Please advice her. NO INSULT

From Jane (Not her real name).

Pls I need advise on this issue,my fiancé came for introduction early this year (January) he came with his people and on the day of my birthday last month he proposed n I accept, so he discussed with my elder sis that I'm staying with on how to go about my list n mg sister say he will get back to him and since then my sis never say anything concerning d wedding stuff again..even when I told her that he proposed she told me to go n hide d ting that I shouldn't wear it till she have decide, I don't know what my sister told her hubby that my guy will gv him on phone he will just shout at him n cut d call or he wouldn't pick my guy call so my guy told me to calm down that things will work smoothly
So later on my guy called her to know how far about what they discussed n she just told him nobody is getting married this year,my guy say OK n end d call..then my sister told me I should forget about marriage this year that till they build my mom house before taking anyone there
And my guy is ready this year cox he have being preparing since last year...and next year my guy family are doing their dad 5 years remembrance and they are going to spend a lot of money on it...and this my sister is a full time housewife n I don't know who is going to start d building before I even think of marriage, And this my guy has been to my mom house anytime he travel for business he will stop by n give her some stuff but I never mentioned it to my sister before she think am doing something behind her back
,she told me to quit my job n stay with d kids at home that she don't have time to go out again since they are on break,a time she bring them to my office I never complaints cox I love those Kidd so much,but my main issue is who is going to build d house?
When she married her hubby its was the same house she took him.mind u we have refurnished d house n do some touching. My mom will accept whatever I say but if my sister called she change her mind,am just 26,God bless

stay dere!! u tink say time dey baa
Ditch ur elder sister opinion nd marry dat dude b4 someone else will marry him

You will b chocked whn u get invitation to his wedding wth anoda babe, same house ur sis did hers has now suddenly become forbidden.

You better get in touch with ur mum and get things sorted. Abi na ur sis won sponsor d marriage ni?

Make hey whn d sun shines.

#Be wise.

Your older sister has ill intentions. Marry the guy or you will be seeing pre-wedding pictures of a fiancée and your man on NL.

Some siblings r very wicked.

pedrilo:
Some siblings r very wicked.
My own broda we suffered togeda b4 he traveled out wants me to wait until he completes his building project b4 I can emigrate to Europe.
To make matters worse, I hav just bn given admission by a uni there, just to pay sch fees n collect visa from embassy then japa but my own broda is askin me to wait for him to finish his project b4 he can support me.
Greedy n self centered bastard

How is your brother greedy? Isn’t it his money?

You are the self centered entitled one here, see how angry you are over money that is not your own.
If you think it’s that easy why not hustle money and travel on your own?

You either wait till he can support you, or you find the money and go on your own. Stop bad mouthing your bro, it’s the same 24hrs in the day that God gave both of you.

CanadianNaija:


How is your brother greedy? Isn’t it his money?

You are the self centered entitled one here, see how angry you are over money that is not your own.
If you think it’s that easy why not hustle money and travel on your own?

You either wait till he can support you, or you find the money and go on your own. Stop bad mouthing your bro, it’s the same 24hrs in the day that God gave both of you.

u dnt hav sense.
Someone we all supported to go there now wants everyone to wait for him to build himself an empire b4 assisting others n ur saying shiit. Fool

pedrilo:
u dnt hav sense.
Someone we all supported to go there now wants everyone to wait for him to build himself an empire b4 assisting others n ur saying shiit. Fool

Liar...you didn’t support him anything.

Oya support yourself na...lying entitled rat.

You people want him to die because he’s the first to have siblings or family, don’t go and hustle for yourself leech.

Only God knows why your sister isn't in support of your settling down. 26 is not just my dear. You are ripe for marriage and the best time is now. Travel home and duscuss with your mother and let her see reasons why you should be granted that freedom before you loose him to another. I wish you the best. Don't hesitate to cut your sister off the plans if that's what I'll take.

Your sister is enemy of your progress. She want you to quit your job and stay at home to take care of her children and not approving you marrying your man. Pls cut off your sister from your marriage plans and go ahead.

Please what exactly is your sister's part or importance here? Is it because she houses you that you are allowing her run your life. She even asked you to quit your job to stay and take care of her children.

She doesn't even have your interest at heart. She can keep you down as long as it is convenient for her.

You are waiting for her to approve your marriage. Keep waiting until you are 45 and still tied to her. Maybe then, you will wake up. If one way seems blocked, please try another route. Your sister doesn't own your life

My dear ur sister shouldn't decide for you, infact that ur sis is a jezzybell, how can she tell u to quit ur job to take care of kids is she going to provide money for upkeep nd the rest, e gt as u go carry play with en hubby u will see urself on the street.... U need ur moms blessings and not that of ur wicked sis... Am also sorry for calling her wicked sis, dats the only word dat rings in my head as I type now

Jayneek:
Please advice her. NO INSULT

From Jane (Not her real name).

Pls I need advise on this issue,my fiancé came for introduction early this year (January) he came with his people and on the day of my birthday last month he proposed n I accept, so he discussed with my elder sis that I'm staying with on how to go about my list n mg sister say he will get back to him and since then my sis never say anything concerning d wedding stuff again..even when I told her that he proposed she told me to go n hide d ting that I shouldn't wear it till she have decide, I don't know what my sister told her hubby that my guy will gv him on phone he will just shout at him n cut d call or he wouldn't pick my guy call so my guy told me to calm down that things will work smoothly
So later on my guy called her to know how far about what they discussed n she just told him nobody is getting married this year,my guy say OK n end d call..then my sister told me I should forget about marriage this year that till they build my mom house before taking anyone there
And my guy is ready this year cox he have being preparing since last year...and next year my guy family are doing their dad 5 years remembrance and they are going to spend a lot of money on it...and this my sister is a full time housewife n I don't know who is going to start d building before I even think of marriage, And this my guy has been to my mom house anytime he travel for business he will stop by n give her some stuff but I never mentioned it to my sister before she think am doing something behind her back
,she told me to quit my job n stay with d kids at home that she don't have time to go out again since they are on break,a time she bring them to my office I never complaints cox I love those Kidd so much,but my main issue is who is going to build d house?
When she married her hubby its was the same house she took him.mind u we have refurnished d house n do some touching. My mom will accept whatever I say but if my sister called she change her mind,am just 26,God bless

My dear escape and find your happiness and destiny ooo. Your sister want to use you as nanny and put your destiny on hold. Did her husband wait until ur mom's house was built before marrying her? What gibberish! Better carry your man and go do court marriage first and move in with him until your family head calm down.

aprilwise:
Your sister is enemy of your progress. She want you to quit your job and stay at home to take care of her children and not approving you marrying your man. Pls cut off your sister from your marriage plans and go ahead.

As in eh, some people can be selfish

CanadianNaija:


Liar...you didn’t support him anything.

Oya support yourself na...lying entitled rat.

You people want him to die because he’s the first to have siblings or family, don’t go and hustle for yourself leech.

out of the abundance of d hrt d mouth speaketh.
Better go n help ur family members because wat goes up must surely come down.
Wen u fall there will be no one to catch u.

pedrilo:
out of the abundance of d hrt d mouth speaketh.
Better go n help ur family members because wat goes up must surely come down.
Wen u fall there will be no one to catch u.

Get a life you wretched theif! My family members are not leeches like you.

Evil being...see the bile you spit out against your own brother. It’s your type that will kill him to inherit his property. Daylight wizard!

God will continue to uplift your brother and protect him...and the evil that you harbor in your heart against him will sent back to you.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My dear escape and find your happiness and destiny ooo. Your sister want to use you as nanny and put your destiny on hold. Did her husband wait until ur mom's house was built before marrying her? What gibberish! Better carry your man and go do court marriage first and move in with him until your family head calm down.

Exactly, @Op go and inform your mother. Also be very prayerful, your Aunty is an enemy of progress, she is also jealous of you.

CanadianNaija:


Get a life you wretched theif! My family members are not leeches like you.

Evil being...see the bile you spit out against your own brother. It’s your type that will kill him to inherit his property. Daylight wizard!

God will continue to uplift your brother and protect him...and the evil that you harbor in your heart against him will sent back to you.

even a fool considers himself wise.

no offence intended, but that ur sister issa witch!
u need to grab da bull by da horn, take da guy to ur mum and uncles, let them start ur marriage preparations.
if u keep mute, u go old

Na when u go find yourself for shiloh2030 with one guy picture, na that time u go get sense?
Sister carry ur fiance go meet ur mama make una reason one on one leave ur sister.
If not u go go your fiance wedding this year with another babe.

Your sister isn't happy for you, dey have nothing against the guy hence no negative jive on him so wats d excuse? The rest is up to you to secure ur happiness n move on to the next stage of life. May God grant you wisdom