₦airaland Forum

MariaLavina:
Baby you are grandma and friend now, but at thy word, village it is. Lemme go and clear the bushes and construct the village road. O maa bad gan.



Obodo oyinbo here I come.

MissRaine69:
proposed to you? Ladies would you propose to the man you are dating?

Tallesty1:
After proposing what next? Who goes to see whose parents and who pays for the marriage and wedding?

DMerciful:
Only a man has the right to propose! End of discussion!

pansophist:
Even if men do the proposal, it is female that still ultimately choose the Male. And a woman will only propose to a man she has already choosed. So men do not hold any mating power by proposing. Accepting his proposal is merely a confirmation of him being chosen in the first place. In all species including humans, the female has always being the chooser.

I dont mind a woman proposing to me, but again, it all depends if I like and compatible with her.

pryme:
Your assertion if filled with holes.

MissRaine69:
Does the world and its cousins need to know who did what in terms of the proposal? And if you date someone who forward thinking you sit down and discuss budgets.

pansophist:
Mind clarifying?

MissRaine69:
proposed to you? Ladies would you propose to the man you are dating?

MissRaine69:
It never rains but it pours.........
How in Nebuchadnezzar‘s name is a proposal a right?

pryme:
A woman may Choose a man, that does not mean the man will choose her,
or are you saying you have never been in a situation where a woman you dont fancy does all she can to impress you?

If a woman hold all the keys why dont they walk and to any man and take them home.

for a union to work, the man comes forward AND the woman also comes forward, the woman does not hold all the aces, she has a say in it.

What you are implying is sex not marriage, both are 2 different things, a cos a woman cant do jack if the man is not interested in marriage, so you see the woman has her own key and the man has his, without both keys nothing works, So its not up to the woman (alone).

MissRaine69:
proposed to you? Ladies would you propose to the man you are dating?

MissRaine69:
Don’t marry intelligent women this way your ego is not threatened when said mentioned wife eclipses you from a career perspective simply because she is smart. A man who gets his nose out of joint because the wife earns more than him, despite never disrespecting him in anyway or causing him to feel less than a man has ingrained misogynistic traits that won’t change regardless of the situation. You seem like the missionary only type of guy and I mean that with the uttermost respect.

MissRaine69:
I need to know your ring size, so while you sleep I will measure EVERYTHING......can’t come out short just before such an auspicious moment.

Tallesty1:
You didn't answer my question.


If she proposes and then expect me to go and see her people then it is a trap. That's not how it works.

PaulAris:
Whoa!
I truely am shocked, 69.

Octopusssy:
Wikkid!

pryme:
If I love her and am ready for marriage I will accept,
provided its not the normal rubbish i find everywhere on social media where couples propose in a shopping mall, if thats how she will play it, i will act like i never knew her and walk out on her.

MissRaine69:
I distaste that personally was referring to women who don’t live their lives as dictated by social media and likes.

danilmo:
Be like op is making this proposing thing an argument where she disprove people giving their realistic view, 'Womrn doing d Proposing thing go well o' and no lay down rule on who to do the proposing so she's winning the argument.

, But I guess she forgot winning argument dont win reality..

MissRaine69:
If there is anything that you need to learn today try to be objective. I know it might be mission impossible but we don’t give up on those that have cognitive deficits. Asking a question seeking to see different perspectives on something that is becoming prevalent is not about winning. It’s called a discussion. Maybe you don’t have many of those as your prefer to view things in a blinkered way. I don’t limit my life to a pond life point of view.

danilmo:
Now that u agreed it's 'mission impossible' u should have made the question an open minded type u know, u asked as if ure at the bridge of doing the impossible and only wanted cognitive view probably to reinforce ur mind or did u still need to b tutored on how to ask an open minded question as different from self help??

MissRaine69:
You had the option of not responding if you had nothing productive to contribute. It is actually that simple instead you opted to engage asshole mode.

MissRaine69:
Centimetres or inches?

danilmo:
I dont just comment , I checked ur question, check how u respond , I saw how unguided u react to people giving their realistic view , and discovered u derive joy in winning which is actually a must cox they have no rule backing their claim except for reality..


Only God knows where u learnt being in ass-hole mode from or are u from d slum, very unguided, Y won't u be troubled with unproductive mission impossible clauses

MissRaine69:
I don’t have the crayons to explain matters to you, but the matter remains as is.
Engage asshole mode
Excrement will fly.

MissRaine69:
Don’t marry intelligent women this way your ego is not threatened when said mentioned wife eclipses you from a career perspective simply because she is smart. A man who gets his nose out of joint because the wife earns more than him, despite never disrespecting him in anyway or causing him to feel less than a man has ingrained misogynistic traits that won’t change regardless of the situation. You seem like the missionary only type of guy and I mean that with the uttermost respect.

2buffagain:
I agree with this.
But it's also a double edged sword when it comes to women earning more in that a lot of women cannot respect their husband if he consistently earns less than her. Even so called progressive women who start out initially feeling happy that her family is a compliment to herself of how progressive she is...a lot of them with time/years start to find it harder to respect dude.

It's not just men who emit that problem.

It is possible to do it if he lays some boundaries as to how her money factors in to things, but most women don't play that "our money" thing respectfully when they are consistently bringing the larger share.