IamD18:
I'm still looking for where she claimed love you.

whitebeard:
Sex...nigerian kids within 13-14 all ready know a lot about it, they fantasise about it, they want it, then the get it, then they want more, every where on the internet (nigerian) sex sex sex...funny is how they brag about it like it some kind of achievement dat puts them above others...!

ValCon888:
You effed up when you showed her "basic human sympathy". You should have collected your share from her "national cake" now she will go and dish it for free to that sharp niggah.

Anyways you did the right thing to let her go before she cries rape like a town crier.

But next time you have to be ruthless with this chicks and slay them without mercy.
Afterall, a stiff dlck has no conscience.

ValCon888:
You effed up when you showed her "basic human sympathy". You should have collected your share from her "national cake" now she will go and dish it for free to that sharp niggah.

Anyways you did the right thing to let her go before she cries rape like a town crier.

But next time you have to be ruthless with this chicks and slay them without mercy.
Afterall, a stiff dlck has no conscience.

whitebeard:
Sex...nigerian kids within 13-14 all ready know a lot about it, they fantasise about it, they want it, then the get it, then they want more, every where on the internet (nigerian) sex sex sex...funny is how they brag about it like it some kind of achievement dat puts them above others...!

Funkyswagzz:
I met this girl on facebook and she happens to know my family and my cousin so we got along very quickly. The first day we met our conversation was as if we knew each other for a long time. I sensed she likes me. To cut the story short, the first day she came over to my place we had a little thing going on, along the way she told me she have had sex with only one person and she don't want to have sex with me. So the next time she came around the whole thing was on another level and she turned me on and I felt like having sex..(she gave me head like a pro) she actually agreed but started crying and that made me not to go ahead cos I don't want her to feel used (basic human sympathy).

It was like two weeks we've not seen cos of work and some other stuff that came along. I asked to see her this pasted weekend and reactions I got from her made me feel as if she don't want to see me but she eventually came on sunday and she was happy to see me . Now when i wanted to kiss her she covered her lips. I was like why are u acting this way and was like from kissing it might lead to somefin else. My dear do you know this girl told me no kissing no sex like never ever.

I actually noticed shes keeping in touch with the guy she claims broke her virginity. She actually told him on call she will see him as soon as she leaves my place on that Sunday evening. So after a short argument she wanted to go since only want sex from her. I want a serious relationship and not games so had call it a quiet. Mehn I can't be a puppet to someone. Guys I dunno if I made right decision here?

LilMissFavvy:
You said you want a serious relationship. So it is only when she allows you to use her as you like, that you feel the relationship is serious. You don't even have patience to wait till she's ready to give in. She resorted to telling no sex, no kisses cuz you rushed her, and she feels dats all you came for. It's better she dumps your ass.

SBL28:


Rape advocate.

Funkyswagzz:
I met this girl on facebook and she happens to know my family and my cousin so we got along very quickly. The first day we met our conversation was as if we knew each other for a long time. I sensed she likes me. To cut the story short, the first day she came over to my place we had a little thing going on, along the way she told me she have had sex with only one person and she don't want to have sex with me. So the next time she came around the whole thing was on another level and she turned me on and I felt like having sex..(she gave me head like a pro) she actually agreed but started crying and that made me not to go ahead cos I don't want her to feel used (basic human sympathy).

It was like two weeks we've not seen cos of work and some other stuff that came along. I asked to see her this pasted weekend and reactions I got from her made me feel as if she don't want to see me but she eventually came on sunday and she was happy to see me . Now when i wanted to kiss her she covered her lips. I was like why are u acting this way and was like from kissing it might lead to somefin else. My dear do you know this girl told me no kissing no sex like never ever.

I actually noticed shes keeping in touch with the guy she claims broke her virginity. She actually told him on call she will see him as soon as she leaves my place on that Sunday evening. So after a short argument she wanted to go since only want sex from her. I want a serious relationship and not games so had call it a quiet. Mehn I can't be a puppet to someone. Guys I dunno if I made right decision here?

generationz:



Nothing wrong with her not wanting sex . Its her choice and you should respect that.
However if she still keeps in touch with the man who deflowered her then I'll advice you shouldn't take her seriously to avoid hearbreak.

If you can't cope with the rules just end the relationship or whatever you guys are into right now

Don't listen to those guys who say you are not a sharp guy for not forcing your way through. Its just sex , its not a schorlaship or winning lottery that can change your life in many different ways.

You'll meet other women who will make things easy for you and if kongi is really bad olosho 5k dey way no go give you problem.

My advice is not to take this girl seriously.

She seems like an emotional person. Women who are very emotional cheat more. She might not cheat because she thought about it beforehand but a little tweaking from her ex and leg don open.

LilMissFavvy:
You said you want a serious relationship. So it is only when she allows you to use her as you like, that you feel the relationship is serious. You don't even have patience to wait till she's ready to give in. She resorted to telling no sex, no kisses cuz you rushed her, and she feels dats all you came for. It's better she dumps your ass.

vibbb:

Anoda maga, Wonder how some guys will just choose to be a slave in dia relationship, yet still be seeking for advise.

Anyway, you dont seems to luv her from the way u presented yourself, right from the 1st date you guys hav been smooching,kissing and BJ.

Oga, talk tru: you just won yanshi the chikala i.e you just want your own share from her bumbum.

Be-wise and don't be stupid.

Funkyswagzz:
I met this girl on facebook and she happens to know my family and my cousin so we got along very quickly. The first day we met our conversation was as if we knew each other for a long time. I sensed she likes me. To cut the story short, the first day she came over to my place we had a little thing going on, along the way she told me she have had sex with only one person and she don't want to have sex with me. So the next time she came around the whole thing was on another level and she turned me on and I felt like having sex..(she gave me head like a pro) she actually agreed but started crying and that made me not to go ahead cos I don't want her to feel used (basic human sympathy).

It was like two weeks we've not seen cos of work and some other stuff that came along. I asked to see her this pasted weekend and reactions I got from her made me feel as if she don't want to see me but she eventually came on sunday and she was happy to see me . Now when i wanted to kiss her she covered her lips. I was like why are u acting this way and was like from kissing it might lead to somefin else. My dear do you know this girl told me no kissing no sex like never ever.

I actually noticed shes keeping in touch with the guy she claims broke her virginity. She actually told him on call she will see him as soon as she leaves my place on that Sunday evening. So after a short argument she wanted to go since only want sex from her. I want a serious relationship and not games so had call it a quiet. Mehn I can't be a puppet to someone. Guys I dunno if I made right decision here?

Preshy561:
Sex maniacs everywhere.
All these ubiquitous talk of sex by men is becoming so irksome.


You quickly ran to nl cos she said no to sex. My brother, it isn't a must to stay in a relationship before it turns you to a rapist.
If the rules aren't welcoming by You, quit and look for your type of woman.
Mtchew

TonyeBarcanista:

Normal emotional blackmail prank by most unfaithful ladies. Bro, the tears was a FAKE one! And I put it to you that that girl has had more than 5-7 sex partners (and may likely maintaining some). Don't trust her body count figures if she isn't a virgin- this is a basis rule of thumb.


Dont be a fool or a mugu, the girl knows what she is doing. She is only trying to hold you to emotional ransom.



My brother, here we go, that guy is the REAL deal in her life while she sees you as a mugu backup!

My Advice

Call it quit!

But if you choose to remain, blame yourself for whatever consequences it brings.

doris4u:
Bro u were too fast in discharging that lady, since u claim she liked u and u too wanted something serious, you should have exercised patience. Who knows she might give in to u, forget about the "Never" part she said. She might not really mean it, besides not everyone plans sex at a particular time. It might just happen without u knowing it. One's emotion does a lot

Funkyswagzz:


There's alot more to it than the ordinary eyes can see.. she actually told me she dated this guy who is virgin for five yrs b4 sm dude called Dan came along the way and broke her virginity and now she's no longer intimate wiv any of them buh I noticed she always in contact with Dan almost every time we r together. Her attitude was a no no for me

Funkyswagzz:


Don't mean to be rude or anything but I want ask are you a saint?

Funkyswagzz:

Dunno what's up with the girl guess she wants to put me in her friend zone

Seandisputed:
I used to be like you in the past... professing fake love just to get in between the thighs.

Now i tell you straight up, if you ain't cool with it, fine.

You don't love her, you just want sex.