Sterope:
Michelle Obama didn't kneel down for her husband. She married a former senator and a former president.

The Queen of Great Britain doesn't kneel for her husband but she is one of the most powerful woman in the world.

I did not say I will not kneel down. So Baba, kool your temper.

u see dear DAT d thing DAT annoying me am cool am not fighting wit u but read wat u write dere. is queen Elizabeth from Africa or england.is Michelle Obama not American.but u are a African.dose oyibo dont have culture but yet u compare dose pple to us.are u Yoruba or IBO.one of dem but anambra is not England. Ogun is not America.mentality is diffrent

Sterope:
It is not about kneeling down. It is idea that it means submission, which itself is a concept I find silly.

I find both the act and meaning of it, very silly.

Honestly extremely silly.

In fact over silly

As in over the board silly.

In fact I dey vex!

liberalchick:
Thank you.

I try as much as possible to speak up for the movement because it has been heavily distorted by radical feminists and bad actors. I also think that when people really know what the original movement was created for most people will become allies

My husband is now more of a feminist than I am, we are raising a boy and a girl. Every month my daughter wants to be something, this month she wants to be a firefighter, the next a nurse and my husband will say “why shouldn’t I fight for a society that allow my daughter be whatever she wants to be, no limits, no labels”

My father was the first feminist in my life, he raised four girls and he thought us not to be limited by the traditional roles that Nigerian society set for us.

I'll agree with you that ignorant, bad actors portray the movement as anti men or anti marriage movement. I have always wanted women to be whatever they want to be. I am raising 2 girls and I am not under any pressure for a Male child. I believe that men have leadership role in marriage but then true leaders don't exert authority rather true leaders have the hearts of servants.

ImaIma1:


Off course it's her problem. But she should not deceive and misinform people out there that it is kneeling down that keeps a man

so by respecting her man u now call it her problem wen young ladies can learn one or 2 things from.

Who says they don't have culture? What is culture? Do you think you have been true to Yoruba culture since the days of your grandparents or more recently, your parents? Why don't you educate yourself first?

Bossjakande:
u see dear DAT d thing DAT annoying me am cool am not fighting wit u but read wat u write dere. is queen Elizabeth from Africa or england.is Michelle Obama not American.but u are a African.dose oyibo dont have culture but yet u compare dose pple to us.are u Yoruba or IBO.one of dem but anambra is not England. Ogun is not America.mentality is diffrent

seunmsg:


Ok o.

this my senior colleague is old school

ImaIma1:
Yimu!


If a woman likes, let her roll on the floor while serving her husband, a man that won't stay, won't.

You are not a man. You assume too much! !

eni4real:
You are not a man. You assume too much! !

Even a slow person would know that it is not kneeling that keeps a man if he doesn't want to be kept.

This is not an assumption.

Sterope:
Who says they don't have culture? What is culture? Do you think you have been true to Yoruba culture since the days of your grandparents or more recently, your parents? Why don't you educate yourself first?

madam how can u compare white man culture to our DAT is deep. I dont care about dia culture but our own alone. if u kill ur culture for white man own am sorry.no traditional marriage dey do d woman never kneel down to feed her hubby.

Sterope:
The meaning of submission requires you to give up everything especially your free will for another. That is impossible. We don't do it for our parents, why will you expect it from another person?

You can love someone and not give up your freewill. You can be the best partner/wife and not submit. Of course, you feel entitled but then there are boundaries. With submission, there are no boundaries. It includes if your husband expects you to give up your job, you must give it up. If he wants you to stop wearing trousers, you have to stop. If he doesn't want you to go out, you dont. That is the type of relationship expected of a slave and a master. Don't try to come with arguments that exclude the examples. Those examples are the true meaning of submission in the society. To counter it, they expect you to find a way to warm his heart.

As a Yoruba lady, I am familiar with the concept of kneeling down. It is not my most favourite thing to do. However, claiming that it signifies submission, that has a bad lie. It is an act that cannot guarantee trust or good character. Na style over substance.

I expect a man to consider partners that is mostly agreeable and whom they share same ideals and goals with. Not a wife he can say don't go out because of some filmsy reason and expects her not to go out.

Why do people take vows and oaths during weddings? Why are married people under obligations of what to do and not do in marriage, why are they not free to do whatever the wish on their own freewill like you said? The moment two people take those oaths to be called husband and wife they are bind together under social legal , moral, laws that requires submission they are no longer free to themselves, well religion and tradition might make those rules to favour a man more than it does a woman, but it's not completely one sided as you put it, is better not to marry at all if you want total freedom marriage is never freedom it's an act of tying two people together they both have certain rights over each other , submission doesn't require you giving up your total freewill for another as you put it,

When you have nothing to offer the world on technology, science, peace, great standard of living etc, you come up with how your culture is better, how your men look better that their men etc.

The truth is their culture is as deep as theirs. I am beginning to find your argument ridiculous.

Bossjakande:
madam how can u compare white man culture to our DAT is deep. I dont care about dia culture but our own alone. if u kill ur culture for white man own am sorry.no traditional marriage dey do d woman never kneel down to feed her hubby.

You haven't read what I have written

Deepfeel:

Why do people take vows and oaths during weddings? Why are married people under obligations of what to do and not do in marriage, why are they not free to do whatever the wish on their own freewill like you said? The moment two people take those oaths to be called husband and wife they are bind together under social legal , moral, laws that requires submission they are no longer free to themselves, well religion and tradition might make those rules to favour a man more than it does a woman, but it's not completely one sided as you put it, is better not to marry at all if you want total freedom marriage is never freedom it's an act of tying two people together they both have certain rights over each other , submission doesn't require you giving up your total freewill for another as you put it,

Sterope:
When you have nothing to offer the world on technology, science, peace, great standard of living etc, you come up with how your culture is better, how your men look better that their men etc.

The truth is their culture is as deep as theirs. I am beginning to find your argument ridiculous.

madam u are from africa. ur parent and grandparent are from Africa.ur boyfriend or hubby is from Africa. u live in Africa. eat African food speak African lang dress as African.so I ask u what concern Elizabeth or Obama with d way we live here. what is ur concern with England and America life and culture wen u are here in Africa?

Sterope:
You haven't read what I have written

I read what you wrote but I don't agree with your definition of submission completely, submission is done out of freewill not forcefully

Of course, you don't. You are a man after all. It doesn't apply to you.

Deepfeel:

I read what you wrote but I don't agree with your definition of submission completely, submission is done out of freewill not forcefully

Sterope:
Of course, you don't. You are a man after all. It doesn't apply to you.

It applies to me too for me to love completely without holding back requires submission I know once I fall in love I know am answerable to someone, I can't go clubbing if the one I love doesn't like it, I can't smoke and drink alcohol if the one I love hates it, I can't keep long beard and dreadlocks if my love hates it's am not free to date multiple girls ones am married, so u see my freewill is restricted I have to summit too

ibkayee:
Not my style but if she likes it I love it, her business

A man can literally have the ‘perfect’ wife and still cheat though

May God save my soul

ImaIma1:


Even a slow person would know that it is not kneeling that keeps a man if he doesn't want to be kept.

This is not an assumption.

You are thinking for all men now!

That is not submission. Submission means you let another take total control. That is why they say women submit to their husband.

There is a limit to what you can give up for love. A positive love will not expects you to give up every part of yourself for love, please run if you are because you are in a toxic relationship. At this rate, you will soon sell your family house to buy Brazilian wig for her.

Deepfeel:

It applies to me too for me to love completely without holding back requires submission I know once I fall in love I know am answerable to someone, I can't go clubbing if the one I love doesn't like it, I can't smoke and drink alcohol if the one I love hates it, I can't keep long beard and dreadlocks if my love hates it's am not free to date multiple girls ones am married, so u see my freewill is restricted I have to summit too

This is the reason why men will never respect women - fools like this ! This man can never respect any women outside - will be dragging with his female boss since he has a woman who grovels like a dog for him at home - he would expect his female boss to be kneeling down for him at work !

Nigerian men and respect be like private part and private tool

Deepfeel:

Been submissive to your man is same thing as kneeling that's the point she's trying to make , submission

He doesn’t need my submission, he prefers everything else

Sterope:
That is not submission. Submission means you let another take total control. That is why they say women submit to their husband.

There is a limit to what you can give up for love. A positive love will not expects you to give up every part of yourself for love, please run if you are because you are in a toxic relationship. At this rate, you will soon sell your family house to buy Brazilian wig for her.

You let another person take control right, not that you are forced to it, you willingly summit yourself to that person not that he forced you to summit yourself, people willingly sacrifice themselves for love that's submission

Guest007:


He doesn’t need my submission, he prefers everything else

Everything else like?

Pataricatering:
This is the reason why men will never respect women - fools like this ! This man can never respect any women outside - will be dragging with his female boss since he has a woman who grovels like a dog for him at home - he would expect his female boss to be kneeling down for him at work !

Is the man married to every woman outside? Is he married to his female boss why will he expect same treatment from every other woman his not married to

Sterope:
How often do you obey your parents? The indirect curses you must have received from them will be enough to construct Burj Khalifa. Worry about that and not me.

Hmmm. Once again i m sorry for you!

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Jakumo:


She looks old, so it is guaranteed her husband is already humping a busty 19 year-old university girl on the side.

You have been upgraded, Madam, so you better seek the gardener's help in planting his yam for you.

Is she older than your mother? Ewu!