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A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 06, 2019
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality. Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by luvyaself95(m): 9:07pm On Apr 06, 2019
You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys You Must be dreaming

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by ipobarethieves: 9:16pm On Apr 06, 2019
sad sad sad undecided undecided
luvyaself95:
You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys
You Must be dreaming
undecided.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll not take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one and testify it here

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by anochuko01(m): 9:18pm On Apr 06, 2019
coman adopt me abeg...

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:18pm On Apr 06, 2019
U did nt drop ur age range.
Wryt a lil detail abt ursef nah. U dnt xpct people 2 jump on ur pm wit dat lil info abt ursef. I may b interested. Young blood, fresh outta womb cheesy

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by nosiebaba(m): 9:18pm On Apr 06, 2019
You need to face the reality ma. From all that is listed here I feel you need a sponsor not a lover.
You need a man to be responsible in totality but What are you bringing to the table in that relationship? Don't tell us it's only s*x you have to offer

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 06, 2019
Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

grin

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Oluromantic: 9:25pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality.
Madam with the level weh u dey now na to manage the man weh God put ur love for him mind to a fair level. Na for heaven u go see totality when you die.

Culheart:

Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude
If you can't put ur travails behind you, even you won't enjoy the fun u seek.. Thats how men cope with such burden as providers. And this ur presentation would scare any man except for the likes of dangote and otedola

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:27pm On Apr 06, 2019
luvyaself95:
You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys
You Must be dreaming

It’s good to dream u know. I haven’t said that but don’t want additional responsibility all in the name of giving love a chance again. Thanks

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by ipobarethieves: 9:28pm On Apr 06, 2019
TarOrfeek:

Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

grin
Sorry! Not all female are GOATS/DOGS

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by vibbb: 9:29pm On Apr 06, 2019
pls tell us are u a window or divorced ?

If u ar a widow God will surely send help, but den if u ar divorced: madam go and make ur relationship wth ur hubby straight, apologize if there is need to, sort out the whole trash for d sake of ur kids.

I doubt if any man will b willing to take responsibility of anoda man's child.

Be wise.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 06, 2019
ipobarethieves:
sad sad sad undecided undecided undecided.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one snd testify it here

Thanks bro. Left to me, I want to love my kids alone n enjoy life to its fullest but societal pressures no gree

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 06, 2019
PORNeliusHUBson:
U did nt drop ur age range.
Wryt a lil detail abt ursef nah. U dnt xpct people 2 jump on ur pm wit dat lil info abt ursef. I may b interested. Young blood, fresh outta womb cheesy
32yrs old and working

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:37pm On Apr 06, 2019
nosiebaba:
You need to face the reality ma. From all that is listed here I feel you need a sponsor not a lover.
You need a man to be responsible in totality but What are you bringing to the table in that relationship? Don't tell us it's only s*x you have to offer
I have a 9 to 5 job , independent but don’t want an additional baggage. Off course we should be able to help each other when there is need for that

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 06, 2019
TarOrfeek:

Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

grin

Very funny how people think. Anyway some of you talk from experience. Not my wish to be single again but what do I do

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:44pm On Apr 06, 2019
Oluromantic:

Madam with the level weh u dey now na to manage the man weh God put ur love for him mind to a fair level. Na for heaven u go see totality when you die.

Yeah, I tried to but it’s not just working. We all have our flaws but should not be too much.


If you can't put ur travails behind you, even you won't enjoy the fun u seek.. Thats how men cope with such burden as providers. And this ur presentation would scare any man except for the likes of dangote and otedola

Dear, I have that is why I am giving love a chance. Adelekes will suffice too

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by ipobarethieves: 9:47pm On Apr 06, 2019
undecided well, she doesn't want a baba ijebu, bet9ja punters peepz.She want happiness, not a fraudsters/hit and runz.if u are a pauper, FREE HER biko

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by pansophist(m): 9:49pm On Apr 06, 2019
madam, e go hard gan o, he go harrrrd. I doubt any sane man will take the responsibility of another mans kids when he can have a single, younger woman. Especially that no matter what he does, you'll always put your kids first, it's how women are wired. Also, the kids will never see him as a father, regardless if he loved them as his own. If he corrects them, them go change am for am. It's a bad deal for men.

Also, complications from the kid's father, and him being the only non-biological one in the mix. He has inadvertently accepted to be an accessory of convenience, to be disposed when he outlived his usefulness (as a provider for you all). Basically, you need money, and the man is just a vehicle to achieve it. You probably won't love him, that is reserved for the kid's father. The kind of man you want will be smart enough to understand these dynamics, and won't check in. He has better options. Good luck though.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by luvyaself95(m): 9:54pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:


It’s good to dream u know. I haven’t said that but don’t want additional responsibility all in the name of giving love a chance again. Thanks
Don't tie down another person future husband with jazz later
or you should go Shiloh

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 06, 2019
pansophist:
madam, e go hard gan o. He go hard. I doubt any sane man will take the responsibility of another mans kids, when he can have a single, younger woman. Especially that no matter what he does, you'll always put your kids first, it's how women are wired. Also, the kids will never see him as a father, regardless if he loved them as his own. If he corrects them, them go change am for am. It's a bad deal for men.

Real men and good women still exist though. I will get a man that will love me unconditionally I assure you that. Thanks for your advise

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 06, 2019
luvyaself95:
Don't tie down another person future husband with jazz later
or you should go Shiloh
Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by pansophist(m): 9:58pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:


Real men and good women still exist though. I will get a man that will love me unconditionally I assure you that. Thanks for your advise

I wish you good luck though. Respect him sha

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 06, 2019
ipobarethieves:
undecided well, she doesn't want a baba ijebu, bet9ja punters peepz.She want happiness, not a fraudsters/hit and runz.if u are a pauper, FREE HER biko

Exactly. Most people think happiness is all about money

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by ipobarethieves: 10:02pm On Apr 06, 2019
sad sad undecided
Culheart:


Very funny how people think. Anyway some of you talk from experience. Not my wish to be single again but what do I do
undecided.Stop wasting your time dey explain to anybody. U owe NOBODY any explanation. Kids will mock/kal u anything" but" as long as God neva mock /forsake u, , NOTHING DO U.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 10:03pm On Apr 06, 2019
vibbb:
pls tell us are u a window or divorced ?

If u ar a widow God will surely send help, but den if u ar divorced: madam go and make ur relationship wth ur hubby straight, apologize if there is need to, sort out the whole trash for d sake of ur kids.

I doubt if any man will b willing to take responsibility of anoda man's child.

Be wise.
Not a widow. Separated n going through divorce process in court.

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:


Exactly. Most people think happiness is all about money

if happiness is not about money, why do you want a man that is financially stable

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by luvyaself95(m): 10:07pm On Apr 06, 2019
ipobarethieves:
sad sad sad undecided undecided undecided.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one snd testify it here
Happy Dreaming

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Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by luvyaself95(m): 10:10pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:

Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please
Don't act here you don't know charm
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by luvyaself95(m): 10:13pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:

Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please
Don't act here don't you know charm
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by dyangprof(m): 10:13pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:

32yrs old and working

Hello MA, I need ya contact

It's well ijn
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by Nobody: 10:35pm On Apr 06, 2019
dyangprof:


Hello MA, I need ya contact

It's well ijn

Amen. But don’t want to drop my number here. Email will do
Re: A Single Mum Wants To Love Again by torqque7(m): 11:21pm On Apr 06, 2019
Culheart:

Not a widow. Separated n going through divorce process in court.


Well if you were in an abusive marriage then I honestly wish you luck in your search for happiness,but if the marriage ended because it was your fault,or you were never married but just got pregnant out of wedlock then I have no sympathy for you because left for me I can't marry a lady with a kid let alone 2kids except she is a widow and it will take the grace of God self, that is how men are,no sane male will want to father another man's offspring. That is why even the lion will kill the cubs of a lioness that arnt his before he can mate with her,it's NOT just a man thing but the male species generally.Goodluck tho and it's ok to dream and hope.

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