murphyibiam15:

actually you could have been her sex slave rather...who knows if she was a nypmph .....

I was madly in love when it all started,she was quite emotional and wanted love from both sides,probably to satisfy her material needs but she wasn't really a sex freak.she wanted to hold on to both relationship and since speaking up probably meant I wasn't into her anymore,i had to keep mute,pretended I was OK with the whole scenario,stopped helping her and still played her to open her legs till we finally parted ways.

Too much punishment, wicked man.

Youngjohnosas:
I was madly in love when it all started,she was quite emotional and wanted love from both sides,probably to satisfy her material needs but she wasn't really a sex freak.she wanted to hold on to both relationship and since speaking up probably meant I wasn't into her anymore,i had to keep mute,pretended I was OK with the whole scenario,stopped helping her and still played her to open her legs till we finally parted ways.

she wasn't into u as per love that was the obvious

This man is Legend.

But d story shaaa.

Sounds like Tales by Moonlight.

SaucyBenks:
they deserve no loyalty... Not a cent!

may God help us all.i naturally don't support injustice being melted out on anyone irrespective of gender not even my enemies but I hate to always play the victim.God bless my nigga WISDOM for the orientation.i am always happy now.

SaucyBenks:
I actually don't know what you're thinking but I am still hurt... The image won't leave my memory.

Don't let that weigh you down, OK? Give me a mention if you feel the need to talk.

As far as the man didn't harm her every other action the man decides to take it's good

Mennnnn..... This man must be a sharp shooter.

bluefilm:
I love this.

The man in question is a correct man!

The man deserves some accolades!

Sometimes, the best psychological wars are fought without uttering words.

Yes, like they do say, some action do speak louder than words.

No need exchanging unnecessary words with the woman.

In fact, this man is a true student of power.

Just look at how he expertly applied these laws of power:


Law 3. Conceal Your Intentions

Law 4. Always Say Less than Necessary

Law 9. Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument

Law 14. Pose As A Friend, Work As A Spy

Law 15. Crush Your Enemy Totally

Law 17. Keep Others In Suspended Terror: Cultivate An Air Of Unpredictability

Law 20. Do Not Commit To Anyone

Law 21. Play A Sucker To Catch A Sucker--Seem Dumber Than Your Mark

Law 29. Plan All The Way To The End

Law 35. Master The Art Of Timing


Just launch your surprise attack on her.

By the time she finally recovers from the shock, she will think twice before attempting or embarking on such frivolities again in her life.

Thank God we still have some cold calculated men around.

rs172:





Seriously?

Are you serious on this that you really know the man?

Though they might be different families but why i suspect it is the man i know is because 2 kids (a boy and a girl) were involved and the man moved to Australia

cococandy:
There’s something else paining you. Not this topic

@topic, he kidnapped the children. If she calls the Australian immigration services , he can deported based on that. People don’t know their rights and when they go beyond their legitimate boundaries.

I have nothing to say about her cheating. If he’s the one cheating, this won’t even be news.

On no grounds should cheating be a reason to deny someone access to their kids.

I doubt the story tbh.

She should just continue enjoying her promiscuous life cos if she make any funny move and the man is repatriated he may decide to assassinate her

skales67:


Though they might be different families but why i suspect it is the man i know is because 2 kids (a boy and a girl) were involved and the man moved to Australia

Both ways it better the man move.

Marriage scares me these days.. Men are really suffering in silent tho.

Jokerman:
These happened in my neighborhood

A couple got marrried about 4 years ago. They have two kids( A boy and a girl). The man works with a telecoms company as an engineer while the wife works as a banker.
Two years later, the man discovered that his wife was cheating on him, Buh his wife never knew that the man was in the know because he never asked her about it, however he was gathering evidence.

All through this while, though the man was planning to go overseas without telling anyonr not even his wife....

Two days ago, it was learnt the man had traveled to Australia with his two kids, and leaving his wife behind without telling her..

The wife was judging that the man was wicked etc.. The man now forwarded photos, text messages, DNA results of his 2 kids to the family as he said he won't be returning to Nigeria anytime soon...

Now isn't this too much of revenge against the wife.... I felt he should have divorced her or asked her about the cheating etc...instead of just disapearing like that with the kids

What do y'all think... Can you do this or something worse??

wetin DNA result talk?

as for me, I can't treat her like that, I believe 90% of women who cheat, do it for a reason.

If my wife cheat on me (God forbid), I wil definitely be sad and disappointed. but I wil definitely ask her why she cheated. I don't believe in divorce, I wil never ever divorce, that's why I must try my best to get it right in relationship

Savage God bless d man .....he didn't even touch her wat he touched her and she dies in d process d whole story would change again ppl won't even reason she's d cause at all......

izzou:


I'm not defending the woman's whoring prowess, but if the man was caught cheating, would we have said same?

No matter who the man married later on, it won't change the fact that the woman is the mother of their kids, and no woman would treat them as hers like their own mother

Just too bad women has to be blamed for almost everything. She cheated and it's bad but has the man never cheated?

Humans should treat other people the way they want to be treated.

When you would have kuku divorced the woman, you are worsening matters by traveling. There are many beautiful women out there looking for rich engineers. She's just a woman, a cheating one. Divorce her and get on with your life. Save the stress of traveling.

I don't understand where you lots get your false stats from but go off all you want.

toplinetrtrend:


Stop comparing a chcheating man to a cheating woman. One always ends up worse than the other

Ohraykon:
God bless u when it comes to money dats when dey send the children to their fathers naija women don cast marry dem at ur peril only 2% dey okay

Amen..... the only thing they know how to do is indoctrination of the child after birth, telling the child the father is worse than Lucifer in the hope that the child rebels against the father in future, so that if the child makes it, all the goodies will be hers alone to enjoy. I KNOW NAIJA WOMEN like the back of my palm!

Any man who listens and supports only his mother, but neglects and forbids his father is cursed already!!!!

mmm hmm.

Nobody has the monopoly for violence. What if she assasinates him first ?

He should have just been a normal human being in the first place and asked for a divorce with joint or split custody however the judge sees fit.

Instead of taking the law into his own hands.

Ten06:

She should just continue enjoying her promiscuous life cos if she make any funny move and the man is repatriated he may decide to assassinate her

It is people who don't Kno anything that make the loudest noise here.

Do you know that the crime that man committed can make him banned from entering Australia for life? I bet you don't know. You won't sit down and be humble,
instead you open your loud mouth spilling thrash you don't know.

Kidnap of whatever form is never tolerated in the western world. It is almost impossible to fly your underaged kids out without the consent of BOTH parties (this even happened when wizkid's babymama was prevented from flying her kid to U.S.A due to wizkid not consenting to sign the document in time). If by any means you successfully do, you will face deportation and a visa ban when the other spouse reports the issue and is found to be accurate.

SaucyBenks:
blabbering...

Another olodo.

babyfaceafrica:
yinmu

SaucyBenks:
sane man, charged for what if I may ask?

He could be charged for abduction.

Cheating is not grounds for denying someone access to their children

Do Nigerian men act like the children are their too when they leave all he primary child care duties for their wives?

See what I did there? To whom brain is given sense is required.

ogbonti:





Do Nigerian women behave like children are theirs too when they ask men for money for child's upkeep?

Then there must be a death certificate to that effect. If the certificate is found out to be false then the man will definitely get deported and banned for not only misrepresentation but for forgery too.


Last last the man will lose and the woman will have a field day as the kids will be back.

Charelsz:
What if one of the parent is no more ?

I'm very sorry about that but women definitely go through worse heartbreaks.

Please learn to move on, however difficult it may seem.

SaucyBenks:
you think I care anymore? Ladies of this generation don't know what it means to have a good man...

Imagine travelling for hours for a surprise visit, stressed and tired only to see another man right on top of the woman of your dreams. What's heart breaking than that?

Then more problem for him as it implies certificate forgery because the woman didn't consent to it. This means the man will be deported and banned in no time.

Elvis778:

and what makes you think he didn't leave with all those documents?? Remember he did all this secretly with guise of "I AM NOT AWARE". If he could trick the wife and sell their own house with all the legal handover stuffs, tell me what else he cannot do?

midnighter:
he is trying to leave her with her conscience.. silent treatment

I heard a case quite similar to this. But the lady referred him to the authorities and they had to go to court

People should try to follow procedure though the revelation is painful. Cause at times, taking the law into your own hands backfires, especially where there were children involved

He could have gotten away with this if they didnt have children and he just disappeared to Australia

the kind of men that have the heart to do this are too cool and calculated. imagine waiting how many months, collecting evidence and not saying a word..

she should have known him.. i guess such guys can kill

Am speechless.I don't support cheating.If am with you, just believe that am so in.The woman if truly she was cheating didn't do well.But for the Man to take laws into his hand,it's a no no to me.

Jokerman:
These happened in my neighborhood

A couple got marrried about 4 years ago. They have two kids( A boy and a girl). The man works with a telecoms company as an engineer while the wife works as a banker.
Two years later, the man discovered that his wife was cheating on him, Buh his wife never knew that the man was in the know because he never asked her about it, however he was gathering evidence.

All through this while, though the man was planning to go overseas without telling anyonr not even his wife....

Two days ago, it was learnt the man had traveled to Australia with his two kids, and leaving his wife behind without telling her..

The wife was judging that the man was wicked etc.. The man now forwarded photos, text messages, DNA results of his 2 kids to the family as he said he won't be returning to Nigeria anytime soon...

Now isn't this too much of revenge against the wife.... I felt he should have divorced her or asked her about the cheating etc...instead of just disapearing like that with the kids

What do y'all think... Can you do this or something worse??

hmmmmm him own even better self

Do you know how grave and dire the consequences of kidnapping is?

The bolded is for a court to decide. Definitely not the Australian court and they could care less about that. Their only concern will be the kidnapping of those kids. So first and foremost, the man could be jailed or outrightly deported and banned. When he gets to Nigeria them they decide who is more fit to gain custody.

Neddyogu:


It will be tricky to establish a case of kidnapping against the biological father of the kids. What if d guy can prove the woman is not responsible (due to the adultery) and so should not have custody of the kids?

Defender of nonsense. Well, newsflash its the 21st century and sensible women don't tolerate cheating anymore. Eg, Tiwa,
Lilian Esoro, and all women from the western world.

tomju:
stories ha touch the heart. Wait until thee man cheat and see how the woman will react. No excuse for am adulteress. She is lucky we are not in stone age, otherwise she'd be stoned.

As usual. Too many idiots on NL.

Sluvist:
Any body that marries a lawyer, a banker, uniformed personnel and aviation industry staffs should know that he marries the first grade Ashawo, their business is attached to the happenings no matter how holy you think she is, the Oga and V.I.Ps must tastes their puna, if not continuously.

You frustrated alpha males here amaze me with your crass ignorance.

Now answer this question if you have any brain cells.

Which of these two is worse?
1. Kidnapping
2. Cheating

Nobody supported the wife but the man's actions have totally knocked off the woman's adultery such she can easily win this case wherever it is tendered.

You people seem to hate truth and support evil. It's not a suprise though as too much of you lack the necessary gray matter in your skulls to reason rationally.

Mikkyjay17:
Astounded to see ladies here yarning their stench ugly mouths in support of the woman action.

This singular action from the man is preferable than beating her, killing her or inflicting any kinda brutal pain on her. If that was to be the case here, you all would be berating him for such treatment.

Maturity is doing unwonted thing and being considerate.

Who is this mumu?

emperorblog21:
he should invoice d wife so dhat she will poison him abi.


no one will be able to marry d lady again except she divorce d man.


if she marry again she risk 24 yrs in jail