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Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 1:33am On Apr 21, 2019
vVera:
so what should I do with the information you just provided ?
Did I ask for it ?
Lemme go and find transformer and hug.
grin just to let you know that "A fully grown up tree cannot be bent into a walking stick"(Kenyan Proverb) and "If you educate a man you educate one individual, but if you educate a woman you educate a family"... So, stay educated.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by khiaa(f): 1:34am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
Where did y'all crawl out of? Where did you see me say "intelligent" for the side chic? I used the word "sharp-brained" because there are also dull-brained physiotherapists.
Don't try to play on words, we all know what you meant when you said, brain-sharp physiotherapist. undecided and comparing her to his dumbass wife.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Nobody: 1:40am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
grin just to let you know that "A fully grown up tree cannot be bent into a walking stick"(Kenyan Proverb) and "If you educate a man you educate one individual, but if you educate a woman you educate a family"... So, stay educated.
That's how insecure people behave, always quick to talk about money and their achievements when no one asked them for it.

Au revoir.
No qualms.
Am not replying you again.
Argue with yourself.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Biglittlelois(f): 1:42am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
[s]A lot of folks here are evidently shallow minded with the way they have been quoting this my statement out of context... First and foremost, I am not and would never be a side chic and secondly, you don't quench a fire with more fire(That's what the man's wife did)...you have to be careful to kill a fly that is perched on your scrotum: a side chic that has the guts to enter into your matrimonial home without any iota of fear, is also capable of messing you up beyond repair(that's where you need wisdom more than gragra[/s]).
And I say again....

Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 1:43am On Apr 21, 2019
vVera:
That's how insecure people behave, always quick to talk about money and their achievements when no one asked them for it.

Au revoir.
No qualms.
Am not replying you again.
Argue with yourself.
Vous êtes la personne la moins sûre que je connaisse au nairaland tongue
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by luminouz(m): 2:30am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
Vous êtes la personne la moins sûre que je connaisse au nairaland tongue
U!!!! undecided
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by srclark: 3:24am On Apr 21, 2019
vVera:
That's how insecure people behave, always quick to talk about money and their achievements when no one asked them for it.

Au revoir.
No qualms.
Am not replying you again.
Argue with yourself.
EYIN MAMA E SEMPE
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by srclark: 3:24am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
Vous êtes la personne la moins sûre que je connaisse au nairaland tongue
EYIN MAMA E SEMPE
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by GavelSlam:
StarUp:
A lot of folks here are evidently shallow minded with the way they have been quoting this my statement out of context... First and foremost, I am not and would never be a side chic and secondly, you don't quench a fire with more fire(That's what the man's wife did)...you have to be careful to kill a fly that is perched on your scrotum: a side chic that has the guts to enter into your matrimonial home without any iota of fear, is also capable of messing you up beyond repair(that's where you need wisdom more than gragra).
Actually, sometimes you do quench fire with fire...literally.

Fire fighters sometimes burn the yet to be touched vegetation so the fire is better controlled and unable to reach valuable property.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by lonelydora: 4:09am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
If I were her husband, I would just divorce her. Now I know the reason why her husband is cheating on her - she lacks wisdom: must she put it online? Can't she ask elders for advice on how to go about regaining back her home instead of that foolishness? ... When you see a man cheating on his wife, just know she is a dumbass...no wonder the man went for a sharp-brained physiotherapist as against a wisdomless wife.
Wait ooo....i hope you don't date married men?
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by johnkey: 4:17am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
A lot of folks here are evidently shallow minded with the way they have been quoting this my statement out of context... First and foremost, I am not and would never be a side chic and secondly, you don't quench a fire with more fire(That's what the man's wife did)...you have to be careful to kill a fly that is perched on your scrotum: a side chic that has the guts to enter into your matrimonial home without any iota of fear, is also capable of messing you up beyond repair(that's where you need wisdom more than gragra).
how will you know if you are a side chic lol? someone's main chic can be another man's side chic and my side chick can be someone's main chic.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:01am On Apr 21, 2019
Is this from a female? I doubt. If the reverse was the case would you ask the man to ask the elders for advice? Do you know how long she endured before she blew it up online? There is no justification whatsoever for cheating in marriage. Read through your posts but ican't decipher what you are trying to say. When ppl cautioned you for writing this and ask if you are a side chick, you are quick to dodge by telling them that they can't get ur point. Bt you made no point dear, your msg means d man is right. Is your concience alive or dead? Not everyone blow their trumpet online, so keep your so called achievements aside. Your obtuse and puerile message only confirms you are a stolid being, you think u know it all but believe me you dont sound like an educated modern lady. I don't believe you are. I have made my points, go ahead and quote me as you like, then watch me ignore you.
StarUp:
If I were her husband, I would just divorce her. Now I know the reason why her husband is cheating on her - she lacks wisdom: must she put it online? Can't she ask elders for advice on how to go about regaining back her home instead of that foolishness? ... When you see a man cheating on his wife, just know she is a dumbass...no wonder the man went for a sharp-brained physiotherapist as against a wisdomless wife.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by dominique(mod): 6:46am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
If I were her husband, I would just divorce her. Now I know the reason why her husband is cheating on her - she lacks wisdom: must she put it online? Can't she ask elders for advice on how to go about regaining back her home instead of that foolishness? ... When you see a man cheating on his wife, just know she is a dumbass...no wonder the man went for a sharp-brained physiotherapist as against a wisdomless wife.
Side chick spotted. Hope you're also not eagerly waiting for the elusive ring? Na there you go grow grey hair cheesy
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Hatima: 7:07am On Apr 21, 2019
Can u just suggest a solution rather than attack each other undecided
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by sukerefakere(m): 7:13am On Apr 21, 2019
Everyone is intelligent on nairaland
Nairaland:

Intelligent gathering Site
grin grin grin
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by bobonkiti101(m): 7:22am On Apr 21, 2019
Extreme actions are needed in extreme situations but she might end up aggreviating the whole situation if her husband is no more in love with her or respects her. Her husband is the problem not the sidechick. She must prepare to keep waging war on forgetful sidechicks because they are a hundred potential sidechicks on the waiting. Let by her re-evaluate her marriage first.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 21, 2019
na waoh..u a whole edo babe u allow another woman take over ur house.u don fall edo babes hand.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Nobody: 7:32am On Apr 21, 2019
anthonyuncle:
are u sure dz woman is really from edo state?
a real edo babe will handle d issue a different way.sidechic no go know wrn she go jakpa with her two legs.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by jerryfunky(m): 8:02am On Apr 21, 2019
How come am I not buying the general ideas!huh....there are better ways of dealing with the alleged side chic??..

How about taking photos of everything, call her out privately, at least there are numerous gardens here in abuja...sit with her and talk heart to heart...let her know u would publish everything online if she dare goes close to ur family again...and that she would first and foremost lose her job, respect and dignity from her colleagues and everybody that knows her...

That you are aware of this for long but she actually passed her boundaries by coming into her home...

U only called her out because u want her dignity and job to still be intact. Else u would have done something that would stain her a very long time...

That this act of calling u out is simply a way to respect her...and that she should pls respect ur family and keep off her home...

Then the final words would be like....

ARE WE GOOD WITH THAT OR NOT...

This is called DIPLOMACY.

then see her thanking d woman...if only she is "sharp brained"...

I bet she would never repeat same...becos within her she knows that such women won't think twice to publicize such....

She would even thank her a lot...

Nobody likes a partner that cheats... But be diplomatic in dealing with it...

Imagine if the wife always ask d man hope ur physiotherapist friend is okay...(meanly) huh

That alone would make him run into thoughts!!!?

But anyway different stroke for different folk...
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by EzegeNG(op): 8:40am On Apr 21, 2019
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Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by rex444(m): 8:47am On Apr 21, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Furthermore, I pray your husband cheats on you, then his side chick who is also a sharp-brained physiotherapist will kick you out of your home, so that when you come online to wail after exhausting all other options, other people will call you dumbass and wisdomless.
Haba don't pray for that na ...it's not good ooooh...ehe d side chick could just be an ewa goi seller u know
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by XhosaNostra(f): 9:13am On Apr 21, 2019
A husband like this is not even worth one of those tattooed tears, let alone real tears. Because he'll do it again & again, as long as there're still willing female volunteers, who're OK with being #2 in a man's life.
The wife should just pack up & leave, to save herself a lifetime of continuous betrayal. Men like this rarely change, instead he'll just find a stable mistress. TBH, I don't even know which one is worse, a string of mistresses or one very long affair. Some women really put up with a lot in their marriages & it's so unnecessary imo. Just leave & let him go be someone else's reason for sleepless nights.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Evercurious(f): 9:18am On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
If I were her husband, I would just divorce her. Now I know the reason why her husband is cheating on her - she lacks wisdom: must she put it online? Can't she ask elders for advice on how to go about regaining back her home instead of that foolishness? ... When you see a man cheating on his wife, just know she is a dumbass...no wonder the man went for a sharp-brained physiotherapist as against a wisdomless wife.
Babe, this is not just it...Not at all
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 11:46am On Apr 21, 2019
dominique:
Side chick spotted. Hope you're also not eagerly waiting for the elusive ring? Na there you go grow grey hair cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin angry
Sorry to disappoint you...am too expensive to be a side Chick... Getting married to my childhood gentleman friend in June...so, I could invite you if you behave yourself.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 11:50am On Apr 21, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Is this from a female? I doubt. If the reverse was the case would you ask the man to ask the elders for advice? Do you know how long she endured before she blew it up online? There is no justification whatsoever for cheating in marriage. Read through your posts but ican't decipher what you are trying to say. When ppl cautioned you for writing this and ask if you are a side chick, you are quick to dodge by telling them that they can't get ur point. Bt you made no point dear, your msg means d man is right. Is your concience alive or dead? Not everyone blow their trumpet online, so keep your so called achievements aside. Your obtuse and puerile message only confirms you are a stolid being, you think u know it all but believe me you dont sound like an educated modern lady. I don't believe you are. I have made my points, go ahead and quote me as you like, then watch me ignore you.
grin grin grin grin
Pained people everywhere on nairaland...je souhaite que vous sachiez qui je suis
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 11:53am On Apr 21, 2019
lonelydora:
Wait ooo....i hope you don't date married men?
I wish married men could afford me...Je suis plus gros que ça
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Xisnin(m): 11:53am On Apr 21, 2019
vVera:
I would have said you are stupid, but the mods will ban me.

You seem like a side-chic dating a married man.

Frustrated rat.
What a stupid comment to probably gain online praises from Nairaland males.
She may even be a man with an "f" tag.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Miner13: 12:21pm On Apr 21, 2019
This is simply woman- overdo.. did she knows how the bag enters the house? whether the husband was a good samaritans of the bag? or he have the said girl a lift out of goodfate? what is wrong with asking questions from her husband? she lack not (even inadequate) homely character. no wonder the man has side chic.. the purported side chic should take it through a legal means to teach the woman a lesson ''that out of haste she left her bag in the man car,when he offered her a ride. this's a good claim of character assassination
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by iRepNaija1: 12:25pm On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
If I were her husband, I would just divorce her. Now I know the reason why her husband is cheating on her - she lacks wisdom: must she put it online? Can't she ask elders for advice on how to go about regaining back her home instead of that foolishness? ... When you see a man cheating on his wife, just know she is a dumbass...no wonder the man went for a sharp-brained physiotherapist as against a wisdomless wife.
The husband is literally breaking the vows he took before his wife, his family, and God by repeatedly sleeping with another woman. But somehow, it's the wife's fault. It's always the wife's fault. Okay.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by StarUp: 12:33pm On Apr 21, 2019
iRepNaija1:
The husband is literally breaking the vows he took before his wife, his family, and God by repeatedly sleeping with another woman. But somehow, it's the wife's fault. It's always the wife's fault. Okay.
Have you considered the fact that he may not have taken any vow before God? It could be a court marriage or "since-belle-don-enter-make-we-just-continue-as-husband-and-wife" scenario ...of course it's the wife's fault... If you feed a man's mind, stomach and dick(sex drive) very well, he will never look outside.
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by Miner13: 12:34pm On Apr 21, 2019
vVera:
I would have said you are stupid, but the mods will ban me.

You seem like a side-chic dating a married man.

Frustrated rat.
What a stupid comment to probably gain online praises from Nairaland males.
is anything wrong with settling issues with diplomatic means rather to that untamed act.. I am not in support of cheat(husband or wife) and is possible the husband might be doing it before, but is there a clear evidence(s) that could warrant such treatment to the said side chic apart from the bag. if there is not...definitely the wife overdo
Re: Woman In Tears As Husband's Sidechic Takes Over Her Matrimonial Home by iRepNaija1: 12:39pm On Apr 21, 2019
StarUp:
Have you considered the fact that he may not have taken any vow before God? It could be a court marriage or "since-belle-don-enter-make-we-just-continue-as-husband-and-wife" scenario ...of course it's the wife's fault... If you feed a man's mind, stomach and dick(sex drive) very well, he will never look outside.
A court wedding still means you've chosen to marry someone and still uphold the commitment to your spouse. How do you know the wife wasn't doing those things? Were you there with her? Did she call you and tell you? Narrow-minded thinking is so pathetic.
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