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You are about losing your love if you don't sit and talk immediately.

But why Hiding things from her if you love her

This is a big red flag. In a nutshell, your girlfriend doesn't trust you anymore. And you gave her reasons not to bro.

Its not as if i hide things but am not the talking type. An example being months ago i was broke she managed with me but i was able to raise 500k i send to my family on emergency issues, i never told her but am aware my friend did, i didnt tell her because its just a part of me hate disturbing people, i dont ask her for money no matter how bouyant a lady seems i hate asking her for money or looking into her finances but i always help out.
The issues is how do i get her to open up she has told me this before and when we sit to talk about it she insisted it was nothing.
How do i go from here

SageMK:
This is a big red flag. In a nutshell, your girlfriend doesn't trust you anymore. And you gave her reasons not to bro.

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Ninethmare:
You are about losing your love if you don't sit and talk immediately.


But why Hiding things from her if you love her

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MJBOLT:

if you want her to open up then you have to open up to her also

am an open person bro very open but i lack that good communication skill, am not the talking type
Barely months to our relationship, she knows how much i earn, my atm pins, has my spare keys, my most secrets
I just don't know what to do

Audacious19:
This morning i got this text from my suppoused gf of 5 months and it reads;
Am no longer free with you, i hardly tell you things this days but you started it, you cover up so many things even without telling me and i find out the truth
I havent reply this but i have tried over the past to sit and talk on this and she always says its nothing..
Is this a sign of a red flag i should be careful or what am confused.

lol...
Welcome to country no vex,the only place weh goat dey rule lion.
That girl don get better man,period

Get someone involved i dont see you too understanding each other

It takes to two to tangle. The best way to get her open up to you, is to open up to her yourself.


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u better go to her quickly,
apologise for hiding things from her,
and discuss well with her.
if not,
she don dey go o

faultfinding starts popping into a relationship wen either party starts seeing anoda partner dt she/he likes more Dan you.

Faultfinding starts popping into a relationship wen either partner starts seeing sm1 dat is beta Dan the current person ur with.