Why women shouldn’t use maiden name after marriage —Lawyers

Some lawyers in Lagos on Friday argued that, under the Marriage Act, there is no provision for a married woman to bear her maiden name.

They suggested the need for women to change their surnames after marriage, warning that retention of maiden name could lead to misunderstanding or divorce.

The lawyers spoke with the News Agency of Nigeria against the backdrop of the claim by some people that maiden name should continue to form a part of a woman’s record as it helps to shape her career.


While some lawyers said that a woman could join her maiden name with that of her husband to form a compound name if her husband permits, others advised that maiden names should be dropped altogether immediately after marriage.

They argued that since marriage is a change of status, it also implies acquisition of a new name.


One of the lawyers who spoke to NAN, Mr. Ayotunde Ologe, noted that there were legal presumptions that a woman would need to execute a change of name after marriage.

“Women must have noticed that, in most forms they fill, they come across a column for maiden name. This simply means father’s name before marriage.

“This, alone, presupposes the fact that there needs to be a change of name and the name change is to reflect the fact that a woman is now married to someone.


“However, if it is permitted by the husband for his wife to continue with her maiden name after marriage, then that may suffice; but where the husband feels strongly about it, then the best approach is for the woman to stick strictly to her husband’s name,’’ he said.

On whether children should bear their father’s name or their grandfather’s, the lawyer said that it was logical for children to bear the name of their own father.


“Why will my own son want to bear the name of his grandfather? Surname is your father’s name; so, it is very abnormal for a son to quote his grandfather’s name,” he argued.

Mrs. Funmibi Adeosun, also a lawyer, advised that change of name should be discussed and resolved before marriage.

She said that lack of adequate communication between spouses contributes much to misunderstanding and divorce.


“In Africa, a woman is meant to assume her husband’s name after marriage. However, there should be no problem in retaining your father’s name if it is allowed by your husband,” she said.

“I’m a Christian and it is biblical for a woman to be submissive to her husband; it is important for a woman to submit to the opinion of the man in this regard.


“However, where the husband consents to the wife keeping her father’s name along with his own name, then that can be permissible.

“It is, however, sad to note that things as little as this can cause problems in the home due to the absence of communication,” she said.

Mr. Chukwu Agwu, also a Lagos-based lawyer, described retention of maiden name by a woman as “a show of ego.”


He added that joining maiden name with husband’s name is unnecessary.

“If my daughter is married and I join in signing the marriage register, why should I insist on her retaining my name? It is absolutely unnecessary.

“The Bible does not say a woman should carry her home to another home; so, why carry your father’s name to your husband’s house?


“Under the marriage Act, there is no requirement for maiden name and there is also no law which permits the children to use their mother’s maiden name,” he said.

According to Agwu, issues such as a woman’s insistence on the use of her maiden name are responsible for misunderstandings in marriages.

(NAN)

OCEANMORGAN:

When I get married, if my wife like she should bear her ex boyfriend's name I will not mind at all, it will save me time, money, and trouble of publishing. I will only mind when her body is touched by another man in a sexual way. Who change of name epp??

chivera018:
the woman should not only change her name, let her also change her gender.

YourbaAreSlaves:
You'd see some Anambra omata that hardly brush their mouth coming out to say that Arthur Eze made Emeka Ihedioha win, some illiterates even went as far as saying Arthur Eze is richer than Ebonyi state and I wonder why Anambra roads are still in deplorable conditions when they have such a man with more "money than a state" and who likes sponsoring all state Governors in Igboland, possibly he can do what all states can do and even more.

One other fool said Okorocha was sponsored by Emeka offor and I ask did he also sponsor Okorocha when he contested Presidential primaries twice under the PDP and came second behind Obasanjo? What they don't know is that Rochas is richer than any Anambra man dead or alive before he even came to Imo state to contest the Governorship seat and he won because Imo people thought a rich philanthropist would not bother looting the state treasury and while the man in power then was hated because of his arrogance and his slap on priest.

The best way to ague with an Illiterate person from Anambra is to ignore him to masturbate over his foolery.

Some fools say Arthur Eze is the riches Igbo man and I ask what is his Forbes networth, is it officially up to 1billion dollars, only Apple colabo with Chinedu Echeruo made him 1billion dollar richer yet he is hiding himself, but these same Anambra touts will make little money and they will flaunt it like people who just came out from the most interior villages.

YourbaAreSlaves:
You'd see some Anambra omata that hardly brush their mouth coming out to say that Arthur Eze made Emeka Ihedioha win, some illiterates even went as far as saying Arthur Eze is richer than Ebonyi state and I wonder why Anambra roads are still in deplorable conditions when they have such a man with more "money than a state" and who likes sponsoring all state Governors in Igboland, possibly he can do what all states can do and even more.

One other fool said Okorocha was sponsored by Emeka offor and I ask did he also sponsor Okorocha when he contested Presidential primaries twice under the PDP and came second behind Obasanjo? What they don't know is that Rochas is richer than any Anambra man dead or alive before he even came to Imo state to contest the Governorship seat and he won because Imo people thought a rich philanthropist would not bother looting the state treasury and while the man in power then was hated because of his arrogance and his slap on priest.

The best way to ague with an Illiterate person from Anambra is to ignore him to masturbate over his foolery.

Some fools say Arthur Eze is the riches Igbo man and I ask what is his Forbes networth, is it officially up to 1billion dollars, only Apple colabo with Chinedu Echeruo made him 1billion dollar richer yet he is hiding himself, but these same Anambra touts will make little money and they will flaunt it like people who just came out from the most interior villages.

OCEANMORGAN:

When I get married, if my wife like she should bear her ex boyfriend's name I will not mind at all, it will save me time, money, and trouble of publishing. I will only mind when her body is touched by another man in a sexual way. Who change of name epp??

Omoluabi16:
If you are not ready to drop your maiden name, then remain in your father's house forever. Why are we Even discussing this? All this useless feminist who should be focusing on women emancipation and core issues like Rape, FGM and trafficking will be trying to prove what they are not. They think men are their biggest problem. Their wise mothers and Grandmothers got on peacefully and were fulfilled. Rubbish.

Sweetcollins:
Tell them feminists

BusinessHub1:
Feminists won’t hear

janettee:
"They suggested the need for women to change their surnames after marriage, warning that retention of maiden name could lead to misunderstanding or divorce."

So if a woman doesn't change her surname, she would likely get divorced?!.

Got it.