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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by MikailSalisu(m): 9:42am On May 06
cos I'm super broke

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Pavarottii(m): 9:42am On May 06
0ppa:
I don't want emotional troubles; after school, I'll just marry. No need to waste time 'marrying' a girlfriend now.
U think the wife will fall from heaven?
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by paix(m): 9:42am On May 06
People are thinking of how to make ends meet and you're here talking about dating. How can you think of dating when your mind is running from Jerusalem to Jericho.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Edusouls(m): 9:44am On May 06
Because dating a Nigerian girl is simply not worth it? It's just putting more baggage on top your own, their liability mentality have finally stressed out men...

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by DayDreamer05(m): 9:45am On May 06
May be because I'm too shy, introverted, boring and lacks confidence.

No woman would like to be with my kind.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by MartinsD12(m): 9:45am On May 06
IntrovertedK:
Someone asked me this question about two days ago and i have been thinking about it for real.

Like why am i single?

I don't even know obviously.

So let's yarn. The question is for sane minds though.
Thanks
Dating can be problematic, emotionally traumatizing, physically stressful, most of these girls want heaven on earth while dating, they want everything their fathers couldn't provide them with and mind you girls can't be trusted at all, they flirt a lot. So it's better one keep his peace to avoid stories that touches the heart rather do something productive to improve your life than dating there is no gain in it.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by johnny1948(m): 9:45am On May 06
Cos love is money, I don't have the money to keep a relationship

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Sanchez01: 9:45am On May 06
IntrovertedK:
when boke is the best time to find love. You'd be sure she believes in you, your dreams and your future. Since you won't be offering her anything except love. So go find true love.
Horrible counsel. If you are broke, think of ways of improving yourself and mostly your present state. I hate to be the one to say this; relationships are expensive. It is only natural that you get to be there as a man. How do you plan on 'being there' when you are broke?

Channel your strength into better things that would ease your state and stop looking for love with an empty pocket.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by wifeesnatcher(m): 9:45am On May 06
I'm in an imagination date but it would climb the reality height soon


crushing and crushing for sometimes grin

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by poweredcom(m): 9:45am On May 06
lefulefu:
one of my guy dat broke up wit his girlfriend just did a big thanksgiving in his church to celebrate seperation from his girlfriend and to thank Baba God for sparing his life.he even invited me.this was two sundays ago.said ever since he's been dating d girl he hasnt been feeding well and he's been finding it hard to save money cos half of his salary he gives it to d girl as weekly allowance plus her daily expenditures.


That guy is free bro he will now live long

Never in my life will I marry such type of lady

I don mark am.say any time love fall in my hand na belle I go just give the babe and if she born pikin we go de rough am de go if she keep getting good attitude before traditional marriage

Many naija gals are used and they no be am anymore

We r in d survival times ok

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by BIXYBABE(f): 9:46am On May 06
Guys av d mindset that All ladies are d same, even wen u try to prove them wrong, dey will still pull d anger from der previous relationship to u. which is very bad. we can never be d same in life. it apply to both gender. I don't fed up self.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by ofiko123(m): 9:46am On May 06
Cos we are busy, we have jobs..
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Nobody: 9:49am On May 06
DayDreamer05:
May be because I'm too shy, introverted, boring and lacks confidence.

No woman would like to be with my kind.
Work on your self esteem

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by tohyorsih2(f): 9:49am On May 06
wifeesnatcher:
I'm in an imagination date but it would climb the reality height soon



crushing and crushing for sometimes grin

undecided

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by shogsman(m): 9:49am On May 06
Dating makes ladies emotional and overbearing, can't stand that kind of poo right now.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by essenceplus: 9:49am On May 06
Debramaye:
Single life is the best over here grin... Americans don't marry like Nigerians do instead they'll do Bleep buddy till issues come up


Lol bleep buddy. See your cheeks
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by essenceplus: 9:50am On May 06
QueenSekxy:
Some people are actually single but, their private parts are seriously dating. grin


grin

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by poweredcom(m): 9:50am On May 06
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Work on your self esteem

Abeg wat do u mean self esteem

You ladies are quick to pronounce some funny word

For me there is no lady I can't bang with after a week of dating I won't even spend much

I know how to trick dem

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 9:50am On May 06
DanDeeBoss:
I ain't dating coz "things full my head" but then I wanna start dating next week cheesy.....
Is that how the dating thingy works? You'll just set a time line and boom! You're dating? cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by essenceplus: 9:51am On May 06
babyfaceafrica:
smh...you never learn



grin cheesy guy u dey mentri walahi
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by karkinase(m): 9:51am On May 06
Dating is stressful...In my own opinion, I think dating several persons @ times put a strain on your psyche. I feel being friends is better with benefit or not.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Obas101(m): 9:51am On May 06
lalanice:
?? If that means "did I end it?" Then yea.
so how are you coping now.. if you loved him before you must still miss him right?
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by highcollide: 9:52am On May 06
mrpaedo:
I am a proud,card-carrying member of the MGTOW crew cool
mgtow is the way, the truth and the light.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:52am On May 06
dmcdad:

Is that how the dating thingy works? You'll just set a time line and boom! You're dating? cheesy
cheesycheesy
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Nobody: 9:52am On May 06
Remedy1000:
....

Advert?? I dont really blame you tho...you dnt believe in love because u hv never experience it from ur parents....start by treating ur mum right.
Wait till a girl reset your brain and you will know the true meaning of love.
Are you planning to be a sugar daddy or boyfriend?

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Nobody: 9:53am On May 06
poweredcom:


Abeg wat do u mean self esteem

You ladies are quick to pronounce some funny word

For me there is no lady I can't bang with after a week of dating I won't even spend much

I know how to trick dem
Are u the one I mentioned? Tricking ladies to get into their pants is simply nothing. That which is worthy of note is convincing a woman to ditch others and b with u alone.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 9:53am On May 06
henraya:
Dating is more stressful than making money! I wish I can meet the one that makes everything stressfree for me.
Are you ready to make it stress-free for the person too? It's a two-way street, you know...

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Chuvin22(m): 9:54am On May 06
IntrovertedK:
inferiority complex is all you are suffering bro.
why do you think its inferiority complex that is doing everyone that feels dating is stress in Nigeria and Africa. DATING IS STRESSFUL IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD, SIMPLE. I personally think the same too. We lack that simplicity which makes life easy. we are too complicated. Our women are easily moved by what other people do unlike the men. they compare too much. They trained their mind to be happy with materialism. if you going to preach inferiority complex, do it to the female folks

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by highcollide: 9:54am On May 06
Because having a girlfriend is just another bill.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by wifeesnatcher(m): 9:55am On May 06
tohyorsih2:

undecided

my Heart Melt. I'll write the love story soon kiss
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by essenceplus: 9:55am On May 06
I've never seen such massive outpouring of lonely feelings as I've witnessed on this thread. People desirous of loving but stopped in the tracks... lipsrsealed embarassed

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