, be genuinely interested in what she's saying and ask questions which would make her open up more

Its easier if you are genuinely interested because you ask thought full questions and she knows

What's the aim of getting her to talk
We feel a bond with people who genuinely listen to us, even us men, the more she reveals about herself, the more she falls for you, in her mind she would say that If you guys didnt have a connection, she won't have told you all this,not knowing that she only said all these because someone was genuinely interested. Trust me, most guys don't know how to listen, they would interrupt to say a half baked joke or talk about themselves.

See in the beginning, unless she already finds you attractive she doesn't care about you. So resist the temptation to talk about yourself extensively, if she asks keep it short and sweet then divert back to her, you can occasionally throw in a thing or two about yourself so the convo doesnt seem like an interrogation

2: Very soon you'd realize that she tells you everything that happens in her life, you own her at this point but you still have to be careful not to mistep, because you would enter The friendzone. This is the point where you begin to man sexual remarks, make sexual jokes, talk about her body, how sexy it is, her sexy lips. begin to call her 'my baby' e.t c. Make this light hearted and not serious, you are planting seeds in her mind, and these seeds will grow, she will be very receptive to these sexual statements at this point

3: begin to ignore her, now that shes already addicted to you, you can stop chatting her up often, and trust me, she will be the one to chat you up most of the time.
Mix periods where you give her so much attention to when you can't even give her time of the day, now she is working for your attention

4: She's Ripe for the picking when

a: She's very interested In your life, remember you've been a mystery up until this point, now she wants to know because she's fallen

b: shes angry or jealous cos you don't give her as much attention as before

c: She begins to ask about your love life


quinolone

mymoneygrows:


I like guys like you. They don't rush you at all.

nestic:

bro nice piece i just learnt alot from this!
uhm i'm comfused right now cus i just met a girl recently, and we've been talking... She sounds very free and happy anytime we talk and i think she likes me buh i'm confuse cus we just met recently, should i go straight with the chase or wait for some time? And since we met we've talked almost every day, how should i go about it

Quinolone:


You are welcome, Any questions are welcome, I'm tired of seeing guys blow it over and over again with women

gerizzim:
Der is no straight formular to win a gal over . She is not a trophy dat u will bcom or stat acting robotic in her presence because u want her to like you. Dat is d very stat of ur failure wen u act fake. Just kip it real. Let d real you flow out wen u are with are.
U wen be gentleman, no go dey form hardman infront of her because u wan impress d small gal. And if ur a hardguy,good luck if she go end up falling for you.

A gal will agree to date you because she is seeing d real you nd not a pseudo-personality u wan put up. personality attracts but character retains.

Themhi1:


Hmmmm

We are together...

In addition to that!
My own is that when ever am not online she will call me so that we can chat!!
She also asks alot of question about my crush and besides, she's single!!

What should I do??
Quinolone
COOL10

pkang:




What do you mean dear.
That guys like me are used as emotional backup?
That you can leave for decades and come back to reunite with me and I will be waiting till you come back?

Themhi1:


Hmmmm

We are together...

In addition to that!
My own is that when ever am not online she will call me so that we can chat!!
She also asks alot of question about my crush and besides, she's single!!

What should I do??
Quinolone
COOL10

Kodext:
Where Is This Guy Quinolone?
I have a question

Quinolone:


Shoot

Quinolone:


She calls you when you are not online to come and chat
She asks a lot of questions about your crush
She claims she is single

Okay all signs point that she really digs you, but women are confused and if you verbally confirm that you like her, she will most likely back off.

Do not ask her out

1 Start making the chat more sexual, she will be very receptive.

2 Do not verbally agree that you like her, if she asks, be very vague, do not be tempted

3 Instead show signs of interest like giving her attention, but not too much, refer to my previous posts on how to do this

4 Kiss her when you are with her after gauging her comfort levels, begin by touching her on her shoulders to see her reaction, then hands, then thighs, if she resists at any point, know that that's your checkpoint, and continue when she's more comfortable....



Quinolone

Quinolone:


She calls you when you are not online to come and chat
She asks a lot of questions about your crush
She claims she is single

Okay all signs point that she really digs you, but women are confused and if you verbally confirm that you like her, she will most likely back off.

Do not ask her out

1 Start making the chat more sexual, she will be very receptive.

2 Do not verbally agree that you like her, if she asks, be very vague, do not be tempted

3 Instead show signs of interest like giving her attention, but not too much, refer to my previous posts on how to do this

4 Kiss her when you are with her after gauging her comfort levels, begin by touching her on her shoulders to see her reaction, then hands, then thighs, if she resists at any point, know that that's your checkpoint, and continue when she's more comfortable....



But bro is there any other way I can ask her about her feelings than all those sexual stuffs!



Quinolone

Quinolone:


She calls you when you are not online to come and chat
She asks a lot of questions about your crush
She claims she is single

Okay all signs point that she really digs you, but women are confused and if you verbally confirm that you like her, she will most likely back off.

Do not ask her out

1 Start making the chat more sexual, she will be very receptive.

2 Do not verbally agree that you like her, if she asks, be very vague, do not be tempted

3 Instead show signs of interest like giving her attention, but not too much, refer to my previous posts on how to do this

4 Kiss her when you are with her after gauging her comfort levels, begin by touching her on her shoulders to see her reaction, then hands, then thighs, if she resists at any point, know that that's your checkpoint, and continue when she's more comfortable....



But bro is there any other way I can ask her about her feelings than all those sexual stuffs!



Quinolone