lilianofentse:
what sort of fuckery is this?

No vex.
But seriously you fine sha. I see why the guy rush your lips like that. No blame am.

lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano

How are WE supposed to know what he is thinking when you have not even spoken to him? How long do you think he is going to keep calling while you play “hard to get” it’s childish and quite frankly if I was a guy 1 missed phone call is the maximum as life is too short to be wasted on women who don’t know what they want.
What do you want that’s the pertinent thing here?
And when/if you have figured it out
Talk to him. You are not the only woman who knows he exits.

Lilian,I just saw ur pics n I can say that u are pretty

I can tell u that u are just about to be played by a chop-n-run guy,forget whatever thoughts u are having right now.All I can tell u is DAT the guy knows what he is doing.Just think straight,use ur head n not ur heart

By the way,y should a pretty girl like u be involved with cannabis, pls don't ruin ur self at least for the sake of DAT real guy who u do not know now but is waiting for u

lilianofentse:
XhosaNostra lefulefu IamD18 help a friend.

Lilian come and join Arsenal naw.....you look like an arsenal fan

lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano

Good guys came your way, but you ignored them.. sorry you are dealing with a fuxk boi

You weren't even thinking about your safety, you didn't think about decease ( STD,STI) you just allow a stranger kissed you.

When you get the bastard decease, don't come to nairaland to weep oo.

When a guy or lady is experiencing orgasm,they don't think of anything else until they reach their climax,and don't forget she said he started kissing her hard meaning it was never expected from both parties.So these Std u mentioned was even the last thing on their minds,so when advising somebody consider these angle.

Your story is mad erotic. It got me really wet.

rex444:
Lilian come and join Arsenal naw.....you look like an arsenal fan

arsenal? no.... NEVER

MilesLamar:



Good guys came your way, but you ignored them.. sorry you are dealing with a fuxk boi

kk. I'll try to get over him

UyaiIncomparabl:
Your story is mad erotic. It got me really wet.

yeah I love detailing. Its what I do

SavageBoy:
Lilian,I just saw ur pics n I can say that u are pretty

I can tell u that u are just about to be played by a chop-n-run guy,forget whatever thoughts u are having right now.All I can tell u is DAT the guy knows what he is doing.Just think straight,use ur head n not ur heart

By the way,y should a pretty girl like u be involved with cannabis, pls don't ruin ur self at least for the sake of DAT real guy who u do not know now but is waiting for u

I vape instead of smoking so it does little to no harm dear

Crimpsy:

When a guy or lady is experiencing orgasm,they don't think of anything else until they reach their climax,and don't forget she said he started kissing her hard meaning it was never expected from both parties.So these Std u mentioned was even the last thing on their minds,so when advising somebody consider these angle.

ps tell him

Bojack:
1. Dat nigga has a girlfriend already

2. He is only looking for sëx

3. Don't trust any guy named kelvin

best comment ever Kevin name = playboy eat and run

lilianofentse:
I've tried but I still can't stop thinking about him. I even dreamt about him yesterday. I tried calling his line but it was switched off throughout the whole day and even now. Do you think it's spiritual?? Cos am starting to think so. The feeling is just too weird.

It's not spiritual, your emotions are running amok and you need to tame it. Since you want more than sex from this person I'll advise you to relax, like take a chill pill and get this man out of your head. Cos you have to assume that it's sex he wants from the feeling up and all.

Take it slow, avoid getting intimate and see where it leads.

lilianofentse:
arsenal? no.... NEVER

Haba U just broke my heart . . ....

JustBeing:


It's not spiritual, your emotions are running amok and you need to tame it. Since you want more than sex from this person I'll advise you to relax, like take a chill pill and get this man out of your head. Cos you have to assume that it's sex he wants from the feeling up and all.

Take it slow, avoid getting intimate and see where it leads.

will certainly do that. Thanks

dis world get as it be. so as you small reach u don begin the knack something.

Initial Gragra, it will soon clear.

Bojack:
1. Dat nigga has a girlfriend already

2. He is only looking for sëx

3. Don't trust any guy named kelvin

thesame name of the guy who stole ma babe...n my ex latter discover he has 3 extra babe and one was pregnant for him

united442:


thesame name of the guy who stole ma babe...n my ex latter discover he has 3 extra babe and one was pregnant for him

the guy is an extraterrestrial player.

lilianofentse:
the guy is an extraterrestrial player.

lolxx..i jst pet her n told her nt 2 cry

when she left,i nor knw wen i take laugh troway food wey i cook

united442:


lolxx..i jst pet her n told her nt 2 cry

when she left,i nor knw wen i take laugh troway food wey i cook

karma is a bish tho. She thought she has landed but she never learned to fly in the first place.

DukeofNZ:
dis world get as it be. so as you small reach u don begin the knack something.

explain further.

lilianofentse:
explain further.

wetin you wan make i explain. you don reach 15 years of age? you dey too small to de knack. dis world don spoil finish

DukeofNZ:


wetin you wan make i explain. you don reach 15 years of age? you dey too small to de knack. dis world don spoil finish

from what I just read I can deduce you're asking abt my age. Am older than 18. A 15 yr old girl won't write like this. Use your sense.

lilianofentse:
from what I just read I can deduce you're asking abt my age. Am older than 18. A 15 yr old girl won't write like this. Use your sense.

me no de pity somebody o, so make you no try insult me. you too small to de knack, na me talk am

greatnaija01:
at this point you are not sure if its the cannabis that is doing the thinking for you o.... so why not stop it for a while and really see if you want him in your life.

Since you are mature, why not ASK HIM DIRECTLY.... Oga, where is this leading to? Let him give you his manifesto and give you the respect you deserve as a woman by ASKING YOU OUT PROPERLY....

Also consider that the place he met you is NOT really the place where women can be respected or treated with dignity and he already made a move on you that really got you wet so he has seen that you have low virtues.... PLS REDEEM YOURSELF else his friends will also come and test you

Do guys still toast or ask girls for a date in this generation.

With my car all I need do is hop in and the rest is history.

DukeofNZ:


me no de pity somebody o, so make you no try insult me. you too small to de knack, na me talk am

blah blah blah blah. Next!

IamD18:
You are obviously not normal.

uncalled for

Kylekent59:



You just sold your reputation and respect for maltina.


You just met a guy and after some days,you allowed him kiss you, you ain't even careful.


Didn't you think he would have done that to other girls just like you?

You just fell easily for him, after he might have gotten what he wants, he leaves you and dumps you.
Then you cry out, " Men are wicked"


You weren't even thinking about your safety, you didn't think about decease ( STD,STI) you just allow a stranger kissed you.

When you get the bastard decease, don't come to nairaland to weep oo.

as you are like this you went to school abi?
Go back to all the schools you attended and ask for a refund of all the school fees you ever paid.
Since you can't spell common "disease"
Yinmu!!!!

lilianofentse:
can't you have sense for once in ur life again??

can a goat ever say no to cassava leaf?!?
Sense is a luxury he can't afford so leave him
Just look at his moniker.....

iTearHerToto:
You asked for a good advice I gave one and you calling it senseless



Ok I withdraw my advice

save your advice for your sisters!!!
Thank me later