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Just because o..
Sometimes.. One needs to step back..get his/her life in order.. And move on..

Am not sure. I think my dating compass is broken inside. Never had anything serious. Started a few times but intentionally took it down

QueenSekxy:
Some people are actually single but, their private parts are seriously dating.

No be lie jare... I can relate.

Remedy1000:
When ever I see a beautiful lady that just finish plaiting her hair...I always admire them so much.

Especially when its the style of hair that I love lolzz..

I have so much respect for women because they are amazing....(would love to share my tot abt dis but let me reserve).

I always believe that women deserve the best in life...

But then, I am not really that bouyant, I dont really have a nice job to provide this things for a woman I will call my own.....No money for now.

So many people do not believe that I am single...maybe my cute face deceive dem lolz ..sometimes cute pple are actually the loneliest because everybody beliv dat de have someone...( hope dat am not sounding proud?)...I love to be sincere, dis is just me.

I am fun to be with....Amazing but I dont want my #Lady to suffer, I want to make her feel like the only woman in the world...

But till then, let me hustle first....Women deserve the best in life, de have suffered enough, der need to feel like a woman for once in life...God bless our women, God bless us all.

are you a learner?




No worry once you start dating eye go tear and body go tell you how far.

Edusouls:
Because dating a Nigerian girl is simply not worth it? It's just putting more baggage on top your own, their liability mentality have finally stressed out men...

Lol liability mentality.

assholes

I don't have money to waste

Pump and dump bro; dating comes with a MOU that if the juice is somehow worth the squeeze, the squeezor may be liable to the squeezee for marriage; but as any good Okoro man will tell you, why buy or even rent when you can get it for free?

lalanice:
?? If that means "did I end it?" Then yea.

Good for you...

CuddleBear:
guys are assholes

True... Ladies are b1tches...

BIXYBABE:
Guys av d mindset that All ladies are d same, even wen u try to prove them wrong, dey will still pull d anger from der previous relationship to u. which is very bad. we can never be d same in life. it apply to both gender. I don't fed up self.

How do you prove them wrong?

Is it not same take me out, buy this n that for me, leave ur job n family and give me attention, how much do you have in ur account? Always on d receiving side, no giving and many are even rude despite giving them. Even to sleep with you is d same story so wheres d difference

Nothing exceptional like.. though I don't have much as u do but I have this token for you.. And I'm not doing it in expectance of any favour in return.. Things that make you valued

Honestly I don't see d difference

Godsfavour78:
are you a learner?




No worry once you start dating eye go tear and body go tell you how far.

I just laugh... That one na small pikin talk. Na men no deserve the best in life? Smh...

IntrovertedK:
you Nigerians self. Is there anywhere dating doesn't require sacrifice(s) or you one of the few suffering inferiority complex that believes everything is perfect in the west?

Don't pour all your frustrations on the poor guy.
He just gave an opinion.
You are d timid ,unexposed one if you don't know dating in Nigeria is stressful.
In d West, do females expect you to pay the bills every time you guys hang out abi they split d bills or each person pays alternately?
Do the guys pay for the girl's hairdo,taxi fare,buy expensive gifts for them on their birthdays while the guy gets singlets or boxers on their birthdays?
And many other stuff like this.My mum is sick,my rent is due,my school fees,etc.
You could claim its not all d girls that are like this but if you're willing to tell yourself d truth ,you'll know 95% of them fall into that category.

me that even have girlfriend is thinking of how to break up with her.. I'm already depressed I paid school we starting exam on Saturday because I was doing PT to pay third party just 1,750 is very difficult. leave dating issue one side. e no dey solve the problem

wifeesnatcher:
my Heart Melt. I'll write the love story soon

We're expecting it

DayDreamer05:
May be because I'm too shy, introverted, boring and lacks confidence.

No woman would like to be with my kind.

guy why

Biglittlelois:
Cos I'm tired of giving my all and it doesn't work out.... I'm think of leaning towards things the Nigerian society frown at, for my peace of mind.

you mean lesbo

DayDreamer05:
May be because I'm too shy, introverted, boring and lacks confidence.

No woman would like to be with my kind.

Chai

dmcdad:
True... Ladies are b1tches...

Pele you go dey alright

I bleep my girl yesterday I guess it will be the last time am really tired of dating girls who can’t take care of dem self and I’m f**king broke waiting for NYSC

Sanchez01:
Horrible counsel. If you are broke, think of ways of improving yourself and mostly your present state. I hate to be the one to say this; relationships are expensive. It is only natural that you get to be there as a man. How do you plan on 'being there' when you are broke?

Channel your strength into better things that would ease your state and stop looking for love with an empty pocket.

Plenty sense

CuddleBear:
Pele you go dey alright

You too sorry...

BIXYBABE:
Guys av d mindset that All ladies are d same, even wen u try to prove them wrong, dey will still pull d anger from der previous relationship to u. which is very bad. we can never be d same in life. it apply to both gender. I don't fed up self.

Pm?

Auladimeji:
I'm not dating because I'm broke

God bless you Broke people like us have no say here. Make I go hustle first.

aanuoluwami14:
I haven't found a serious man to date

Do u need one?

Think Wey Man De Think Plenty... If I Date Now That Means Na For Kissin And Fvcking Sake

tohyorsih2:
We're expecting it

who are the we

kunkelhanspeter:
I bleep my girl yesterday I guess it will be the last time am really tired of dating girls who can’t take care of dem self and I’m f**king broke waiting for NYSC

You can actually run alot of shows without spending much. Maybe just tfare. I'm telling you... You just need to learn the art. Trust me!

The most important reason why am not dating any girl now is financial issue.
Most girls in our society just believes that once a guy comes into their life,they will like to put their family problems and personal expenses on the guys head.
I asked one out last month and she agreed ,we didn't even date up to 1 week she has started demanding money excessively from me.
It was during some days to Easter that i ran away from her,she came back from hair dressing saloon that faithful day and was telling me that there was this latest hairstyle in town and it worths up to 15k
My brothers the next thing i do nah to.....

because I am tired of owing women money..

I cherish my personal space and my peace of mind, don't like drama. Currently focusing on other important things, maybe when am done, I'd have time.

no money . plus good girls de hard to find