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The average Nigerian man doesn't think good about his woman.
Sick country! Ladies be vigilant.

Mznaett:
The average Nigerian man doesn't think good about his woman his average Nigerian woman

Sick country! Ladies be vigilant.

Fixed.


You think men are stup!d? So you think Ned Nwoko doesn't know Regina Daniels is after his wealth??

The average Nigerian woman deserves the average Nigerian lady.

Biglittlelois:
I narrowed it down to your wife because you made no mention of her, like she is a stranger living with you who is meant to breed, then sideline her when it comes to a will and properties.

Evil shouldn't meet evil, repay evil with good, having a mentality that a wife can wish the unthinkable without being married yet is wrong to say the least, the wife is human, she has a right to a will, it is a form of security for her too.

Did you also notice I made no mention of my parents or siblings? If the wife is a good mother to the kids, they will naturally take care of her from their inheritance.

Why should I repay evil with good? Am I Jesus Christ? You just judged all men based on the thought of one man and you are asking me not do the same? Is it not baffling?

Nobody has any right to any will. They owner dispensates his or her priorities the way he or she chooses. I'm privy to a lot of citizen's financial documents and I see who majority of married women choose as their next of kin so don't be sanctimonious about my decision. It is made based on observation and in line with current reality.

Acidosis:
Fixed.


You think men are stup!d? So you think Ned Nwoko doesn't know Regina Daniels is after his wealth??

The average Nigerian woman deserves the average Nigerian lady.

Regina and Ned's case is solely business. No complication in it.

Now, that can't be said about the "average" Nigerian woman who sacrificed all she had for her partner to be fit in today's world, got evicted and thrown out of the same empire they built. It's absurd, isn't it?

Getting married to an average Nigerian man is actually a terrible choice for any lady to make in this life.

Mznaett:
The average Nigerian man doesn't think good about his woman.

Sick country! Ladies be vigilant.

Asin ehn! Marriage now is very scary esp in Nigeria.

God forbid

Mznaett:
Regina and Ned's case is solely business. No complication in it.

Now, that can't be said about the "average" Nigerian woman who sacrificed all she had for her partner to be fit in today's world, got evicted and thrown out of the same empire they built. It's absurd, isn't it?

Getting married to an average Nigerian man is actually a terrible choice for any lady to make in this life.

Regina and Ned's case is a reflection of what the average woman today wants from the average man. Emphasis on the word "average" pls.

When you say Any lady , do you mean slay queens, ex prostitutes, Dubai Porter alumni, street and social media hawkers, and the rest? The average Nigerian man knows too well to not waste his sweat on the aforementioned.

As per your ideas about being thrown out after building a home, well dear you should quit watching Asaba and Abeokuta Nollywood productions. Okoro Blessing, the LIEnus blogger, was the last person to "experience" that in the real world.

egojeny1:
Asin ehn! Marriage now is very scary esp in Nigeria.

God forbid

I can't even compromise my happiness for one.

If your feet are not well rooted, you can't withstand the typical Nigerian man's excesses.

Acidosis:
When I make the wealth, I'll decide.


Men, know your woman. If she puts your interest first, then reciprocate. If she doesn't, do the needful.

Why would you marry a wife that doesn't put your interest first?

bukatyne:
Why would you marry a wife that doesn't put your interest first?

Who is your next of kin? Who is the next of kin of the average married woman?

Acidosis:
Who is your next of kin? Who is the next of kin of the average married woman?

Husband.

Mznaett:
I can't even compromise my happiness for one.

If your feet are not well rooted, you can't withstand the typical Nigeria man's excesses.

The fear of the Typical Nigerian husband is the beginning of wisdom.

bukatyne:
Husband.

Great! That's a very rare thing to find

Acidosis:
Great! That's a very rare thing to find

Really?

Anigreat:







I can only will my diccck to her, my properties goes to my children,. mum and sister.

I'm sorry for you.

bukatyne:
Really?

I will interject and respond to that - YES, really.

Nigerian women choose their children as next of kin. And if you're going to conduct a survey, your focus group should be women with children, not single girls, not married women without kids or those with children less than 18years of age.
Ask married women with a child/children above 18, and you'd be surprised at what you find.

I don't need to conduct a survey as I have been in situations where I had access to forms/documents where people had to fill out a next of kin.
It's actually men who choose their wives more often than women choose their husbands, so I really don't get what those girls up there on this thread have been ranting about concerning Nigerian men.

They must be living in an alternate universe, or in this universe but are stuck under a rock.

And one sad truth is many women won't even put their husband as Next of kin.

Saw this

crackhaus:
I will interject and respond to that - YES, really.

Nigerian women choose their children as next of kin. And if you're going to conduct a survey, your focus group should be women with children, not single girls, not married women without kids or those with children less than 18years of age.
Ask married women with a child/children above 18, and you'd be surprised at what you find.

I don't need to conduct a survey as I have been in situations where I had access to forms/documents where people had to fill out a next of kin.
It's actually men who choose their wives more often than women choose their husbands, so I really don't get what those girls up there on this thread have been ranting about concerning Nigerian men.

They must be living in an alternate universe, or in this universe but are stuck under a rock.

Lmao.

bukatyne:
Really?

Yes. Please see the screenshot from Odunharry. You can also ask your married colleagues, especially the younger ones.

Personally, I have seen men who willed their properties to their wife and children they left behind. This is not what you see online or on the paper. I'm talking real life experience.

I guess something then must be wrong if a man fails to will his property to her or include her as beneficiaries.
All those ladies above saying Men don't do such please are you from Space??

Acidosis:
Regina and Ned's case is a reflection of what the average woman today wants from the average man. Emphasis on the word "average" pls.

When you say Any lady , do you mean slay queens, ex prostitutes, Dubai Porter alumni, street and social media hawkers, and the rest? The average Nigerian man knows too well to not waste his sweat on the aforementioned .

As per your ideas about being thrown out after building a home, well dear you should quit watching Asaba and Abeokuta Nollywood productions. Okoro Blessing, the LIEnus blogger, was the last person to "experience" that in the real world.

If the average guy knows what's best, how about a friend that got jilted after securing a loan of over a million naira just to support her "supposed husband"?

Odunharry:
And one sad truth is many women won't even put their husband as Next of kin.

Such a dangerous thing to do.
Sincerely, I won't even dare.

Mznaett:
If the average guy knows what's best, how about a friend that got jilted after securing a loan of over a million naira just to support her "supposed husband"?


Such a dangerous thing to do.
Sincerely, I won't even dare.

But u want your own man to put you as Next of Kin?

MariaLavina:
Here to write down selfish men names

egojeny1:
Asin ehn! Marriage now is very scary esp in Nigeria.

God forbid

Mznaett:
The average Nigerian man doesn't think good about his woman.

Sick country! Ladies be vigilant.

With your comments, you girls have inadvertently shown exactly why a man ought to be doubly critical of whom he leaves his wealth to.

It's amazing, but through no fault of yours (I blame environmental indoctrination), that you girls have somehow never put into consideration that you might even be wealthier than your husband at the point of his death and hence have no need of his wealth.

This my dear girls is exactly why patriarchy is going no where, because Nigerian women still see men as their financial saviours despite how much lip service you all pay to promoting equality and female empowerment.
Do you think a Folorunsho Alakija or one of the female CEOs of successful companies would be foaming at the mouth if her husband left his own piece of wealth to their children in his will?

You're embarrassingly limiting yourselves and dragging wealth with the same children you women like to brag and claim that they care more for their mothers than they do their fathers.
If this is the case, what then exactly are you worried about if these same mother-loving children get all the wealth once they are above 18, or kept in trust with the wife as administrator till they come of age?

It's almost like you don't even trust your own judgments anymore or yourselves.

Odunharry:
But u want your own man to put you as Next of Kin?

Not with the kind of limited mentality most men have. I can't deal!

Mznaett:
Such a dangerous thing to do.
Sincerely, I won't even dare.

You see your life for outside?

You definitely deserve an average Nigerian man for a husband with that mentality.

bukatyne:
The fear of the Typical Nigerian husband is the beginning of wisdom.

Their ways of reasoning is nauseating. I can't deal!

crackhaus:
You see your life for outside?

You definitely deserve an average Nigerian man for a husband with that mentality.

Maybe, I should remind you that I can't compromise my happiness for the average man .

Mznaett:
If the average guy knows what's best, how about a friend that got jilted after securing a loan of over a million naira just to support her "supposed husband"?


Such a dangerous thing to do.
Sincerely, I won't even dare.

Experiences of those who failed to make adequate and appropriate marital choices should not inform the choices you hope to make.

Mznaett:
Maybe, I should remind you that I can't compromise my happiness for the average man .

Girl you're putting yourself down without even realizing it.
You should NEVER expect to get what you cannot give, such expectation is the very definition of entitlement.

You can't use your husband as a next of kin meaning you can't also will him all your wealth assuming you're the one with the bulk of it, yet you want him to do all this to prove to you he's not an average man when in fact you're also an average woman.

Average women deserve average men and vice versa. Water seeks its own level.
Kapish?

Mznaett:
Maybe, I should remind you that I can't compromise my happiness for the average man .

i have read through your posts on this thread and i must say your attitude and thoughts show that you are worse than the same average Nigerian man you despise. stop being a hypocrite.

don't worry, i am a woman like you.

Calm4good:
Can you will your wealth to your wife?

No. Doing would mean willing your wealth to another family.

Your can still will it to your wife in a way by willing your wealth to,of course,your children.