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| When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 3:36pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
There's this girl I love very much..i offended her and now she says she still loves me but she just needs some space and some time off from me. I told her that's another form of breaking up; but she said no that she doesn't want to break up with me. My question is has anyone ever gotten back to normal with their partners after some time off from each other.. But she assures me that things we be back to normal before one to two months. So I'd like to seek the advices of mature guys and ladies who have experienced such before.. NB : I'm 95% sure that this girl in question loves me. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by opparadise: 3:59pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: That is what you get when you seek incessantly, the undivided attention of a girl. I am sure if you accorded yourself some space and respect and not always wanting her with you, the 'female-space pride' of hers wouldn't be a problem now. . Most girls (not wives) tend to abuse the feeling of care to them but when you resort to not caring, you will see her caring--ironies of life. . I'll advise you give her all the time in the earth she needs and focus on you becoming serious a man and getting married. I bet, every lady doesn't play with a serious man. . Relationship is not for break-up but marriage. If it is not for marriage, you are bound to end in situationships. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Biglittlelois(f): 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
opparadise: Did you see the part where he said he offended her?? The basic question to ask is what the offence was to know the magnitude of what he did whether it deserves the temporary withdrawal or not instead of this baseless assumption of the female mind and thinking  3 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by xynerise: 4:09pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
There is more to life than just being in a sexual/intimate relationship, especially unprogressive ones. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Lotel: 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Pls state your offense before you can be given solid advice |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
The girl was always looking for a chance to go off to fvck some dude and you gave her the chance by offending her. Well she wants to take a break to focus in someone else 15 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: op base on experience, your babe is 95% gone... my advise? give her space, respect her wish and give her what she ask for.. dnt call, message, or even ask of her.. get busy with other things in your life while you patiently wait and observe if she will actually come back after the said period of time. if she comes back, good for the both of you, BUT if she don't, OP move on with you life; D this method can actually tell you if she really love you now or not.. BUT don't seek or act wanting, like calling out texting her... DNT!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 4:18pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
united442:don't talk rubbish. The girl will come back pregnant with another dude's Baby. Never take back a girl that goes and comes back if you know what's good for you. 11 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Headlesschicken(m): 4:20pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
| Everyday on nairaland,we get new Motherphuckas asking questions some previous Motherphuckas once asked.. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 4:32pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
opparadise:hmmmmm, This says a lot about u bro, but don't dwell on this belief, cos wen u meet a matured n focused girl, she may prove u wrong and dis particular belief may turn out negative. Love n care sudnt be gambled or toy with by both parties, no matter wot. @Op, I'm happy u admit ur offense n no one is asking u to share wot happened (some things are meant to be private). GutsOverFear: First of all, who told u dis (@bolded)? If u care to hear d truth anyway, dat babe mind is gradually leaving d relationship, it might av finally even left but she's just considering some societal factors. U av a lot to do if u still love her....respect d fact that she needs space but u still need to be close to her. Let her see evidence that u are a changed person n u will never try dat kinda poo again. Show her love n care, more than wot u'v always bn showing her. If u can try this n stop dwelling on d fact that she loves u blindly n u can do any messy tin, then, things can change for good. Peace. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 4:33pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ubunja: am not talking rubbish, if she come m comes back, it's left for op to take her back or not..no doubt she need a space to Zap another guy; D... but dude,stop being silly over my comment as if na me cause am make d girl leave op  |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by opparadise: 4:39pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
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| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 4:42pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
united442:alright. Lol your fvck was censored to zap |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
If a girl tells you she "needs space", this is what she means 9 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Biglittlelois(f): 5:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
opparadise: Looking for faults? Now I see you are one of those machismo nonentitis who supports same gender regardless of what was clearly stated, thank God Op knows he is at fault and wants to know the next step forward, but you have clearly made it your life's purpose to be an ignorant nerd who prefers to heap blame on the lady, such a weakling you are and also in real life at best who don't own up to responsibilities and faults hence the way you feel you typed something sensible by attacking my person. Your type is best banished to oblivion as your existence is more or less a dot. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Preshy561(f): 5:20pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
So many hare-brained, ludicrous, asinine and ditsy comments I read from these chaps everyday makes me wanna lose faith in men in total; (but, God forbid.) Op, if she truly needs space, give her some space. Humans most times get tired of certain issues and wanna hold back. She will miss you and come around for sure. Just ask when the sabbatical leave is ending. 2 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by lilmaydee(m): 5:24pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
op, your babe is gone already. just zero your mind, while u stay as a friend with her. Get another chick, and start a new relationship. if she comes back, know that the other dude didn't measure up to her expectations. But the relationship will never be the same again. I will leave you with this quote from Rollo Tomassi, " it is always time and effort better spent developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship." stay woke... 2 Likes |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky:Believe me when I say I hurt her. I really did. I unknowingly hurt her to the point of her crying..she said I'm playing with her heart and taking her for granted.. I asked if she wanted a breakup she said no that she still loves me but she needs some space and time from me. Bro she's my girl and I know she loves me.. Though I really kinda took her for granted but unintentionally. What I did to hurt her It doesn't have anything to do with cheating though. I'm not like that and she knows it It's just a case of negligence of someone's feelings and care |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 6:39pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
united442:Though it's hard not to call her but that's exactly what I'm gonna do.. Thanks |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 6:57pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Lotel:I wrongly accused her of what she didn't do without finding out first. So she tried calling me for two days I didn't pick and in the process gave me uncountable missed calls. When I eventually picked I paid her a deaf ear when she tried explaining to me. I told her we needed to reevaluate our relationship and she began to cry and pleaded with me that we don't have to because she loves me and would never hurt me in anyway. Not until this money I realized that what I accused her of was a mistake on my own part. Maybe I made a mistake by disclosing it to her that it was my fault. But I never would have been able to live with myself if I hadn't told her. That's when she said she needed some space and time to clear her head. |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
ubunja:you are wrong dude. She could barely stay without me |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Apination(m): 7:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Weak ass nigga |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Don't mind him. I know my girl and I know that we have hurt each other before, but non of us have taken the hurting game to this extent I did. She's a delicate soul and I shouldn't have. I thought as usual I always get away with it, but this time she's not letting me off the hook that easily. I quoted one guy with what I did to offend her. You can search for it and read it and offer me your view as advice. |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Preshy561:Thanks for ur mature advice.. As for ur fist paragraph, if you listen to them you would even break up with your partner for showing you too much care and love. But all I have to do is skim through the sensible comments no matter how harsh or soothing they are to me. |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by anthonyuncle(m): 7:31pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
she don dey leave u ooo...
begin dey find replacement |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by luvyaself95(m): 7:35pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:Have been in this kind of situation once and the girl eventually left me i just pray your girl don't drop you... such girl will see themselves as stupid for loving unconditionally... |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Apination:don't call me weak or do you know me personally? No matter how strong you are feeling everyone still has a weakness. And even if they rarely admit it, Everyman has a woman who is their weakness. You know what makes you even more weak, Is you not admitting you have a weakness. And for all y'all feeling like a bad boy here online don't think I don't know the drill as well. But I doubt you can be a bad boy around the one you genuinely love |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:This is touching, how I wish she sees this. Since she told u she's not breaking up with u, then chill...But I still maintain my words, show her proofs that u wudnt do such again. It is one thing to say sorry, another thing to "act" it. Don't distance ursef from her too much wen she's getting d breathing space...send her romantic msg and gifts, call her regularly (but don't disturb her with "too much" calls), after few weeks u can request to hangout with her. Just do things dat will make her happy, she's ur babe, u sud know d tins dat put smile on her face. All u need is to "reassure" her n just like I said earlier, tins will change for good. Please don't take her for granted again, relationship is sweet wen u respect ur partner's feeling. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky:Thanks very much. Your words are encouraging. 1 Like |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:Don't try dis...u know y? Cos u are d one at fault, two drivers can't drive d same vehicle. I'm actually seeing dis after my other reply. U can only do this if she ask u not to call her. Do, but don't let it be so much to d extent of disturbing her with it in d process. |
| Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:U are welcome bro |
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