EmpressT:
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Dear Sweetie,
I cannot promise you that the journey you’re about to embark on is going to be easy, but I can promise it’ll be worth it. I don’t know when I’ll meet you, thought I can tell you I’m looking forward to it. Don’t be alarmed if I seem guarded and uninterested, I’m just tired of dealing with guys who can’t handle the love that I have to offer.

I’ve been introduced to all the wrong guys, the ones who let you fall with no intention of catching you, or worse the ones who prove that it’s hard to find someone that’s willing to be loyal to just you. From a young age I’ve known guys that have abused, used and played with my emotions.

I need to tell you a few things before you jump in head on. If you invest your time in me, I’m going to invest mine in you. I’m going to love you with everything I know, and I’m not going to fake it either. My walls are built high, with a moat around it. It’s unfair to you that I automatically judge you to be just like the people of my past, but it’s to protect my heart that so easily clutches onto the idea of love. I'm a kind of woman who loves with every fiber in me and I do it the right way. A lot of guys don’t know how to handle or accept the kind of love I have to offer.

My heart has been broken in the past but it doesn’t mean the right person can’t help mend it. I’m braver because of the heartache, because not only am I willing to take chances on people, I’m willing to give someone else the chance to get the love I think they deserve.

Finding someone who can love me the way I can love them is something I’m looking for and I’m willing to work for the relationship that not only I deserve but that you deserve as well. It’s a partnership, I’m looking to grow and enjoy life’s adventures with. It’s a chance that is terrifying, because I could end up heartbroken again but I’m willing to try and fight for love.

I’ll let you in on my past, because for us to have a future we’ll need to start at the beginning. I’ll reopen the wounds and the pain because I trust you. I'll take you on the good days and the bad. When you’re ready to tell me about your demons, I’ll face them head on with you. I’ll never be quick to judge because I know how it feels and if your past troubles you, I’ll work to help make it a little less troubling.

Our generation has lost sight on love and romance, but I can tell you I’m not that girl. I’m a hopeless romantic that’ll remind you daily that you’re important to me, even in the smallest gestures. As I’m asking you to not take my heart for granted, I promise to never do the same to yours. This isn’t a game of who can break whose heart first and if you open yourself up to me I promise to cherish everything you share, and the memories that we make.

I’m asking you to be patient with me. It’s not going to be an easy task for me opening up to you right away. If you put in the work and the effort, I promise my heart will show you the loyalty you deserve. Once I love you, I’ll love you in ways you never thought imaginable.
All the reasons your past relationships didn’t work out won’t matter to you anymore; I’ll show you what was wrong with those girls and raise your standards to what a real relationship should be like.

I’ll love you with my whole heart, because that’s all I know how to do. I will love you my darling with everything a real woman can do to treat her man right with tenderness. With the help of God, I will treat you sweetly and passionately.

Positive attitude it is. Wish u every best dear!

i blame "slay queens" for this

EmpressT:
I will take time to read through your post. Thanks a lot.

U r welcome!
Good morning!

Nairaland Version of twitter vashti smh...

EmpressT I think we share much alike. I want to love with every fiber in me just like you, we could start something explosive.

I dont know you yet but I am making it official

Can we share this together?

Will you be my Emprees?

Your piece just sings to my soul, it just aligns with my spirit and I am helplessly towing that dreaded path once again. Forgive me but I've fallen for your.

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Foodforthought:
We don't take you women serious again. Say one thing now, say another thing later. If I ask you out now, you will still say no, thanks. Mtcheeew.
Abeg, next topic

Must she say yes to every man that ask her out? What if your personality and appearance is not appealing to her?

Kwinesther:
Must she say yes to every man that ask her out? What if your personality and appearance is not appealing to her?

She mustn't say yes to every man, sure. That still doesn't change the fact that many don't know what they want. Even when she sees that man willing to....whatever...she will still mess it up.

Foodforthought:

She mustn't say yes to every man, sure. That still doesn't change the fact that many don't know what they want. Even when she sees that man willing to....whatever...she will still mess it up.

If you read her post and comments to the end you will know she knows what she want, she is serious and not shy about it. It is not all women that messes up in a relationship. Don't conclude or generalise and men are not left out too.

Nice write up lady. Also filled with so much emotions. You will soon get your heart's desire. Love doesn't come easy. Hope to meet you some day.

openmine:

U r welcome!
Good morning!

Hey! What's up!

BabbanBura:


Positive attitude it is. Wish u every best dear!

Thank you my friend

dairykidd:


I finally just read it. I hope u know those guys will definitely take advantage of what u just did.... Interesting tho

I am very much aware my dear

Kwinesther:
If you read her post and comments to the end you will know she knows what she want, she is serious and not shy about it. It is not all women that messes up in a relationship. Don't conclude or generalise and men are not left out too.

Generalisation, gender comparison ? That's going too far. I'm not a kid,ma.
Do women appreciate guys who love hem right, who listen to them, who make it all about them? A perfect man comes along...and she doesn't value him. A woman's preference, values, wants, choices easily change even when they are in the right zone. They don't see it.

EmpressT:


I am very much aware my dear

Lolz... Just be careful sha & hope u find what u seek

dairykidd:


Lolz... Just be careful sha & hope u find what u seek

Yes I will. Thanks for your kind gestures.

doczero:
Nice write up lady. Also filled with so much emotions. You will soon get your heart's desire. Love doesn't come easy. Hope to meet you some day.

Thanks Doc. I'm hoping and praying not to fall into the wrong hands. it's just a matter of time and patience.

Foodforthought:

Generalisation, gender comparison ? That's going too far. I'm not a kid,ma.
Do women appreciate guys who love hem right, who listen to them, who make it all about them? A perfect man comes along...and she doesn't value him. A woman's preference, values, wants, choices easily change even when they are in the right zone. They don't see it.

We have few women who appreciate,value, respect and love their men for who they are. A woman who tries to change a man to fit in her taste in doesn't truly love him.

EmpressT:
I will take time to read through your post. Thanks a lot.

sorry to disturb empressT, if I may ask are you a Muslim or Christian?

OLAJADON:

sorry to disturb empressT, if I may ask are you a Muslim or Christian?

I'm a Christian.

EmpressT:

I'm a Christian.

ok

EmpressT:


Hey! What's up!

Nothing much
whatsup with you?
Hope you have read the link i sent you!
Discovered that people are attracted to individuals who love themselves!

EmpressT, this is exactly my kind of love.
In fact I often tell my friends that I walk around with an invisible bag of love.

Sadly, most females don't deserve this type of love.
Why?
Because they can't handle it, and often misunderstand the idea.
I hope you find the right man that will accept, understand and reciprocate your love.

If I may ask...where are you from, and what exactly do you look like?

Foodforthought:

Generalisation, gender comparison ? That's going too far. I'm not a kid,ma.
Do women appreciate guys who love hem right, who listen to them, who make it all about them? A perfect man comes along...and she doesn't value him. A woman's preference, values, wants, choices easily change even when they are in the right zone. They don't see it.

Eeyah... e be like say woman don do you strong thing, bad experience dey change person mentality. I pray God will send you that special woman that will value, honour and appreciate you and your efforts then your generalized view about all women would change in a wink.

An open invitation to drop CVs... I can see many already, even one from the guy in California.

Bostin:
Let chat on whatsapp 07037147782

EmpressT:

Thanks man.

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Kwinesther:
Eeyah... e be like say woman don do you strong thing, bad experience dey change person mentality. I pray God will send you that special woman that will value, honour and appreciate you and your efforts then your generalized view about all women would change in a wink.

Not at all, women never do me strong thing. I no be womanizer . But Amen to your prayer.

EmpressT:


Hmmm.....
It is rare for me to express my mind here. Like you said, it takes a special kind of person to manage my kind of love. I am never looking for perfect love but something genuine with no compromise.
You said you are an expert knowing what "atomic love" is, you can tell me more about it right?

You are already loaded with it.... you know what it is...and love is a thing that has sooo much to do with feelings that words cannot describe. So this is something I cannot explain... in fact... I'm just here to ehmmm...... make your wish come true... even if I have to move heaven and earth...ehmm....well not heaven...but earth I will move if need be.

@Op, I love your diction. So articulate

Your write up is fantastic and seem from the purest of all souls, if it's actually not from a Hollywood romantic script

Originalsly:


You are already loaded with it.... you know what it is...and love is a thing that has sooo much to do with feelings that words cannot describe. So this is something I cannot explain... in fact... I'm just here to ehmmm...... make your wish come true... even if I have to move heaven and earth...ehmm....well not heaven...but earth I will move if need be.

Wow! I understand you well my dear. I can offer you friendship, what do you think?

truthsayer009:




I sell ASO EBI of all sizes, even Caps too.
Wedding planners etc Incase you guys eventually need, call on me. Cheers.

Lolz! Gerrarrehere men