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O have a friend who an american lady isbiove with. She sends him money, clothes and stuffs. making plans to come to Nigeria end of this year. my advice? Pls act like you are with a Nigerian guy youblike, show hom who you are wothout falling over head over hills. You are a Nigerian, we are not mumu. Let him prove he truely loves you. Dont get carried away could be a boy being feed by theor mums o. Any ways make i yarn like Naija pikin wey i be. You wont loose anything whwn you get to flike him as much too. fins ya way comot for this Poohole. your chikdren will thank you later.

Vivianuyom:
Alright, thank you

but if he starts asking u to send him 100k so as to balance d remaining money with him for the flight ticket which he will use to come to naija then make u pick race oo cos na yahooboy.no too get overconfident about d videocall cos fraudsters also don get app to fake videocall.be vigilant.

lefulefu:
na indians and arabs dey ask for nude pass

Yahoo boi spotted
@Efcc

Vivianuyom:
Lol hey guys
So I met an American guy based in California last week. He came across my profile on IG, liked my pictures and requested for a video call. At first, I was like na yahoo boy jare but I gave him benefit of doubt and we had the video call.. He introduced me to his sisters right away and I was just surprised like, so soon?
His sisters said Hi on the video call and they were super nice. Everything was just happening so fast for me, I barely knew him and I was already talking to his sisters so I ended the call and texted him..
I was like guy you moving too fast and he was like once you feel an attraction for someone, why wait?
So throughout that day we chatted, the following day too we spoke all day and then on the third day, he said HE LOVED ME!
I was like, slow down.. we just met and all but he was like yeah he knows it’s crazy but then that’s how he feels. We have been talking for a week now and this guy is perfect.. we are both in our 20’s.. he’s so sweet and matured.. there was a time I said he was just pretending but he was like No, he’s not a kid and he knows what he wants and he is willing to go for it so I said okay fine..
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.
To be sincere, I like him too but the question is this guys;
Is it possible to fall in love with someone barely three days after meeting them online and with one video call and exchange of photos..
I have just been here thinking it’s not real but what does he have to gain pretending? Not like he wants to scam me of money, he knows I am Nigerian and I don’t have money so what else can he possibly want?
He is so serious with me and I can’t believe it’s possible to fall in love just like that!!!

Bae..u don hammer ooo
..
Oyinbo guy in his 20's and not their old men locate you just like that..bae God don bless you....
Your hubby just walked into your life just like that...
See no forget me as things don better like this.*starz825*..na my monicker....
Now u will be going to California soon..no forget me ..oo..u can help a brother just like this oyinbo guy go help you soon without knowing that much.....
Jesus chai.....locate me this yr o

Vivianuyom:
Lol hey guys
So I met an American guy based in California last week. He came across my profile on IG, liked my pictures and requested for a video call. At first, I was like na yahoo boy jare but I gave him benefit of doubt and we had the video call.. He introduced me to his sisters right away and I was just surprised like, so soon?
His sisters said Hi on the video call and they were super nice. Everything was just happening so fast for me, I barely knew him and I was already talking to his sisters so I ended the call and texted him..
I was like guy you moving too fast and he was like once you feel an attraction for someone, why wait?
So throughout that day we chatted, the following day too we spoke all day and then on the third day, he said HE LOVED ME!
I was like, slow down.. we just met and all but he was like yeah he knows it’s crazy but then that’s how he feels. We have been talking for a week now and this guy is perfect.. we are both in our 20’s.. he’s so sweet and matured.. there was a time I said he was just pretending but he was like No, he’s not a kid and he knows what he wants and he is willing to go for it so I said okay fine..
Now he says he’s coming to Nigeria to see me in December and spend a month with me.
To be sincere, I like him too but the question is this guys;
Is it possible to fall in love with someone barely three days after meeting them online and with one video call and exchange of photos..
I have just been here thinking it’s not real but what does he have to gain pretending? Not like he wants to scam me of money, he knows I am Nigerian and I don’t have money so what else can he possibly want?
He is so serious with me and I can’t believe it’s possible to fall in love just like that!!!

you have pussy....that's what he wants

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Vivianuyom:
I have an update y’all...

So yesterday when he woke up, I confronted him. I asked him to tell me what he wants with me, why he’s texting me and so into me. It kind of turned into an accusation because I said he’s just texting me to pass time and his intentions are not genuine cos c’mon, who falls in love in three days? I said all sorts and then I went off and waited for his reply cos I knew he was still sleeping- we are like 6 hours ahead of them.

He came online later in the day and replied. He said he felt so bad that I insinuated that. He said there are white women in the US, blacks and Hispanics and he could get any one he wants but do I want him to take a wh0re as a wife? Or someone that clubs or someone that comes home drunk? Or someone that can’t keep a home? A woman that is not submissive or someone that can pull a gun and shoot him in the head in the middle of an argument?
This was exactly how he put it. I went silent. He said deep in his heart when a man sees someone that is right for him, he just knows it. He doesn’t need to know me for 30 years before he knows we can work if we can put efforts to make things work. He said he was deeply hurt. He said he works 9am-8pm everyday and where’s the time to play games on IG?
He said A lot of African women are well trained and they are submissive. He said he had always told his family he would end up getting married to a properly trained Native African and not an African American because African girls can be submissive and well brought up. So he said when we met and we spoke, I checked his boxes for what he was looking for.

I said I was sorry that it came off as an accusation and we would not rush things but just take things slow regardless and he said he has no problem with that.

That’s the update guys,
Good Morning

Good luck to u

lilmarley:
Yahoo boi spotted
@Efcc

lilmarley:
Yahoo boi spotted
@Efcc

i no need to be yahooboy to know this. i get female friends wey dey show me some of their chats with indian and arab guys.wen u really main with a babe she go open up for u.if u see some their chats laugh go kill yu.its like those guys are so sexually starved .all dese ones some ladies dey yarn say naija guys too dey ask for nudes i doubt if such girls don chat with indian or arab guys

Vivianuyom:
I have an update y’all...

So yesterday when he woke up, I confronted him. I asked him to tell me what he wants with me, why he’s texting me and so into me. It kind of turned into an accusation because I said he’s just texting me to pass time and his intentions are not genuine cos c’mon, who falls in love in three days? I said all sorts and then I went off and waited for his reply cos I knew he was still sleeping- we are like 6 hours ahead of them.

He came online later in the day and replied. He said he felt so bad that I insinuated that. He said there are white women in the US, blacks and Hispanics and he could get any one he wants but do I want him to take a wh0re as a wife? Or someone that clubs or someone that comes home drunk? Or someone that can’t keep a home? A woman that is not submissive or someone that can pull a gun and shoot him in the head in the middle of an argument?
This was exactly how he put it. I went silent. He said deep in his heart when a man sees someone that is right for him, he just knows it. He doesn’t need to know me for 30 years before he knows we can work if we can put efforts to make things work. He said he was deeply hurt. He said he works 9am-8pm everyday and where’s the time to play games on IG?
He said A lot of African women are well trained and they are submissive. He said he had always told his family he would end up getting married to a properly trained Native African and not an African American because African girls can be submissive and well brought up. So he said when we met and we spoke, I checked his boxes for what he was looking for.

I said I was sorry that it came off as an accusation and we would not rush things but just take things slow regardless and he said he has no problem with that.

That’s the update guys,
Good Morning

is he white or black American?

And he talked about submissive, I thought Nigeria women don't want to be submissive anymore they are all feminist.

Now my question is this, are you ready to be submissive?

P.s. if you like him go ahead oooo, you only live once.

ledamaster:
O have a friend who an american lady isbiove with. She sends him money, clothes and stuffs. making plans to come to Nigeria end of this year. my advice? Pls act like you are with a Nigerian guy youblike, show hom who you are wothout falling over head over hills. You are a Nigerian, we are not mumu. Let him prove he truely loves you. Dont get carried away could be a boy being feed by theor mums o. Any ways make i yarn like Naija pikin wey i be. You wont loose anything whwn you get to flike him as much too. fins ya way comot for this Poohole. your chikdren will thank you later.

gbam!

Vivianuyom:
I have an update y’all...

So yesterday when he woke up, I confronted him. I asked him to tell me what he wants with me, why he’s texting me and so into me. It kind of turned into an accusation because I said he’s just texting me to pass time and his intentions are not genuine cos c’mon, who falls in love in three days? I said all sorts and then I went off and waited for his reply cos I knew he was still sleeping- we are like 6 hours ahead of them.

He came online later in the day and replied. He said he felt so bad that I insinuated that. He said there are white women in the US, blacks and Hispanics and he could get any one he wants but do I want him to take a wh0re as a wife? Or someone that clubs or someone that comes home drunk? Or someone that can’t keep a home? A woman that is not submissive or someone that can pull a gun and shoot him in the head in the middle of an argument?
This was exactly how he put it. I went silent. He said deep in his heart when a man sees someone that is right for him, he just knows it. He doesn’t need to know me for 30 years before he knows we can work if we can put efforts to make things work. He said he was deeply hurt. He said he works 9am-8pm everyday and where’s the time to play games on IG?
He said A lot of African women are well trained and they are submissive. He said he had always told his family he would end up getting married to a properly trained Native African and not an African American because African girls can be submissive and well brought up. So he said when we met and we spoke, I checked his boxes for what he was looking for.

I said I was sorry that it came off as an accusation and we would not rush things but just take things slow regardless and he said he has no problem with that.

That’s the update guys,
Good Morning

kinder odd dat a white guy would be looking for a homebred submissive girl though.u sure say na really yankee guy?

If you are ready for a divorce, continue. You will remember my word in 2029

I have a very similar situation.. I met this guy on a facebook group and he sent me a friend request I thought it was normal yahoo guys and was sceptical until we really got talking.. we made video calls and he told me there and then he wanted me to be his wife.. he is American.. mum is white dad is African American.. I was very doubtful because I felt u can't fall in love as quickly as he did.. but he is coming here October to see me.. and I kind of like him.. he is young and handsome doesn't look mixed.. my advice for u is that u don't raise those accusations anymore just let things flow and then when u meet him face to face and get to spend time with him u ll know if u can spend the rest of ur life with him or not.

lefulefu:
kinder odd dat a white guy would be looking for a homebred submissive girl though.u sure say na really yankee guy?

Why does something tell me that the emphasis on submission translates to some kind of fetishism? So many things exist on the internet these days and some people are taking their learnings from odd places. There is no doubt that this love can be sincere but someone who works 11 hours a day may have a warped idea of who a wife should be.

The OP should get a very good idea of what the guy wants in a woman, what his vision is for both of them and getting to know his thought process first. Be safe

lefulefu:
kinder odd dat a white guy would be looking for a homebred submissive girl though.u sure say na really yankee guy?

sorry to disturbed you,but you have any ideal how Poland people treat black people?

PrinceCharmings:
sorry to disturbed you,but you have any ideal how Poland people treat black people?

i will expect they will treat blacks like trash but op said it was a white american dude dat is crushing on her not a pole.

lefulefu:
i will expect they will treat blacks like trash but op said it was a white american dude dat is crushing on her not a pole.

I'm not talking about op, but thanks for your input.

PrinceCharmings:
sorry to disturbed you,but you have any ideal how Poland people treat black people?

They are a Slavic nation, racism is very high. but why are you asking? you want to marry Polish woman or you wan relocate.

Allen02:
They are a Slavic nation, racism is very high. but why are you asking? you want to marry Polish woman or you wan relocate.

i think Princecharmings is in love

BlackSaints:
i think Princecharmings is in love

Op whats the latest on this story