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Simplep:
Maybe she meant white women,because in this part of the world,men are the biggest cheat,the funny and annoying thing is that some women have now accepted it as a normalcy, they don't care anymore if their spouses sleep with thousands of girls,as long as they are the 'main' chick or 'wife'..what a life

this ideology made me to leave a girl, she believes that anytime we have misunderstanding, I am already seeing another woman. I thought if I want to live long, I can't stay with such a lady

That's how my Babe started giving me attitude all of a sudden o. I will tell her we need to see and she will give excuses, I will call her she will say she wants to sleep, she even started lying about where she was going. The show spoiler was when I called her a certain day to ask why we couldn't see, and she said she was going to VI and I asked her what was happening in VI and she started to flare up saying why am I asking that sort of question and how I should respect her when she tells me something (lol before now she asks me this sort of question and I do too without issues).

After the many signs I just had to ignore her. I saw one of her top WhatsApp chats with someone with the name Mr John lol (I knew that must be the person giving her now lol). Ladies cheat more than men. We men just don't talk about it because we are strong enough to endure heartbreak; imagine I was the one that started giving attitude, the whole social media won't hear word again lol

Westsida:
Some girls won’t hookup with you if they don’t like anything about you, besides cheating and hookup are differently different

Two key words

SOME

and like

and no, hook up is hook up, a cheating wife can hook up witg many guys in the low.

besides, if a man does not like what he sees in a woman, he is not going to bed her
a man has to LIKE what he sees to want to enter her garden.

Theyoungmatron:
Funny.
Prostitutes and run-girls cheats even though they have boyfriends and husbands at home. Are they also emotionally attached to those men.? Very Funny indeed.

Men have chased away their wives after meeting new women for as long as we could remember. King Henry VIII did that to Catherine of Aragon when he meet Anne Boleyn. Musa Danjuma, the younger brother of General Theophilus Danjuma did that when he meet his new flame and had to discard Caroline Ekanem.

Lets stop over flogging mediocrity. It goes both ways damn it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bro u don't know what u are saying see runs girls do it for business aka for money have u ever dated runs girl before try it and see

grafixdon:
Bro. Please learn, stop arguing. You know nothing about women.

I hear.....



i can see how much you and the other guy knows about women from una comments

Chiefqueenn:
I wonder how much time you spent to write this nonsense. I wonder how equality and feminism relate to the topic

But he's right.

Westsida:
Sounds very deep bro! What’s wrong?

she has been changing for some days now...especially since her bestie came back...the guy is always with her.
and we are in along distance relationship.

we were planning she move in to my city come next year and hoping to get married mid of next year.
but things have drastically changed... every little thing she wanna break up i will be pleading
yesterday she enumerated all my weakness and wrongs... refusing to hear sorry.
saying she is getting tired... i av told her i am working on them but she didn't listen
now talks to me rudely... she said some words that hurt me yesterday asking me to come to see her
quickly... initially i was to see her and her pastor but she gradually refusing me see her pastor when i come

my last reflationship followed these sequence too... same long distance relationship...we planned on when i will visit being that then i had CIPMN exam to prepare for.... but she start changing prior my exam even before i visit and eventually ended the relationship i came still saw her even bought her gifts i could afford and wanted see her mom too because i bought her a gift but she prevented me from seeing her mom right there at the eatery she refused me finally....

only to start having a change of heart after about 2 months.... her friend told me but i refused go back...i later discover she was seeing a guy close to her house during that period....reason why she changed towards me...her purported move with the guy later didn't work out probably reason why she came back.

my heart is heavy bro.... i am not a bad person..i don't have bad intentions.... i have loved with all of my heart and do all i can to always make them happy. this very one now talks to me rudely...even my question offends her so much..she pick holes in everything i say or do

namiji2598:
out of context



oga read the post Wella

Mr context show me ur bank balance! Get out of here

delishpot:
True to an extent. But even men do it too. The reason behind it is if she doesn't like the main piece as she used to. S(he) starts seeing reason to move on from the spouse and cling on to the new boo. Men experience it too but in the case of marriage there are more women who married just for the sake of marriage vs men. So it's easier to see a married woman who does not like her hubby (she may not even be cheating on him and never will but she doesn't love him from her heart she is just with him cos of her vows, to answer Mrs and raise her kids under same roof). When such a woman or even man finds someone new who keeps him/her happy, they get irritated when they come home and become rude or flippant to their partner at home. Some men will even leave home for extended period of time to be with the new catch (cos its eay for men to give some excuses to be away from home on a regular compared to wives eg meeting in Abuja.) To be with boo next street. Hence they can come home after filling up on "love" and cope with the home front better an opportunity women cheat may not get as often as the men so Peper body go worry dem more.


Also, she may see her rudeness as a way of shuting the man up to stop him from digging too deep (even cheating men do this too) if the spouse has the power to question the movement of his/her partner, the guilty partner may try to use sharp or meaningless words in reply to silence the other eg honey why are you comming home this late? Answer, am I your child that you will be watching clock for me? etc.

A woman that enjoys the company of both men or benefits something from both men will keep it well hidden and treat each of them like the only one in her life.
All in all cheating can be devastating sha

many marriages in NiggerArea is not based on love

be it from man or woman

haibe:
That's how my Babe started giving me attitude all of a sudden o. I will tell her we need to see and she will give excuses, I will call her she will say she wants to sleep, she even started lying about where she was going. The show spoiler was when I called her a certain day to ask why we couldn't see, and she said she was going to VI and I asked her what was happening in VI and she started to flare up saying why am I asking that sort of question and how I should respect her when she tells me something (lol before now she asks me this sort of question and I do too without issues).

After the many signs I just had to ignore her. I saw one of her top WhatsApp chats with someone with the name Mr John lol (I knew that must be the person giving her now lol). Ladies cheat more than men. We men just don't talk about it because we are strong enough to endure heartbreak; imagine I was the one that started giving attitude, the whole social media won't hear word again lol

it is so painful bro.... i asked mine yesterday if she was seeing someone else or someone has been disturbing her... she broke up with me...
i start to beg... everything i do offends her, i just can't believe a woman who could claim to love you so much would just oneday hate you all of a sudden

I agree

Humility017:
it is so painful bro.... i asked mine yesterday if she was seeing someone else or someone has been disturbing her... she broke up with me...
i start to beg... everything i do offends her, i just can't believe a woman who could claim to love you so much would just oneday hate you all of a sudden

That's your mistake bro, if you know a lady is doing something wrong like cheating just don't ask her because her conscience will prick her and she will feel so guilty to the point of hating you; remember they are very emotional.

When i asked my babe what she was going to do in VI, the only obvious reason she started to overreact was because she was going to cheat and felt guilty immediately. As excuse to vex she even told me to go and kuku start dating all the girls that like me (which I normally tell her abt). Funny thing is I never cheated on her.

Thing is these babes are bitches, I have decided to treat her as the bitch she is; I have stopped messaging her or calling her,

So bro just forget her and allow other babes in; I believe there are still few girls out there that are sensible and deserve you.

chaw:
Too much sissy man nowadays. Women trust me are very unstable don't be deceived and blindly follow anything they say. Never condone a cheating wife / gf. Else it will come back to hurt you

I don't remember any man here supporting a cheating wife tho

Weedhustler:
Mr context show me ur bank balance! Get out of here

it's funny how people think everyone they meet on social media is broke Sha

Oluromantic:
If you understood comprehension, reasoning and aptitude test in school, you would answer your own question by yourself.

Please just shut up and answer the question. I asked a question and you are telling me shit. What if I didn’t go to school?
You made a silly point mad I called you out to justify it and here you are proving your silliness. What has equality got to do with anything?

In your words
“But if a woman likes another man, all her affections goes to that man and she starts becoming rude to her husband or first guy.. In fact its dat rudeness you'll use to know something is going on till she's caught..they can barely handle 2 men smoothly. They use emotions to reason instead of brain/mental sense. Yet want equality with men. How funny“.
How about broke men that dump their girlfriends immediately they “make it”. Are you saying they couldn’t handle success with the girl who was with them through thick and thin. If they thought they are superior to any woman, they should be able to get any successful beautiful woman without waiting to be rich. In their one room apartment, they should be able to date a girl who is s multi billionaire.
Just the same way most men can’t handle sudden wealth, the same can be said for women. It’s not for one gender. Get over yourself already. Emotional maturity is not assigned to a gender. Anyone who cheats lacks respect. Respecting a person doesn’t have a gender assignation.
So how dare you use this to talk about equality in men, like are you so dumb, you have no idea about pressing issues you could use to support your argument. With this mentality, I can say I am definitely superior to you. Go and read about gender equality, then, you can have the confidence to spill out the trash that would come out of your mouth regardless.

So Mr like I said earlier, your comment made no sense

Oluromantic:
Very true. I've watched that video before. They just like accusing men of cheating,they do it more..

And the funny part is, they don't know how to cheat. A man can have 2 mistress outside marriage and still love his wife and drop money for upkeep at home. He can handle 3 women at once for years but knows where his heart belongs.. Its a brain task.

But if a woman likes another man, all her affections goes to that man and she starts becoming rude to her husband or first guy.. In fact its dat rudeness you'll use to know something is going on till she's caught..they can barely handle 2 men smoothly. They use emotions to reason instead of brain/mental sense. Yet want equality with men. How funny

and that's because men love with their brain and not with their hearts..
But women. .they're so flexible and emotional
they love with their heart

Humility017:
it is so painful bro.... i asked mine yesterday if she was seeing someone else or someone has been disturbing her... she broke up with me...
i start to beg... everything i do offends her, i just can't believe a woman who could claim to love you so much would just oneday hate you all of a sudden

You made a grave mistake by begging


if a woman wants to go, you let her go....


One thing I have come to discover abt a lot of ladies in Nigeria especially is that they are in that "folly" that they are "high net worth" and "deserve better /bigger" and thry are doing the young men a favour by dating him for the meantime

a lot of you young men are in that quandary and I feel so so sorry for you guys.

if a woman does not see you as her best, from the way she talks and treats you, you will know, and at this point, you be a man and call it quits and walk away

being an alternative / interim option is a condition I do not wish for you or any of my country men

God be with you mehn

You will be fine

Xisnin:
That is bonker. It is more of a beer parlor gist school of thought.
Some women keep multiple partners does that mean they love them all?



What relationship are you talking about?
Sexual, financial, emotional?
Any Nigerian have probably seen examples of husbands being "snatched" or
dominated by mistress to the detriment of their family.
Are those men not men?
How come they are showing emotion?

Exactly, the truth is anybody that cheats can be dangerous whether male or female . All these one sex cheats with emotions and another cheats with their head is nonsense

IhateInjustice:
I have seen many cases of men abandoning their wives for a side chic. There was this popular case of a woman with twins crying out of how her husband doesn't take care of her and their twins but went ahead to buy a car for his side chic.

It's same for both men and women, if not we won't have prostitutes and runs girls

Oga, believe me, I know what I'm saying. It's just that you havn't seen many cases of women abandoning their husbands for a side bobo. Women are the most consistent as far as cheating is concern, and the most inconsistent in every relationship.

haibe:
That's how my Babe started giving me attitude all of a sudden o. I will tell her we need to see and she will give excuses, I will call her she will say she wants to sleep, she even started lying about where she was going. The show spoiler was when I called her a certain day to ask why we couldn't see, and she said she was going to VI and I asked her what was happening in VI and she started to flare up saying why am I asking that sort of question and how I should respect her when she tells me something (lol before now she asks me this sort of question and I do too without issues).

After the many signs I just had to ignore her. I saw one of her top WhatsApp chats with someone with the name Mr John lol (I knew that must be the person giving her now lol). Ladies cheat more than men. We men just don't talk about it because we are strong enough to endure heartbreak; imagine I was the one that started giving attitude, the whole social media won't hear word again lol

Damn
You should stay away from women like that

Oluromantic:
Very true. I've watched that video before. They just like accusing men of cheating,they do it more..

And the funny part is, they don't know how to cheat. A man can have 2 mistress outside marriage and still love his wife and drop money for upkeep at home. He can handle 3 women at once for years but knows where his heart belongs.. Its a brain task.

But if a woman likes another man, all her affections goes to that man and she starts becoming rude to her husband or first guy.. In fact its dat rudeness you'll use to know something is going on till she's caught..they can barely handle 2 men smoothly. They use emotions to reason instead of brain/mental sense. Yet want equality with men. How funny

nice one bro..sense fall on you.

Toks2008:
Better stay single then.

Don't mind him, there are still men that respect their partners enough not to cheat. Ask God what you need, He never fails.

Some people just thinks because they lack self control, that everybody lacks it too

Simplep:
,someone like me might die of high bp niyen,cos i hate cheating,why should i be d only one who should be faithful?..
Las las,i won't marry if i don't see a faithful man,yes,that's how i hate being cheated on
@the bolden,i should beg him to cheat on me,wonderful!

Since u are this disciplined, But one thing u should know Is u can't have everything In life. I don't cheat too. I'm game with u If u're Interested. But still I don't trust your words yet, Likewise u shouldn't trust mine either. Only time and conditions will tell on the long run.

I tire o,i can't accept it lai lai

trapQ:
Someone as telling me this yesterday and kept reiterating how African men are polygamous in nature and bla bla bla and that I must learn to accept the at fact.

I simply told her, accept what? The fact that you an contact AIDS and STDs anytime and die just because you're married to an African man? No thanks.

princefunmmy:
Hnmm. what are we supposed to do now with this uncertain info??

Condition your mind for the hard fact.

Get married when you want to. If you got offsprings of your own loins through her then you have profited from the marriage, whether she cheats or not.

IT IS INSTRUCTIVE FOR YOUNG MEN TO KNOW THIS BECAUSE MANY ERRONEOUSLY THOUGHT WIVES MAKES A MAN HAPPY. BUT WITH THE SCENARIO PAINTED BY THIS MAIN POST, ONE CAN CONDITION HIS MIND FOR THE WORST CASE SCENARIO.

Daeylar:
There is nothing more irritating than Nigerian men who love to speak for Nigerian women on how they think or don't think .
A number of Nigerian men are nothing but misogynistic fools.
Like trapQ said these men who cheat on their wives and then start mistreating their wives and children, refusing to pay for their childs school fees and all that.
Cheating and beating her up or threatening to throw her out of the home if she speaks up? what happened to them in this your inane analysis. You left your fellow men who you should speak for alone. Started speaking for and trashing women and crowned it all with your gender equality trash


Look at the level of stupidity it takes to equate which gender cheats better to the reason why there should or shouldn't be gender equality.

Misogynistic Nairaland men will drop their brains in the trash (where it belongs tbh) take their empty skulls and start typing trash on FP. Then their fellow empty skulls will like and share their bullshit.
295 likes.
Showing that 295 people on nairaland are brain dead.

This is why we need to see who likes a post and we need a block button.
So we can see who makes and likes stupid posts and block accordingly.

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Don't mind them, when a man does it, it's juju, when a woman does it's, she is emotionally.

I can't have everything in life,accepted but a faithful man should b one of the things i will have..
I'm not 'game' thanks

Algorithimz:
Since u are this disciplined, But one thing u should know Is u can't have everything In life. I don't cheat too. I'm game with u If u're Interested. But still I don't trust your words yet, Likewise u shouldn't trust mine either. Only time and conditions will tell on the long run.

Viicfuntop:
Please just shut up and answer the question. I asked a question and you are telling me shit. What if I didn’t go to school?
You made a silly point mad I called you out to justify it and here you are proving your silliness. What has equality got to do with anything?

In your words
“But if a woman likes another man, all her affections goes to that man and she starts becoming rude to her husband or first guy.. In fact its dat rudeness you'll use to know something is going on till she's caught..they can barely handle 2 men smoothly. They use emotions to reason instead of brain/mental sense. Yet want equality with men. How funny“.
How about broke men that dump their girlfriends immediately they “make it”. Are you saying they couldn’t handle success with the girl who was with them through thick and thin. If they thought they are superior to any woman, they should be able to get any successful beautiful woman without waiting to be rich. In their one room apartment, they should be able to date a girl who is s multi billionaire.
Just the same way most men can’t handle sudden wealth, the same can be said for women. It’s not for one gender. Get over yourself already. Emotional maturity is not assigned to a gender. Anyone who cheats lacks respect. Respecting a person doesn’t have a gender assignation.
So how dare you use this to talk about equality in men, like are you so dumb, you have no idea about pressing issues you could use to support your argument. With this mentality, I can say I am definitely superior to you. Go and read about gender equality, then, you can have the confidence to spill out the trash that would come out of your mouth regardless.

So Mr like I said earlier, your comment made no sense

Ah! You have a serious problem

This doesn't really relate to what I'm saying .she's insecure

Oma307:
this ideology made me to leave a girl, she believes that anytime we have misunderstanding, I am already seeing another woman. I thought if I want to live long, I can't stay with such a lady

airprinz:
Oga, believe me, I know what I'm saying. It's just that you havn't seen many cases of women abandoning their husbands for a side bobo. Women are the most consistent as far as cheating is concern, and the most inconsistent in every relationship.

I am not arguing that some women don't leave their husbands for a side boo, I am saying that some men does it too. Both men and women cheats with emotions and both men and women cheats with their heads. You can't conclude and say men cheats with their heads and women cheats with emotions cos I have seen reverse cases..


I don't know who cheats more by the way

Simplep:
,someone like me might die of high bp niyen,cos i hate cheating,why should i be d only one who should be faithful?..
Las las,i won't marry if i don't see a faithful man,yes,that's how i hate being cheated on
@the bolden,i should beg him to cheat on me,wonderful!

Don't mind him, there are still men that respect their partners enough not to cheat. Ask God what you need, He never fails.

Some people just thinks because they lack self control, that everybody lacks it too

IhateInjustice:
I am not arguing that some women don't leave their husbands for a side boo, I am saying that some men does it too. Both men and women cheats with emotions and both men and women cheats with their heads. You can't conclude and say men cheats with their heads and women cheats with emotions cos I have seen reverse cases..


I don't know who cheats more by the way

Your name is Justice, right? You can find out the last paragraph of your write-ups yourself to avoid unecessary argument with me