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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Serveyouright(m): 12:24pm On May 02, 2019
Jman06:
I think the best thing now is, let the men be on their own without marriage and let the ladies also dey their lane.



Let's see who go cry and go Shiloh las las




Men are at great advantage when it comes to relationship with the opposite sex but some guys don't understand that fact
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Bros na true you talk. I dumb my ex till now she is begging to come back. She is this type of woman the writer is referring to. Gold digger but claim to lvu you because she sees your pocket. I always advice my guys to deal with any Nigerian girls that come for their cash. These olosho here are not loyal. Treat them as poor girls there are.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 12:27pm On May 02, 2019
Absolutely. Everything I need is provided by him and I don’t even have to ask. Do you think I would be talking all about this if I don’t practice what I preach. No he is not a multi millionaire, but he is very comfortable. And yes I’ve dated broke guys in the past, I mean who hasn’t? and I’ve experienced the mental trauma that comes with it, and I will never in my life make the same mistake again. Sorry to say.
ThothHermes:
Bla bla bla

Writing out your fantasies as usual. How many rich men have you dated?


Is your current boyfriend rich?

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by oshaosha2014(m): 12:35pm On May 02, 2019
Most definitely they will leave the man. Hypergamy much??
navzla:
This rusbish da girls keep rantin dat i cant marry a broke nigga and blah blah etc.what if u marry dat rich dude and he become broke like ass.are u goin to leave him to another richer dude or what?
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by oshaosha2014(m): 12:38pm On May 02, 2019
Poverty stricken girls lol. Even when they have the billions the poverty mentality is still with them. Always looking for the next big pocket. Awon ole ofon.

truthsayer009:


What a Man can do, a Woman can do better. Go out there and get yourself a viable job, you don't need a Man to deliver you from poverty.

What you need is a job.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 12:43pm On May 02, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Please shut up, aren't there men with fertility issue? Yet, they keep getting married and blaming their childlessness on ladies, cos all their problems are being caused by the women in their lives( typical illiterate African men)

So, stop whinning.




My dear, calm down and learn. You ain't making sense and he is trying to get u on the right path. Be humble.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Caleycash(m): 12:44pm On May 02, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Lol. Has it come to personal attack?
Weak man.
You are very dumb, your type is the problem we have in Nigeria... guys have become more hard hearted even the so called rich ones!, that's y marriage is very limited nowadays because of your stupid ways of reasoning!!!, my guys and I keep fuckiin always no marriage to gold diggers and hores!!!
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by nick50(m): 1:29pm On May 02, 2019
U will wait till eternity cos for we Christians its one man one wife
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 1:30pm On May 02, 2019
ThothHermes:
Bla bla bla

Writing out your fantasies as usual. How many rich men have you dated?


Is your current boyfriend rich?


The person you quoted claims she lives in the UK. By that definition, their relationship is 50/50 there because their Bills rake up monthly.

No man in the UK takes care of anyone's bills, even Nigerians married that travel always get a culture shock in the UK, nothing like Wife sleeping at home & Husband working. The bills are mad in the UK bro!

So believe her on your own peril, she is obviously lying about her Lifestyle or dating Drug pushers. I have a UK degree, so I know what I'm saying.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Aboks(m): 1:32pm On May 02, 2019
useless olosho
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by caracas: 1:32pm On May 02, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Please shut up, aren't there men with fertility issue? Yet, they keep getting married and blaming their childlessness on ladies, cos all their problems are being caused by the women in their lives( typical illiterate African men)

So, stop whinning.
U still don’t get the point
Your comparison has no basis
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Budline1(m): 1:35pm On May 02, 2019
Kind of woman pushing young men to do yahoo yahoo. You can not date a poor guy in a poor country. Weldone.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by ThothHermes: 1:40pm On May 02, 2019
Saffi:
Absolutely. Everything I need is provided by him and I don’t even have to ask. Do you think I would be talking all about this if I don’t practice what I preach. No he is not a multi millionaire, but he is very comfortable. And yes I’ve dated broke guys in the past, I mean who hasn’t? and I’ve experienced the mental trauma that comes with it, and I will never in my life make the same mistake again. Sorry to say.
Wetin be him net worth? Give a rough estimate.

Define "comfortable"

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 1:41pm On May 02, 2019
Go and look in the dictionary.
ThothHermes:
Wetin be him net worth? Give a rough estimate.

Define "comfortable"

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by ThothHermes: 1:45pm On May 02, 2019
Saffi:
Go and look in the dictionary.
Most people are "comfortable" in the UK.

So give us a figure else you are deceiving yourself.

Give us a figure.

How many Ferraris does he own?
How many Birkins has he got you?

That's what rich means.

You don run change am to comfortable.

Comfortable ko. Comforchair ni

Mtcheww.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 1:50pm On May 02, 2019
ThothHermes:
Most people are "comfortable" in the UK.

So give us a figure else you are deceiving yourself.

Give us a figure.

How many Ferraris does he own?
How many Birkins has he got you?

That's what rich means.

You don run change am to comfortable.

Comfortable ko. Comforchair ni

Mtcheww.

Most people are actually comfortable in the UK because of the good economy but NEVER Rich, their Taxes & Bills are really crazy. She is a lying fvck Obviously!

Watch this video & see: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXYxBcZVL1g

The 50 / 50 Diaspora Lifestyle // SAY IT LIKE IT IS - Ep 18

So I don't know where she is getting her idea of Rich from. UK people are far from Rich, they are just surviving UNTIL they convert their money to NAIRA.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 1:58pm On May 02, 2019
Loool are you scared to quote me? I’m sorry have you met all the men in the U.k? I’ve lived in the U.K. for the majority of my life. That’s 20+ years, you don’t have the exposure that I do. I’ve also lived in Nigeria and France, trust me I know the kind of men I will and will not date. You don’t even have the leverage to to go back and forth out of Nigeria if you want, do you even have a British passport? You were probably on a student visa, therefore not exposed to the different aspects of life that the u.k can offer. I work, I have a degree and I have my own money. My man is doing extremely well for a dude in his 30s, why is this hard to believe? Very smart man that invested most of his money in properties from his early 20s. If you are miserable please do something about it, and stop manipulating women to fit your narrative.
truthsayer009:


The person you quoted claims she lives in the UK. By that definition, their relationship is 50/50 there because their Bills rake up monthly.

No man in the UK takes care of anyone's bills, even Nigerians married that travel always get a culture shock in the UK, nothing like Wife sleeping at home & Husband working. The bills are mad in the UK bro!

So believe her on your own peril, she is obviously lying about her Lifestyle or dating Drug pushers. I have a UK degree, so I know what I'm saying.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Toseenlove: 2:01pm On May 02, 2019
truthsayer009:


Feed me with Pvssy or what? Because i know you're just preparing for Service and never worked a day in your life.

Please go for internship and come back, then we can have a conversation.

Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:09pm On May 02, 2019
If you are frustrated because you are broke and therefore want me to calculate another mans money for your satisfaction, then you must be mad. Lool

You’re so interested in someone else’s pocket, when was the last time your own withered bank account was credited? Biko focus on yourself and maybe you’ll be able to afford just something for your devastated mama.
ThothHermes:
Most people are "comfortable" in the UK.

So give us a figure else you are deceiving yourself.

Give us a figure.

How many Ferraris does he own?
How many Birkins has he got you?

That's what rich means.

You don run change am to comfortable.

Comfortable ko. Comforchair ni

Mtcheww.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:10pm On May 02, 2019
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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:11pm On May 02, 2019
Saffi quoting you will be wasting my time, I rather not have any conversation with you at all. So I try to ignore you at all cost.

Nobody takes care of anyone Bills in the UK Sis. If some people are Ignorant, please not all of us are. Having a British passport does not give you a monopoly of Information.

History has confirmed that UK people are known to be very stingy, even to their Families. Infact this is not their own doing. It's as a result of the Recurring monthly based Bills. Labour is very expensive, so you cannot even hire a cheap home caretaker or plumber.

So how does your BF take care of your Bills? Maybe he pays for casual dates just to be kind, shey that one na Bill?

See ehn, don't quote me again please. you lie too much.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by ThothHermes: 2:16pm On May 02, 2019
Saffi:
If you are frustrated because you are broke and therefore want me to calculate another mans money for your satisfaction, then you must be mad. Lool
Hit a nerve did I? Truth hurts. grin grin


You’re so interested in someone else’s pocket, when was the last time your own withered bank account was credited?
Hmmm...let me see.

Biko focus on yourself and maybe you’ll be able to afford just something for your devastated mama.
So hurt you had bring your mama into it

Comfortable boyfriend that cannot buy you common Birkin. Is that one boyfriend.

Keep writing out your fantasies. You will log out eventually and face your "comfortable" boyfriend grin
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by ThothHermes: 2:17pm On May 02, 2019
truthsayer009:


Most people are actually comfortable in the UK because of the good economy but NEVER Rich, their Taxes & Bills are really crazy. She is a lying fvck Obviously!

Watch this video & see: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXYxBcZVL1g

The 50 / 50 Diaspora Lifestyle // SAY IT LIKE IT IS - Ep 18

So I don't know where she is getting her idea of Rich from. UK people are far from Rich, they are just surviving UNTIL they convert their money to NAIRA.
She's a stupid misandrist. Sometimes I like to destroy their illusions.

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by illuminator01(m): 2:18pm On May 02, 2019
Work as a lady to take care of yourself.. Consider what comes from a man as a bonus once you aren't married to him.

Also men should raise thier standard. The country is not okay.. Yes. But others are adding value and making headway.

May God help our nation with this misplaced priority and rotten mentality.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Respect55(m): 2:19pm On May 02, 2019
QueenSekxy:

It's only a pained guy will be this pained with an innocous comment.

I have my spanner here, direct your brain to me lemme work on it.
It is spelt 'innocuous'
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:19pm On May 02, 2019
CHoccolaTE:
Look at all these hypocrite fools crying because women want secure men.

On the other thread they were advising each other to only marry financially secure women and on another thread they encouraging rich men to dump wives that struggled with them when they were poor.

Foolss.

Any woman reading this better use her sense, marry a financially secure man so your kids won't suffer and struggle.

Nigerian men want very submissive wives that they can control and order around but when you ask them to make sure they can provide for such a woman they start foaming at the mouth like rabid dogs.


poo..... this has nothing to do with their kids but their wives greediness. it's for self benefit before all else. and still on suffering, if she is well to do before the marriage, there is no way, I repeat, no way her kids will suffer, just her unfortunate husband (or ex if they divorce ) will.
to insinuate she will suffer, is to suggest she is broke as fvck and a cheap gold digger.
which man doesn't want a submissive wife? to say it's a Nigerian thing is to lose ur senses.
and to insist a woman goes into marriage to be provided for like a child, is to deny the current trend of feminism ( equality of the sexes) where both partners are to pull resources together to ensure their marriage is successful, even though the husband is expected to earn more than his wife does, but she should be a bread winner in her one right!

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:21pm On May 02, 2019
I love this! Exactly what I said on my thread that made these broke men cry grin Women if you love yourselves, run away with the speed of Usain Bolt from any struggling man!!! I say again, Flee! You will end up miserable and sad. God bless us all with rich men.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 02, 2019
I knew I’d find you here grin I love threads like this! These men are silly hypocrites! They had no problem with the thread advising them to marry a financially secure woman and that other bullshit one that justified a a once struggling man leaving the girl that stood beside him after he hit it big. They simply can’t take what they dish
Saffi:
If you are frustrated because you are broke and therefore want me to calculate another mans money for your satisfaction, then you must be mad. Lool

You’re so interested in someone else’s pocket, when was the last time your own withered bank account was credited? Biko focus on yourself and maybe you’ll be able to afford just something for your devastated mama.
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 02, 2019
How can you tell me that NOBODY takes care of people’s bills, when I live in the U.K, and have someone taking care of me? That you dominantly associated yourself with students and less than average guys when you were here, which is clearly a reflection of yourself, doesn’t mean that every single guy in the u.k must fit your narrative. Like I said before, you are insecure and you cannot fathom that they’re guys out there doing well for themselves. Do you know how much avenues they’re to make money? Or you think everyone in the u.k must hustle with a 9-5 and struggle to make ends meet? Is this not the same Nairaland that I met a guy from Qatar from the business section, was always travelling back and forth to see me, and is doing extremely well for himself? It’s a shame that we didn’t even work out, but we’re still friends. Listen the average guy with money will not have it written on his forehead. Do better and stop acting like it’s impossible for a woman to date good quality guys. Jesusssss.
truthsayer009:
Saffi quoting you will be wasting my time, I rather not have any conversation with you at all. So I try to ignore you at all cost.

Nobody takes care of anyone Bills in the UK Sis. If some people are Ignorant, please not all of us are. Having a British passport does not give you a monopoly of Information.

History has confirmed that UK people are known to be very stingy, even to their Families. Infact this is not their own doing. It's as a result of the Recurring monthly based Bills. Labour is very expensive, so you cannot even hire a cheap home caretaker or plumber.

So how does your BF take care of your Bills? Maybe he pays for casual dates just to be kind, shey that one na Bill?

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Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 02, 2019
CruellaDeVil:
I love this! Exactly what I said on my thread that made these broke men cry grin Women if you love yourselves, run away with the speed of Usain Bolt from any struggling man!!! I say again, Flee! You will end up miserable and sad. God bless us all with rich men.


it's vice versa, I cannot in my present state marry any girl below my class, any guy who does that is a FOOL and has shot himself in the foot.

everybody should marry in their class, with gender equality trending everywhere ( eg feminism), no gender is supposed to take care of any gender in marriage. both genders should support each other.

any lady, like this PIN HEAD I just quoted, don't think before they talk. let's all marry in our class and end gold digging! *spits*
Re: Don't Marry A Broke Man, Dump Him Like A Leper - Nigerian Lady Advises Others by Nobody: 2:32pm On May 02, 2019
Madame, i have read all you said. Thank you & try not to quote me. I want peace biko.

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