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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by menix(m): 7:24am On Jun 08, 2019 |
@OP... sorry ur hubby ain't Brice in Tyler Perry Temptation... Yes, ur hubby is abusive and u ve been cool with it cous u ve found a way around it by also attacking him too?? Why complaining now Because u re preg now And can't hit back Make una kontinew!! I know u ain't Seeing d gravity Of ur "judith" stunt of ur imaginary "Brice", thou I ain't surprise, if u look very well, most female who would rant here won't also see same.. Sorry u had to unleash the demon in him thou I don't subscribe to him hitting you. Pls, don't go apologizing as both party ve loads of heart talk to do.. If u like listen to these home breakers, who would ask u to jump off the union but re in a worse relationship but choose to keep theirs... 1 Like |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:25am On Jun 08, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: LMAO And the wives whose husband's treat them like trash are not bitter? Just go abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:28am On Jun 08, 2019 |
menix: Some of you men are desperately wicked. Home breakers yen yen yen... A place your husband beats and treats you badly, a place you are not happy, how do you call that home? If she wants to stay, by all means do so. Home breakers indeed. What does anyone here have to gain from breaking the home of a stranger. I wonder if you use your brain before typing. Disgusting. 6 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Sumk: 7:32am On Jun 08, 2019 |
That good male friend is a friend known by my family and him as well.......I am and never was having any intention of sleeping with him or dating him......my husband unexpected outburst made me land in a hospital........his behavior demonstrates that I can never ever commit a mistake in my life I feel whereas for him every action is justified just because he is a male 3 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:34am On Jun 08, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:You make an attempt to separate them right away and if need be, call the cops. Joining in to beat her would mean you're as much of an animal as she is. 9 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:40am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:44am On Jun 08, 2019 |
breakerofchains:you will be alright
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by menix(m): 7:46am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Sumk: I think u re the person who ve failed to see ur wrong... U said he did same in the past, did u speak about it to him If truly he did same with someone alone, it would ve been a concern to you nd u would ve spoken out.. Except u intend telling us, you decided to pay back Lastly, I don't think anyone is justifying the abuse neither should you also justify that "Judith's" stunt of urs... 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:49am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Who are these barbaric men supporting this wicked act of hitting a pregnant woman and even telling her to go and apologize.... Apologize for what biko.Their mothers sure did a bad job in their upbringing. Any man that tries this stupid act with me would have been cooling his ass in prison now but area thugs will first reason his matter 9 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Sumk: 7:52am On Jun 08, 2019 |
I know my mistake and even during the argument I was trying to explain it to him but he was waiting to physically abuse me ....the look on his face was like I have committed a sin to go out like that and I deserved the beating he gave me ......Lord I was worried that I will start bleeding from all of this but luckily enough the baby was safe 1 Like |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by menix(m): 7:54am On Jun 08, 2019 |
breakerofchains: See how bitter a woman you are.. Pls, just go out there and marry Urself ur supposed man.. Take this as my last mention... |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:54am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Nobody: 7:57am On Jun 08, 2019 |
menix: Look at you First, I'm not bitter but you want to know what else? You're completely silly for thinking using the word bitter will make me shut up...LMAO I know that it's just a silencing technique. Women should tolerate every trash behavior and not complain so they won't be called "bitter" News flash: I don't care! 7 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by sisisioge: 8:02am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Lawd! Don't mind those saying its all your fault. Given, you ought to have disclosed that you were meeting the friend but he had no rights to put his hands on you! Especially not in your condition. Nice that you called the cops...he should face the music. If he had fatally hurt you or your unborn child, the story would have been different! Those people talking should imagine their sisters or daughters being kicked around while pregnant 4 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by ibkayee(f): 8:07am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Married people shouldn't be going out with friends of the opposite gender without telling their spouses but that isn't justification for hitting you. He's also gone out with a female friends without notifying you? What a hypocrite The 4 MONTH PREGNANCY didn't phase him either? Damn, what a monster Apparently you two have gotten into physical arguments before but it sounds like you've only gotten physical in retaliation, not necessarily that you're both abusive towards one another. Am I correct? Seems he showed signs of abuse before the marriage too? They don't tend to change dear, it usually only gets worse I would leave the marriage, if he can beat you while you're pregnant with his child, he obviously has absolutely no limitations. Not only is it unjustified, he's also hypocrite 3 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:15am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Acidosis: what is funny? Sexist. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:15am On Jun 08, 2019 |
breakerofchains: I concur babe. |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:17am On Jun 08, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: You are delusional. SEXISTS! 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:20am On Jun 08, 2019 |
What is wrong with going out with male friends now· Since her husband will not give her attention, let her seek solace elsewhere. NL men are no good. I wonder how they treat their wives at home. Acidosis and Tonyebarcanista, i spit on you people. 5 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Acidosis(m): 8:35am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:37am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Acidosis: Yes. You support bad things. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by Acidosis(m): 8:46am On Jun 08, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: My dear, those indoctrinating you do not mean well. I do not support violence of any form but I was surprised to read from a woman who takes delight in retaliating side-kicks. Never seen a woman that is so determined to fight her husband. That being said, the OP seems like a good person. You could see that from the way she painted the story. Others would have provided a one-sided & biased view about the whole events, but like she has said, they're in this together. Only issue here and why she's come forth to vent is largely because she's 4 month pregnant and has no strength to fight back. Please look at the bigger picture, darling. I have no idea how to resolve this issue, but I would advise her to seek (with her husband) good counsel from qualified counsellors. And yes, both need to apologize to each other and seek adequate help. We don't need to take sides at all, it will do her and her family no good. |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:54am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:56am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by crackhaus: 9:02am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:03am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:05am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:07am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by crackhaus: 9:07am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Sumk:Nuff' said. You deserve each other. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by crackhaus: 9:08am On Jun 08, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:Lol |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by bukatyne(f): 9:12am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Sumk: @OP: Your story is one where we do not need hello from the 'other side', your post seems detailed. From your account, you admitted that 1. You and hubby communicate by fighting so expecting a different form of communication is pretentious. He hits you and you hit back and you both of have not landed in the hospital. It is safe to say you both are aggressive and fighters because a truly abusive man would beat you to a pulp if you touch him except he knows you will over power him. 2. You went out with a mutual male friend without informing him. My sister it is disrespectful on your side. You are married and accountable to your husband. It is akin to sneaking behind his back. I know you feel 'he did it and I didn't bat an eyelid so what's the fuss?' Well, the fact that you are cool with it doesn't mean he should be cool with it. Ideally, it is disrespectful on both ends however if you do not mind been disrespected, he has shown you he minds. So going forward, you must tell him before going out whether he does or not. 3. The only reason why you did not fight back in this episode is because you did not have the strength to due to pregnancy. Yes, he is wrong to have hit you because you are pregnant as it shows he lacks self control. It could be that he used that opportunity to teach you a lesson since you couldn't fight back because he knows when you are stronger, you will wire him back. It could also be that he thought you are cheating and pregnant with another man's child hence the more aggressive beating. You called the cops and what happened? When every thing is calm, apologize for going out without his knowledge and tell him you feel bad he beat you with mercy in your condition. Go for more checkups to ascertain all is well. Use this opportunity to cure the madness of you both fighting when you have issues. A baby is on the way and you don't want to teach him/her that the only conflict resolution skill is fighting. It is well with you both. |
Re: Husband Started Hitting Me During A Arguement And I Am Pregnant by SageMK: 9:13am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Sumk: Woman, you are the architect of your undoing. As a matter of fact, I question your sanity. You saw all these alarming signs yet you still went ahead and married him? — I take it back. You are dùmb. You should thank your lucky stars that you are alive. The title and content of your posts shows you still plan to go back to him. Well please do get a body bag ready. But If you have any regard for the life of your unborn child, you'll pack your bags and disappear for good. 3 Likes |
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