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Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 9:14pm On May 01, 2019
good evening nairalanders I will just go straight to the point I need advice as am really confused right now. ..there is this girl am seeing for a while now, we were always confessing love to each other although I don't really feel anything for her except the sex that am getting... fast forward to today. she came around after being away for a month due to her work...so we did the same process, have sex so after the first round we were discussing and she asked if I truly love her of course I said yes. so second round will b sure...she now brought a ring that I should put it on her finger I was scared at first so she insisted and I did it... she now said if I will marry her...now it became creapy and weird she now we are married ...I did not say anything.. but in d course of the second round I noticed blood on the condom I now asked if she was on her period she said no I asked y was she bleeding she said I was rough on her....so guys am really confused because am suspecting vodoo here.... is it possible for d bleeding to b normal pls I need answers...
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 9:16pm On May 01, 2019
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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 9:16pm On May 01, 2019
Stop your wickedness. That's why you bring issues to your future children and loved ones they ought not to have. May God recover and restore your brain from whomsoever stole it.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by IamD18: 9:17pm On May 01, 2019
We were discussing and she asked if I truly love her of course I said yes. so that second round will b sure
You love her in a totocial way.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by SageMK: 9:20pm On May 01, 2019
Looking forward to your pre-wedding photos.
If you think you can useless someone pikin, thing again.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Chidonc(m): 9:21pm On May 01, 2019
lets remix tony tetuila you don hit my car to fit in your situation,


you don marry be that, oyibo repete
your own don finish isa repete
good luck brother

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by QueenSekxy(f): 9:24pm On May 01, 2019
This is the reason some of you are inside bottle today.
Leading a girl on without any intention of marrying her.
You are damn wicked, tomorrow, you will open your filthy mouth to scream evening paper.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by annayawchee: 9:46pm On May 01, 2019
Congratulations.... U successfully had a blood covenant with her, visit the nearest woli for immediate deliverance

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 9:48pm On May 01, 2019
IamD18:
You love her in a totocial way.
lol
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by rowland545(m): 9:49pm On May 01, 2019
QueenSekxy:
This is the reason some of you are inside bottle today.
Leading a girl on without any intention of marrying her.
You are damn wicked, tomorrow, you will open your filthy mouth to scream evening paper.

y are u in sefere pains ....are u the girl

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 01, 2019
QueenSekxy:
This is the reason some of you are inside bottle today.
Leading a girl on without any intention of marrying her.
You are damn wicked, tomorrow, you will open your filthy mouth to scream evening paper.

relationship is a game, you do not cry over spilt milk. He owes her nothing, my only problem is about him lying

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 11:22pm On May 01, 2019
Don't allow her or anyone else to conscript and guilt trip you into a journey you aren't ready to embark on. Altruism doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness.

You don't automatically owe her marriage just because you professed love for her. . . of course, don't lead her on henceforth if you don't have an intention to wife her.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Frankicent(m): 11:32pm On May 01, 2019
nawa ooo. She said you been rough bros you don't know if you rough or not?


Ahhh .. She forcefully made you put a ring on her OK make I want for person way don relate to this mata.
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by ValCon888: 11:38pm On May 01, 2019
Op you are funny walahi.
This was not a ring she saw in your room.
She brought a ring from outside and commanded you to put it on her finger and you put because you want to chuck preeq inside tôtô.

Congratulations for selling your destiny.
Oya clap for yourself.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 01, 2019
you have married her

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Greenbullet(m): 11:58pm On May 01, 2019
Won ti lock aye Bobo Yi grin

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Godsfavour78: 12:57am On May 02, 2019
Dem don get you bro. cry

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MissRaine69(f): 1:07am On May 02, 2019
rowland545:
good evening nairalanders I will just go straight to the point I need advice as am really confused right now. ..there is this girl am seeing for a while now, we were always confessing love to each other although I don't really feel anything for her except the sex that am getting... fast forward to today. she came around after being away for a month due to her work...so we did the same process, have sex so after the first round we were discussing and she asked if I truly love her of course I said yes. so second round will b sure...she now brought a ring that I should put it on her finger I was scared at first so she insisted and I did it... she now said if I will marry her...now it became creapy and weird she now we are married ...I did not say anything.. but in d course of the second round I noticed blood on the condom I now asked if she was on her period she said no I asked y was she bleeding she said I was rough on her....so guys am really confused because am suspecting vodoo here.... is it possible for d bleeding to b normal pls I need answers...

See what vagina does to people’s brains?
You are so fcked grin grin grin
When is the wedding please? I need to start getting my dress made.....

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by lukui: 1:16am On May 02, 2019
instead of thinking about how to make money, you are busy sleeping about !!!

well there is nothing that cannot be prayed upon, but on this issue, I think you need a strong pastor!!!!

(after she has fvcked you and collected all your money and milked you dry, she will move on to the next guy,)

and by the way I am looking at things may be she stored your name with microfinance bank, when she don finish she go move to central bank

women, women, women, this world might have been a better place without them!!!!!!!!!!

when the devil wants to dance zanku with you what will he do?
he sends a woman to you!!!!!!!

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by doveyla(f): 1:25am On May 02, 2019
Kindly let her know you are cheating on her and you are not her husband. So she does not Major on a minor.


rowland545:
good evening nairalanders I will just go straight to the point I need advice as am really confused right now. ..there is this girl am seeing for a while now, we were always confessing love to each other although I don't really feel anything for her except the sex that am getting... fast forward to today. she came around after being away for a month due to her work...so we did the same process, have sex so after the first round we were discussing and she asked if I truly love her of course I said yes. so second round will b sure...she now brought a ring that I should put it on her finger I was scared at first so she insisted and I did it... she now said if I will marry her...now it became creapy and weird she now we are married ...I did not say anything.. but in d course of the second round I noticed blood on the condom I now asked if she was on her period she said no I asked y was she bleeding she said I was rough on her....so guys am really confused because am suspecting vodoo here.... is it possible for d bleeding to b normal pls I need answers...

Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 1:37am On May 02, 2019
QueenSekxy:
This is the reason some of you are inside bottle today.
Leading a girl on without any intention of marrying her.
You are damn wicked, tomorrow, you will open your filthy mouth to scream evening paper.

but as women too we need to use our brain and stop wasting our time. When a man is not ready to marry, he doesn’t have to write it on his forehead for you to know. You will use your initiative to know things are not going anywhere, why rely strictly on hope? Why chase after a man to take you serious? Why should you buy a ring, and force a man to put it on your finger? Why do you constantly have to be the one asking about marriage? See we women ehn, we have to do better. Our time is too precious, and desperation is an ugly trait to have when the time is running out, so use it wisely.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by issylarry(m): 2:33am On May 02, 2019
rowland545:
good evening nairalanders I will just go straight to the point I need advice as am really confused right now. ..there is this girl am seeing for a while now, we were always confessing love to each other although I don't really feel anything for her except the sex that am getting... fast forward to today. she came around after being away for a month due to her work...so we did the same process, have sex so after the first round we were discussing and she asked if I truly love her of course I said yes. so second round will b sure...she now brought a ring that I should put it on her finger I was scared at first so she insisted and I did it... she now said if I will marry her...now it became creapy and weird she now we are married ...I did not say anything.. but in d course of the second round I noticed blood on the condom I now asked if she was on her period she said no I asked y was she bleeding she said I was rough on her....so guys am really confused because am suspecting vodoo here.... is it possible for d bleeding to b normal pls I need answers...

Guy u dey rough handle her,person pickin..lol..she was only been proactive.u tink say u get sense abi. .u wan use n drop her bfre u reach busstop..she knws wat she want and she feels u shud let go if u aint seeing d future with her.but if u do see future with her u will tk d ring


Modified
D girl na mumu,so u gave him ring means he will marry u,at dz stage ladies shud know wen a guy is into u n we he is not



To u Op
So because u feel all girls are crap means u shud f*ck d hell out of her.Even if u no go marry her ,still help her manage her t.o.t.o..

I still wonda y toto is part of tonto dicke's name

In all plz guy change ur mindset dere are still lady of integrity and virtue.dey are just hidden and hard to find.
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by favouredpikin: 3:09am On May 02, 2019
It pains me the this generation of men created by God attach so many priorities on sex. Premarital sex is as in before man and God you should know that. So many men have destroyed their future because of sex. So OP take note and repent before its too late

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by QueenSekxy(f): 3:37am On May 02, 2019
Saffi:
but as women too we need to use our brain and stop wasting our time. When a man is not ready to marry, he doesn’t have to write it on his forehead for you to know. You will use your initiative to know things are not going anywhere, why rely strictly on hope? Why chase after a man to take you serious? Why should you buy a ring, and force a man to put it on your finger? Why do you constantly have to be the one asking about marriage? See we women ehn, we have to do better. Our time is too precious, and desperation is an ugly trait to have when the time is running out, so use it wisely.
This is a nice piece, if only some women can adhere!!

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by millionboi2: 4:24am On May 02, 2019
I need an active Facebook page asap
Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by generationz(f): 4:59am On May 02, 2019
LordKO:
Don't allow her or anyone else to conscript and guilt trip you into a journey you aren't ready to embark on. Altruism doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness.

You don't automatically owe her marriage just because you professed love for her. . . of course, don't lead her on henceforth if you don't have an intention to wife her.

my dear, this isn't an issue of not allowing her or allowing her.

Op has bitten more than he can chew.

For a girl to bring out ring, you think its ordinary ring

I pity men who go around feeling like champs for the number of women they can successfully deceive.

It doesn't make you a man nor add to your account. Neither does it make you a better person. If anything it wastes time and money you would have saved or invested for your kids future

Maybe the girl is witch and knows the op is a liar. She only keeps asking "do you love me" to justify how she was going to deal with him.

In the realm of the spirit ( both with God and Satan ) you need legal ground to pass judgment on a person or deal with a person.


Some ladies deliberately go around looking for womanizers like this to cage.


Op happy married life.

It could even be mixed with years of frustration and suffering.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by placeofallure(f): 6:20am On May 02, 2019
Ladies and desperate measures! Why should you be the one to buy the ring and then instruct him again to put it when it's never his idea. What about common sense? If a man is really into you, you'd know. When my boyfriend kept changing his locks because I kept throwing my copy away, I felt it. He couldn't utter two words without saying "We" , I sensed it. When he talks anything about the future, I'm always in the picture. Then I don't need a soothsayer. Why probe or prompt a man when it's not of his own volition and we cry wolf when it backfires? You can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept!

You, Mr OP, you will get your comeuppance surely. Why lead a girl on when you know you have no iota of emotions for her? Go do it with prostitutes, they don't expect any commitments from you, Strictly business! I don't know how you guys manage to do that thing without emotions. And to think you were so rough that she could bleed? The blood most likely could be as a result of the intensity of the thrusts and nothing else but I secretly wish it were something else so people like you could learn. Posterity, Karma plus Thunder waiting patiently for you.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by partnerbizz4: 7:34am On May 02, 2019
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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Nobody: 7:53am On May 02, 2019
generationz:


In the realm of the spirit ( both with God and Satan ) you need legal ground to pass judgment on a person or deal with a person.


Blood of Jesus. I bind, I cast out any judgment against me.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by LordKO(m): 7:59am On May 02, 2019
generationz:


my dear, this isn't an issue of not allowing her or allowing her.

Op has bitten more than he can chew.

For a girl to bring out ring, you think its ordinary ring

I pity men who go around feeling like champs for the number of women they can successfully deceive.

It doesn't make you a man nor add to your account. Neither does it make you a better person. If anything it wastes time and money you would have saved or invested for your kids future

Maybe the girl is witch and knows the op is a liar. She only keeps asking "do you love me" to justify how she was going to deal with him.

In the realm of the spirit ( both with God and Satan ) you need legal ground to pass judgment on a person or deal with a person.


Some ladies deliberately go around looking for womanizers like this to cage.


Op happy married life.

It could even be mixed with years of frustration and suffering.




Believe you me, I don't see how the OP is at fault and, as such, I don't see how she will succeed in harming him in whatever evil she may nurse against him. Every relationship must not automatically lead to marriage. And loving someone doesn't automatically mean falling in love with the same person or having a justifiable reason to remain in love with the same person forever. The only thing about love I know is constant, and should be constant for any sane person, is loving others selflessly - of course, selflessness doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness.

It's unfortunate that most people don't like to volitionally assume responsibility of their personal lives, actions and inactions. A person (man/woman) whose intention of entering into a relationship with another is solely marriage (there's nothing wrong with such intention), should communicate same to the other party beforehand and set a limited time frame to stay in the relationship, so that if it doesn't work within the set time frame, s/he takes a walk without demonizing the other person in any form - there's nothing wrong in losing honorably. Those who fail to lose honorably will always lose dishonorably or disgracefully - small-minded people (greedy, self-centered and selfish people in this regard) never like to lose honorably. Entitlement should neither be mistaken for expectation nor equated to good.

So a woman (or man) should be discerning enough to know when she is a girlfriend of convenience or not, although the best thing always is for both parties to periodically tell each other what status they hold in each other's life - expectation.

Unassumingness is gold.

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by Samshumy: 8:02am On May 02, 2019
placeofallure:
Ladies and desperate measures! Why should you be the one to buy the ring and then instruct him again to put it when it's never his idea. What about common sense? If a man is really into you, you'd know. When my boyfriend kept changing his locks because I kept throwing my copy away, I felt it. He couldn't utter two words without saying "We" , I sensed it. When he talks anything about the future, I'm always in the picture. Then I don't need a soothsayer. Why probe or prompt a man when it's not of his own volition and we cry wolf when it backfires? You can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept!

You, Mr OP, you will get your comeuppance surely. Why lead a girl on when you know you have no iota of emotions for her? Go do it with prostitutes, they don't expect any commitments from you, Strictly business! I don't know how you guys manage to do that thing without emotions. And to think you were so rough that she could bleed? The blood most likely could be as a result of the intensity of the thrusts and nothing else but I secretly wish it were something else so people like you could learn. Posterity, Karma plus Thunder waiting patiently for you.
Why the matter dey pain you like this? Na you be the girl?

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Re: Help I Think My Gf Trying To Lure Me Into Marriage by MiddleSpot: 8:03am On May 02, 2019
truthsayer009:


Blood of Jesus. I bind, I cast out any judgmental against me.




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