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Sluvist:
You are not up to a BF level, just see yourself as a plain friends, she must have been with other guys even before you come to her way. But for now it is too early to call her your GF. She belongs to someone else but you can work towards snatching her if you have the courage or may be you just try and lash her puna even for once and leave her, period.

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

scaramucci:
Don't you think he should have a taste of the biitch before dumping her sorry ass?

dnawah:
menage en trois

mazi85:
Why bother yourself when you can be backing her,knowing fully well she's your hoe

queenbee28:
[/quote][left][/left][quote author=faith551 post=76801312]Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

OneSentence:
it beats me when people reason like this just because she's female and that instinct of defending females always kicks in. let's even agree that you may be right, can't you see the other signs that she has been showing? yet your conclusion is that he op is immature. how you ladies reason baffles me attimes...if a man treats you like this then sends a text will you tell yourself the same thing?

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

franchasng:
Op, move on na, na wa oh.

The way you guys take this woman thing, Hmmm


The only thing that should bother you as a guy is your personal financial life, your career growth, your business success, your parents, your health, your children (if you have any).

No man living in 2019 should be surprised if his girlfriend or lover or even wife cheats on him

The world is becoming too overpopulated, so that your girlfriend or wife will definitely meet so many guys more handsome, hotter, fresher, more endowed, richer and smarter than you and when they do, they can mess up, so have that in mind and don't ever trust any woman you are dating or married to 100%, always have room for doubt and fuckup so you won't be shocked when it happens.

I have seen so many things in life so nothing shocks me, talk more of woman matter lol.

Seems guys that have never dated pretty hot ladies get easily attached to women when they meet a lady that believe is too pretty for their level lol

When you get to a certain level in life, women will tire you, as I am now, sometimes I wonder if I will ever get married cos no woman moves me right now, which type na lol, in fact I laugh whenever I see guys drooling over a pretty girl, nothing de there oh, I mean nothing.

So op, I pray you get to that level that you will find it hard to even love a woman because you have seen it all and met even the hottest and most classy ladies, so they now look all same to you.

The only thing that makes me crave for marriage right now is the desire to have kids under wedlock, I love kids to pieces and they are the major reason I desire to marry someday nothing more so grow up and face your life, keep hustling for money or more money, nothing is as sweet as making money, prospering in what you do, buying new car of your dream, building your dream house, spending on your mom, dad, nieces, nephews, friends, in fact its sweeter than sex

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

correctyourself:
Yes, the lady is more or less GoTv . lol

JamaicanLove:
You had to put it in red just to get the attention and likes.

LIES OF THE CENTURY

Who's this?

funmisticqueen2:
2 weeks is too short a time to make your inference simple.

lefulefu:
guy forget dat matter. She's d type of girl that belongs to everybody . Belongs to someone ke.

MrBrownJay1:
why the headache? you just know the babe, so forget about her deceitful self and move on with your life.

et voila!

ObaKlaz:
Who's this?

DanDeeBoss:
Guyman just rush everything

Timtol:
Wetin you wan rush

Boss, I was referring to Op

JamaicanLove:
What are you scared of?