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I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Patriotician: 1:34pm On Jun 11, 2019
I met this girl some time ago. I am a 300level student and she worked in a distribution company. We met in my hometown and became lovers. We were close and i loved her dearly. I believed she loved me too. She never asked me for money or anything to buy her except i coerced her into taking stuffs from me.

She was amazing and i enjoyed every moment with her. My family got to know her and my friends were happy i finally had someone to love.

After the holiday, i went back to school. We were talking on phone and she would call every hour. I was thrilled by her love.

Problem started when i told her to stay away from a gang of old acquaintances that were against our union but she wouldn't listen. First, i started suspecting they were dishing her blows about me and all that.

Our relationship began to waxcold, she wouldn't call like before and things started turning sour. We had a clash one day at her work place because she insulted me and i wanted to react, so she took iron and hit me with it and disgraced me calling people around to come, she called me names like "this fool, this idiot, e.t.c". I was completely down and wanted to commit suicide but few motivations got me going.

Later, i travelled home to work things out between us even though i never offended her. I noticed things were never thesame again. She would insult at the slightest provocation. It all came as a shock cause she would not let me make love to her again and she would make excuses to avoid seeing me.

After much effort, i finally had her come to my place. She had denied having affairs with someone else but i was in doubt. So, i took her phone and went out. I went through her contacts and saw a phone number saved with *Austin Mom* i check her sent message and saw messages she sent to the guy begging him and telling him about love.

Foolishly, i called the guy with my phone and we met today. We talked and later after i left, she called my line to tell me am a complete fool....

Love is devastating i must say. I love her, no doubt about it but I need to save myself cos am lost as it is now. I understand now the pains of those that committed suicide cos of love.

Please advise me on what to do now.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Ryan03(f): 1:38pm On Jun 11, 2019
Wetin i won tell you now? What kind of mumu talk is all these ones

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by kushercain: 1:40pm On Jun 11, 2019
From your 5th paragraph I just started laughing.

The girl frequently substitutes your name with fool, apparently having an affair behind your back and still insulted you for initiating contact with the guy, which shows she has no remorse. She doesn't love you, she doesn't even like you.

How you manage to take this kind of bullshiit is beyond me. Which kain yeye love is this kwanu?

Wait you hear, my advice dey come

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Funkyswagzz(m): 1:46pm On Jun 11, 2019
Bro just man up and let go.. once a girl hate u there's no amount of begging or convo that will make her love u again.. even if she forgives u she will never forget wat made her hate u and she will continue pick on little things u do. My advice just man up and let go.

Next time u get into a relationship don't love a girl with all ur heart it's dangerous unless uve put a ring on it. Use ur head not ur heart

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by eneojoedu(m): 1:46pm On Jun 11, 2019
bro kindly move on as fast as possible, you will definitely get over her very soon.... and you will also find someone better. sounds like your first love tho.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 11, 2019
Things deh happen shar.


roll one weed, pay a hoe that smoke weed to come over your place, look for plastic chair to sit down and play boasty by I think Sean Paul or so. while you two are smoking weed, sit down on the chair with only boxer on, and have her give you a lap dance. Make sure she’s putting on only pant and brah, or preferably an over sized T shirt of yours with nothing underneath. And be sure it’s a girl that can twerk non stop.


Bros try this like two to three times. You’ll see life from another angle. That your babe will erase from your memory, fiam!!!!!! Like the speed of light.

EDITED: it seems some of you are taking my honest advice to be a bad advice.

OP I didn’t say you should fvck her o. Be a good boy and don’t fvck. grin

I repeat DO NOT FVCK. Else the aggression from the heartbreak go make you kill person pikin. Lol

But las las you can ask for a BJ and nut it all over her face.

Be a good boy. smiley

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by topedoski(m): 1:57pm On Jun 11, 2019
As u said you wanted to commit sucide, I began to lost interest in reading your write up...
Because she calls u names u wants to commit sucide?

What if I say u should breakup, what will u do?

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by uthlaw: 2:01pm On Jun 11, 2019
see this one too,you want to commit suicide because of punna...you can go ahead, typing RIP on nairaland is as easy as stealing in government sector...

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Patriotician: 2:04pm On Jun 11, 2019
kushercain:
From your 5th paragraph I just started laughing.

The girl frequently substitutes your name with fool, apparently having an affair behind your back and still insulted you for initiating contact with the guy, which shows she has no remorse. She doesn't love you, she doesn't even like you.

How you manage to take this kind of bullshiit is beyond me. Which kain yeye love is this kwanu?

Wait you hear, my advice dey come
My friend runs a business close to where she works and i often like going there to visit my friend. Would it be appropriate to keep going there since she would be seeing me around ?

Also, i visit home like two times in a week just to see her before, transport fare over 5K per each travel but now that we have broken up can i still continue with that hobby cos am used to not staying in one location for long.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Patriotician: 2:05pm On Jun 11, 2019
Funkyswagzz:
Bro just man up and let go.. once a girl hate u there's no amount of begging or convo that will make her love u again.. even if she forgives u she will never forget wat made her hate u and she will continue pick on little things u do. My advice just man up and let go.

Next time u get into a relationship don't love a girl with all ur heart it's dangerous unless uve put a ring on it. Use ur head not ur heart
My friend runs a business close to where she works and i often like going there to visit my friend. Would it be appropriate to keep going there since she would be seeing me around ?
Also, i visit home like two times in a week just to see her before, transport fare over 5K per each travel but now that we have broken up can i still continue with that hobby cos am used to not staying in one location for long.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by SageMK: 2:09pm On Jun 11, 2019
From your post this girl is —

1. Emotionally abusive
2. The psychotic and violent type
3. Cheating on your aśs
4 . And doesn't love you at all

Yet you dúmb aśs mođafúcker want to commit suicide because of her? Damn. No wonder she called people to come an see the “the idìot and the fóol” she's dating.

How did you even survive up to 300L? shocked

I have no words for dunce like you. But please tell me where the fúck do guys like you keep popping out from?!

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by liberalchick(f): 2:10pm On Jun 11, 2019
Once violence has been introduced into a relationship, a line has been crossed and it only goes downhill from there. You should cut your losses, you are still young, get busy, focus on yourself, discover yourself, meet new people, focus on your studies.

Don’t let anyone make you change who you are, this one experience shouldn’t turn you into someone/something you are not, there is nothing wrong in loving with your heart. One day you will meet a deserving woman that will appreciate you.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jun 11, 2019
stupidity:
Things deh happen shar.


roll one weed, pay a hoe that smoke weed to come over your place, look for plastic chair to sit down and play boasty by I think Sean Paul or so. while you two are smoking weed, sit down on the chair with only boxer on, and have her give you a lap dance. Make sure she’s putting on only pant and brah, or preferably an over sized T shirt of yours with nothing underneath. And be sure it’s a girl that can twerk non stop.


Bros try this like two to three times. You’ll see life from another angle. That your babe will erase from your memory, fiam!!!!!! Like the speed of light.
excellent idea bro,you the real deal

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Abfinest007(m): 2:17pm On Jun 11, 2019
I appreciate u bcus u didn't drink sniper now advice for u is to look one swt girl in ur school or anywhere n forget it.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jun 11, 2019
I won't bash you @Op cos I've condoned and acted stupidly for love sake. I'll advice you to move on. Never be with anyone who lacks respect for you.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2019
the part wey get me pass for dis story na wen the girl refer to op to as a complete fool grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2019
SmellySperm:

excellent idea bro,you the real deal
lol. Brah, Shay you reason am Na?


These guys dont understand there’s more to life than just being a boifien and gehfien.


Make you sef try this thing brah, it’s called “pleasure of the highest order”


Remember to always tap and grab the buuty when it’s wiggling.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Funkyswagzz(m): 2:33pm On Jun 11, 2019
Patriotician:

My friend runs a business close to where she works and i often like going there to visit my friend. Would it be appropriate to keep going there since she would be seeing me around ?
Also, i visit home like two times in a week just to see her before, transport fare over 5K per each travel but now that we have broken up can i still continue with that hobby cos am used to not staying in one location for long.

Bro just do ur thing don't mind her

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Brownhypo: 2:36pm On Jun 11, 2019
Sey people still dey mumu like this ni? Never ever make a girl your priority. There's nothing you can do to win her love back bro. Move on baba, no time.

Once i notice a girl giving me funny altitude in a relationship, i simply cut her off. I no dey carry women matter for head.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by stag: 2:44pm On Jun 11, 2019
The problem is not the girl. The problem is that you got too emotionally attached.

With the violence and verbal abuses? It should be a thing of joy you safely ‘jump & pass’

You should be glad.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by elmagnifico411(m): 2:50pm On Jun 11, 2019
Someone should please tell OP to shut is mouth, abi na em fingaz! He doesn’t know a thing about love, let alone an underlying. You this small 300l boy that’s suppose to face his book and come out with good grades, if u try killing your self, you will not know peace even in the life after! Your parents are paying your fees, taking care of u, and expecting that u come out on top, u want to kill yourself cos of a girl u ‘believed’ loves u. Better submit yourself to learnin here and see how men do things. If una don dey fvck woman, una go think sey una don sabi something.

Better just go your way, face your studies, come out well and have good cash, and see the girl and other ladies chasing u.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Skmoda360(m): 3:05pm On Jun 11, 2019
I will not advice you cuz you have take lotta bullshit from a wrong woman for too long...meh!!! nigga, are you ok? I can't take this bullshit from a woman ...hitting me with a rod.....damn!!! you are a gamma man?

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by CAPSLOCKED: 3:11pm On Jun 11, 2019
Patriotician:
We had a clash one day at her work place because she insulted me and i wanted to react, so she took iron and hit me with it and disgraced me calling people around to come, she called me names like "this fool, this idiot, e.t.c". I was completely down and wanted to commit suicide but few motivations got me going.


I went through her contacts and saw a phone number saved with *Austin Mom* i check her sent message and saw messages she sent to the guy begging him and telling him about love.

Foolishly, i called the guy with my phone and we met today. We talked and later after i left, she called my line to tell me am a complete fool...


BELIEVE ME IF I SAY THAT YOU'RE WORSE THAN THAT.

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by OKOATA(m): 3:16pm On Jun 11, 2019
stupidity:
Things deh happen shar.


roll one weed, pay a hoe that smoke weed to come over your place, look for plastic chair to sit down and play boasty by I think Sean Paul or so. while you two are smoking weed, sit down on the chair with only boxer on, and have her give you a lap dance. Make sure she’s putting on only pant and brah, or preferably an over sized T shirt of yours with nothing underneath. And be sure it’s a girl that can twerk non stop.


Bros try this like two to three times. You’ll see life from another angle. That your babe will erase from your memory, fiam!!!!!! Like the speed of light.
Very nice bro. Really love this.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by OKOATA(m): 3:21pm On Jun 11, 2019
I will advice you to follow @stupidity's advice. Let me tell you the truth have been single for about 2years now. Just pick a girl from instamessage and you are good to go but If you don't have the means just smoke some weed or just eat it if you can't smoke it you will forget all your worries in no time. Delete all her photos, numbers, social media accounts, infact block her and before you know it you go forget am. Many fishes in the ocean bro never beg a girl, you only diminish yourself infront of her, you are destined to be great in life don't let a mere distraction cut your life short cos of a hoe, be wise

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Airtimex(m): 3:31pm On Jun 11, 2019
She even called you big fool...

That should be 300l fool cheesy


Chai! That girl is very wixked cry,

She will still leave the new guy same way She left you...amature girls lipsrsealed



I know you will still call her again to beg.from your write up, you still address her as your girl...


If you really need her back, I will give you this secret...don't ever call her number again.

Wish her well and move on...thank me later cool

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Adonko(m): 3:34pm On Jun 11, 2019
OKOATA:
Very nice bro. Really love this.
bravo you are really living up to your name STUPIDITY grin


C'mon let that dude study hard and make good grade and let him not start what he cannot finish.


Badt guy grin
Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Josh100: 3:34pm On Jun 11, 2019
The best advice so far, you had better listen to this advice and do it.
stupidity:
Things deh happen shar.


roll one weed, pay a hoe that smoke weed to come over your place, look for plastic chair to sit down and play boasty by I think Sean Paul or so. while you two are smoking weed, sit down on the chair with only boxer on, and have her give you a lap dance. Make sure she’s putting on only pant and brah, or preferably an over sized T shirt of yours with nothing underneath. And be sure it’s a girl that can twerk non stop.


Bros try this like two to three times. You’ll see life from another angle. That your babe will erase from your memory, fiam!!!!!! Like the speed of light.
Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by rex444(m): 3:43pm On Jun 11, 2019
What you deserve is not bashing but a real man to man mentoring ..... I once did that to a Nairalander here and am sure he got back to his feet after series of calls and advices.... unfortunately that previlege is no longer available but all I got to say is , be a man and move on....never fail to have a plan B on the side in everything you do....if you know, you can pick it up from here

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by OKOATA(m): 3:45pm On Jun 11, 2019
Adonko:
bravo you are really living up to your name STUPIDITY grin


C'mon let that dude study hard and make good grade and let him not start what he cannot finish.


Badt guy grin
Bro book no go enter him head because am sure he's in a depressed state now, books won't get him out of depression
Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by seanwilliam(m): 4:06pm On Jun 11, 2019
for u to post it here, i knw that e pain u. the thing is no advice fit help u. you will naturally get over it and move on. you go dey alright las las na time. he don happen to me before

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Re: I Love My Girl But She Is Doing This To Me, Please Help by Femi316: 4:21pm On Jun 11, 2019
Patriotician:
I met this girl some time ago. I am a 300level student and she worked in a distribution company. We met in my hometown and became lovers. We were close and i loved her dearly. I believed she loved me too. She never asked me for money or anything to buy her except i coerced her into taking stuffs from me.

She was amazing and i enjoyed every moment with her. My family got to know her and my friends were happy i finally had someone to love.

After the holiday, i went back to school. We were talking on phone and she would call every hour. I was thrilled by her love.

Problem started when i told her to stay away from a gang of old acquaintances that were against our union but she wouldn't listen. First, i started suspecting they were dishing her blows about me and all that.

Our relationship began to waxcold, she wouldn't call like before and things started turning sour. We had a clash one day at her work place because she insulted me and i wanted to react, so she took iron and hit me with it and disgraced me calling people around to come, she called me names like "this fool, this idiot, e.t.c". I was completely down and wanted to commit suicide but few motivations got me going.

Later, i travelled home to work things out between us even though i never offended her. I noticed things were never thesame again. She would insult at the slightest provocation. It all came as a shock cause she would not let me make love to her again and she would make excuses to avoid seeing me.

After much effort, i finally had her come to my place. She had denied having affairs with someone else but i was in doubt. So, i took her phone and went out. I went through her contacts and saw a phone number saved with *Austin Mom* i check her sent message and saw messages she sent to the guy begging him and telling him about love.

Foolishly, i called the guy with my phone and we met today. We talked and later after i left, she called my line to tell me am a complete fool....

Love is devastating i must say. I love her, no doubt about it but I need to save myself cos am lost as it is now. I understand now the pains of those that committed suicide cos of love.

Please advise me on what to do now.

After reading this your long story about love.... the only thing I can tell is this get sense no be cause na advice......run for your dear life.......and save yourself from this stress.....?

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