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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by frozen70(f): 6:39pm On Apr 16, 2019
lilianofentse:
I've tried but I still can't stop thinking about him. I even dreamt about him yesterday. I tried calling his line but it was switched off throughout the whole day and even now. Do you think it's spiritual?? Cos am starting to think so. The feeling is just too weird.

Stop playing pranks with yourself

You are I love and interested in him, he wants to date you and also bed you

If you desire same go ahead

There is need for you to have a boyfriend simce you said it's long you have been into relationship

Starving or depriving yourself of any relationship without a good reason (religion matters) is like depriving your self of food when you know that if you don't eat you won't have strength
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Femi316: 7:39pm On Apr 16, 2019
lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
I've been single for some time now and I really want a serious relationship.
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano
Plz reformat your brain before you can stop thinking him....?
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 9:41pm On Apr 18, 2019
Femi316:
Plz reformat your brain before you can stop thinking him....?
please speak in English.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Femi316: 8:47am On Apr 19, 2019
lilianofentse:
please speak in English.
Ok......emmm before you can stop thing about him.....you need brain resetting........?
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by luminouz(m): 10:30am On Apr 19, 2019
lilianofentse:
please speak in English.
I know you're of mixed parentage....n ur in the country now....I'm not bothered with ur story cuz u already know what u need to do cuz ur intelligent.

happy easter to you! Could have come for my chicken if u dey Lagos or Abuja! tongue
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 10:34am On Apr 19, 2019
luminouz:

I know you're of mixed parentage....n ur in the country now....I'm not bothered with ur story cuz u already know what u need to do cuz ur intelligent.

happy easter to you! Could have come for my chicken if u dey Lagos or Abuja! tongue
enx. Am not there rn. Happy Easter to you too. Enjoy your day
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by luminouz(m): 10:37am On Apr 19, 2019
lilianofentse:
enx. Am not there rn. Happy Easter to you too. Enjoy your day
Uwc.

Awwwwww....come back soon,u hear...make I host u small tongue

Hui Jian
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 1:03am On Apr 20, 2019
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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by zexy2030(m): 11:09am On Apr 20, 2019
weed the reason behind the infatuation, it happens to me too

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 10:33am On Apr 21, 2019
zexy2030:
weed the reason behind the infatuation, it happens to me too
I think that's the reason. Coz its only when am high I start to think about my ex even though I know I can never think about him on a normal day..

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Telvin7(m): 11:14am On Apr 21, 2019
lilianofentse:
I think that's the reason. Coz its only when am high I start to think about my ex even though I know I can never think about him on a normal day..
why is a pretty girl smoking ..... chai
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Telvin7(m): 11:21am On Apr 21, 2019
I got two words thought here...
But the strongest...
Hv u ever heard of fuckboys-- they bash into different girls ......tell them sweet words , use the tactics ,Bleep them and move on....
Maybe he just started the game and u looked like an easy prey for him ........
Or maybe ....
The guy likes u but he seems nervous undecided

No,no,no .... angry
Na Bleep boy ....beginner in the game...... cheesy

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 11:24am On Apr 21, 2019
Telvin7:
why is a pretty girl smoking ..... chai
because she experiences depression every third quarter of the year.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Telvin7(m): 11:37am On Apr 21, 2019
lilianofentse:
because she experiences depression every third quarter of the year.
it kills girl .....or lady undecided
I smoke too coz of depression but I stopped.....
If it's about relationship , just think of how many people are in the world .....
Go out and make new friends......
Filter your WhatsApp if u keep thinking of whatever is making you depression if u open the app......
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 12:10pm On Apr 21, 2019
Telvin7:
it kills girl .....or lady undecided
I smoke too coz of depression but I stopped.....
If it's about relationship , just think of how many people are in the world .....
Go out and make new friends......
Filter your WhatsApp if u keep thinking of whatever is making you depression if u open the app......

I don't smoke cigarettes. So I don't know what would kill me.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by EmekaBlue(m): 12:34pm On Apr 21, 2019
d guy knows u like him..thats why he carressed ur body easily...even played with ur niipple.

do whatever u like,meet him again for hawt romance or ignore him waiting for another guy.Life is not certain

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 1:41pm On Apr 21, 2019
lilianofentse:
I don't smoke cigarettes. So I don't know what would kill me.

We can build something real together if we can give it a try. Here is my email address . emekaalezie4@gmail.com
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Telvin7(m): 4:04pm On Apr 21, 2019
EMEKUSBOY9:


We can build something real together if we can give it a try. Here is my email address . emekaalezie4@gmail.com
guy u dae make me laff
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 10:16am On Apr 22, 2019
EMEKUSBOY9:


We can build something real together if we can give it a try. Here is my email address . emekaalezie4@gmail.com
so I should mail you?.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 10:36am On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
so I should mail you?.

Yes my damsel don't mind what the world are saying about us. Or give me your contact even if is email address
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 22, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Your story is mad erotic. It got me really wet.

Just like that?
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:10pm On Apr 22, 2019
scaramucci:


Just like that?

The story is erotic na.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:11pm On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
so I should mail you?.

That one go just fu*k you for nothing. Igbo boys are no good.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 2:44pm On Apr 22, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


That one go just fu*k you for nothing. Igbo boys are no good.
u thought I was even going to mail him. Never. He should keep waiting for me
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


That one go just fu*k you for nothing. Igbo boys are no good.

Wow, will you be happy if a man judge you this way? You don't even know me
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by EMEKUSBOY9(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
u thought I was even going to mail him. Never. He should keep waiting for me

Life is all about choices, good or bad. But remember you have your own life to live and decision to make. am not worried if you not going to mail me or give me your contact details because i don't expect every woman to like or want me. i was only been matured to create an avenue for us build something real together, but i can see you lacking vision . So tell those people encouraging you not send me mail or give me your contact to keep it up. Time and chance is the answer to every man. Take care

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by logan2(m): 3:35pm On Apr 22, 2019
you are indeed an i-diot (sorry thats how i scold people,dont take it to the heart ) , because you know exactly what you want ( serious relationship ) but your ever itchy pussy wont let you , because it turns on at every slightest chances ..... if you are matured enough,i think you should call him and ask him of your intentions towards you, or better still play the silent game and see if he will call,i bet he will mostly never call you....

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 3:40pm On Apr 22, 2019
frozen70:


Stop playing pranks with yourself

You are I love and interested in him, he wants to date you and also bed you

If you desire same go ahead

There is need for you to have a boyfriend simce you said it's long you have been into relationship

Starving or depriving yourself of any relationship without a good reason (religion matters) is like depriving your self of food when you know that if you don't eat you won't have strength

Oshey sex therapist, please I need advice oh! Come & advice me.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by frozen70(f): 3:55pm On Apr 22, 2019
truthsayer009:


Oshey sex therapist, please I need advice oh! Come & advice me.

Lol
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


The story is erotic na.

We could work out something if you are in Lag.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by damtan(m): 7:53pm On Apr 22, 2019
Alpha males, that's how we roll. We'll leave you guessing and confused.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 9:50pm On Apr 22, 2019
damtan:
Alpha males, that's how we roll. We'll leave you guessing and confused.
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