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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Donjazzy12(m): 8:23am On Mar 19, 2019
wetdick:
you are the clueless one, so how do you conclude with 70-80% of unmarried women are lesbians, were did you get that stats from. to me that your analysis doesnt make one big sense to me.
Keep moving around with your wet dick senselessly!
We interact with women daily on relationship matters, you on the other is just moving about aimlessly dick in hand looking for attention and any woman to Bleep and pay!

I won't waste further time on you.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 19, 2019
Donjazzy12:
Keep moving around with your wet dick senselessly!
We interact with women daily on relationship matters, you on the other is just moving about aimlessly dick in hand looking for attention and any woman to Bleep and pay!

I won't waste further time on you.
i will keep moving with my wet dick senselessly, it is my life and not your life.

so i guess you have interacted with 70-80% of unmarried women in Nigeria to confirm that they are all secret lesbians. what holywater24 wrote is realistic and make real sense than your attention seeking comments.

pls always get your facts right before writing comments to seek attention and likes. i will advice you to get a real job.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by shaybebaby(f): 8:38am On Mar 19, 2019
The reason why ladies find it difficult choosing husbands is a direct consequence of these men having shît for brains thus constantly emitting mental farts like the op!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 8:52am On Mar 19, 2019
nwakibe:
Not in all cases. I've met a 32 years old lady who told me that no man have asked her for ordinary friendship in her life. I asked her does it mean she is still a virgin. She answered yes. I'm yet to believe that though.
You should have asked her if her father is Lie Mohammed undecided
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 19, 2019
shaybebaby:
The reason why ladies find it difficult choosing husbands is a direct consequence of these men having shît for brains thus constantly emitting mental farts like the op!
Like your dad?
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 9:01am On Mar 19, 2019
Donjazzy12:
@ OP you missed it entirely!

That is certainly not the reason why there are a lot of single unmarried ladies.
The single most important reason is the rise of lesbianism!
Most of you guys here still think like you are in the 80s!

Most guys are completely outdated!

Do you know that 70-80% of unmarried ladies in Nigeria are hardcore lesbians pretenders. They don't have any emotional attachment to men at all!

I am a relationship Counsillor and I know what I am telling you. Lesbianism has eaten so deep into the psyche of most young girls in Nigeria that they do no longer form emotional bonds with men!

Haven't you wondered why women rarely fight for love these days? Haven't you wondered why there is no existence of sugar mummy again unlike in the 80s? Haven't you wondered why most young sophisticated women these day do not seem to care about marriage to men at all but only about being rich?

Haven't you wondered why more and more young women prefer to hang out with their fellow ladies than with guys these days? Go to clubs, are you not surprised how women are openly admiring and romancing each other.

Let me be clear with you. If you open your eyes very well you will see what I am saying it is hiding in plain sight.

Now let me give you a chronology of how it starts.

All young ladies enter secondary schools as virgins, but from their Jss1 senior female student start their initiation of the junior ones. These School mother stuff is a perfect cover for lesbian training. These young naive girls first introduction to sex starts by their School mother fingering and sucking them till orgasms! Thereafter they become attached to females sexually. From there it becomes very difficult to form emotional bonds with men. If in doubt go to any of these single sex female schools on Valentines day the gifts these girls buy for themselves even you cannot buy for your own girlfriend!

When the girls leave Secondary Schools for University most of them are already coded lesbians, men are no longer attractive to them. They manage to have one or two boyfriends in schools because that is what everyone expects of them but they still keep coded lesbian partners, they wear leg chains , in their Facebook walls you see posts like " I STAND WITH GIRLS'. Na dem be that.

After University, they live alone in rented apartments, they are now adults with jobs. They only enter relationship with men at this stage for financial benefits, but they keep their lesbian relationship so coded even you will swear for them.

They can't pretend for long, very soon, as aging sets in, they will start being under pressure from parents who of course do not know that their beloved daughter is a coded lesbian! She will start with excuses! Gods time is the best, I haven't met the right man, Don't rush into marriage bla bla bla!

In their coded lesbian lifestyle sometimes they let it slip! A case in point is Toke Makinwa that was seen in an Instagram video pressing and squeezing another ladies breasts and claiming she is not a lesbian! Of course, we all know the truth!

So my dear, here is a brief reason why most ladies are not married and seriously do not care!
Bro...you have a point but that 70-80% stat is way off it. Lesbianism is real in Naija but not overly practised in Nigeria as you put it.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Mcy56(f):
nwakibe:
Not in all cases. I've met a 32 years old lady who told me that no man have asked her for ordinary friendship in her life. I asked her does it mean she is still a virgin. She answered yes. I'm yet to believe that though.
Some bloggers will just be saying anything to trend.
Its not all ladies that play away or take relationship for granted at that age.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by shaybebaby(f): 9:13am On Mar 19, 2019
prince3009:
Like your dad?
Na aaah, exactly like yours though.
Proof of my claim? YOU!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Mcy56(f): 9:20am On Mar 19, 2019
All the guys that are typing rubbishhh here, can you tell us why you are yet unmarried till now?
If you are comfortable playing around cos se.x is cheap and giving one excuse or the other for still being single, when will the ladies you are bashi.ng settle down?
I hope you start to take blame for some of the ladies predicament too.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 19, 2019
shaybebaby:
Na aaah, exactly like yours though.
Proof of my claim? YOU!
Lol...but I am happily married. So that means you have a problem finding a man who will cling to you and you use your tentacles you call fingers to type sh*t blaming all the men!

Very typical of female sore losers! undecided
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Abudu2000(m): 9:52am On Mar 19, 2019
Quality20:
Oga you are a man, u are not suppose to be monogamous. Marrying a 2nd wife won't spoil anything, u shd b able to manage it
how did you read my mind lol,
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Businessman1986(m): 10:09am On Mar 19, 2019
nwakibe:
Not in all cases. I've met a 32 years old lady who told me that no man have asked her for ordinary friendship in her life. I asked her does it mean she is still a virgin. She answered yes. I'm yet to believe that though.
Very possible. My sis got married a virgin at 28. Rare though
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Ssabina: 10:09am On Mar 19, 2019
nwakibe:
Not in all cases. I've met a 32 years old lady who told me that no man have asked her for ordinary friendship in her life. I asked her does it mean she is still a virgin. She answered yes. I'm yet to believe that though.
she is probably not good looking or ve a terrible character
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by shaybebaby(f): 10:17am On Mar 19, 2019
prince3009:
Lol...but I am happily married. So that means you have a problem finding a man who will cling to you and you use your tentacles you call fingers to type sh*t blaming all the men!

Very typical of female sore losers! undecided
Who asked you?

Shior!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Raalsalghul: 10:27am On Mar 19, 2019
Mcy56:
Some bloggers will just be saying anything to trend.
Its not all ladies that play away or take relationship for granted at that age.
In a situation where there are no eligible suitor will the lady kill herself?
Some men are players also, some are pretenders and in so doing, waste some ladies precious time in the process.
I think going forward, we'll have more single ladies and I'm not saying this as an intention to bash or make ladies feel bad.
You'll should look for other options asides marriage.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by gly(m): 11:04am On Mar 19, 2019
Quality20:
Oga you are a man, u are not suppose to be monogamous. Marrying a 2nd wife won't spoil anything, u shd b able to manage it
Do not dictate for him. He is not a kid!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by chris31(m): 11:12am On Mar 19, 2019
Any girl that is above 33yrs & still yet not married have a character issue
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by ImaIma1(f): 12:04pm On Mar 19, 2019
The way female bashing threads thrive on NL is so amazing. It gives a lot of guys a different level of satisfaction that they cannot even explain.

If you guys like bash o, insult, badmouth...a 40 year old lady will still marry a single fresh guy. You guys are not God...thank God.

No matter what any guy says, ladies will still get married to men. And you guys will get married also to non virgins. So take a chill pill
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by phelonrays: 12:37pm On Mar 19, 2019
wetdick:
what is this one saying. pls this is myopic thinking, it is like saying all men are coded gays just because they dont have a gf or dont wanna marry, pls next time learn to think, so just because a girl squeeze another girl breast makes her a lesbian? interesting, do you know that ladies are comfortable with each other.
Wawu.... comfortable with each other you sayhuh but y can't they apply the same principle when a Lady is the head or manager at a work place....you'll see them(the female boss) maltreating or behaving rude to a fellow lady like her........ Y can't they apply 'Comfortable with each other ' when it comes to this??
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by BIGGIE121(m): 1:10pm On Mar 19, 2019
shaybebaby:
The reason why ladies find it difficult choosing husbands is a direct consequence of these men having shît for brains thus constantly emitting mental farts like the op!
sex doll with this your comment i guess you are one of the old hags that is searching for husband,
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 1:42pm On Mar 19, 2019
ImaIma1:
The way female bashing threads thrive on NL is so amazing. It gives a lot of guys a different level of satisfaction that they cannot even explain.

If you guys like bash o, insult, badmouth...a 40 year old lady will still marry a single fresh guy. You guys are not God...thank God.

No matter what any guy says, ladies will still get married to men. And you guys will get married also to non virgins. So take a chill pill
Madam, the thread is about ladies who waste their youthful years and not for men looking for virgins. Stop derailing!

Who virgin epp?
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by barackodam: 1:58pm On Mar 19, 2019
ImaIma1:
The way female bashing threads thrive on NL is so amazing. It gives a lot of guys a different level of satisfaction that they cannot even explain.

If you guys like bash o, insult, badmouth...a 40 year old lady will still marry a single fresh guy. You guys are not God...thank God.

No matter what any guy says, ladies will still get married to men. And you guys will get married also to non virgins. So take a chill pill
Don't we ever get tired of using God to just all things? What the OP said, may not exactly true, but he has a point, it's what we all see. In both male and female. Our youths waste their youth, and then we all start blaming God on every damned thing!

It's so so sickening. Let's learn to accept blames for goodness sake. It's not always about God.


Did God ask anyone to fornicate about, or waste their youth?

But when they are unable to marry because of their actions and inactions, it becomes God's plan for them.

Shior
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by ImaIma1(f): 2:05pm On Mar 19, 2019
barackodam:
Don't we ever get tired of using God to just all things? What the OP said, may not exactly true, but he has a point, it's what we all see. In both male and female. Our youths waste their youth, and then we all start blaming God on every damned thing!

It's so so sickening. Let's learn to accept blames for goodness sake. It's not always about God.


Did God ask anyone to fornicate about, or waste their youth?

But when they are unable to marry because of their actions and inactions, it becomes God's plan for them.

Shior
Shior??!! What is "shior"? A guy makes a point and then says " shior". What kind of guys do we have here?

My mention of God is about the fact that He forgives when people go before him sincerely. And since He sees the heart, He cannot be deceived. Unlike men who have wicked hearts and are ready to stone the prostitute
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by barackodam: 2:17pm On Mar 19, 2019
ImaIma1:
Shior??!! What is "shior"? A guy makes a point and then says " shior". What kind of guys do we have here?

My mention of God is about the fact that He forgives when people go before him sincerely. And since He sees the heart, He cannot be deceived. Unlike men who have wicked hearts and are ready to stone the prostitute
Whether you admit or not, Nigerians have abused the word God. Every damned thing, it's always God. Even when knowingly doing the wrong thing. Afterall, just like you said, "He's a forgiving God" They waste away their productive years, and later start calling God. E don tire pesin. It's irritating to hear. I'm not a hater of God, but I'm a hater of what we Nigerians have turned it into
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by ImaIma1(f): 2:21pm On Mar 19, 2019
barackodam:
Whether you admit or not, Nigerians have abused the word God. Every damned thing, it's always God. Even when knowingly doing the wrong thing. Afterall, just like you said, "He's a forgiving God" They waste away their productive years, and later start calling God. E don tire pesin. It's irritating to hear. I'm not a hater of God, but I'm a hater of what we Nigerians have turned it into
Well i am not speaking of those that call on God unjustly.

Besides, some ladies are single not because they committed any sin against God but probably because they put other projects ahead of marriage plans.

But the truth is that no matter how men insult older single ladies and call them old newspapers, they will still get good husbands
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by PharoahIII: 2:40pm On Mar 19, 2019
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ImaIma1:
The way female bashing threads thrive on NL is so amazing. It gives a lot of guys a different level of satisfaction that they cannot even explain.

If you guys like bash o, insult, badmouth...a 40 year old lady will still marry a single fresh guy. You guys are not God...thank God.

No matter what any guy says, ladies will still get married to men. And you guys will get married also to non virgins. So take a chill pill
This one has just confirmed her age and relationship status online. ashiri e ti tun
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by ImaIma1(f): 2:42pm On Mar 19, 2019
PharoahIII:
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This one has just confirmed her age and relationship status online. ashiri e ti tun
Keeping quiet might make you sound more intelligent, rather than displaying your ignorance openly.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Raalsalghul: 2:51pm On Mar 19, 2019
ImaIma1:
Well i am not speaking of those that call on God unjustly.

Besides, some ladies are single not because they committed any sin against God but probably because they put other projects ahead of marriage plans.

But the truth is that no matter how men insult older single ladies and call them old newspapers, they will still get good husbands
But the thread doesn't refer to the bolded which begs the question of why are you so pissed. huh

If anything I think the rate of single ladies might increase in the future (No intention to bash here).

Reason being that most guys of marriageable age aren't financially ready.

What are my even saying, aren't you happily married? huh
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by ImaIma1(f): 3:12pm On Mar 19, 2019
Raalsalghul:
But the thread doesn't refer to the bolded which begs the question of why are you so pissed. huh

If anything I think the rate of single ladies might increase in the future (No intention to bash here).

Reason being that most guys of marriageable age aren't financially ready.

What are my even saying, aren't you happily married? huh
The topic covers the bolded. Or doesn't it talk about ladies that are not married for one reason or the other? And who says i am pissed? You are actually the one acting pissed.

The fact that i am not single doesn't mean i cannot contribute on a thread that i have knowledge about. Don't put into the "married" box.

Funny that you say the rate might go up. People are still getting married every weekend and it's not a marriage between two men. Those that are not financially ready, will be one day. But it won't stop people from getting married every day
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 19, 2019
Hahaaahaaaaa

I laugh

You forgot to mention the boys that are parading as men, men who are absolutely incapable of being husbands. This is actually the main reason that single ladies are parading around. The ratio of good women to men is 20:1, if all women could find their Prince Charming at 21, that would be amazing! Women have been groomed and trained from birth to be wives in a home, but men have been left alone to do as they please and that’s why most men of these days...

1. Have a Drinking or smoking habit
2. Unable to handle any real form of responsibility, especially financially. They do not want to handle the financial management that it takes to be a husband.
3. Unable to control their sexual desires therefore sleeping around
4. Believe that beating a woman is the only way to control her
5. Very misogynistic and selfish. Believes that it’s a mans world
6. Childish and unable to grow out of his mother’s pampering.

Most men have at least one of these characteristics, making it very difficult to take men of this generation seriously. A lot of women who get married ‘on time’ are either very lucky or have to settle with one of those character flaws that I mentioned. So please do not make it seem like it’s soley the woman’s fault if she’s not married by 30. Men these days are really nothing to write home about. It takes the effort of both genders to be the best versions of themselves to create a blissful union.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by shaybebaby(f): 4:24pm On Mar 19, 2019
BIGGIE121:
sex doll with this your comment i guess you are one of the old hags that is searching for husband,
Worefa!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Finds It Difficult To Find Husband by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 19, 2019
shaybebaby:
The reason why ladies find it difficult choosing husbands is a direct consequence of these men having shît for brains thus constantly emitting mental farts like the op!
you've been noticed, anything else?
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