Bola146:
or is she the one spending on you? You know the answers already! Act like an adult and face her

Sundrus:
Na bcus say u don chop ponmo na why u dey fear to tell her say u never ready for marriage abi. Boys of nowadays una mata don tire me.

Yusufisraelj:
@RealtorX

I think you both should sit down and have a talk with each other, I discovered that many people don't set goals, plans and strategy for execution of sensitive issues.

When you plan to settle down is more important than your current situation. Since both of you have a concensus of working together.

Bkos when you have a goal, your subconscious makes you see opportunities where ordinarily you wouldn't see if you never had a target.

Equally what skill do you have that you can exchange for money?

Nevertheless if she's not okay with you plans and strategy allow her walk. But how committed are you in leaving your current state and what actions are you taking that show's commensurable efforts for positive change?

RealtorX:

Not really but she doesn't demand. Anytime she visits she pays all Tfare (around 5k). I only procure food and drinks. There was a time I tried giving her but she rejected it knowing I don't have much. Could she be desperate for marriage due to her age?

Bola146:


You need a good counselling because you will have problem in marriage if you don't know what you need or want in life. Nobody will not come and live nor give you money to live, you know your abilities to sustain a home.

Note; Marriage is not moimoi and pap that you can just rush to eat.

Sundrus:
Na bcus say u don chop ponmo na why u dey fear to tell her say u never ready for marriage abi. Boys of nowadays una mata don tire me.

Bola146:


You need a good counselling because you will have problem in marriage if you don't know what you need or want in life. Nobody will not come and live nor give you money to live, you know your abilities to sustain a home.

Note; Marriage is not moimoi and pap that you can just rush to eat.