Ma girl confessed she has been sleeping with her cousin, saying the cousin is the first person she ever had sex with n till now somedays when i am at work they still Bleep, we’ve really been close n according to her i am the second man in her life after her cousin... she stayed the same house with her cousin during her first year n they mistakenly had sex the first time which led to the subsequent ones.. they both developed feelings, i love her n she loves me too, but she just can’t get over her cousin entirely even when she knows it’s wrong and she wouldn’t want to do it..we are just a year in the relationship and she told me this like two days ago cus she doesn’t want to continue with it and that she truly loves me.. just thinking if i should let the parents know so they would intervene cus i really want em both to get over it n so i can have her.. she’s really my kinda girl but i don’t just know what to do to help this.. pls advise

tell her parents
give her all the support she would need spiritually and emotionally
give her security... ensure the parents know you are not going to leave her but you can not continue either until this is dealt with.

I hope you know that it is a taboo and it breeds curses... so if you are not spiritually inclined, I suggest you get to it now.

I salute you for your readiness to help her. I wish you both well

Wilson125:
Ma girl confessed she has been sleeping with her cousin, saying the cousin is the first person she ever had sex with n till now somedays when i am at work they still Bleep, we’ve really been close n according to her i am the second man in her life after her cousin... she stayed the same house with her cousin during her first year n they mistakenly had sex the first time which led to the subsequent ones.. they both developed feelings, i love her n she loves me too, but she just can’t get over her cousin entirely even when she knows it’s wrong and she wouldn’t want to do it..we are just a year in the relationship and she told me this like two days ago cus she doesn’t want to continue with it and that she truly loves me.. just thinking if i should let the parents know so they would intervene cus i really want em both to get over it n so i can have her.. she’s really my kinda girl but i don’t just know what to do to help this.. pls advise

greatnaija01:
tell her parents
give her all the support she would need spiritually and emotionally
give her security... ensure the parents know you are not going to leave her but you can not continue either until this is dealt with.

I hope you know that it is a taboo and it breeds curses... so if you are not spiritually inclined, I suggest you get to it now.

I salute you for your readiness to help her. I wish you both well

thanks bro i really appreciate

Well the spiritual consequences are grave so some rounds of deliverance should be sought too

Tell her parents for what? Do you want them to beat up or ostracize the girl? What are you expecting her parents to do for you?

It's obvious that this girl does not want to hurt you, but it is also obvious that she has no plans to stop getting drilled by her cousin; that's why she confessed all that to you.

She loves her cousin more than she loves you.

Leave her and walk away. You've only wasted a year. Don't spend more trying to separate this girl from her cousin, or she may end up hating you for it.

Leave now; there are lots of fish in this big ocean of a world we live in.

Goodluck.

How people preek dey stand for blood relations still dey surprise me. There are traditions where it's an abominable act and some level of cleansing needs to be done, it's obvious she's hooked and should be helped in any way possible

greatnaija01:
tell her parents
give her all the support she would need spiritually and emotionally
give her security... ensure the parents know you are not going to leave her but you can not continue either until this is dealt with.

I hope you know that it is a taboo and it breeds curses... so if you are not spiritually inclined, I suggest you get to it now.

I salute you for your readiness to help her. I wish you both well

stfu bro, cousin have always been getting married since ancient times, till today, muslims still do it, there is nothing wrong with it

Run for your life

Apination:
How people preek dey stand for blood relations still dey surprise me. There are traditions where it's an abominable act and some level of cleansing needs to be done, it's obvious she's hooked and should be helped in any way possible

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lol you really have a brain that is menstruating....

you think its NORMAL? APE like you, the guy asked for how to help the girl... go preach your perversion to the guy's parents.... we have a conscience and we all know INBREEDING is not right.... is there no end to the gore your mind permits?

from cousins it would move to siblings and you would be OK with it... am ashamed you even have DATA but no humane sense.

at least I helped the guy, but you only came here to attack me... I wish you spent your data on knowing better things, JUST IN CASE you are in such illicit relationship taboo, I suggest you change before its too late. Obun

derrydinny:
stfu bro, cousin have always been getting married since ancient times, till today, muslims still do it, there is nothing wrong with it

The best you can do is to leave the relationship. There is a grave consequence for their action, spiritually. Don't be blinded by love if your future matters most to you.

BarrElChapo:
Well the spiritual consequences are grave so some rounds of deliverance should be sought too

tanx man

Next2Bezee:
Tell her parents for what? Do you want them to beat up or ostracize the girl? What are you expecting her parents to do for you?

It's obvious that this girl does not want to hurt you, but it is also obvious that she has no plans to stop getting drilled by her cousin; that's why she confessed all that to you.

She loves her cousin more than she loves you.

Leave her and walk away. You've only wasted a year. Don't spend more trying to separate this girl from her cousin, or she may end up hating you for it.

Leave now; there are lots of fish in this big ocean of a world we live in.

Goodluck.

it’s kinda hard to walk away bro but i will try.. thanks

tee59:
The best you can do is to leave the relationship. There is a grave consequence for their action, spiritually. Don't be blinded by love if your future matters most to you.

so you saying i should walk away?

If you tell her parents, you will lose relationship, because the parents wil be shocked and send the cousin away. The parents will find it hard to trust her ever again, and she will not forgive you. The parents may even ask her about it, and she will know you must have reported to them since you are the only one she confided in. So, tell her you are sad about what she is doing, that you will give her enough time to chose between her cousin and you. Is she d first female to live with her cousins? She does not have any reason to commit such abomination.

After her cousin it's going to be someone you're closely related to. If you get married & you have a son, she'll probably sleep with him too. Which normal person has sex with their cousin? The lack of boundaries & moral fibre should worry you.

Apination:
How people preek dey stand for blood relations still dey surprise me. There are traditions where it's an abominable act and some level of cleansing needs to be done, it's obvious she's hooked and should be helped in any way possible

.. so am not alone then cus I used to think about it also and it always baffles me.. This our generation is just something else..

XhosaNostra:
After her cousin it's going to be someone you're closely related to. If you get married & you have a son, she'll probably sleep with him too. Which normal person has sex with their cousin? The lack of boundaries & moral fibre should worry you.

this is true..

Next2Bezee:
Tell her parents for what? Do you want them to beat up or ostracize the girl? What are you expecting her parents to do for you?

It's obvious that this girl does not want to hurt you, but it is also obvious that she has no plans to stop getting drilled by her cousin; that's why she confessed all that to you.

She loves her cousin more than she loves you.

Leave her and walk away. You've only wasted a year. Don't spend more trying to separate this girl from her cousin, or she may end up hating you for it.

Leave now; there are lots of fish in this big ocean of a world we live in.

Goodluck.

unfortunately he will nof take this advice

Dude whats to eat the pussy alone

Wilson125:
it’s kinda hard to walk away bro but i will try.. thanks

It is hard; I agree.

But, if you stay, you will only end up wasting your time.

She has already told you that she can't part with her cousin and his preeq. So, show some love for yourself and leave.

You deserve someone far better than that.

hmmm,i have never had sex with any of my cousins,but i got two close to one of them,the bond was so intense ,she wanted it to happen,we loved each other so much,she refused to date any guy cos of me,not until she went to school, i dont even think if we should feel guilty for loving each other ... everybody frowns at it,but it happens quit often in nigeria, cousins fall in love