Unrated900:
OK

If we all married the girls at 18 as op claimed,then

Who will Marry the 26 year old mum then.

OP never claimed that.

My guy ...what you wrote is correct ..they are fact ..bit not the truth ....The truth is what God has in plan for you ...My Dad a banker ..married at 29 had me at 30 , died at 46...left nothing for at us. . my mum a civil servant married at 25,became a widow at 39...I married at 39 ...and I dare say I have set up a enough for my children ...a enough that if i die today ...I know they are in good hands ...it doesn't work out the.way you typed

Kudos to the writer, early marriage is good as presented by the writer though the economy reality of our society prove otherwise, but all the same many Nigerian youth need to change our orientation about work because the basic essence of education is not to secure job but the be able to make an ideal decisions, as for me I married at 25 even then I was n 300level in University, though I have a personal business I was running then even as an undergraduate, after my service I diverted to poultry. Some may say how do I get startup capital, capital is important but your passion and perseverance are the most important factors, I struggle up the ladder, now glory be to God almighty, I have my house, operational vehicle as well as a personal car couple with 3 lovely kids, In short you can marry early and still be what u wanted to be in life all u just need are good planning, patience and to be hardworking together with a good wife.

Tunagee:


No rush o! Just take your time. Na runs girls and ashawo full outside now o, including our university graduates and masters holders. Dem full badoo and Inmessage, even churches. Shine your eye o!!!

My brother I tire ooo. Even the last one I had was still attached to her ex. Na so so yeye babes I dey meet sef abi na so I wowo. 30 and single doesn't sound funny at. Na evening newspaper I don turn so. Lol. Well patience.

Too much excuses in here. Smh

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord.


Oh ye men of zero faith

truthsayer009:


Yes truth hurts & It's really painful.

You should be worried as well, don't you think? You think the problem of this economy will be suffered by one gender?

How will the guys who you claim are pained approach you to ask for your hand in marriage, If the population of Nigeria is 180M+ and 86.9 million Nigerians now living in extreme poverty represents nearly 50% of its estimated 180 million population.

Which means 7 out 10 guys that will approach you is broke. The remaining 3 is who you now have to struggle with other Women with.

How many male youths living in Western countries like Germany, Australia, Canada etc complain about brokeness? Their women cannot complain too, 9 out 10 guys who approach their Women are doing well because of their economy.

You should be really worried I tell you, It's not even a joking matter. Unless you want to marry a G+ boy or 6th wife like Regina Daniels then no p.

As hard as it may seem, not every woman wants a rich guy. Some are willing to settle for less. Provided love is present.

truthsayer009:


Lmao, you actually think getting married at 36 for a Man is late? 40+ is what is considered late for a Man, not 30+

How old are you if I may ask. You seem to be in your thirties.

martius101:





No b ur fault nah.....shey b nah marry Dem go marry you......+you sef get married first to that man that u want.

You are in your thirties.

whitering:
Those of you insulting the op would one day realize that what he has said is nothing but the truth.

Many are feeling bad not because of the write up but because of the reality on ground. Those hating should ask God to accelerate their turnaround blessings.

Typical African analog thinking.

Turnaround blessings ko.....

With fallacious believes in generational curses and abstract breakthroughs....

No will to affect lives positively and push the limits of science, the arts, commerce and economy. Just build house and buy car...such shallow and superficial thinking. Very parochial and selfish with no thought for their fellow men.

People, I just described the mentality of the average naija citizen

What is the life expectancy of men. Look 36 is late but you can keep lying to yourself.

truthsayer009:


Lmao, you actually think getting married at 36 for a Man is late? 40+ is what is considered late for a Man, not 30+

ednut1:
Bros life no easy as u paint am. Many guys are over 30 earning peanuts. How den go marry. Average mariage costs 2m plus renting and pimping house 1m don waka.

its not a must you do exotic wedding start life with a good partner and in the nearest future after 2 3 kids if favor smile on you you can have a wedding of your choice

baby124:
What a dumbass. Some ladies that married at 18 and as virgins are infertile while some that married at 40 are very fertile. Infertility is mostly biological and not age related. Some women are biologically men and vice versa but they look like women or men on the outside. If you like marry them at 15, no child for you. Everyone should marry when they feel ready. Young or old marriage. See this muni writer just writing rubbish.

I disagree with your opinion... infertility is age related... the writer did not write rubbish... do more research and see...

TOPCRUISE:
Everybody wants to marry at 30. I even planned to marry at age 24 but the economic realties in this country will make you irresponsible if you try it.

I know of some who tried it and defied all odds which include the financial burden and challenges in the country which will outweigh them and tag them irresponsible. It was a risk they took. Though they are still surviving, and struggling they have become hardlined debtors, a nuisance and liability to neighbours and so much irresponsible. Yet they hold on that it was maturity that made them take their stand.
I don't want to take that risk and I won't advice anyone on such.

lol but you are so on point. Marriage has nothing to do with maturity but unfortunately that's how our poor uneducated society sees it. How can a man be married with kids and still lives with his mother in the family and his children now depend on the mother that he supposed to be care of?? Now the society will still find a way to tag him as responsible, just because he was able to use his dickkk that now makes him matured? Nigerians are the sickest set of ppl if u ask me. Marriage should be when u are financially stable, that's why the ibos chase wealth first. When everything is set and ready then they find a younger lady to settle down with but that lady's enjoyment will be 80% guaranteed plus most of them already have a built home by then.... That's the perfect plan!!!

TYPICAL Nigeria Write-up.
Guy u need visit places oooo
When you enter places like the US, you go understand say LADIES no send childbearing.
In fact a female MICROBIOLOGY TEACHER I met there once told me that she has 4 huge dogs to herself. And that she dislikes KIDS.
She prefers DOGS to kids as kids are difficult to raise.

IkpuMmadu:


https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

By Anayo M. Nwosu

okk

IkpuMmadu:


https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

By Anayo M. Nwosu

Good one bro

[truequote author=Mr2wealth post=77522867]It is every man and woman's wish to marry and settle down early and have a good family life. However, the prevailing economic, sociopolitical conditions is making that dream not to come through. The worse factor is always from within the mind and the family one comes from.
So, it is easier said and written than done. [/quote]

MelaninGold:
Op is making some points here. But you need to be financially, emotionally and psychologically prepared before going into marriage.

A young man of 25 is old enough to get married but the economy of our country is very disabling. You will agree with me that some 25 year olds are still searching for admission due to the almighty JAMB or even finance. For those who are in school already,may be in 200l or 300l. Now, after graduation,NYSC.. looking for a job. This could take 2,3,4,5 years. When they finally get a job,they have to save enough before thinking of marriage.

Let's be sincere here..most men of 25-30 are not even serious-minded people.
Take Nairaland for example, I have observed that most young men and women are more interested in sex, violence, tribalistic threads than those that promote unity, innovation, education entrepreneural skills. Imagine if this peolpe choose to get married now.

Just to give an example of the disadvantage of late marriage. I know a family where the parents got married late. Mom was around 33,dad was about 36.They got married and had to start having kids. They have 5 children now, Their eldest child is 26, about to graduate. The other children are undergraduates. Parents are no longer working. Everyone now depends on the first born - soon to be medical doctor.

In a nutshell... early marriage is good y'all.

true

So life is all about having children early ndi uchu

Most guys are jobless before 30 years so the easiest way is baby mama things

The assumption that once u stopped working you won't earn money again is foolish what happened to your investment over the 30 yrs working yrs. My father retired when I gained admission into the university yet trained me to masters level even as a first child

OgbanjeProphet:
Op, you have valid points. But marriage is not what one should rush into. If it is at the age of 40 you are financially capable, it's better than marrying early.

I agree with you

It would be appropriate to defecate on this thread

OGHENAOGIE:
is a must to do wedding??...dats yy I like Islam...u don't spend much u Marry...my friend married in kaduna and spend less Dan 50k for everything including d marriage rights...

if the lady agrees. Her parents or urs will kick against it na. Am from d south btw

U see Marriage is nt to be rush you get marry when you are ready if you knw you are ready and capable early no problem if nt wait on till you are fit. Don't go and start get married early because they say it better and then start facing tribulation in it wait till you are ready everyone is nt the same





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missyblissy:


Look for a good woman not a slay gueen and start small. You must not have it all before you get married. Plan with a good woman in one bedroom apartment and see as your life will change for better.

The problem is how to find that one good woman that is willing to do this with you. Na money hungry women full everywhere. Bros i feel you but we scare sha!!! With God you will find her

A good hardworking woman oooo. Not the lazy ines that all they know is spend spend spend

the so called good women around me still want lavish shit abeg. Even parents want that shit.

And when did marriage become an achievement??

Marry right and not marry quick.

wonder233:
yen yen yen... Obsession with marriage is why we are still where we are in this part of the world.
You will hardly see articles about how young people can attain financial freedom or at least survive in the face of daunting and grim economic realities.
No! It's articles goading them into marriage and reproduction to swell the already bloated and unkempt population.
Sometimes I truly wonder if this part of the world isn't cursed afterall

The curse is real bro

People should understand that marriage isn't for those who have achieved their dreams. As a matter of fact, the best person to discuss that big idea and investment with is your spouse. Dangote (although hailed from a wealthy family), had not achieved his dreams when he married his first wife and had his first daughter. Dangote today is 61, his first daughter, Halima is over 35.

I'm not saying those who have no means should marry, but we all must stop giving excuses. If marriage did not stop Dangote from achieving his dreams, then it won't stop you. Your marriage can't be worse than Dangote's, a man who has had 4 failed marriages, with 13 children. Yet, he's Africa's richest.


Y'all should stop giving excuses. Your dreams are not bigger than Dangote's!

What a nice write up, more wisdom to the writer, may God help everyone and give them grace and mercy, medically is not good to marry late, but economical challenge is the main problem.

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As a woman it better you get marriage early but JST be careful

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