Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
I've been single for some time now and I really want a serious relationship.
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano

aanuoluwami14:

what?.

at this point you are not sure if its the cannabis that is doing the thinking for you o.... so why not stop it for a while and really see if you want him in your life.

Since you are mature, why not ASK HIM DIRECTLY.... Oga, where is this leading to? Let him give you his manifesto and give you the respect you deserve as a woman by ASKING YOU OUT PROPERLY....

Also consider that the place he met you is NOT really the place where women can be respected or treated with dignity and he already made a move on you that really got you wet so he has seen that you have low virtues.... PLS REDEEM YOURSELF else his friends will also come and test you

greatnaija01:
at this point you are not sure if its the cannabis that is doing the thinking for you o..
Also consider that the place he met you is NOT really the place where women can be respected or treated with dignity and he already made a move on you that really got you wet so he has seen that you have low virtues.... PLS REDEEM YOURSELF else his friends will also come and test you

I've tried but I still can't stop thinking about him. I even dreamt about him yesterday. I tried calling his line but it was switched off throughout the whole day and even now. Do you think it's spiritual?? Cos am starting to think so. The feeling is just too weird.

DONT BE SO QUICK TO JUMP TO SPIRITUAL CONCLUSIONS.....

you may have bonded with him because he is an alpha male.... BUT you really have to define it else it will just be a sexual romp and make you end up in depression more than you have been.

sit and have a decent talk with him and let him ask you out o.... guys can be bad.

lilianofentse:
I've tried but I still can't stop thinking about him. I even dreamt about him yesterday. I tried calling his line but it was switched off throughout the whole day and even now. Do you think it's spiritual?? Cos am starting to think so. The feeling is just too weird.

greatnaija01:
DONT BE SO QUICK TO JUMP TO SPIRITUAL CONCLUSIONS.....

you may have bonded with him because he is an alpha male.... BUT you really have to define it else it will just be a sexual romp and make you end up in depression more than you have been.

sit and have a decent talk with him and let him ask you out o.... guys can be bad.

Noted. Thnx

XhosaNostra lefulefu IamD18 help a friend.

You are obviously not normal.

greatnaija01:
at this point you are not sure if its the cannabis that is doing the thinking for you o.... so why not stop it for a while and really see if you want him in your life.

Since you are mature, why not ASK HIM DIRECTLY.... Oga, where is this leading to? Let him give you his manifesto and give you the respect you deserve as a woman by ASKING YOU OUT PROPERLY....

Also consider that the place he met you is NOT really the place where women can be respected or treated with dignity and he already made a move on you that really got you wet so he has seen that you have low virtues.... PLS REDEEM YOURSELF else his friends will also come and test you

i second to this

I can boldly tell you that guy has a girlfriend... He wants that which is meaty in between those legs... Seem you lack control n if this is true, you should have your meetings in public. Prolly a restaurant or something.

lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation

You just sold your reputation and respect for maltina.


You just met a guy and after some days,you allowed him kiss you, you ain't even careful.


Didn't you think he would have done that to other girls just like you?

You just fell easily for him, after he might have gotten what he wants, he leaves you and dumps you.
Then you cry out, " Men are wicked"


You weren't even thinking about your safety, you didn't think about disease ( STD,STI) you just allow a stranger kissed you.

When you get the bastard disease, don't come to nairaland to weep oo.

Kylekent59
You weren't even thinking about your safety, you didn't think about decease ( STD,STI) you just allow a stranger kissed you.

When you get the bastard decease, don't come to nairaland to weep oo.

1. Did he have sex with me??
No.
I wouldn't even allow him to have sex with me.
2. You shouldn't have quoted the whole thing. You just filled up space for people that have important things to say.

hmm hòrny gals everywhere

SmellySperm:
hmm hòrny gals everywhere

??.

how old are you?

seems he was nervous because he has a girlfriend .
He is probably just getting used to such hookups you know. Get a random girl , play the alpha male , sex her and move on.

We live in a society where men play women they begged to be their girlfriends and you are here asking all these questions about a man who hasn't defined any relationship.

Sex is cheap in today's society.
People private parts are more public than their phones.

Don't be fooled by any bonding you guys have .
He probably read some pickup artiste books or blogs and is trying it out on you.

Don't let your feeling and hormones get in the way of logical thinking

Most ladies reason with their emotions that's why its getting easier to bed them.

Seems like you are an introvert and one who loves romance novels too.

A very easy prey

You may end up discovering that real life and fiction are two different things the hard way

Let him fvck Nonsense out of u let sense cum in


That's the only way to know if you two are really meant to date or nah.

iTearHerToto:
Let him fvck Nonsense out of u let sense cum in


That's the only way to know if you two are really meant to date or nah.

can't you have sense for once in ur life again??

lilianofentse:

1. Did he have sex with me??
No.
I wouldn't even allow him to have sex with me.
2. You shouldn't have quoted the whole thing. You just filled up space for people that have important things to say.

So you saw no points on what I had commented?


Anyway, I wish you good luck with your struggle.

lilianofentse:
can't you have sense for once in ur life again??

You asked for a good advice I gave one and you calling it senseless



Ok I withdraw my advice

iTearHerToto:
You asked for a good advice I gave one and you calling it senseless



Ok I withdraw my advice

kindly do so. Thanks

Police is killing innocent Nigerians and this one is talking about her conji

Auntie what ever u choose to do should bother us, we have bigger fish to fry

Khd95:
Police is killing innocent Nigerians and this one is talking about her conji

Auntie what ever u choose to do should bother us, we have bigger fish to fry

. Thank you, next!

Fake story, but continue

Nne, you are such a fine girl!

franchasng:
Fake story, but continue

fake story?? Kindly copy the post and paste it into Google search. If any match comes up, come back here and post the screenshot otherwise shut your mouth

lilianofentse:
fake story?? Kindly copy the post and paste it into Google search. If any match comes up, come back here and post the screenshot otherwise shut your mouth

oh sorry I forgot you smoke Igbo, and u want a responsible man and healthy relationship

Unless u are not a Nigerian which I believe, time will tell, continue

But I think he really likes you though.... Kelvin guys know how to knack pekus wella,give him pekus to knack and you will never regret it..

That guy na real badt guy wey get babe one side.

Aunty abeg this one wey you dey smoke Igbo join so, carry am for mind say a pussy once bleeped can always be refucked as long as the fucker and the fuckee agrees that the last time it was bleeped it was well bleeped.

No go enter one chance ooo

EdoBozz:


Aunty abeg carry am for mind say a pussy once bleeped can always be refucked as long as the fucker and the fuckee agrees that the last time it was bleeped it was well bleeped.

No go enter one chance ooo

what sort of fuckery is this?

franchasng:
oh sorry I forgot you smoke Igbo, and u want a responsible man and healthy relationship

Unless u are not a Nigerian which I believe, time will tell, continue

I don't smoke. I vape