Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.

4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?

5. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

6. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

7. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

8. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

Very insightful

True talk....but op the table u are shaking.....

Wizywiz:
True talk....but op the table u are shaking.....

Which table

That broke girl u see there could be lavishing all her money, buying call card and boxers, wasting her call card on one dude she loves somewhere and collecting from u to even feed that guy she loves, it happens, I have seen it, Girls are crazy like that

FromZeroToHero:

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.

4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?

5. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

6. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

7. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

8. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

Just like many Nigerian youths,I was jobless and broke for some time after Nysc,I was neither lazy nor a leech. But now I can say I'm comfortable at least.
What if a girl is broke but hard working,what if she really wants to be independent but things ain't working out. No condition is permanent ok. That broke guy or girl can later break through and be the source of your financial breakthrough too.

FromZeroToHero:

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.

4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?

5. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

6. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

7. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

8. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

what if she genuinely doesnt have?

A broke girl that's hardworking shouldn't fall in this category...
BTW,,not all broke girls are leeches

Rachele:
what if she genuinely doesnt have?

A broke lady should not go into a relationship.

Greatzeus:

Just like many Nigerian youths,I was jobless and broke for some time after Nysc,I was neither lazy nor a leech. But now I can say I'm comfortable at least.
What if a girl is broke but hard working,what if she really wants to be independent but things ain't working out. No condition is permanent ok. That broke guy or girl can later break through and be the source of your financial breakthrough too.

What exactly are you saying?

PaulAris:

What exactly are you saying?

All I'm trying to say is you are a full fledged slowpoke

Rachele:
what if she genuinely doesnt have?

Why then would she wanna be in a relationship?
Somethings are not just possible.
Funny, but this are kinda girls who has got someone they spend severely on.
They'd suck a man financially only to spill it on themselves and someother guy(yours truly is xo used to that).
These are ways to know your girl ain't worthy of you.
She's feeding on you but not feeding you.
Not adding benefits to the relationship.
Then you gotta recheck, you got yourself a Leech!

Greatzeus:
All I'm trying to say is you are a full fledged slowpoke

Oh well, I hope the OP doesn't take offence at this

Sorry man, women are not even expected to have much. All they need is their pretty faces or curves or accents and men even degree holders would join the queue of suitors at their disposal.

I would advice women to work and earn enough coins for themselves but too late, many have been doing that from ancient times.

PaulAris:

Oh well, I hope the OP doesn't take offence at this

I took offence at what you wrote. It's insultive saying "what's this one saying" now you trying to play victim card,vamos

Greatzeus:

I took offence at what you wrote. It's insultive saying "what's this one saying" now you trying to play victim card,vamos

Lol!
You was referring to me?
Apologies, I didn't think it was mine. You could prolly pass it on to the next folk.
...
[At bold]; That's your problem not mine.
If that's what you could interpret from a comment/my post made with no harm in mind, then its obviously your insecurity getting the better of your thinking.
But hey, I take no offense still.
Tak! tak!

Next!

FromZeroToHero:

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.

4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?

5. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

6. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

7. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

8. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

Really?? *mindset*

Nice one. Only men with low self esteem, men that doesn't know their worth, men that doesn't have or know where they are going date broke girls. Broke girls that have nothing to theirselves than few clothes which are even rags and an iPhone. That's all she has got all her lives, jumping from one guy to another coupled with all bad characters in her. Can't deal with that. I bullshit you once i see any broke girl trait in you. They are cancerous!

Obodo999:


A broke lady should not go into a relationship.

A broke guy shouldn't date too

Rachele:
A broke guy shouldn't date too

Yes you are right. No broke person, man or woman, should go into a relationship.