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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Fathertony: 8:35pm On Apr 14, 2019
Khd95:
Police is killing innocent Nigerians and this one is talking about her conji

Auntie what ever u choose to do should bother us, we have bigger fish to fry
if you have nothing to say just close the thread and walk away!!!
You will not conserve that 10mb data recharge bonus airtel just gave you. When it finishes now, you come to nairaland and disturb us with your plea for Airtime!!!

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Fathertony: 8:36pm On Apr 14, 2019
[s]
franchasng:
oh sorry I forgot you smoke Igbo, and u want a responsible man and healthy relationship

Unless u are not a Nigerian which I believe, time will tell, continue lipsrsealed
[/s] if your mind has made you to believe you have made sense with what you just typed, then you have a serious problem walahi!
Seek counsel
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by rtdCivilservant: 8:55pm On Apr 14, 2019
lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano
'He wasn't that handsome/good looking'? meaning he is now handsome/good looking? please I am confused can u please explain further so as to enable me offer the best form of professional advice.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by CaptainMitch: 8:58pm On Apr 14, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Your story is mad erotic. It got me really wet.

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 9:05pm On Apr 14, 2019
IamD18:
You are obviously not normal.
I expected you to be intellectual but you're obviously not. tongue
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 9:11pm On Apr 14, 2019
rtdCivilservant:

'He wasn't that handsome/good looking'? meaning he is now handsome/good looking? please I am confused can u please explain further so as to enable me offer the best form of professional advice.
Seriously I really don't know why am attracted to him. I was just stating that I was confused as to the magnitude of the overwhelming feelings I had for him out of nowhere.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by starstaz(m): 9:15pm On Apr 14, 2019
vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him.


The aroma of cabis will not kill some pple
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by starstaz(m): 9:17pm On Apr 14, 2019
lilianofentse:
Seriously I really don't know why am attracted to him. I was just stating that I was confused as to the magnitude of the overwhelming feelings I had for him out of nowhere.

Allow d cabis to leave ur system first and think thru it carefully before u leap

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by rtdCivilservant: 9:22pm On Apr 14, 2019
Fathertony:
[s][/s] if your mind has made you to believe you have made sense with what you just typed, then you have a serious problem walahi!
Seek counsel
woman wrapper! shame

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 10:05pm On Apr 14, 2019
1. I went through your previous thread and I found out that you love and enjoy to be fvcked very well which is not a bad thing ..

2.. your boyfriend/ex was cheating on you eventhough he fvcks you very well ..

3. It's probably been weeks since you were well fvcked the way your boyfriend/ex fvcks you...

4.: Conclusion : you are sexually attracted to this guy although he is not very handsome... There is already some form sexual connection you have with him... He can easily get you dripping wet with little or no effort ... The guy already knows you have a soft spot for him...

Bonus comment from me:... As a sexologist that I am, it's very possible that you might have even masturbated while thinking about your last near sex encounter with him of how he practically made you dripping wet...

Cc: lilianofentse

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Kylekent59: 10:06pm On Apr 14, 2019
Fathertony:
as you are like this you went to school abi?
Go back to all the schools you attended and ask for a refund of all the school fees you ever paid.
Since you can't spell common "disease"
Yinmu!!!!



You have forgotten some phones have auto correct grin


Written words cannot be changed. Let it remain like that.

When others see it, they will know.

Try to type " Bleep" remove one "k", nairaland will change it to bleep.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 14, 2019
generationz:

You may end up discovering that real life and fiction are two different things the hard way

No need for real life, because the story itself sounds like fiction.

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by tunize(m): 10:13pm On Apr 14, 2019
lilianofentse:

1. Did he have sex with me??
No.
I wouldn't even allow him to have sex with me.
2. You shouldn't have quoted the whole thing. You just filled up space for people that have important things to say.
your number 1; i can bet you is a truthful lie cos if there was no interuption third base direct cos u were already out of control.

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by generationz(f): 10:17pm On Apr 14, 2019
truthsayer009:

No need for real life, because the story itself sounds like fiction.
lol true
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 10:28pm On Apr 14, 2019
generationz:


lol true
You suppose dom sell that Car wey dey your profile since oh! Ahn ahn
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by dollytino4real(f): 10:34pm On Apr 14, 2019
SmellingAnus:
1. I went through your previous thread and I found out that you love and enjoy to be fvcked very well which is not a bad thing ..

2.. your boyfriend/ex was cheating on you eventhough he fvcks you very well ..

3. It's probably been weeks since you were well fvcked the way your boyfriend/ex fvcks you...

4.: Conclusion : you are sexually attracted to this guy although he is not very handsome... There is already some form sexual connection you have with him... He can easily get you dripping wet with little or no effort ... The guy already knows you have a soft spot for him...

Bonus comment from me:... As a sexologist that I am, it's very possible that you might have even masturbated while thinking about your last near sex encounter with him of how he practically made you dripping wet...

Cc: lilianofentse
guy
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by generationz(f): 10:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
truthsayer009:
You suppose dom sell that Car wey dey your profile since oh! Ahn ahn
shuo they've alls been sold. Ill change the profile pic lol
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by generationz(f): 10:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
truthsayer009:
You suppose dom sell that Car wey dey your profile since oh! Ahn ahn
shuo they've alls been sold. Ill change the profile pic lol
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Rockyrascal(m): 10:57pm On Apr 14, 2019
lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
I've been single for some time now and I really want a serious relationship.
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano
hope it is not the story you read on wattpad you pasted here?

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 11:06pm On Apr 14, 2019
Rockyrascal:
hope it is not the story you read on wattpad you pasted here?
def not
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2019
SmellingAnus:
1. I went through your previous thread and I found out that you love and enjoy to be fvcked very well which is not a bad thing ..

2.. your boyfriend/ex was cheating on you eventhough he fvcks you very well ..

3. It's probably been weeks since you were well fvcked the way your boyfriend/ex fvcks you...

4.: Conclusion : you are sexually attracted to this guy although he is not very handsome... There is already some form sexual connection you have with him... He can easily get you dripping wet with little or no effort ... The guy already knows you have a soft spot for him...

Bonus comment from me:... As a sexologist that I am, it's very possible that you might have even masturbated while thinking about your last near sex encounter with him of how he practically made you dripping wet...

Cc: lilianofentse
SmellySperm better stop hiding using this moniker. Am dead serious
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Rockyrascal(m): 11:12pm On Apr 14, 2019
lilianofentse:
def not
you look like an east African girl, definitely not Nigerian!....Taken a clue from the brick wall smiley
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 11:17pm On Apr 14, 2019
Rockyrascal:
you look like an east African girl, definitely not Nigerian!....Taken a clue from the brick wall smiley
South African nt eastern.
Dual nationality. Nigerian also

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by luvyaself95(m): 11:25pm On Apr 14, 2019
IamD18:
You are obviously not normal.
You never cease to surprise Me guy grin
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 11:57pm On Apr 14, 2019

embarassed i still think about him. Even now
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by goodnewscliff(m): 12:41am On Apr 15, 2019
think of me naa.... am a good diversion cheesy grin

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by johnkey: 2:55am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
I don't smoke. I vape
can we vape together pretty?
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Funkyswagzz(m): 3:00am On Apr 15, 2019
Obviously the weed is making u not to forget about him. You shud know weed makes girls wet and Hot. Best advice.. have fun with him and forget about relationship if u can. It's all up to u.

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 3:05am On Apr 15, 2019
Girl are u sure u are okay? something tells me u want to bleep him, and if u do don't forget to give me my own share or else I will not forgive u
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by iTearHerToto: 6:15am On Apr 15, 2019
Fathertony:
save your advice for your sisters!!!
Thank me later
I didn't remember quoting you did I

Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
SmellySperm better stop hiding using this moniker. Am dead serious
no mention my name abeg,am a different dude entirely

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 7:23am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
Smelly Sperm better stop hiding using this moniker. Am dead serious
We are different individuals...

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