₦airaland Forum

Good morning nairalanders, Please a friend of mine needs an advise although this is not supposed to be brought here but funny comments and funny abusive words on here make one smile despite those responses their are lots of intellectual responses which one can always learn on here.

Please Doctors and medical practitioners your suggestion and advice is needed here and am going to try and summarize and be brief.

A friend of mine who is a bachelor and around 29 years of age relocated to another rented apartment last year and this guy was single and was seriously seeking for a relationship. He his a very careful person when it comes to relationship because he always try to ask necessary brief questions before going into the relationship.

Truth be told he his not innocent neither does he pretend because this brief questions he ask this ladies above makes him decide if he would date such girl or smash her and let her be though that depends on how far he has gone with the lady.

One of the question is knowing the genotype status of the lady and this is because his genotype is AS and also his mum been a medical practitioner contributed to it cos she always tells him not to try engage someone of the same genotype due to her profession and her experience at work.

So because of this genotype bruahaha this guy as been single and decided not to even go into any relationship because luck as not been on his side and all his ex's happen to be AS as well.

After moving to this new apartment last year, he met a lady at the restaurant he usually have dinner (not all times). The lady is the daughter to the owner of the restaurant but at first this guy did not notice this lady but what got his attention is this lady hard work at the restaurant and anytime this guy goes there he always notice the girl is doing one ting or the other therefore this lady is very hardworking eventually this guy asked her if she does not rest at all and that's how the conversation and friendship started but as the friendship goes on the guy discovered she is the one managing the business on behalf of her mom and this lady is such a beauty to behold (chocolate complexion and exactly the guy taste), She is also educated and finished her HND 2years ago.

summarily this guy wanted to date this lady but he was scared to ask her out cos of genotype and fear of the girl been AS andfortunately this lady also as interest in the guy but the guy poppoed the question about her genotype and she said it was AA The guy was very happy and 2days later he asked the lady out and which she responded positively and that's how there relationship started.

Truth is both are always busy due to the stress of her restaurant management and the guy' nature of work so they see often but speak very often on phone but no sexual stuff in between and they are both faithful to each other and have started planning for the future together.

In fact both have introduced each other to their respective parent and the relationship as been interesting and great but not until last Saturday when this lady decided to go to the hospital to do her test so as to have all necessary medical document and also to start preparing for future with the guy and the genotype result now came as AS. She showed the guy the result yesterday and he his just so speechless, sad, moody. He loves this lady so much and he his so confused

His parents are aware of the girl already and how will he appear to them and tell them the girl is AS after he already told them she is AA and intend to settle down with her.

He his considering taking the risk but scared and confused.

Kindly please advise

Coming back to advice

Why did she lie. She must have known she was AS.

I know you are the man in question.

Please, bruv. For the sake of your kids, your marital growth, your marital future, your happiness and your peace.

END the relationship. You can't be AS and still marry a lady of the same genotype.

In this case, you have to choose between WISE and LOVE to decide.

Be WISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Abort mission. My own bro refused to listen to my dads advise. He has 3 SS kids now. Most times from work he resumes in the hospital. The HMO his company organiser for staff is refusing to bear the costs most times . Even me was a victim. The same hospital that revealed by bro was AS said i was AA like 20 years ago. So me i dey claim AA. I don see correct babe to marry till i had a accident wey affect my chest. Dem run many test con ask for genotype i said AA. Doct abi na cardiologist no agree and said we shud do test. Baba na AS o. I re did it again in another place same shit. Guess wetin my babe talk Pls don tell anyone lets keep it between us. Na den i know say she be killer i ran

Joromi12:
Abort mission. My own bro refused to listen to my dads advise. He has 3 SS kids now. Most times from work he resumes in the hospital. The HMO his company organiser for staff is refusing to bear the costs most times . Even me was a victim. The same hospital that revealed by bro was AS said i was AA like 20 years ago. So me i dey claim AA. I don see correct babe to marry till i had a accident wey affect my chest. Dem run many test con ask for genotype i said AA. Doct abi na cardiologist no agree and said we shud do test. Baba na AS o. I re did it again in another place same shit. Guess wetin my babe talk Pls don tell anyone lets keep it between us . Na den i know say she be killer i ran

She's more dangerous than a killer for saying such.

That's how they operate. Makes me wonder why ladies find it difficult to think properly once you promise them marriage.

"Let's keep it secret"
"It doesn't matter"
"Miracle can still happen"
"My friend and her husband are AS" and all.

And if you are not intelligent, bold and opinionated as a man, you'll fall for their deceit.

Never will you see them think and decide smartly on issues that might affect them in the future once you promise them marriage.

IamD18:
She's more dangerous than a killer for saying such.

That's how they operate. Makes me wonder why ladies find it difficult to think properly once you promise them marriage.

"Let's keep it secret"
"It doesn't matter"
"Miracle can still happen"
"My friend and her husband are AS" and all.

And if you are not intelligent, bold and opinionated as a man, you'll fall for their deceit.

Never will you see them think and decide smartly on issues that might affect them in the future once you promise them marriage.

they are so much obsessed with marriage that its their life goal. Imagine she dey say there is selective IVF and all. Something wey cost over 2m with no guarantee o. So i go dey nack my wife dey pull out or what . Me wey no like wahala i go con dey sleep for hospital. Omo i run. My bro looks so rough and tired these days. I dey pity am sometimes

they should just separate, it ain't his fault. a matured person should know his /her genotype, talk more of a graduate

Joromi12:
they are so much obsessed with marriage that its their life goal. Imagine she dey say there is selective IVF and all. Something wey cost over 2m with no guarantee o. So i go dey nack my wife dey pull out or what . Me wey no like wahala i go con dey sleep for hospital. Omo i run. My bro looks so rough and tired these days. I dey pity am sometimes

You made a point.

@Emboldened. Same thing I sad in my first comment. There will be no peace and happiness, no matter how you try to mask it.

Best thing is to prevent it on time. We should be wise to know that marriage is not about love, but realities.

My good wishes to your bruv, man.

Eeyah but for the sake of your unborn children, you may have to let go.

Honestly half of Nigerians don't know their genotype... Might sound funny but its true....

The best thing for him to do is to leave the girl for future disaster.... I pray Una no go born pikin wey go finish una money ontop treatment ooo