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starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

islandmoon:
look at you, someone supported a girl for 5 years in school, paying school fees, bought all her law school materials and paid monthly allowances to her thinking he was doing it for his wife to be , she was posted to Rivers State for NYSC , that was the end ! she married oil worker even before she finished her NYSC! look at this man! if he had converted her to single mother, at least he wont lose everything.

now the girl think she's wise! omo, I will rubbish you before you rubbish me, men are different, Thank God I look so harmless .. but I have a wild mind.

lilmax:
all these girls in universities are waste of time

let's not even talk of nysc

most of them lack brain, but it seems the op lacks brain more here

mumu

lilmax:
@op ignore this written crap

islandmoon:
look at you, someone supported a girl for 5 years in school, paying school fees, bought all her law school materials and paid monthly allowances to her thinking he was doing it for his wife to be , she was posted to Rivers State for NYSC , that was the end ! she married oil worker even before she finished her NYSC! look at this man! if he had converted her to single mother, at least he wont lose everything.

now the girl think she's wise! omo, I will rubbish you before you rubbish me, men are different, Thank God I look so harmless .. but I have a wild mind.

yesloaded:
its difficult for a gal of her age to be loyal to you based on the kind of lifestyles gals of these days! forgive her but let her be, look for a matured woman & not underage kids! gals within her age range loves to explore, what most of these school gals on campus will make you wish not to send your female child to school! forget her crocodile tears, its normal for a cheat!

darkelf:
God bless you and your family.

My condolences. The guy has left Naija and doesn't know how far our bitches go to hold on to gold mines.

Some even use special oils on their pussy and one sexual session is all they need

Actuarydeji:
Oga spare me the Nigerian grammar jare. After her engine has been well serviced and panachukwu she's now claiming that she's a changed person. Yes! She's is a change person because her engine has been serviced. The only reason why a man can leave his babe is infidelity. Guy, move on and forget about, infidelity is in her blood she won't repent.

StupidVoters:
This topic reminds me my close guy then that used to brag about his babe on how the girl will commit suicide if he leave her. Their love story was well acted, directed and edited by the lady. She knows how to play her games. She's a confirm olosho that have bleeped almost all top guys for our street. Because I am more social/interact with people than my guy, he's pompous, he doesn't relate well with other guys that have information. These guys told me one day after I bought them a drink that why is my guy dating a LovePeddler? I was stunned when Ojugo asked me that question. I was interested to know maybe the crate of beer I bought for them without been asked is about to affect his thinking, I sat down with them so I could hear more gist. They pieces, remove the girl from street data base and told me all her sexcapdes. I shrugged over it. I was in dilemma. Thinking should I tell him about what I heard or not because they had fix introduction date. I kept to myself, I was observing them closely so as not to spoil somoenes happiness. A week later , my guy mentioned what i termed as a psychological phrase in my ear, he said " I'm the type of guy that will tell my best friend if I see anything bad in his relationship and won't mind about the consequences" the phrase do gbainn for my head, I smiled and replied in a more psychological way "Well, that's good because a lantern never sees it's bottom". Their "love" grew as introduction dates approaches to the extent that my wife had to be more romantic with me after studying how the said girl treat her man which is my friend. Oh my goodness, this girl can be romantic, you will hear calling my friend classy name like my king, my Prince, my Aso rock , my life etc to the extent you will think maybe you weren't doing enough to your lady not be appreciated in same manner. As introduction approaches my guy babe told him she's travelling to Abeokuta to get aso oke (native cap and head tie) for the intro all to be financed by herself. I was there when my guy transferred 20k to her account, she saw the alert and her mood changed. She said my guy doesn't love her and if he does she will not transfer the money to her when she's about to pay for at least a thing from the list. She said he's fiancee is just trying to pay for everything so that he won't have blame anytime he cheats so as to say that he have fulfil all righteousness. I came inbetweem them and let her realized that what my guy did is a sign of responsibility and she agreed to go the following morning and come back three days later because she will attend a church program their to bless and sanctify the choose intro date. Ok no problem, so said me and my guy. I got home that day thinking how lucky my guy his to have chosen to marry a lady Ojugo and co labelled unprintable names. Following morning, I drove her with my guy inside car to park because my guy car had issue. They cuddled, kissed while we were waiting for the bus to get fill up by other intending travellers. Zoomed, bus drove out the park before we were release by the lady to go because she won't let her man leave her when she still at the park. As I was driving back home, my guy told him how the lady wan kill her with love, that he wonder what will happen to the lady if he decides not to marry her as a wife, to be honest readers, I told him point blank not to try such expensive joke on that lady except he don ready to bury someone. I said that and I was serious 100% because the babe no get ANY flaw that we can accuse her of. Fast forward 7pm that day (Friday) she left, my uncle in Ibadan called me that I should come see him the following day that there is something important he want to see me for, I was worried because mumsy was sick and living with him ( Dad passed away when I was 10 ) i pestered uncle to tell me what's wrong but he rather insist that I come on Saturday to see for myself. I was restless, calling everyone who can give me update on mumsy heart , none pick call. I became apprehensive and concluded that mumsy is dead. I set out for Ojota to board bus going to IB by 8:30, left park by 9:30 got to Ibadan by after 11pm. Went straight to uncle's house at Agbowo, UI side, on getting to the house gate , the calmness I encountered without seeing anyone calmed my nerves because I was expecting to hear cries, people outside. I called the baba guard to open up the gate and the first thing I asked is "how is mummy" baba replied that "Mummy ti nba wasere lataro, won se wole lo bayi" mummy has been playing with everyone since morning she just went in, I knelt down and bow to thank God that my maale still dey. I strolled into living room knowing well say nothing dey happen and everyone was surprised to see me at "odd hour" imagine just after 11pm. my cousin hugged and we exchanged pleasantries, mumsy mouth was aghast all through the period I was greeting everyone, I hugged her and she scolded for travelling at night , I told her that her health is of importance to me that is the reason I set out late at night for such trip. She was happy that I care. She prayed and prayed. I no even wan know wetin uncle wan see me for again so far mumsy is alive. Few minutes later mumsy went in to sleep. I couldn't because Friday night's na my own social vigil. I asked for mumsy highlander's key from my cousin and I was given. I told them that I forgot important documents inside the bus that I need to go to Iwo road asap to retrieve it...all na lie, I wan go groove couple with the fact say maale never die I feel happy and elated to go celebrate . I tipped baba guard 5h. Drove out. Off to ring road, enter Palm Malls, Kai, con see babes yapa for everywhere. I enter Apollo club, ordered for one Jackie and Powerhorse. The music dey blast well and I noticed say na only me no carry any girl. I stepped out to speak and price the existing chicks to know who to go for, I had a clean view of them under the big fluorescent light and i continue to bargain from 15k to 5k bla bla. A persumed "big girl" among them got infuriated when I price her 6k, na so she said even the worst of them there won't even dare fu*k me for 6k and I asked who is "worst" because to me all of them are more than worst, the small circle of girls present said they will advise me not to go for the "worst" because nothing dey her market again. At this point, I wanted to know who the "worst" is , I wanna pay to see her face because for an olosho to be termed worst by fellow worst workers mean so much to me because of future , you never can tell if na your junior bro go bring her come home as fiancee. My inquisitivenes persisted and they show me one nice figure 8 structured babe in the midst of some guys in a not too bright and not dark environment, na so I beg one of the fellow girl to help me call her so that I can I see the face well. Lo and behold, na MY GUY BABE.

Bidded us farewell to Abeokuta in the morning to go get clothing materials for intro, hustling in IB by Night same day.

This na TRUE LIFE STORY oo

To be continued.

Harddiskng:
Changes - 2pac ft you enimem

Its best you move decisively, no call, no text, cut off all forms of communication that would originate from you. Why?

1) Even if you ever make up with her, there would forever be that 800 pound gorrilla in the room. Trust has been tinted.

2) The energy and time you guys would use to straighten-up the relationship would be better spent on a new babes.

3) If you get pass this, it would seem to her as love based on conditions like she is on probation. She would feel suffocated thus the relationship still heading for the wall.

4) Based on number 1, the lies the deceit; thats just who is she. When people reveal their real selves believe them.

Move on bro, it’s necessary for your peace of mind and overall well-being.

Note: you seem like a good guy-man, a note of advise avoid long distance relationships (LDR are no relationship), never get into a serious relationship with an invisible “friend”

MobilityExpress:
. Me once I start hearing things like, he's my bestie, he's my big uncle, he's my cousin (cousin that is not by blood) etc, mtchewwwww, I will just axe her in my mind straight up. No time for hoes.

solasoulmusic:
Which brother lol I don’t mess with family o but sorry if I am not a follow the crowd person can’t be bothered my dear break up o make e no make you insult person for here

The only thing to make a woman cheat is weak game step up or lose out every woman curves like 10 niggas in her lifetime so if your not getting AirPlay don’t be pained we want substance but sometimes in the beginning we are selfish with no commitment

I am being blunt I will Bleep another nigga I’d my nigga is not my nigga and he just doing me anyhow too the guy should tell us his own side too na

Like you even know my shoes talkless of me

Dino98:
See that babe....she has not changed 1 bit.

All this crying and begging is becos baba has money and travels out....she does not want to miss out.

That babe will do so much more but will be extra careful, so he doesn't find out.

You see girls, fear dem. I have several stories of them.

Lemme share one. When I was in school...I met this babe. I honestly didn't want to date her, I just wanted to collect 3 points. For some months she refused to come visit me...until one lucky day, I went out with my guys; on my way back around 11pm, I was high and Hot, I was going tru my phone, trying to see who could come around, and I tried her again....she said OK, but that I had to come pick her, so I told the cab guy to turn around so we can go pick her. I picked her, we came back to my place, showered and without any discussion, shit went down...after that day we lost contact.

Fastforward to 1year+, I met this babe around the market....we exchanged numbers. We started talking and after about a week she came visiting. We were on it the entire night...na that kind girl. At about 7am the next day, she was making up to leave, next thing I heard was, "Danny, do u know I am married?", I laughed and said its not possible na. She said, "I'm serious Danny, I'm married, I got married some months ago", I still laughed and said impossible....she turned and showed me her wedding ring on her finger, I said that means nothing, I showed her my ring on my finger too, cos then I wore one. She said, "Danny, seriously, I'm married", I was quiet. She said, "u don't believe me?", then she picked up her phone and came over to where I was and started showing me her traditional marriage, white wedding pictures and honeymoon pictures. I still said its a lie, that she probably had a twin....I was in denial. Then she said OK, I should hold on. She picked up her ear piece, connected it to her phone, gave me one ear and took one, then babe called her husband...for 30minutes this babe was talking to her husband on different issues and the innocent man had no idea what his wife just did and that even this their conversation, I was listening to it too. I was in shock. I could not say a word from the time of the call, till she ended the call and left. After the call she was like, "do u believe me now?", I was speechless...I could not believe what just happened, I was just quiet, till she left. I felt sorry for the guy, cos he had no idea and she called him, talking about love and all that.

I started avoiding her but this married babe was still pressuring to come...one night she asked to come, I told her, I am out with friends, she said she will go wait by my door, till I am back. A married lady o. I was inside, so I quickly switched of all my lights. At about 11somtin, she was asking if I was back. I said, I might not coke back, that I will go spend the night at a friends. Babe didn't stop there o.

See girls...e dey there body.

solasoulmusic:
You don’t call it cheat if he left you with his own two legs and didn’t talk for months or a year me when I’m not Dstv explora

We are all human where the love is we thrive forget all this commando stuff you build through your errors guys like women mourning them but please if your not being worthy of 100 percent commitment based on your word why should a woman give that even the Bible said adultery not boyfriend and girl friendship chain to nowhere

If your guy to dey rude nko will you die there if he refuse to see reason men you leave me one year no ring no love forget o

Sarang:
Then call him and break it off. Anything aside that is cheating. I won’t forgive it if it’s me.. but that’s just me

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

lilmax:
you guys deserve yourselves,because you guys are cheaters

this is a different scenario

so @op once again

discard this crappy comment

chihes:
You are so young my dear, hubby laughed so loudly after reading your comment. I and hubby are not cheaters. On the things of love, you need to be tutored. Your understanding is too young for a topic like this. I advise you just watch and learn, but learn the good side. May I tell you that hubby had a carnal knowledge with me after a long years on the night of our wedding, and I was not cheating on him with another while waiting. I don't need ur response to believe or not to believe, but we understand what I meant by the clause "100% not fidel". However my little, even if you are married and your wife cheats and truly repents from her heart, still forgive if you can. There's no Sin Jesus did not, and does wash away. That's the same Jesus I am introducing to you. If you know Him, you will understand that sex before marriage doesn’t worth it.

solasoulmusic:
Something he broke off in front of his peers you have to call again and ask permission he will ask you where your dignity is

If not for blackberry back then many relationships especially long distance for hang

People in Nigeria downplay reassurance but sometimes it’s what saves you from issues like this

zed7:
Hmmm, women. Women deep down do not care much about money or looks, they care about emotions. It's poverty that makes them follow guys in Nigeria for money. That cousin na person wey go see u dey call u bros, dey shake u with 2 hands, dey carry your bags for you. Truth is she doesn't love you, she loves "the cousin". Any attempt to keep dating her will lead to drastic heartbreak for you. Be warned.

solasoulmusic:
This is the average man so you paid school fees but did you do introduction did you see her father and make it known your intentions. This single mother thing it’s the child you affect more I repeat nobody leaves the person they love until it becomes unbearable to be with them as per mentally, physically and emotionally.

You guys block WhatsApp but forget that child and that woman will pass through hardship too years later you show up demanding to see your child and they cycle of irresponsibility continues

If you break up with someone and in that time they fling up and even marry someone else it’s painful but it’s not something you can claim as cheating. Even if you paid school fees etc if you didn’t make your intentions known to her family in the form of introduction that will be documented and dated I think its a verbal agreement you had

Thank God for that research article about the intelligence of women and their children because guys your standards be so low sometimes but be insulting the good and bold women

A cheat who repents its better than one who doesn’t even think it’s a sin to

One day I saw my replacement I was like lol

islandmoon:
what is this one saying? a gold digger is always a gold digger!

daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same level wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter ...

Michelle55:
Any girl that can comfortably cheat on her bf can kill, what if you didn't or never found out? You would have continued living a lie and with a cheat.. Nawa oh.
Anyways, forgive her but let her go. In a relationship, it's either you are truly IN or OUT.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.. They only feel remorseful when caught in the act

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

dairykidd:
Michelle55

Belafonte:
You say make person leave tokunboh say e no good, say make he carry Naija used 4th hand. Is that not wickedness?

You think their aunties and elder sisters are better? Where you think say the upcoming ones learn work? Smh

grad2012:
its takes a strong person to go through a long distance relship.

Am not in the position to tell you to forgive or not to forgive her. Its decision you need to make on your own and ask God to help you with.