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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by olufemi7onifade: 9:45am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Amberon11: Only God can Judge. |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Lexicon123: 9:48am On Mar 12, 2019 |
ianq: Lolll. Though one can hardly vouch for another, but as much as I know, he's one hell of a faithful guy. But I'll let him know as advised |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Amberon11:I'll keep strong next time. Thx 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 9:49am On Mar 12, 2019 |
libertyfather:Marriage is not a scam bro... The fear of marrying a monster is what scares the hell out of every man Once tolerance, respect and understanding are missing in a relationship/marriage, forget it.. Love can't save it |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by YoungBlackRico(m): 10:03am On Mar 12, 2019 |
dmgr:My fears too, I just freaking hate infidelity in any form. |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by oobinna: 10:06am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321: |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by EmpressT(f): 10:07am On Mar 12, 2019 |
ujluv:You're welcome |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by 1xgg: 10:22am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 10:33am On Mar 12, 2019 |
nymphomaniac: Sorry to ask, was she a nymph cos I'm trying to understand why that moniker..... |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by TrumXray(m): 10:46am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Olulinks(m): 10:52am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 10:59am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Offpoint1:May millions fall on you bra Caring for your mother or a lady you love, providing her with money, material things and more importantly spending on your kids is the happiest things any man can witness in his lifetime, pray to have so u won't bother to spend on people u love. Anytime I send money to my mom even when she doesn't ask, I feel so excited when she calls on phone to gist me lots of things happening around, her fellow women, Church issues, and other frivolities, makes me feel so achieved. I can't wait to do same for my kids and their good mom to be 9 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 11:03am On Mar 12, 2019 |
1xgg:Pls don't scare me, this aspect scares the hell out of me. I can forgive my wife anything she does against me, but the two things I can never forgive her are: 1.) Attempt to take my life away 2.) Cheating (I will never forgive no matter what, that will be the end of the road ) I really don't pray to be in your dad's shoe because I will kill somebody alive, which I really don't pray for God I am begging you please don't let me marry a cheating woman that will cheat on me, instead find ways to cancel the wedding before it takes place oh Lord I pray |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Offpoint1: 11:19am On Mar 12, 2019 |
franchasng:Mom and wife are two different entity. |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 11:20am On Mar 12, 2019 |
franchasng: there are men out there going through hell out there in marriage And I feel so sorry for them 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 11:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Ugosample:na wa oh |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by iswallker(m): 11:28am On Mar 12, 2019 |
its a nightmare right now... |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 11:29am On Mar 12, 2019 |
franchasng: A town's man of mine is facing HELL It's this issue of male child wahala. he is fine wirt the girls he has (5 btw) But the woman want boy by fire by force (hence the reason why they have 5 in the firsr place From one palava to the other She hates the last born so much and maltreats her And the wahala goes on and on Good man people are looking for, this one is rubbishing is it at his age now that he will now start looking to start another family?.?? So sad men shine una eyes Big ass /Small ass, all na ass and e dey sweet well well, only of you can use the instrument so no use because you dey find big ass /heavy duty, you land yourself n'ime nsogbu I am talking specifically to the nwafors out there (we know ourselves) 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 11:55am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Ugosample:lolz life is funny |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Ugosample(m): 11:57am On Mar 12, 2019 |
franchasng:when you are in the situation It's not funny But as Igbos will say ihe ojoo na-ato ochi |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 12:08pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
Ugosample:yeah, you are right |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by djon78(m): 12:30pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
franchasng: The solution is not too much scrutiny. If you screen too much, you go carry suegbe enter house. In fact, from deep understanding, most of the women we tag as bad girls end up making good wives. Why do you think that most men that had bad marriages always say that when they married there wives, they looked good not knowing that it was all a camouflage. The wisdom here is don't scrutinize too much. Be prayerful, and look for any sign God is using to warn you about the person because God always gives us a sign of danger ahead but we don't listen or pay attention. And for you as a man, make sure you are good to your woman, although not being a Sissy. Be good, nice, make sure you take good care of the woman in your life. Once you are good to a woman, you will reap it back. And forget stories you read, there are still a lot of good, well raised women out there, let God lead you rightly. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by franchasng: 2:53pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
djon78:You spoke well, its well 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Tunagee(m): 4:25pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
Elvisu: I hope u are not a lady? |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by nymphomaniac(m): 4:29pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:it's a long story as to hw I came to bear my monicker. If u want to hear it, send me a PM. |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by hayzed1090: 9:54pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
Amberon11: Chai.. U are very intelligent 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by hayzed1090: 11:03pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: She will always be a virgin in d sight of her husband . Yes character is very important , in fact if not the most important attribute to look out for , however virginity also is a very very great gift a lady can give the hubby now ... |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 12:42am On Mar 13, 2019 |
hayzed1090: Absolutely right. It's a great gift. But it becomes worthless when she has serious character flaws that even her peers that were married as non virgins make better wives. Or haven't you seen a marriage collapse even if the wife was married a virgin? Don't get me wrong... keeping virginity till wedding is a beautiful thing. But it must be accompanied by good character and other traits to make a marriage work. 5 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nobody: 1:35am On Mar 13, 2019 |
Yes she might always be a virgin to the husband, but please understand that once her virginity is gone, there’s a possibility that you will not be the only one entering, these are circumstances that happen all time. Nothing wrong in wanting a virgin, but do not lay all your criteria’s and trust on this one thing. Life can be so unpredictable and scary, learn to have an open mind. hayzed1090: 3 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by EngrBriggs: 8:37am On Mar 13, 2019 |
GodisGood4321: I am in this same situation as you. I am currently dating a lady who is a graduate and will be 25 years this year. She is loving, caring, industrous and very generous. She is well accepted by my family even though she is from a totally different tribe. I had planned settling down with her, until I began to realise; 1. My physical attraction to her was waning by the day. She is fast losing her good physique to belly fat and this is really putting me off. 2. She has suddenly become rebellious and will not accept her faults 50% of the time. When I notice something she does wrong and draws her attention to it, she will give excuses and rant about how excessively demanding I am. 3. My mum has never treated her badly. But on one ocassion, my mum extended her anger to her after a disagreement I had with my mum. This lady took it personal and even threatened to stop calling mum. All these because of just one incidence in about a year. 4. Despite coming to my house almost all the time, this lady has never cooked for me. I dont know if she is a good cook or not, although she cooks in her house. 5. She takes offence too quickly. Any little or prolonged joke and she loses her cool. In contrast, I am a very playful person and I cant cope with too much seriousness. 6. Finally, the cultural difference which wouldnt have been much of a big deal except for the fact that she is not so willing to adjust to changes and take simple corrections on how things are been done in my culture. Weighing her good side and not-too-good side, I became confused. I dont want to settle down with a disrespectful, rebellious woman even if she is the nicest and most generous person in the world. I can cope with most of her wrong-doings cos I noticed when the chips are down, she is soft-hearted. However, I find myself always thinking, why not be a bit patient, you'll meet someone who will complement and understand you better. I really do not want stress after marriage and even if there will be, it shouldnt be from things I have noticed and could have avoided before marriage. 9 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Atikulated: 9:01pm On Mar 13, 2019 |
kazvid:IT IS OR IT'S NOT IT |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
sojayy: "It's am I?" not "it's am i" You don't use a small letter for a pronoun such as "I". Monkey dey carry the monkey wey carry monkey climb tree. |
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